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Dear Nigerians, upon all the cross over services you went to all your life, how did it ever improve your life or destiny. As for me, it was always a waste of my time. I'm am successful today and that is as a result of God's help and not sabotaging my self with self inflicted injuries like bad choices in life and people. I went to numerous cross overs but it never improved my life in any form. I should've spent my time sipping wine at home. For the past 4 years, I havent gone to any crossover service and my life has been blissful.

Share your thoughts.

2018 was the last time I attended that noisy thing called crossover and my life has been awesome eversince

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EvilNeedle:
■ Dear Nigerians, upon all the cross over services you went to all your life, how did it ever improve your life or destiny. As for me, it was always a waste of my time. I'm am successful today and that is as a result of God's help and not sabotaging my self with self inflicted injuries like bad choices in life and people. I went to numerous cross overs but it never improved my life in any form. I should've spent my time sipping wine at home. For the past 4 years, I have t gone to any cross over service and my life has been blissful. Share your thoughts.

The ritual is, of course, a colossal waste of time as you gain absolutely nothing from that singing and screaming using the many mentions of God as though your many mind games move God. It is utterly ridiculous how people are even convinced that God is moved by such nonsense when ordinary men do not even flinch when the same games are played on them. Like, say religious people believe God is their celestial mumu

You gain more from partying with others out in the streets, halls, and clubs, as you get a chance to make new friends, network, and have a good time without dealing with the regrets of the past year. Imagine walking away this evening with at least 5 contacts that could help change your business or outlook for the better in this new year. How many of those who attend your night vigils do you know of that can, in fact, help you in any way or form?

People still do that?


Best cross over night is one done with families and friends. Not increase someone's account.

It didn't. It hasn't.

On my bed relaxing as usual. Who did cross over epp?

Cross over service is observed to mark one calendar year being replaced by another. It doesn't automatically change your life.

Honestly, any change you want begins with you. Rom 12:2

What will bring about your desired positive change includes;

* Spending time with the Word. 2 Timo 2: 15

* Spending time in prayers Ps 65:2

* Running away from sin Pro 14:34



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As a Christian it's good to pray and commit the new year journey into the hand of God

When you seek God in faith and in truth, you don’t dictate how or when He must respond. God is supernatural, not mechanical. The fact that you showed up physically to crossover services doesn’t automatically mean your heart was aligned. “He who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him” (Hebrews 11:6).

God’s ways are not our ways, and His timing is not subject to human schedules (Isaiah 55:8–9). Many people plant seeds today and reap years later without realizing it (Ecclesiastes 3:11). If your life is good today, it is still by God’s mercy—whether you acknowledge it or not (James 1:17).

However, if you’ve concluded that God’s presence, fellowship, or worship is irrelevant, then be honest with yourself and stop seeking Him altogether, because God is not mocked (Galatians 6:7). You can’t deny His workings and still expect His involvement.

The truth is simple: “You will seek Me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart” (Jeremiah 29:13). God was never the problem—misunderstanding Him was.

My idleness never reach going out on a night where there would be so many vulnerability

NA FOK DEY CARRY ME GO CROSSOVER ....SAME WAY E DEY CARRY ME GO SHILOH

BOYZ WEY KNOW KNOW WHATZUP

I'll share a testimony of someone.

A church member whose testimony was shared last night in church launched a bakery business in 2025. He said he keyed into one part of the message of the archbishop in 2024 crossover service when she said "as far as your eyes can see"
He said he took it and ran along with it and it inspired him to set up his bakery business that he's now struggling to meet his market demand.

That thing is man made thing.


God is not bound my time, he doesn't have to wait for a new year to bless anyone or give you a prophetic word as these pastors want us to believe.

How did going to beer parlour ever help your life

Useless questions everywhere

Esthered:
I'll share a testimony of someone.

Story, story...story! We all don realize that say una testimonies na always one-sided tales!🥱🥱🥱

BS people should have come to their senses by now but not Nigerians

EvilNeedle:
Dear Nigerians, upon all the cross over services you went to all your life, how did it ever improve your life or destiny. As for me, it was always a waste of my time. I'm am successful today and that is as a result of God's help and not sabotaging my self with self inflicted injuries like bad choices in life and people. I went to numerous cross overs but it never improved my life in any form. I should've spent my time sipping wine at home. For the past 4 years, I havent gone to any crossover service and my life has been blissful.

Share your thoughts.

How did cross over service ever retrogress your life? How did living wayward help to progress your life?

Jesuteemy:
Cross over service is observed to mark one calendar year being replaced by another. It doesn't automatically change your life.

Honestly, any change you want begins with you. Rom 12:2

What will bring about your desired positive change includes;

* Spending time with the Word. 2 Timo 2: 15

* Spending time in prayers Ps 65:2

* Running away from sin Pro 14:34



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All what you mentioned here is part of what they are doing at crossover night , so stop criticising yourself

Nigerians and rubbish be like bread and butter. Crossover ko, carry over ni

Never gone for any of these. Never seen the point. I’ll stay at home and pray rather than fight sleep.

Its just a platform for small excercise

Is a good ritual that has brought significant changes in my life.

Holluwhakemmy:
As a Christian it's good to pray and commit the new year journey into the hard of God

into the hand of GOD.typo error I guess

He help me, I collect number tire

The only thing blacks learnt from their colonial masters is religion. Sadly, even they don't practice it the way we do it

hartson:
into the hand of GOD.typo error I guess

Thanks I have corrected it

Leave Christians activities to christians...

Kobojunkie:
The ritual is, of course, a colossal waste of time as you gain absolutely nothing from that singing and screaming using the many mentions of God as though your many mind games move God. It is utterly ridiculous how people are even convinced that God is moved by such nonsense when ordinary men do not even flinch when the same games are played on them. Like, say religious people believe God is their celestial mumu

You gain more from partying with others out in the streets, halls, and clubs, as you get a chance to make new friends, network, and have a good time without dealing with the regrets of the past year. Imagine walking away this evening with at least 5 contacts that could help change your business or outlook for the better in this new year. How many of those who attend your night vigils do you know of that can, in fact, help you in any way or form?

I don't think you as an unbeliever has the right to tell believers the importance of crossover service.The things of the spirit often look stupid to an unbeliever like you.

You're here eulogizing bad living of drunkenness,partying and all sorts of social ills

The way you guys react to everything that pertains God and the church is alarming.

Some of you go clubbing all night , u endure the loud music and smoke yet u don’t consider it waste of time.

Do not wash down the belief of others. Going to cross over service is no waste of time.
Live and let live.

Seeplusplus:
Christian it's good to pray and commit the new year journey into the hard of God
into the hand of GOD.

An unbeliever like Kobojunke can never understand this