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israelmao:
If this is the case there is no yet enough to dump her.I advise you to keep the communication line open and sort out you differences.

Oga that young man have no business training somebody daughter.

He ought to be focused on school works.

everythingtall3:
some ladies just gets very comfortable with you and see you as part of them. Not in all cases though, but once your girlfriend stop saying thank you, it may also mean she feels like one with you.....

Talk to her about it

No! There's no justification or excuse for not saying 'Thank you'

I've been with hubby now for over a decade. When he does the minutest, the most insignificant of things for me, I still say thank you. People should not grow into a disagreeable habit and assume it is normal.

I lost your number

placeofallure:
No! There's no justification or excuse for not saying 'Thank you'

I've been with hubby now for over a decade. When he does the minutest, the most insignificant of things for me, I still say thank you. People should not grow into a disagreeable habit and assume it is normal.

everythingtall3:
I lost your number

Oh! Ok. I'll get in touch.

Goodmarlian:
Early last month I met this girl on campus where I work in one of Lagos prestigious higher Instititions,the time I met her she was sick and had no one to support her, I was a bit okay financially so I bought her drugs and food steadily until she got better,her parents were late as she narrated to me and she was staying with her aunt and the aunt wasnt financially stable to sponsor her education so she really struggled In school to keep up,Infact the aunty wants her to drop out of school and face her hair dressing skill until when they are financially stable because it was becoming difficult for her but this girl stubbornly refused and insist she will continue with school which I felt was a courageous decision from her.

I really liked the girl and she herself was also In Love with me due to me being caring towards her,and we were really attached to each other however things got bad ever since she started working in one hair saloon inside campus, her female co-workers are beginning to Influence her negatively, I feel there is this coworker of hers that encourages her to start billing me heavily that I have money ,suddenly she started feeling entitled, if I give her money to go eat she no longer says thank you, she will just grab the money from me and move, sometimes she will deep her hands in my pocket and remove money which I really hate. I started to think I am training a baby tiger that will hurt me later.


One day I sat down and thought about my relationship with her, I removed the orphan sentiment and asked myself, what if I am in the same shoes with her will she consider me as a worthy partner? That was when I came to my senses,omo na so I decide to dump her shaparly,in the evening that day she called I refuse to pick, she waited for me in our usual spot I refuse to show up, she asked my friends to call me I refuse to go. Them she finally came to Confront me to ask me what happened I told her I am passing through a lot and needed space she left immediately, I noticed she was depressed throughout that week, I cannot use my money to train up an upcoming entitled gold digger that will later hurt me women are something else.



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You could have actually let her know that you didn't like her new ways but then sha I also feel the girl saw you as an escape route so you probably made the right decision. Normally I don't like dating ladies that are not working. Sometimes too I act like I'm broke just to see my girl's reaction. It is when you are broke or act broke that you'll truly know who you're with

wildcatter23:


Call me stingy but I find it difficult to invest in a relationship with a lady.

To me, it's likely placing bet on Arsenal to win champions league 🏆.

So I just mind my business and move on.

shut up your mouth there...wetin bring Arsenal come for this talk....

Thank God you realised yourself and aborted the SIMPing mission.

everythingtall3:
some ladies just gets very comfortable with you and see you as part of them. Not in all cases though, but once your girlfriend stop saying thank you, it may also mean she feels like one with you.....

Talk to her about it

bloody simp

kaymart:
Go Nd continue from where the dumper stopped. It's a free world

When you get married and your wife dips her hand in your wallet or follows bad friends just divorce her ok.

Sonnobax15:

Bro,you just made the best and wisest decision of your life and I believe angels will be jubilating allover in heaven on your behalf by now

Baba I hail oo

olarent:
You as well did not do well justice, you don't rebuke wrong with wrong ur own tone is rude as well.

You're not different from the person I mentioned initially, as you both justify my first paragraph..

So because I didn't not reply the way you wanted, I'm rude? Jokes on you man...

I had said it countless times that majority of the women and young ladies that are badly behaved with bad attitudes out there are majorly influenced negatively by their fellow damaged women.

It will take a lady with wisdom and common sense to detect bad influences and flee from the fellow women that are influencing her badly.

Inspirer1:
What about a partner that you claim to love and you're comfortable with telling you "he is going through a lot and needed space" then what you can do is to leave immediately? No probe at that point to know what is the challenge he is facing, how you can help, showing care etc??

Girls dey ever get sense? Common sense is far from many of them. How many girls and women know how to boost a man up and pacify a man when a man is down? They no dey.

But I take exception for some very few.

everythingtall3:
Any man or woman that tells his or her spouse that they need space, that person doesn't love you at all.

That depends on the reason behind the need for space. If the partner is seeking space from a habitual cheater, then the problem is the cheating partner not valuing the partner who is in need of space. 🥱🥱

Mcslize:
✓ Girls dey ever get sense? Common sense is far from many of them. How many girls and women know how to boost a man up and pacify a man when a man is down? They no dey. But I take exception for some very few.

Who in the world gave you this stewpid idea that a woman is a mental/emotional counselor? Are you even alright in the head expecting another human being to be in charge of helping a supposed adult -- an obviously immature specimen at that --- with regulating his emotions? 🥱🥱🥱🥱

Some of you need to shipped back to your mothers so you can raise your more properly than the last time. How can a grown individual come online to claim that women are supposed help him regulate his emotions like he is some sort of toddler another man's child is supposed to be burdened with? Nonsense!! 🙄🙄

OKOATA:
When you get married and your wife dips her hand in your wallet or follows bad friends just divorce her ok.

F off

kaymart:
F off

Born in Haell.

Discuss with her about it. She could be drifting off without knowing

You don't know what God has done for You.

This is the question all male should ask themselves , If Table is to be turned will she date me , then you will find an answer to your quest.

Goodmarlian:
See this one?
No be only universe na galaxy, I should keep being a fool and being used by a small girl that will dump me later because of universe abi? If she is in my shoes will she date an orphan boy answer me.

Hahahhaha

Jamie248:
So long as you're having sex with her she's going to view the relationship as transactional, in Nigeria most ladies are raised in an environment where sex is literally a commodity.

Traditionally the women are circumcised, they don't enjoy the thing and the men obviously enjoy it, they actively hunt it up and down, it's valuable!

My guess is you aren't doing enough for her (considering the fact she's an orphan) yet you're chopping her opueh

You need to do better

OKOATA:
Born in Haell.

Nope. I'm a saint. Saints don't go to hell

everythingtall3:
some ladies just gets very comfortable with you and see you as part of them. Not in all cases though, but once your girlfriend stop saying thank you, it may also mean she feels like one with you.....

Talk to her about it

Even good wives still say 'thank you' to their husbands when he gives them money for upkeep and maintenance of the home.