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I’ve been seeing this narrative online, especially from Gehgeh, where he says once a man becomes successful or starts making money, plenty girls will suddenly want to sleep with him or be his girlfriend.
According to him, success attracts women automatically, even without effort. Some people agree strongly with this, while others say it’s an exaggeration or hyped up

So do you think success truly makes women chase men? .

AlphaBoy:
I’ve been seeing this narrative online, especially from Gehgeh, where he says once a man becomes successful or starts making money, plenty girls will suddenly want to sleep with him or be his girlfriend.
According to him, success attracts women automatically, even without effort. Some people agree strongly with this, while others say it’s an exaggeration or hyped up

So do you think success truly makes women chase men?

There are a type of girls that may chase you — prey on you for obvious reason—, but to say that women(generally) chase you as in truly desire you when you become rich? Nah! That only happens in the delusions of men who have low self-esteem issues. 🥱🥱🥱

Normal level

Same way if u no get bread....girls no go reason you...

Most girls get the money problem....they wan buy this buy that....so once you have money....You good to go

Not only women, success attracts everyone. Think of how many Yoruba girls split Morenikeji into two names when Linda Ikeji was recognized as a billionaire. Who do motivational speakers encourage people to mirror? The wealthy. Being successful in something builds natural confidence. It doesn’t have to be money. It could be anything. Many Nollywood females want to sleep with big name soccer players. It’s the same in the US concerning NFL athletes.

success attracts women automatically, even without effort.

AlphaBoy:
So do you think success truly makes women chase men?

No, I don't think "success truly makes women chase men".

What I do think is the supposed success of many men and the corresponding finances it puts in their pockets is what some women chase, while fooling the men it is them that are being chased. And once those women have taken all those men have, which incidentally is easy to do by flashing t¹t at him, they not only stop chasing those men, they abandon those men too.

Success has and attracts many friends...

Male and female!

Success has many friends. Wait until you fail to know those who were there for the prize or those who don't care about the price of the journey.

Money doesn't attract 'your' woman; it attracts 'the' women. There's a difference. If your success is the only thing bringing women your way, then those women aren't yours—they belong to the bank account. Only a man struggling with low self-esteem feels 'validated' because his money attracts a crowd. Let’s be real: those are just treasure hunters. This is why men who actually rose from nothing rarely take women seriously; they’ve seen the transactional side of life. They might marry for compatibility eventually, but deep down, they know if the 'funding' stops, the 'loyalty' ends too. Most self-made men know the score; they treat it as a 'pay-as-you-go' situation and move on.

The wealthier a man gets, the more skeptical he becomes about 'love.' It takes way more than sex to impress a man who has seen it all. Don't confuse the 'silver spoon' kids—who feel lucky to have girls around—with self-made men who understand the game. Your goal for building wealth shouldn't be to attract babes; it should be to preserve your legacy and secure a better life. To a wealthy man, value matters more than sex. Your focus should be on building a better life and a lasting legacy, not on how many girls you can pack in your car. Even a broke guy can get a girl if his 'game' is tight. Let your 'game' handle the women, but let your 'hustle' handle your legacy. Even your friends will switch up when the money runs low, so focus on the life you're building, not the crowd you're attracting.

Not only money, have what they crave, they will come without inhibitions

AlphaBoy:
I’ve been seeing this narrative online, especially from Gehgeh, where he says once a man becomes successful or starts making money, plenty girls will suddenly want to sleep with him or be his girlfriend.
According to him, success attracts women automatically, even without effort. Some people agree strongly with this, while others say it’s an exaggeration or hyped up

So do you think success truly makes women chase men?

Have you heard lyrics of this song? Owo Ni fine bobo.

The way yanch intoxicates you wen you see woman, is same way money intoxicates woman wen she meets rich guy.

Kobojunkie:
There are a type of girls that may chase you — prey on you for obvious reason—, but to say that women(generally) chase you as in truly desire you when you become rich? Nah! That only happens in the delusions of men who have low self-esteem issues. 🥱🥱🥱

well this is guided by nature. If you’re wealthy then any girl you approach, you become a strong candidate, not all will tell you or say it out loud but it is true.

As for chase, well not really

Stayingalive:
✓ well this is guided by nature. If you’re wealthy then any girl you approach, you become a strong candidate, not all will tell you or say it out loud but it is true.
As for chase, well not really

Nothing of what I stated is guided by nature, but by individual desire and greed, both that of the newly successful and the so-called chasers. 🥱🥱🥱

Regardless of what wealth bracket one finds oneself in, one shouldn't be leaving it to the elements to decide what will be attracted. That is why boundaries are important. Boundaries are kind of like filtering agents that help one filter out unwanted restricting access to only the wanted in relationship. 🥱🥱


Fyi. Boundaries are not weapons against others but elements of protection for the individual against potential threats. 🥱🥱

AlphaBoy:
I’ve been seeing this narrative online, especially from Gehgeh, where he says once a man becomes successful or starts making money, plenty girls will suddenly want to sleep with him or be his girlfriend.

I wonder how some of you spend 9 whole months in the womb only to come out and refuse to make use of your brains until another person uses it for you.

Abeg who is gehgeh? why do you need his validation? And you call yourself ALPHAboy?

are you new to this world or still a baby that such basic social arithmetic is so hard for you to comprehend unless you hear it from gehgeh or whoever the FRRRRck that is?

Kobojunkie:
Nothing of what I stated is guided by nature, but by individual desire and greed, both that of the newly successful and the so-called chasers. 🥱🥱🥱

Regardless of what wealth bracket one finds oneself in, one shouldn't be leaving it to the elements to decide what will be attracted. That is why boundaries are important. Boundaries are kind of like filtering agents that help one filter out unwanted restricting access to only the wanted in relationship. 🥱🥱


Fyi. Boundaries are not weapons against others but elements of protection for the individual against potential threats. 🥱🥱

I am talking about you can provide for her and protect her. Is that not nature?

Stayingalive:
I am talking about you can provide for her and protect her. Is that not nature?

You are not making sense to me.

Not true. If it's true Bill gates wont divorce. Dangote would be married.

What type of question is this? Who does not like a good thing?

Of course they will want you for your money after which they will bolt if things go south.

Not Only women but everyone. Friends, family and accuintances.

Gehgeh is right, but he forgot the fine print: Success doesn't attract women, it attracts customers. When the money starts talking, you stop meeting soulmates and start meeting professional 'service providers.' If you think it's love, try going broke for one weekend and see how many 'Girlfriends' remain in the group chat

AlphaBoy:
I’ve been seeing this narrative online, especially from Gehgeh, where he says once a man becomes successful or starts making money, plenty girls will suddenly want to sleep with him or be his girlfriend.
According to him, success attracts women automatically, even without effort. Some people agree strongly with this, while others say it’s an exaggeration or hyped up

So do you think success truly makes women chase men? .

100 percent

They are attracted to money, fame & Power

In all thy getting...get at least one

Money doesn't make you more attractive; it just makes women willing to endure your ugliness for a fee. It’s not 'attraction,' it’s a business transaction. Let’s stop calling poverty 'no game' and stop calling a bank balance 'rizz'.

Oisagbai78:
Not Only women but everyone. Friends, family and accuintances.

you are very correct 💯...if you no get money, friends and family go abandon you self.

Okay nairaland and Seun I have question for you

What do think that drives boys crazy to make money either by croke or straight?

Omorr their panties go dey drip wetness

If you're a man, don't marry when you're rich oh. Marry when you're broke and upcoming. E get why

There's a difference between loving your money and loving you

Yes na. You still dey ask again? Even if na miss world or miss universe, dem go arrange her for you ASAP. Depends on the level of wealthy sha o. But as long as everywhere green, for that level, oshere go dey plentiful.

Na you go dey choose then.

Today wey Americans and their "money love disease" don reach everywhere? Ah, my Nigeria is one of the most infected o. As the United States of Africa wey we be, na same same 😁😂

Not true. Thieves will want you mumu question

It's all nonsense, the girls that will want to flock around you are probably the girls you don't really want.
Growth increases confidence and dating opportunities but the problem is romantic relationship that is earned based on your success lack genuine substance. You will realize no real connection between the 2 of you.
I don't consider myself rich, I am not broke too, but I will always prefer the kind of relationship and connection I could build when I was still dumb and broke in uni than now that I have some stuffs figured out.

Also, I noticed success also reduces your dating pool, you will want to date someone that you can relate with on your level, someone that won't be envious of your progress, etc.

The trend is changing too, if you have nothing to contribute man will not want you.

True.
Even ur fellow men would not allow u rest...not just women.