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Kobojunkie:
There are a type of girls that may chase you — prey on you for obvious reason—, but to say that women(generally) chase you as in truly desire you when you become rich? Nah!

That only happens in the delusions of men who have low self-esteem issues. 🥱🥱🥱

Women generally chase a rich/successful man, whether they TRULY desire you is irrelevant.

This is the essence of hypergamy.

Moreover, for both genders, success has many people famzing around it, while failure is an orphan.

I like this voting stuff o

Most ladies in Nigeria will won over with your wealth.

However, there are many who won't. Those with strongly religious views like the Jehovahs Witness or Deeper Life.

A jehovah Witness, even if she dates you, by leading a double life, would still prefer a brother. If you refuse to join her faith, there's a very possibility she may dump you. She would prefer a brother who would most likely be faithful to her.

thomas2024:
✓ You lied. You are not being truthful to yourself. I know you are good with words, you use them to twist narrative and I see what you just did. I clap for your double standard. Tell me any woman that’s not hyper hypergamous in nature and woman that’s not attracted to a powerful and successful man (high-value man)?

Hypergamy is not unique to women as men are equally hypergamous. . Your typical man wants the best female specimen he can at the lowest cost to him ... particularly poor lazy men. In Nigeria alone, almost 50% of married homes have female breadwinners while the man has no problem relying in the woman for all..that is also Hypergamy in progress. 🥱🥱🥱

This is 2026, work on improving your understanding and use of terms you previously thought you could throw around for points abeg. Some of us are not having the foolishness continue into the new year. 🥱🥱🥱

yemmit90:
✓ Lolz, be poor and let check it out.
Not only women, quality men too will want to be your friends when you are rich. Nothing in this contemporary world better than being wealthy.

There are poor intelligent people out there who equally have rich friends. 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
There are poor intelligent people out there who equally have rich friends. 🥱🥱🥱

just dey play...such is a rare case.

What is success? They are attracted to fruit of success and never success itself. Just fake it and have even men following you.

anonimi:
✓ Women generally chase a rich/successful man, whether they TRULY desire you is irrelevant.
✓ This is the essence of hypergamy. Moreover, for both genders, success has many people famzing around it, while failure is an orphan.

Women generally chase a s successful man yet women are breadwinners in almost 50% of married homes in Nigeria? Come on now.....this is 2025. Avoid bullsheet and start stating facts.
Men are the equally hypergamous. The fact is the average man out there is ever seeking to obtain the best women for the least cost to him. ( The average man wants the most beautiful woman, the virgin he cannot even afford at no cost, the educated wife even though he is a stark illiterate, sex for no price, free labor from a woman for as long as he can get it...that is hypergamy too.) 🥱🥱

This 2026, let's begin using terms we only fully grasp the meaning of so we stop wasting each others time.

AlphaBoy:
So do you think success truly makes women chase men?

You raised the topic .... where is your opinion?

No doubt....if you are successful .... if you put it out there that you have a lot of money... from business ...kidnapping ...gambling ... money rituals ... doesn't matter .... if you take it that you have a lot of money .... be seen driving luxury cars...all borrowed ....... women will come after you in droves. If they're interested in you is a whole different matter.

Women are like the ants. Sweet things attract them.

Mikuni:
If you're a man, don't marry when you're rich oh. Marry when you're broke and upcoming. E get why

If you like marry when you are broke, woman wey go cheat go cheat

kodded:
If you like marry when you are broke, woman wey go cheat go cheat

lol... woman when go cheat go cheat. No be lie. When it comes to women, always expect the worst.

Only pastor Chris Okafor can answer that question for us.

Hhh4444:
lol... woman when go cheat go cheat. No be lie. When it comes to women, always expect the worse.

yes na


That's why I'm laughing at those young men that preach using game to get a woman....lol


Time they could have used in getting the bag, they will rather chase women all in the name of game and At the end of the day, same woman will cheat on them with a richer guy

kodded:
yes na


That's why I'm laughing at those young men that preach using game to get a woman....lol


Time they could have used in getting the bag, they will rather chase women all in the name of game and At the end of the day, same woman will cheat on them with a richer guy

don't blame them too much,they will learn the hard way...I trust women to teach them some bitter lessons.The day I fully understood women,I stopped taken them seriously.

Kobojunkie:
Women generally chase a s successful man yet women are breadwinners in almost 50% of married homes in Nigeria? Come on now.....this is 2025. Avoid bullsheet and start stating facts.
Men are the equally hypergamous. The fact is the average man out there is ever seeking to obtain the best women for the least cost to him. ( The average man wants the most beautiful woman, the virgin he cannot even afford at no cost, the educated wife even though he is a stark illiterate, sex for no price, free labor from a woman for as long as he can get it...that is hypergamy too.) 🥱🥱

This 2026, let's begin using terms we only fully grasp the meaning of so we stop wasting each others time.

azuka, you still enter 2026 with this kind of reasoning? You are completely finished.🥱

Wealth may impress, but character sparks true connection. Women want successful men who are responsible and aligned with their values, not just anyone with money.

Being rich isn't the same as being successful. Some rich people aren't successful, and some successful people aren't rich. Success means different things to different people.

A lady won't just feel like dating or marrying a guy just because he is successful. Not all love is romantic; some love comes from respect and admiration. There are people I admire so much that just being around them makes me happy, but marriage; never crossed my mind. I see them as mentors, role models, senior figures, or inspirations. Honestly, if they asked me out, it might feel awkward because I hold them in such high esteem.

Success can earn respect and admiration, but it doesn't mean every woman with integrity will want you just because you are successful. True admiration comes from a combination of qualities. There are other traits women value, such as integrity, responsibility, kindness, and more.

Men who are successful but irresponsible or full of bad behaviour are more likely to attract deceivers.

AlphaBoy:
I’ve been seeing this narrative online, especially from Gehgeh, where he says once a man becomes successful or starts making money, plenty girls will suddenly want to sleep with him or be his girlfriend.
According to him, success attracts women automatically, even without effort. Some people agree strongly with this, while others say it’s an exaggeration or hyped up

So do you think success truly makes women chase men? .

Yes lazy, greedy golddigging women will want u. Lets be specific about the type of women pls.

There are many women who will reject gehgeh and his money.

It is a no brainer . . .Success attracts many friends (Male/Female . . .Good/Bad)

Kobojunkie:
There are a type of girls that may chase you — prey on you for obvious reason—, but to say that women(generally) chase you as in truly desire you when you become rich? Nah! That only happens in the delusions of men who have low self-esteem issues. 🥱🥱🥱

Success has many relatives but failure is an orphan. It attracts so many people to the person, not just women alone. And majority of the people coming to you when you're successful are leeches looking for how to feed on you.

Women break rules for High value Alpha men.

I think the title should be "When you have money, cheap, loosed girls will run after you" I know some people who were rejected when they were broke by women and went back to the same women after they've made serious money only to be rejected again. The Women told them it's not about what you have it's you I don't like. Pretty girls with self worth, esteem and intelligence do not run after successful people or men with money. They attract the right wealthy man who sees them for their value. They don't chase, they attract. So yes, If you're successful, women will flock around you but what caliber of women are we talking about here? You Gerrit?

kodded:
yes na


That's why I'm laughing at those young men that preach using game to get a woman....lol


Time they could have used in getting the bag, they will rather chase women all in the name of game and At the end of the day, same woman will cheat on them with a richer guy

If a woman leaves you for a richer guy, you should be happy that you've dodged a bullet and feel sorry for the guy she's with because she'll still leave him for another richer guy. Two people that may never find true love - a rich man and a woman with big bum bum. You can't tell if it's you she wants or your money or if it's your bum he wants or your personality.

lacasera14:
➜ I think the title should be "When you have money, cheap, loosed girls will run after you"
➜ I know some people who were rejected when they were broke by women and went back to the same women after they've made serious money only to be rejected again. The Women told them it's not about what you have it's you I don't like.
➜ Pretty girls with self worth, esteem and intelligence do not run after successful people or men with money. They attract the right wealthy man who sees them for their value. They don't chase, they attract. So yes, If you're successful, women will flock around you but what caliber of women are we talking about here? You Gerrit?

If they were cheap and loose, why didn't they chase after you when you were a nobody/broke-arse? 🥱🥱🥱

2. They were obviously rejected because the women were not loose and cheap... they had for themselves a value that those men had to at least reach before they could date them. Most men only bring money to the table, after all. This ultimately means that a poor/broke man is of little to no value to a woman who is not loose and cheap. 🥱🥱

3. Pretty intelligent women who value themselves would do best to stay away from broke valueless men — again, if a man's only value is the money he brings, then a broke man does not come with any value to a woman; only broken/depressed/low self-esteem/low self-worth women are out there settling for broke men and this is because they do not think much of their value as individuals to say the least. Broke men know this and that is why they go after women from broken homes and backgrounds to wife them up and trap them before they realize themselves.

Stop misusing terms... It's annoying!

Kobojunkie:
If they were cheap and loose, why didn't they chase after you when you were a nobody/broke-arse? 🥱🥱🥱

2. They were obviously rejected because the women were not loose and cheap... they had for themselves a value that those men had to at least reach before they could date them. Most men only bring money to the table, after all. This ultimately means that a poor/broke man is of little to no value to a woman who is not loose and cheap. 🥱🥱

3. Pretty intelligent women who value themselves would do best to stay away from broke valueless men — again, if a man's only value is the money he brings, then a broke man does not come with any value to a woman; only broken/depressed/low self-esteem/low self-worth women are out there settling for broke men and this is because they do not think much of their value as individuals to say the least. Broke men know this and that is why they go after women from broken homes and backgrounds to wife them up and trap them before they realize themselves.

Stop misusing terms... It's annoying!

You sounded reasonable but you're almost there. I didn't mention broke men anywhere in what I posted. The focus was successful men which I narrowed down to men with money, entirely different. I might not be super rich doesn't mean I'm extremely broke. Saying the Women don't chase after broke men because rich men are in the picture is unreasonable. And who told you women didn't chase me when I was broke? You think every woman is materialistic? You think in polarity. Rethink. And your point 2, is it not the same thing I said? I don't understand you honestly.

bunmioguns:
Money doesn't make you more attractive; it just makes women willing to endure your ugliness for a fee. It’s not 'attraction,' it’s a business transaction. Let’s stop calling poverty 'no game' and stop calling a bank balance 'rizz'.

There is nothing Like attraction bro, there is only Transactions.

bunmioguns:
➜Money doesn't make you more attractive; it just makes women willing to endure your ugliness for a fee. It’s not 'attraction,' it’s a business transaction. Let’s stop calling poverty 'no game' and stop calling a bank balance 'rizz'.

That's something I have indeed heard many women say so many times now. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

You don’t need to Be Excessively rich for you to pound a woman fussy u just need to to have that providing and protecting instinct that is all. And to provide will always cost you money. That is where the problem is. If you don’t have that providing instinct even if woman give you the kuchy she go still later leave you to a guy that has the providing instinct.

SHIVA001:
➜There is nothing Like attraction bro, there is only Transactions.

Lies! We all know that many men out there are even willing to lower their wifey-standard for attractive women... 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
There are a type of girls that may chase you — prey on you for obvious reason—, but to say that women(generally) chase you as in truly desire you when you become rich? Nah! That only happens in the delusions of men who have low self-esteem issues. 🥱🥱🥱

Over 70% of women loves successful men naturally only love can't pay their bills even culture has made it so most families will always prefer to give out their daughters to successful men worldwide.

Not all women

Some women will ghost you despite your dollar 💰

Mrexcell:
✓ Over 70% of women loves successful men naturally only love can't pay their bills even culture has made it so most families will always prefer to give out their daughters to successful men worldwide.

Women obviously prefer successful men over unsuccessful men same sort of the way men prefer beautiful over ugly women, why? Because marriage is usually about improving ones social standing, not diminishing it. When it comes to men, what most of them being to the table is not their emotional, physical or mental energy but financially energy and that usually ties back to their success. Hence the reason why many women would rather get themselves a successful man than an unsuccessful man. Many men already know to expect a woman' to bring her emotional, physical, and mental energy to the table...the so-called invisible/unpaid labor that keeps homes and community together,b that is why they also don't mind preferring it also come with pleasing aesthetics so they can stand out socially with their friends.

By the way, there is no love in why of what I described so far. Love would ensure to regularly compensate a woman for all of the work she does in the home --- cookng, laundry, cleaning, emotional regulation work, nanny job, personal assistance duties, surrogacy, sex maid, etc. But since love is merely a sidenote and not necessarily a requirement in marriage, most women in stead experience financial abuse in their marriages are the hands of men who have absolutely no love for them. 🥱🥱