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Hello guys, there's this lady i really like and this lady and I'm planning to go into a relationship with her, but the thing is that she's 7 month older than i am.... Although I'm yet to tell her.... I'm worried if it's goona affect in the long run

AllMight:
➜Hello guys, there's this lady i really like and this lady and I'm planning to go into a relationship with her, but the thing is that she's 7 month older than i am.... Although I'm yet to tell her.... I'm worried if it's goona affect in the long run

You having a problem with her being 7 months older than you to the extent of needing to create this here thread about it already means it ain't gonna work out. Abort mission and go find you someone who is more your agemate.🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
You having a problem with her being 7 months older than you to the extent of needing to create this here thread about it already means it ain't gonna work out. Abort mission and go find you someone who is more your agemate.🥱🥱🥱

7 month is still within age mate.... I have no problem with it..... It's the lady I'm worried about

AllMight:
➜7 month is still within age mate.... I have no problem with it..... It's the lady I'm worried about

. If you had considered it no problem, you would have simply asked her out and allowed her to decide for herself whether she is ok with the age difference or whether it is a problem. But you didn't do that. Rather, what you did was come on here to bother us about the 7-month gap, meaning you already feel it is likely going to be a problem. The problem isn't with her but with you.

And yes, she may reject your advance despite that 7-month gap in age. You may just not be her type, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. But the fact that you have all but decided that she may reject you solely because of the age gap issue makes this a bad match at this point to me. 🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
. If you had considered it no problem, you would have simply asked her out and allowed her to decide for herself whether she is ok with the age difference or whether it is a problem. But you didn't do that. Rather, what you did was come on here to bother us about the 7-month gap, meaning you already feel it is likely going to be a problem. The problem isn't with her but with you.

And yes, she may reject your advance despite that 7-month gap in age. You may just not be her type, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. But the fact that you have all but decided that she may reject you solely because of the age gap issue makes this a bad match at this point to me. 🥱🥱

How do you feel now?

No problem go ahead, but make sur ur 5&6 dey work. No go fumble, always remember say na woman she be.if not u go cry o 😂 😂

AllMight:
➜How do you feel now?

Not like you! 🥱🥱

Just 7 months? You don't want sugar mummy

Pmoney0123:
No problem go ahead, but make sur ur 5&6 dey work. No go fumble, always remember say na woman she be.if not u go cry o 😂 😂

😂😂😂 Normal thing boss

It's not going to work bro, she's going to treat you like a child in the long run. And it's not even about the 7 months gap, even your biological age mate has already seen like over 5yrs relationship experience more than you not to talk of a direct senior.

CHIEFCHICKEN:
Just 7 months? You don't want sugar mummy

Sugar mummy na from 10yrs + 😂😂😂

AllMight:
Sugar mummy na from 10yrs + 😂😂😂

If she's 1 day older than me, she better be ready to play the Sugar role

AllMight:
Hello guys, there's this lady i really like and this lady and I'm planning to go into a relationship with her, but the thing is that she's 7 month older than i am.... Although I'm yet to tell her.... I'm worried if it's goona affect in the long run

he no go work

from experience oo...

she will even tell u the same

AllMight:
Hello guys, there's this lady i really like and this lady and I'm planning to go into a relationship with her, but the thing is that she's 7 month older than i am.... Although I'm yet to tell her.... I'm worried if it's goona affect in the long run

Let me advice you like someone who is married to a woman born in March and the husband born in September of the same year. We are both happily married and we have kids that are aware that their mum is older than their dad. It's not a big deal but just let her know if she is ok with it l, then go ahead and tell her the truth.

abiolert:
✓ Let me advice you like someone who is married to a woman born in March and the husband born in September of the same year. We are both happily married and we have kids that are aware that their mum is older than their dad. It's not a big deal but just let her know if she is ok with it l, then go ahead and tell her the truth.

That it worked for you does not mean it would work for Op or many other males out there particular for men who believe themselves entitled to one-sided respect from women by virtue of their "manhood". I have seen this sort of situation implode quickly when such men are involved. 🥱🥱🥱

AllMight:
Hello guys, there's this lady i really like and this lady and I'm planning to go into a relationship with her, but the thing is that she's 7 month older than i am.... Although I'm yet to tell her.... I'm worried if it's goona affect in the long run

Since the matter is already an issue to the extent that you created a thread for it I doubt if the relationship will work out

Kobojunkie:
That it worked for you does not mean it would work for Op or many other males out there particular for men who believe themselves entitled to one-sided respect from women by virtue of their "manhood". I have seen this sort of situation implode quickly when such men are involved. 🥱🥱🥱

That's y I said it's important he has a direct communication with her regarding the issue, it's not a must it works but if he wants it to work the ball is in his court first.

Provoke her to Anger, to test her.

Snatch her Phone when she is using it and tell her 'You this Girl and pressing phone, you better start respecting me'.

You will hear something like 'See this Small Rat o'.

Vinnie2000:
Provoke her to Anger, to test her.

Snatch her Phone when she is using it and tell her 'You this Girl and pressing phone, you better start respecting me'.

You will hear something like 'See this Small Rat o'.

Would you rather be called an old rat? 🥴

AllMight:
Hello guys, there's this lady i really like and this lady and I'm planning to go into a relationship with her, but the thing is that she's 7 month older than i am.... Although I'm yet to tell her.... I'm worried if it's goona affect in the long run

Leave her alone and get out of here. Stop disturbing us

Vinnie2000:
Provoke her to Anger, to test her.

Snatch her Phone when she is using it and tell her 'You this Girl and pressing phone, you better start respecting me'.

You will hear something like 'See this Small Rat o'.

😂😂😂😂

On a serious note, older women can be incredibly kind, loving, and emotionally grounded when the love is genuine. From my experience, once they truly commit, they tend to be loyal, supportive, and very intentional in relationships.

I believe there’s value in being with financially and emotionally mature women, especially those who spent much of their early years building careers, acquiring certifications, and chasing personal growth. Many of them didn’t have the time or space for healthy relationships back then. By the time they were ready, society had already started placing unfair labels on them.

Choosing to be with such a woman often means more than people realize. She understands what commitment costs. She values presence, stability, and partnership deeply, and she doesn’t take love for granted. She also knows that you’re younger and still have options, which makes mutual respect and good behavior non-negotiable.

Unfortunately, society has conditioned many men to automatically prioritize younger women, limiting opportunities for older women who are still very much within their child-bearing years and fully capable of building strong families.

Age doesn’t diminish value. Emotional maturity, loyalty, and intentional love matter far more than numbers.

Except if she appears older than u there's no problem with that.

I won't advice. Respect is rare among couples close in age not to talk of the woman being older than the man.

Other than that, I would always advice to marry someone way younger. Like 5 to 7 years. By the time you clock late thirties, she would be looking way older than you and may no longer match your energy or sexual appetite. Your wife would be looking older than your mates wives and she may feel isolated.

There's a reason why older rich men go look for a young lady to marry. It's not like their first wife is a devil. They are simply lacking in required traits.

AllMight:
Hello guys, there's this lady i really like and this lady and I'm planning to go into a relationship with her, but the thing is that she's 7 month older than i am.... Although I'm yet to tell her.... I'm worried if it's goona affect in the long run

Ask her out, don't discuss about the age. Enjoy bedmates while it lasts.

abiolert:
✓ That's y I said it's important he has a direct communication with her regarding the issue, it's not a must it works but if he wants it to work the ball is in his court first.

Communicate what exactly as if she is the one currently having an issue with it? Sounds more like you are suggesting OO make his issue hers to havs to fesl with. 🥱🥱🥱

Op is the one stuck on age gap. If, for example , the woman absolutely does not want to date or dabble with her age mate let alone a man couple of years younger than she is, how is OP's communicating issues he has with age gap to change anything? 🥱🥱

Not a problem as she has good character and she's fertile, first give her belly to confirm if she's fertile

Seven months and this one opened a thread as if she’s nine years older. Mscheew. Me who dated someone four years older, nko? I later dated someone eleven years older. The funny part is the one a decade plus older treated me with more respect than the one with four years over me.

My guy, you’ve fumbled the whole situation. Abort. Abort.

Kobojunkie:
Communicate what exactly as if she is the one currently having an issue with it? Sounds more like you are suggesting OO make his issue hers to havs to fesl with. 🥱🥱🥱

Op is the one stuck on age gap. If, for example , the woman absolutely does not want to date or dabble with her age mate let alone a man couple of years younger than she is, how is OP's communicating issues he has with age gap to change anything? 🥱🥱

By telling her that she is older than him period.