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God please help me, bring me out from every pain

Is this love or obsession?

I'm trying not to believe this is real.

I can’t believe what I just read is real. This isn’t love. You don’t love yourself at all and value yourself and your husband knows and takes advantage of it. I wish you well since you don’t want advice

So help me God, lead me in the right direction

People can read these? Good Lord, there are many bored children online. Each story is like a dissertation.

Newgirl206:
Then again am trying to focus on my self and be happy again, is not going to be easy but I know God will see me through.
God bless you'll 🙏🙏

Go to your first post and continue from there by 'replying' to the post. Creating another thread wasn't necessary.

Sorry for creating another thread, really don't know how it works

Esthered:
✓ Is this love or obsession?
I'm trying not to believe this is real.

It is obsession, the particular brainwashing that the average Nigerian/African woman is trained to confuse as love from both those in the traditional and religious circles. It is to keep them clinging even to men that literally hate them and also those that maybe even want to kill them. 🤔

Faithfulfaythe:
✓ I can’t believe what I just read is real. This isn’t love. You don’t love yourself at all and value yourself and your husband knows and takes advantage of it. I wish you well since you don’t want advice

A lot of men intentionally seek out women who have damaged and/or low self esteem for that very reason. They need such women to pour out themselves into the men while the men rarely ever need to reciprocate the same energy since such women lie to themselves that that their worth is measured in how much of themselves they are able to sacrifice for and to the man. 😩😩

Newgirl206:
Sorry for creating another thread, really don't know how it works

Since you already have the two, might as well continue with both. 🤔

https://www.nairaland.com/8158000/wife-insisting-pastor-must-officiate#131020927

Your hubby

Foodqueen:
https://www.nairaland.com/8158000/wife-insisting-pastor-must-officiate#131020927

Your hubby

Omo... CIA don drop link.