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Zony94:
The lady acted well it is better for relationship to scrumb than marriage, The guy in question must be a cheater.If the lady didn't know about his comments it is better but once known and you still go ahead imagination of infidelity will kill her joy.

Leaving a man that defends cheating, is like Leaving a woman that defends a woman that expects a man to take care of her needs... only a foolish woman will think some men aren't capable of cheating...all because they have refused to understand the biological system of a man... both mentally and physically

alphonsoolajide:
https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/06/lady-calls-off-engagement-fiance-defended-cheating/

Believe me, she left to be with who she has been cheating with. Ladies are particular about a man cheating after marriage but dont consider their cheating before marriage.

alphonsoolajide:
https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/06/lady-calls-off-engagement-fiance-defended-cheating/

Some people will never get someone to marry. Marriage is never a smooth straight road. It has its bends and curves.

pocohantas:
I like that it is her brother that sent it to her and cautioned her on the downsides of a community husband, because men know the truth, they only hate to hear it from women.

Ladies who are afraid of marrying cheating husband are ladies who are or were in the business of dating married men. This is because they are aware of the damages they caused to the family of the married man.

These kind of ladies are usually the ones jumping around the social media about cheating husbands.

pocohantas:
I like that it is her brother that sent it to her and cautioned her on the downsides of a community husband, because men know the truth, they only hate to hear it from women.




Interesting part is, if she marries him and complains of cheating tomorrow, same guys bashing her would say she was aware, but married him out of desperation or because of money. While ignoring "good guys".

i don't really know why our ladies did not understand the true meaning of marriage. never compete with men in life. the guy comment is very correct, if she marries another guy its still going to be same so long we are africans with cultures. she better stay in her papa house. simple logic is that men respect and honour woman that knows but pretend not to know that her husband is doing things behind her.

Ediko1:
Ladies who are afraid of marrying cheating husband are ladies who are or were in the business of dating married men. This is because they are aware of the damages they caused to the family of the married man.

These kind of ladies are usually the ones jumping around the social media about cheating husbands.

This is an extremely senseless take.

phemray:
i don't really know why our ladies did not understand the true meaning of marriage. never compete with men in life. the guy comment is very correct, if she marries another guy its still going to be same so long we are africans with cultures. she better stay in her papa house. simple logic is that men respect and honour woman that knows but pretend not to know that her husband is doing things behind her.

I understand that you cheat, but assuming millions of men in Africa are the same, is not what I can comprehend. It is not competition to want a decent man. They exist, though you are obviously not one.

pocohantas:
This is an extremely senseless take.

Yeah because you may likely fall into this category of women..

You guys can't eat your cake and have it back.
No one fears when a single lady greets her husband than a lady that dated married men when she was single.

Most of them lived from funds from married men, some were even educated by married men and today they're everywhere jumping around.

Just like Naija politicians who become saints when they're in the opposition.

Ediko1:
Yeah because you may likely fall into this category of women..

You guys can't eat your cake and have it back.
No one fears when a single lady greets her husband than a lady that dated married men when she was single.

Most of them lived from funds from married men, some were even educated by married men and today they're everywhere jumping around.

Just like Naija politicians who become saints when they're in the opposition.

Still senseless, bro.

I understand all this gaslighting techniques to discourage women from demanding or wanting faithfulness from a man. You might want to try it on someone your size.

Take care

pocohantas:
Still senseless, bro.

I understand all this gaslighting techniques to discourage women from demanding or wanting faithfulness from a man. You might want to try it on someone your size.

Take care

Is she a virgin?

aestake:
Is she a virgin?

You can easily find a virgin and be faithful to her. This thing is common sense.

Rilwayne001:
Dated a girl that told me checking her phone is a no no, even in marriage.

Na tthere I know say this can’t work.

Haha

pocohantas:
This is an extremely senseless take.




I understand that you cheat, but assuming millions of men in Africa are the same, is not what I can comprehend. It is not competition to want a decent man. They exist, though you are obviously not one.

very funny, do we have decent ladies? many are pretenders. who defines cheating? we grow up see our mothers even marrying for their husbands and leave together happily , now you want to rewrite the stories to favour you and then kill the husband at the end. so long God created men with testosterone hormone, nothing anyone can do about it except its deficient in any man.

women is responsible for sex while men is responsible for marriage to occur. u can believe whatever u like, a real Man is an active man as created by GOD

phemray:
very funny, do we have decent ladies? many are pretenders. who defines cheating? we grow up see our mothers even marrying for their husbands and leave together happily , now you want to rewrite the stories to favour you and then kill the husband at the end. so long God created men with testosterone hormone, nothing anyone can do about it except its deficient in any man.

women is responsible for sex while men is responsible for marriage to occur. u can believe whatever u like, a real Man is an active man as created by GOD

I can do something about it. I can (and I did) skip community husbands like you.

Why does desiring decent men trigger you this much? This should be your next response.

ify2016:
The way Some ladies behave eh. Though that's her choice. Background check will shocked you what she has done in the past.

So, her past is reason why her present should tolerate cheating? Some of you...ehn! 🥱🥱🥱

pocohantas:
You can easily find a virgin and be faithful to her. This thing is common sense.

easily?

Kobojunkieee:
So, her past is reason why her present should tolerate cheating? Some of you...ehn! 🥱🥱🥱

Yes. Your past could be sb's present. So who is tolerating what?

aestake:
Yes. Your past could be sb's present. So who is tolerating what?

You aren't making any sense still... 🥱🥱🥱

aestake:
easily?

Then stay single.
That itself is an option too.

pocohantas:
Then stay single.
That itself is an option too.

Yep. Rufai Oseni is single and you people are bugging him to marry.

Kobojunkieee:
You aren't making any sense still... 🥱🥱🥱

When you are out of your who.re phase is when I am getting into it.

aestake:
When you are out of your who.re phase is when I am getting into it.

You are not making any sense....🥱🥱

Do you have some sort of problem communicating your thoughts or something? Humans do not have mind reading capabilities, you know.🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkieee:
You are not making any sense....🥱🥱

Do you have some sort of problem communicating your thoughts or something? Humans do not have mind reading capabilities, you know.🥱🥱🥱

Ur past is my present.

aestake:
Ur past is my present.

Why are you set on making absolutely no sense whatsoever? 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkieee:
Why are you set on making absolutely no sense whatsoever? 🥱🥱🥱

Ur past is my present

aestake:
Ur past is my present

Again, why are you set on inundating us with that which is devoid of meaning? 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkieee:
Again, why are you set on inundating us with that which is devoid of meaning? 🥱🥱🥱

Ur past is my present.

Cmanforall:
✓ She didn’t love him for marriage. Some people can be different online than in reality

You mean instead that she was not obsessed enough with the idea of marriage to him. 🥱🥱

OracleJay411:
She's a mumuuu. She thinks next guy will be holy non cheating. ALL MEN CHEAT INCLUDING HER FATHER

She would likely also leave the next guy... and the next and the next...as soon as he cheats. 🥱🥱🥱

Shedrack777:
✓ The fiancee's brother will do the same thing that the fiance comment. but look at him sending it to his sister to avoid him. what's nonsense
She'll still end up marrying someone that will cheat on her that is for sure

It's ok. She can easily divorce as soon as that happens and move on to the next...rinse and repeat. Better to keep testing the waters than to be stuck with only one community dick for life. 🥱🥱🥱🥱

aestake:
Yep. Rufai Oseni is single and you people are bugging him to marry.

In your dreams...

sandra2025:
✓ I bet you, the lady is not ready for marriage because of ordinary comment. Even her brother that screenshot the comment for her, is also cheating on his girlfriend/wife. Men are polygamous by nature.
✓ The best thing she would've done is to caution her guy and make him reaffirm his love for her. She would soon turn to evening newspaper with a childish mentality.

Ordinary comment? Your ordinary comments on nairaland tell us a lot more about your character than any other curated speeches can. 🥱🥱

Anyways, the man is single so run go catch am since you are desperate for marriage.🥱🥱

3. Caution a man not to cheat? Was your mother and grandmother able to get that to work on their husbands? Nonsense! 🥱🥱🥱

pocohantas:
In your dreams...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eTXAVxXLblc