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| Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Kunlebayo12(op): 12:02pm On Jan 08 |
I’m on the verge of being rusticated in school October when I was writing my final exams, something happened just 1 day to end the exam. So me and my friend wrote on our question paper and we exchanged it between ourselves. When I was writing this initiator started searching everyone he got to me and he search me there was nothing on me, he search my booklet yet nothing, he ask me where is my question paper and I showed him just the front because it was the back we wrote on, when he saw it he flipped the back and saw the question paper and ask me who wrote this and what is all this I told him I wrote it with all the back and font he told me to sit down Minute later he went outside and bought exam malpractice form and gave me and others those who were using chukuli, phones, book and other material to write. I beg him that I wrote it, all pleading fell to deaf ear, when I saw he was yielding and time was going and no time to beg I just had to fill the paper. I filled it so I can beg him later so I would be able to write something To get the long story short, 3 days later I was invigated to the student disciplinary board to explain what happened Which I did, I pleaded and beg that it won’t happen again, thry told me I will be punished but not expelled In my school examination malpractice is straight expulsion no matter who you may know. 2 days later I got I call from my classrep that I was given 2years rustication. I called the Hod and course adviser and they said it true, I check the name of student expelled my name wasn’t there, I confirm from the student discplinary board and truly I was recommended 2 years suspension but the result will be out on February 17th this year, and when it out my student portal will be shutdown immediately Even since then I have been sad, depressed and lonely and I can’t even tell my parents because they will be disappointed in me, I have been carrying a burden since early November and now it January, I have been thinking none stop, I have been contemplating suicide to be honest, I don’t pray this kind of situation for my worst enemies and those who haven’t been will never truly knows the pain it cause till you’re in the situation Please i need help and words of encouragement Even if you blame me, the dead has already been done, I Bleep up and I accepted my mistake Please guys I’m dying In silence, I can’t even wait till February 17th, it killing me knowing few days to graduation I was rusticated, what will I tell my parent, or people that have help me one way or another in school. I’m devastated to be honest ![]() I might be ending it any moment from now because this pain is unbearable for me, I just want it to end so I can live a normal life again but I can’t keep living like this. Ignore my typo error Please someone should help me push it to front page
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| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by dawnomike(m): 12:08pm On Jan 08 |
Kunlebayo12:Send me your details via mail. (mikkyletty@ g-mail dot com) Your School Matric No Department Come Feb 17th, your name will not be on the list by God's grace provided yourabove story is all the truth. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by The10G: 12:22pm On Jan 08 |
See this boy! Contemplating suicide keh. Look, imagine all that troubles and when you are through with university and NYSC and unemployed. That's when you'll realise you cheated yourself. Use the 2 years suspension to better your life. Learn something, get something. I promise you, you won't regret it. Most things I know now, if I had known it before, me and my lecturers and even teachers would have exchanged blows. Live your life, the future is bright |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Authoreety: 12:53pm On Jan 08 |
Bro, no try rubbish o.... Take it however you see it... Two years is nothing ... As far as u are determined to get your certificate... Your parents may feel sad initially but they will adjust with time... You don't need to be hard on urself o... |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by OAkanni001(m): 1:39pm On Jan 08 |
My brother, suicide is not even the best option. This can be a blessing or a curse base on how you interpret the situation. My advice for you is to devote the two years to learning a skills highly related to your field of study or something you're passionate about and by the time the two years elapses, you might even be way ahead of your peers. Concerning informing your parent or guidance, it depends on how strict they are. If you feel you're close enough, explain to them and tell them how you intend to turn things around. If you aren't close, look for a close relative who can explain to them. All in all, I wish you well bro. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by meobizy(m): 1:53pm On Jan 08 |
School na scam. You are on the right track. Four wasted years, you would have used them to learn and make money off welding. Oya, carry your cross. Kunlebayo12: |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by WantsandMore: 2:48pm On Jan 08 |
Kunlebayo12:when life throws you lemon make a lemonade, you can turn a bad situation into a not so difficult one. Options: be honest and tell your parents, but as you dey tell them, tell Dem say you wan use the 2 years learn hand work, any skill at all. Options 2: don't tell them, in that two just move out of the house and perhaps stay with a friend or relatives you can trust with your secrets in the same vain learn a skill in these two impromptu years, after you are called back learn your lesson and make sure you mentor younger ones about the dangers of what you did, very important, offer voluntary services whereever opportunity present it self, remember our worth is not tied to our IQ, Accomplishment or what not but grace, and mercy abounds and eventually time and place happens to us all. Moreover in Joel, God promises to replenish the years we have lost, years of setback will eventually be given to you. The choice before you is to keep moving like Sisyphus or be nihilistic but if I were you I'll chose blind faith and keep moving.... What's the fuckin worst that could happen again anyway!!! |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Maj196(m): 2:59pm On Jan 08 |
If you use that two years to learn something valuable and start earning money, also sending your parents money dem no go send your school. My brother school is just 30% |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by MONEY247: 3:00pm On Jan 08 |
Bro I have been something close to your situation.... I attempted suicide, I bought sniper and use it to cook indomitable could not drink it lol 😂... My bro told me that I was going to hell.. I got a rope and went to a big tree afrward to hang myself....... I felt life fizzle out then suddenly the tree branches broke off.... I am was so depressed.... Called home and told them. My dad said he doesn't have anything to do with me again..... I just enter street hahaha 😂😂😂😂 Now I am in 300 level would be grauduating this year by God's grace.... My advice is use the "break" and learn a skill or something... Go for video editing maybe.... And come back strong.... Tell your parents too... Life is full of hurdles and challenges Mine was nine missing results.... In economics and statistics. ... It's more like saying just drop out... It's gonna be hard... But you can summont the hurdle... But please appeal the decision first... Write NANS, or any union for students... That might help. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by LordIsaac(m): 3:47pm On Jan 08 |
I'd rather you write Jamb and apply to another school; except, of course, you have no future plans of furthering your studies outside Nigeria! |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by gulfer: 4:56pm On Jan 08 |
Don't die before your death, you still haven't had the confirmation yet that you're rusticated so chill and wait till after February 17th......either way, it's not the end of your life but one of life's lessons ![]() |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by floss(m): 6:03pm On Jan 08 |
In every organisation, there are men or a man that call the shots, locate them and tell your story, if possible to pay your way out, do so . Committing suicide because of Nigeria certificate is not worth it especially when 99% of graduates do new skill related courses after graduation from college in order to be able to work. Instead of committing suicide, tell your parents what happened, they’ll prefer you alive than die foolishly |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by kingthreat(m): 6:31pm On Jan 08 |
You want to kill yourself because of 2 years suspension. Wetin you go talk about those wey no go school? Those 2 years suspension could be used to learn a new skill that could give you more financial stability than the programme you're studying. Don't give up. Start giving hints to your sponsors so it doesn't hit them like a suprise either. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by nifemi25(m): 6:37pm On Jan 08 |
What if you graduated and you got accident on your way home or you were shot after your last paper .. your same parent that you were afraid to informed about your suspension will be in bad mood for life... In other words.. everything happens for a reason.. be thankful... |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by salamudeen(m): 7:19pm On Jan 08 |
Kunlebayo12:Happend to me also 400 level, was depressed for a very long time even when I was told to go and do some findings only to realised I wasn't the culprit but the damage has already been done... My anger issues refused me to go back bro after like 3 years I decided to start ND thank God I am now in HND 2 Bro forget matter ppl don't know the agony or pain someone usually pass through when that kind of news hit someone... It's not easy |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by njokuuche77(m): 8:49pm On Jan 08 |
This is painful, and I’m truly sorry you’re going through this. You made a mistake, yes, but a mistake is not the sum of your life, your future, or your worth. Many successful people have faced setbacks even worse than this and still rebuilt. Please hear this clearly: your life is worth far more than any academic decision. This season feels overwhelming, but it is not permanent. Rustication is a pause, not the end of your destiny. Don’t carry this alone. As hard as it feels, tell a trusted adult immediately, a parent, guardian, lecturer, pastor/imam, or mentor. You need support now, not silence. If possible, also ask about appeals, mercy reviews, or alternatives; schools sometimes reconsider when genuine remorse and mental distress are documented. Most importantly, if you feel unsafe right now, please reach out for immediate help, a trusted person near you or local emergency services. Talking to someone now can change everything. You are not weak for feeling this way. You are human. This pain will pass, even if it doesn’t feel like it. Stay. Ask for help. Your story is not over. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by wazobeer: 8:50pm On Jan 08 |
Kunlebayo12:Do not kill yourself over a piece of paper that might not even add anything to your life... Ask those who have graduated, certificate na just for show-off, but if you feel like ending it all, remember that you will give account before your maker. You can gain admission into any school and start even stronger and I have heard of a pastor (ex-cultist) who was rusticated and reinstated after 1 year at home and was later allowed to graduate.... He used Zephaniah 3:19 and kept declaring it for 1 year and his story changed. Run to God and confess your sins, change your ways and keep declaring... Zephaniah 3:19- Behold, at that time I will undo all that afflict thee: and I will save her that halteth, and gather her that was driven out; and I will get them. Na who give up, na him lose! Don't give up! |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by PheelzAlmighty: 8:50pm On Jan 08 |
Maybe tertiary education is not your calling.... Just saying. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Sccarrr(m): 8:51pm On Jan 08 |
Remember lots of people graduated wey no use their certificate.....I have never use my certificate for ones in my life and I don go places I never thought I fit go to years ago🤔 |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Mckraz01: 8:52pm On Jan 08 |
Kunlebayo12:Bro we all make mistakes but this error should not bring you down. You can start living a godly life and teach others around you the dangers of shortcuts. Who knows you might escape from it But when you do, please remember your Maker |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by ELgordo(m): 8:52pm On Jan 08 |
Let me guess Uniben right? the terms u used sounds like it God did it for me in 2008 and God WILL do it 4 you..... I remember that year they almost had me buh I made it!! |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by iLoveYouToo(m): 8:52pm On Jan 08 |
Learn from other people's mistakes, we never gonna learn |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by oyeb15: 8:53pm On Jan 08 |
University is scam. At least u experience it. Go and learn business |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by FitCorper: 8:56pm On Jan 08 |
Bro explore every channel to ratify things. Both legal and illegal. Both illegal and legal, physical and spiritual too. Just don’t harm anybody in the process. *EDITED*; After skimming through I discovered I had rushed to comment without adequate info. Something similar happened to me in my finals; but me, I play lecturer and was almost rusticated, but thank God senior men squash am and I graduated with my set. But op’s own is very easy he should first kneel down and thank God that it was a 2 year termination of studentship. He should keep being close to the lecturer who told him the news prior and go out get a job and enjoy life for the two years before before resuming. Turn the problem into work experience. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by TechCapon(m): 8:56pm On Jan 08 |
The10G:I laughed so hard when I saw this comment but bro you're right. I don't think I used my degree that much and it's looking like I wasted time in school. Everything I know is what I learned outside school and it's working for me |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Baileyz101(m): 8:56pm On Jan 08 |
The10G:Exactly what goes through my mind whenever I see a corper that is forming extra fresh. I am always like this one never know wetin dey wait for am after service. You have given the best response my bro. Let him use the two years to better his life, if not that he is used to school life and everything and can't imagine life without school, the education can wait. Education is good, it gives an edge but since the time I was on a legitimate job without providing my educational background and also earning 500k, omo I don know say person fit make am without complete education. . |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by ELgordo(m): 8:56pm On Jan 08 |
This same Sh@t happened to me in uniben that year 2008 and I made it to NYSC camp 2011 I had to stay home for 2and a half years ....have a relationship with God He will see you through be strong and keep your head up |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Julibet: 8:56pm On Jan 08 |
It's not the end of life man. I know about two people who turned back from final year due to one reason or the other, they are about graduating again with better grades and better courses. If your family is supportive, don't stay 2 years waiting for school, you can either learn a skill or take jamb again to a better course. Good thing is that school years go in a breeze. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by SIRTee15: 8:56pm On Jan 08 |
Guy use the 2 years to learn digital skills and enter remote job market. If favour smiles on u, na the school go beg u to come and collect your certificate. suicide is not even an option in this matter at all. take it like a man and learn from it. some people were not rusticated but they had 4 extra years as a result of carryovers, today they have moved on. Think about it, if u make the best use of those 2 years, u will be the hottest motivational speaker in town in years to come. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Habbeyy(m): 8:57pm On Jan 08 |
You should have been more careful because it is final year exam. Village people are usually in high alert I those times. Use 2 years learn a good skill you have passion for. It is not the end of life, in fact, be prepared for more challenges. It is the way of life |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Habbeyy(m): 8:58pm On Jan 08 |
SIRTee15:which certificate again? |
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