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Kobojunkie:
Nigerian women need to do better when it comes to raising their boys. All these women married to men they keep propping up, pretending that they do good by reducing their efforts to make the man look good, only to keep hurting their children with these lies. How in the world would these boys understand the true value of their mothers in these relationships if they are constantly seeing their mothers lying on behalf of fathers who may be nowhere in the picture?

I am not certain what transpired, but given that the woman posted the video, it seems she feels her efforts in the home go unappreciated, and something tells me it may have to do with her not telling her children the truth.

That boy's resentment towards his mother did not come out of nowhere. He has probably had it for a long time that the mother is merely a mooch who contributes nothing to his life and development as a whole, and that is a problem that mothers need to pay attention to early in their development.

i suspect the dad encourage such against the wife/mother hence the nonsense.
You can't try that with mum na

I don't blame the boy, it's the mother who lacks the will to instill discipline in her kids. The temerity to even look her mother in the eyes and utter such nonsense says a lot about the parental negligence endemic in that home.

Mothers, learn to train your children and discipline them when they cross the line. This one obviously lacks home training

Are you sure is the woman that gave birth to the boy?

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense! My guess is you are the older version of that frustrated and angry boy in the video. 🥱🥱🥱

What that mother did there, quietly enduring that boy's tantrum throwing, making sure she is present and he knows that her attention is on her all of that time, so he could pour out all of the venom inside of him...do you know how much it would cost to hire a professional to do that alone? Do you think your father could have been able to afford it, let alone have time to sit through many more of such tantrums for you when you were a child? 🥱🥱🥱

Yet when your mother did it for you, you believed her an eejiot for it, abi? 🥱🥱🥱

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You have no right to comment on anything to do with parents and children considering that you said publicly here that you owe your parents nothing.

Diamond098454:
Thank you

You have spoken my mind

Some mothers are the ones paying family bills but lying to their kids that their father did, just to make the man look good in front of the kids

the kind of mother that sits all day on social media while the father is all out to make bills paid.the boy is on uniform so it means it happened on a day to me of a working day.im not in support of the boys attitude,obviously that was not his first.

SpencerForbes:
Sirchiboy is here again 😂😂😂 my mom isn’t looking for sugar boy Sirchiboy, she already has us😂

You are living a good life because your mum is black.
If your mum was fair.
I swear life would have been tough for u.
All my old friends are living happily and married because their mum is black

FaAbData:
➜It's mostly the opposite bro. This Sunday (if you're a church goer) ask 20 random kids in your church who bought their fine clothes for them . The answer will shock you. It's the parent that didn't pay for it that they'll call for you.
➜ If a woman buys a pen for her child, the child will know it the her that bought. Women are good at that

. That is not the truth. With so many traditional and religious women told to cover their husbands' shame out there, and with almost 50% of married women living as breadwinners in their marriages, it is likely th case. 🥱🥱🥱

2. That means you don't know the length many women go to cover their husband's shame. 🥱🥱🥱

yemre:
I don't blame the boy, it's the mother who lacks the will to instill discipline in her kids. The temerity to even look her mother in the eyes and utter such nonsense says a lot about the parental negligence endemic in that home.

Mothers, learn to train your children and discipline them when they cross the line. This one obviously lacks home training

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Hmmm, the kind of beating up that boy deserves to reset his brain ehhn. Good beating. And probably a few days in a jail cell.

SpencerForbes:
Wait... 😳 No USB cord or even an old bathroom slipper in that house? And he actually had the nerve to tell his mother, "I don’t blame you," to her face? 😞

This is beyond Gen Z behavior.

Honestly, posting that video makes her look like a bad mother. Why share it online instead of actually correcting or punishing him? This is exactly why some guys are hesitant to marry younger women. If you can't even raise the kids right, what exactly are you bringing to the family?

There are 4 ways people will look at this:

1. The mother is at fault.

2. The son is at fault.

3. The dad is at dault.

4. This should never have been posted online.

Some parents don't like beating. This video alone would shame the boy. He must NEVER EVER EVER talk to his mother like that. There would also be pressure on the mother to do "something."

Posting this video would be sufficient.

When I was almost 16, my mum suffered from an illness that left her partially paralysed neck down.

Till she died, I never raised my voice at her. I remember only once and that was because I suffer from social anxiety and trauma. I experienced something which triggered me my fear.

Oakenshield:
i suspect the dad encourage such against the wife/mother hence the nonsense.
You can't try that with mum na

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Anyone of us who tried that with my Mum would have been locked up by my Dad.

She gradually training a bully,a disobedience child,a big problem in the embryonic stage,train a child the way he should go and he will not depart from it,this spoil brat is just a secondary school student, imagine what will happen if he gets to the university,he needs serious beating.

Na so my 5 years old son run come meet me say hin mama take hin biscuit and com dey eat some.
I tell am say, why e go show hin mama the biscuit?
Sometimes, women, na dem dey bring problems come house.
Despite all of dat, I still dey enjoy my wives.

Sirchiboy:
You are living a good life because your mum is black.
If your mum was fair.
I swear life would have been tough for u.
All my old friends are living happily and married because their mum is black

Sirchiboy, you’re trying to pull me down another rabbit hole. Honestly, I’m tempted to pass because I know if I dig any deeper, I’m probably going to find out more than I bargained for😂😂😂

I hate to give it to you, but you actually have a solid point. It’s rare to find someone who’s both naturally stunning and deeply grounded in family values. I’m not 100% sold yet, but I definitely need to look into it more.

I’ve seen fair-skinned women who are incredible wives and mothers, and I’ve seen dark-skinned women who are the complete opposite, but looking at the big picture, the statistics do seem to favor the dark-skinned ladies. It feels like some people get so caught up in their own looks that they lose sight of what actually matters.

DeepSight:
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Anyone of us who tried that with my Mum would have been locked up by my Dad.

With better resetting slaps

emmalezy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=74BrJmAqGiI?si=IzRHYJYyPamSWXOM

“You’ve Never Paid School Fees Here” — Boy Boldly Confronts His Mother in Trending Video


Source: http://www.reportnaija.ng/2026/01/youve-never-paid-school-fees-here-boy.html

This boy deserves serious discipline. How dare him say that his mother was doing rubbish. I can't tolerate that in my house, after all the sufferings good women go through a kid had the effontry to insult his mum. Do you know her sacrifice? I personally condemn this in strong terms.

Diamond098454:
Thank you

You have spoken my mind

Some mothers are the ones paying family bills but lying to their kids that their father did, just to make the man look good in front of the kids

See estrogen version of the story.....
. God abeg oooooo.....give person good wife .. una sabi lie !!!!

Oakenshield:
With better resetting slaps

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I swear.

emmalezy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=74BrJmAqGiI?si=IzRHYJYyPamSWXOM

“You’ve Never Paid School Fees Here” — Boy Boldly Confronts His Mother in Trending Video


Source: http://www.reportnaija.ng/2026/01/youve-never-paid-school-fees-here-boy.html

What kind of insolent child is that ?

Wasn't he raised to know daddy payment is also mommy payment as long as they are both contributing financially no matter how small?

Stop separating family money especially if both parents are contributing. If daddy is paying that is also mommy paying.

This one done grow horns!

MrSly:
This boy deserves serious discipline. How dare him say that his mother was doing rubbish. I can't tolerate that in my house, after all the sufferings good women go through a kid had the effontry to insult his mum. Do you know her sacrifice? I personally condemn this in strong terms.

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It's unacceptable.
I swear, na beating the boy need.

Kobojunkie:
. That is not the truth. With so many traditional and religious women told to cover their husbands' shame out there, and with almost 50% of married women living as breadwinners in their marriages, it is likely th case. 🥱🥱🥱

2. That means you don't know the length many women go to cover their husband's shame. 🥱🥱🥱

Where did you get your stats from Biko?

I'm a children person, my life revolves around children and teens, church, work, house (area)

I know ALL the children that it's their mothers that's paying their school fee (even if it's once) She'll look for any opportunity to hint to the account or anyone that cares to listen that she's the one paying o.

Ordibary notebook, she'll be crying, ' don't tire this book again o, you know I just bought it for u because your father said had no money'...." I sold my rapa to pay your University fee blabla"

This Sunday do a random stats with 20 kids, ask them who bought them their fine clothes or shoes. And hear who they'll mention- the person that didn't pay is who they'll mention

If I'm the Father of this boy, honestly speaking, I will skin him, I'll so deal with him that he would never ever speak to his mother like that in his entire life, even when he becomes a man. But come to think of it, for him to speak confidently like this, it means he may be copying his Dad on something. I may be wrong, but something gives him this confidence to speak rudely to his mother. Chaaaai, how dare me speak to my Mother like this, omoor, na hell fire I go see for that house. My Mama, Lioness Gburugburu, Chineke meeeeh. Mchew

Caaz:
Iya wura...person like me go don break him neck since as he stand there dey sharp mouth... Oyono honestly hes a learner.

E go get how my 10yrs old daughter go reply me...i dey run her down completely.

hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

Kobojunkie:
Nigerian women need to do better when it comes to raising their boys. All these women married to men they keep propping up, pretending that they do good by reducing their efforts to make the man look good, only to keep hurting their children with these lies. How in the world would these boys understand the true value of their mothers in these relationships if they are constantly seeing their mothers lying on behalf of fathers who may be nowhere in the picture?

I am not certain what transpired, but given that the woman posted the video, it seems she feels her efforts in the home go unappreciated, and something tells me it may have to do with her not telling her children the truth.

That boy's resentment towards his mother did not come out of nowhere. He has probably had it for a long time that the mother is merely a mooch who contributes nothing to his life and development as a whole, and that is a problem that mothers need to pay attention to early in their development.

. You are not certain what has happened but certain spewing rubbish. e go tey B4 u use ur cafer well oooo

I hardly believe what I read online because I don't know maybe it is real or not,even what you see with ur naked eyes can be deceiving at times..fear who no fear social media

FaAbData:
➜Where did you get your stats from Biko? I'm a children person, my life revolves around children and teens, church, work, house (area) I know ALL the children that it's their mothers that's paying their school fee (even if it's once) Shel look for any opportunity to hint to the account or anyone that cares to listen that she's the paying o.
Ordibary notebook, she'll be crying, ' don't tire this book again o, you know I just bought it for u because your father said had no money'.... I sold my rapa to pay your University free blabla This Sunday do a random stats with 20 kids, ask them who bought them their fine clothes or shoes. And hear who they'll mention- the person that didn't pay is who they'll mention

Did you read your own post at all before hitting Submit? 🥱🥱🥱

Hahahahaha
Family only needs to redirect his energy.
The Boy is a future agitator who would hate injustice. If that woman is his mother, then she should do the needful to embrace her son, apply punitive measures and redirect his energy.

Mindlog:
Failed parenting.

There are many things wrong in that video.

The mother is clearly afraid of him, the boy weilds power.

So wrong recording and uploading the son's burst of emotional dysregulatiion. The parents are certainly not on the same page regarding such behaviour thus his "boldness".

That boy is very likely to struggle to regulate himself as he grows older if this behaviour is not curbed but like they say, we will meet in the front.

but let women learn to assist their husband. Before you marry someone, position yourself to assist your husband financially. That boy is already a teenager but his mum has never contributed anything to his education aside given birth to him, its wrong. That's how most men died on time. Most men are going through this thing but ashamed to talk to people

Saao:
➜but let women learn to assist their husband. Before you marry someone, position yourself to assist your husband financially. ...

Is the woman an equal partner in the marriage that she should assist the man financially? Does the man assist with the women's part of the household and the raising of the children?🥱🥱🥱

emmalezy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=74BrJmAqGiI?si=IzRHYJYyPamSWXOM

“You’ve Never Paid School Fees Here” — Boy Boldly Confronts His Mother in Trending Video


Source: http://www.reportnaija.ng/2026/01/youve-never-paid-school-fees-here-boy.html

Hmm...this boy is not well brought up.

The father doesn't give his wife enough credit in front of their kids; that's why the foolish boy was never aware his Mum also brings in money to the family.

Even if the Mum is not working or earning, that's not a reason to talk to her rudely like that.

Kobojunkie:
This isn't about you but the reality of most so-called Nigerian women out there — the single-married women brigade— many of whom are forced to pay the bills, take care of the households, and also tolerate the tantrums from their frustrated children, who they also lie to about how their wonderful absent fathers are the ones responsible for it all. 🥱🥱🥱

Are you talking about women at all?

Ah, in my experience the opposite is mostly the case. How many woman go dey lie to her children to uphold the dignity of her unproductive man when she's working her ass out, even accepting relationships she would've rejected otherwise just to care for her children and now give all the glory to her husband... ?

Oga, is this fantasy?

Some would even take the man's hardwork as theirs...

I'm just speaking about the useless descendant that doesn't know his place and would now talk down on my woman who happen to be his birth mother.

I fit kih am sef... What nonsense

This is utter disrespect!!!! In no way shall one talk back to his or her parents for whatever reason

correctguy101:
➜Are you talking about women at all? Ah, in my experience the opposite is mostly the case. How many woman go dey lie to her children to uphold the dignity of her unproductive man when she's working her ass out, even accepting relationships she would've rejected otherwise just to care for her children and now give all the glory to her husband... ?
Oga, is this fantasy? Some would even take the man's hardwork as theirs... I'm just speaking about the useless descendant that doesn't know his place and would now talk down on my woman who happen to be his birth mother. I fit kih am sef... What nonsense

Oh! Are you trying to argue that the old traditional and religious insistence that women cover their husband's shame is no longer a thing? 🥱🥱🥱