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I dont care what the boy did .. the part i took personal that made me realize the woman is a useless mother is when she said "U will see yourself on internet"

What does she mean by that? Whats her motive?
To open the boy for public ridicule and destroy her own child in public?

No wonder the boy spoke to her like that. She's horrible uslss full house wife
She raised him badly now she must nurse it

The boy is very wrong to talk to his mother in that way, Bible said honour your father and your mother so that your days will be long in the land thy lord your God give to you, of the truth women of now a days are not like our great grand mother, it is very common to see old landladies now adays than to see landlord.

Idaytesj29:
See the way men are defending the integrity and respect of the mother. Let's flip the page, let's assume the child is saying the same thing about his father. No woman will condemn the boy or demand respect from him to his father. Infact, they will hail him that he has done the right thing to his irresponsible father who couldn't pay school fee.

No na bros... This is not what you're thinking about...

Most of us adults would choose our mothers first. Even us males....

That's a fact brother....

But what this ancestor is commenting about is the way a descendant of mine would talk to his own mother. Even if he's saying the truth, I go still deal with the insolent descendant.

No descendant of mine is allowed to be that way with a woman this ancestor chose to birth them..

Its that simple to me

emmalezy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=74BrJmAqGiI?si=IzRHYJYyPamSWXOM

“You’ve Never Paid School Fees Here” — Boy Boldly Confronts His Mother in Trending Video


Source: http://www.reportnaija.ng/2026/01/youve-never-paid-school-fees-here-boy.html

I will teel you for free this young lad no stubborn reach me..Chai... Makes me remember my secondary school days... You didn't wash dishes used last night and it was your turn to wash.. you going no where ... If you like late to school... My mama will stood her ground...

Funny enough my mom is a soft hearted woman but when it comes to raising me especially... Chai

From omorogun to mopping stick, koboko,

Wetin we never chop...

This kids are really enjoying oo

Kobojunkie:
Nigerian women need to do better when it comes to raising their boys. All these women married to men they keep propping up—awon cover your husband's shame endurance wives out there —, pretending that they do good by reducing their efforts to make the man look good, only to keep hurting their children with these lies. How in the world would these boys understand the true value of their mothers in these relationships if they are constantly seeing their mothers lying on behalf of fathers who may be nowhere in the picture?

I am not certain what transpired, but given that the woman posted the video, it seems she feels her efforts in the home go unappreciated, and something tells me it may have to do with her not telling her children the truth.

That boy's resentment towards his mother did not come out of nowhere. He has probably had it for a long time that the mother is merely a mooch who contributes nothing to his life and development as a whole, and that is a problem that mothers need to pay attention to early in their development.

Women should start contributing financially. That's all.

Kobojunkie:
Nigerian women need to do better when it comes to raising their boys. All these women married to men they keep propping up—awon cover your husband's shame endurance wives out there —, pretending that they do good by reducing their efforts to make the man look good, only to keep hurting their children with these lies. How in the world would these boys understand the true value of their mothers in these relationships if they are constantly seeing their mothers lying on behalf of fathers who may be nowhere in the picture?

I am not certain what transpired, but given that the woman posted the video, it seems she feels her efforts in the home go unappreciated, and something tells me it may have to do with her not telling her children the truth.

That boy's resentment towards his mother did not come out of nowhere. He has probably had it for a long time that the mother is merely a mooch who contributes nothing to his life and development as a whole, and that is a problem that mothers need to pay attention to early in their development.

nice try ! 👍, only that I found it difficult to understand why you're making frantic efforts to change the story lines and filling in the gaps with all your fabricated unimaginable lies, does the boy looked like a kid to you? , do you stay or live in the same house with them? Didn't you hear and comprehend the succinct explanation as given by the boy? , you actually need to check yourself .

Or boiling ring cord sef

SpencerForbes:
Wait... 😳 No USB cord or even an old bathroom slipper in that house? And he actually had the nerve to tell his mother, "I don’t blame you," to her face? 😞

This is beyond Gen Z behavior.

Honestly, posting that video makes her look like a bad mother. Why share it online instead of actually correcting or punishing him? This is exactly why some guys are hesitant to marry younger women. If you can't even raise the kids right, what exactly are you bringing to the family?

Emeskhalifa:
➜Women should start contributing financially. That's all.

Wrong! You don't go around imposing ideas on women as though they are yours to command.🥱🥱

Rather, if a man wants a woman to contribute financially, he should only date and marry a working woman who agrees to contribute financially to the marriage in exchange for the man also contributing in other regards. The onus is on the man to decide to chase and marry only a working woman who consents to contributing financially... both should probably sign a prenup to ensure no one side 419s the other, and the marriage should probably also be at the registry and not some traditional scam either.🥱🥱🥱

We4all:
I blame the mother for exchanging words with him. She should have reset his fish brain with slaps, and any attempt to fight back should follow with a grave punishment: a night in a police cell.

I'd prefer not to have any children than have a kid like him. I am certain he talks down on his mom because his father also disrespects her too.

The other day in my neighborhood, I overheard a boy outrightly insulting his mom, and even called her a prostitute. Pathetic lots!

We are raising an indiscipline generation nowadays, but you can't totally blame them, many couples too are not worthy of raising family with their behavior and way of life.

Ikemba007:
Or boiling ring cord sef

Back then, the routine was classic: they’d feed you first, give you a proper beating right after, and you’d cry yourself to sleep only to wake up to apologies and a lecture on why you messed up.

The wild part was that reporting it to your dad usually just meant a second round of discipline. You could get it for something as small as coming in second place in class. Even now, I catch myself about to do something and feel like my mom is standing right behind me.

I have so much respect for that generation of mothers—they actually raised us with backbone. It’s a far cry from the "slay mama" culture today, raising effeminate and disrespectful men and masculine and rude girls.

Son of his father.

Guestmale:
We are raising an indiscipline generation nowadays, but you can't totally blame them, many couples too are not worthy of raising family with their behavior and way of life.

Has she paid before?
That's the question to answer before any other thing.

ChybuzzDD:
Punishing him for doing what exactly??
For saying the truth about his dad being the sole financier of the family?
If truth pains you, then you have a problem

can u allow your son talk to your wife like that in your presence or can u talk to your mum like dat in your dad's presence

bobolaga:
The boy is very wrong to talk to his mother in that way, Bible said honour your father and your mother so that your days will be long in the land thy lord your God give to you, of the truth women of now a days are not like our great grand mother, it is very common to see old landladies now adays than to see landlord.

And Bible still say "parents don't anger your children" The mother is irresponsible, period.

SpencerForbes:
Wait... 😳 No USB cord or even an old bathroom slipper in that house? And he actually had the nerve to tell his mother, "I don’t blame you," to her face? 😞

This is beyond Gen Z behavior.

Honestly, posting that video makes her look like a bad mother. Why share it online instead of actually correcting or punishing him? This is exactly why some guys are hesitant to marry younger women. If you can't even raise the kids right, what exactly are you bringing to the family?

This kind aggressive boy go beat the woman if she try am o

victorazyvictor:
Has she paid before?
That's the question to answer before any other thing.

Husband and wife are one,if it's a family that there is unity,love and mutual respect, this type of disgraceful question and behaviour will not arise.

correctguy101:
No na bros... This is not what you're thinking about...

Most of us adults would choose our mothers first. Even us males....

That's a fact brother....

But what this ancestor is commenting about is the way a descendant of mine would talk to his own mother. Even if he's saying the truth, I go still deal with the insolent descendant.

No descendant of mine is allowed to be that way with a woman this ancestor chose to birth them..

Its that simple to me

I get your point, I am not disputing your point. The boy is rude and insolent. And everyone is right to call him out. My point which you need to look at outside of the valid point you just made is that, of the father is in the position of the mother, majority of women will say the man deserve the treatment cos he couldn't pay fees.

Kobojunkie:
The boy in the video is likely saying all of those things to his mother because the mother covered her husband's shame with lies that he is a providing father. Yes, tradition and religion do not mind telling women to lie through their teeth to their own children in the name of covering the husband's shame. 🥱🥱🥱

Does the boy look like an slowpoke to you? He does not know the difference between who provides and who is being covered right?

Idaytesj29:
➜Does the boy look like an slowpoke to you? He does not know the difference between who provides and who is being covered right?

Many of you literally grew up not realizing how many times your mothers had to cover your father's shame when he was either broke or unemployed. 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Many of you literally grew up not realizing how many times your mothers had to cover your father's back when he was either broke or unemployed. 🥱🥱🥱

Speak for yourself.

I honestly can't relate. We attend military secondary schools, I was an ex-boy, my immediate younger one went to AFMs, the other girl was an ex-commando(ipaja) while the last attended NNSS Ojo. So descipline was installed early on. All it takes is for your mum to report you to RSM and you will serve Job tire

Idaytesj29:
➜ Speak for yourself.

Go have a candid conversation with your mother about it. 🥱🥱

SpencerForbes:
Wait... 😳 No USB cord or even an old bathroom slipper in that house? And he actually had the nerve to tell his mother, "I don’t blame you," to her face? 😞

This is beyond Gen Z behavior.

Honestly, posting that video makes her look like a bad mother. Why share it online instead of actually correcting or punishing him? This is exactly why some guys are hesitant to marry younger women. If you can't even raise the kids right, what exactly are you bringing to the family?

The courage to talk back at his mom did not start today.
He would have done it severally to outsiders, house help older than him, aunts or uncle which the mom never condemn then.
It's just like a little pay back for an ill that wasn't nipped in the bud

That boy is a disaster about to happen!
As much as accusing fingers can be pointed to the mother, the father also contributed in the failed parenting.
The boys issue had gone beyond just beating, he needs to see a family counselor and attend some sessions with them, he needs to be deprogrammed to be reprogrammed rightly if not, even it's just a matter of time the father will also collect from him.

On the issue raised by the boy, we are not there, we don't have the full story but one thing is sure, that's a home where right things are not done rightly and the couple needs marriage counselor to help them out.

Also, if the case is flipped, do you think the father will enjoy the kind of support the woman is enjoying from the contributions on this forum so far?

Many are men whose toils and sweat only for one purpose; to give the best for their wife and children went unnoticed let alone of being appreciated while they tread upon the earth only for the vacuum they left after their demise becomes too big for anyone to fill then they realized the man had been a burning candle all this while.
This generation of parents need to do more in discipline.
Discipline is neither hatred nor wickedness it's a sharpening in love.

Kobojunkie:
Nigerian women need to do better when it comes to raising their boys. All these women married to men they keep propping up—awon cover your husband's shame endurance wives out there —, pretending that they do good by reducing their efforts to make the man look good, only to keep hurting their children with these lies. How in the world would these boys understand the true value of their mothers in these relationships if they are constantly seeing their mothers lying on behalf of fathers who may be nowhere in the picture?

I am not certain what transpired, but given that the woman posted the video, it seems she feels her efforts in the home go unappreciated, and something tells me it may have to do with her not telling her children the truth.

That boy's resentment towards his mother did not come out of nowhere. He has probably had it for a long time that the mother is merely a mooch who contributes nothing to his life and development as a whole, and that is a problem that mothers need to pay attention to early in their development.

Parenting isn't gender sensitive...which one be Nigeria women

Kobojunkie:
Nigerian women need to do better when it comes to raising their boys. All these women married to men they keep propping up—awon cover your husband's shame endurance wives out there —, pretending that they do good by reducing their efforts to make the man look good, only to keep hurting their children with these lies. How in the world would these boys understand the true value of their mothers in these relationships if they are constantly seeing their mothers lying on behalf of fathers who may be nowhere in the picture?

I am not certain what transpired, but given that the woman posted the video, it seems she feels her efforts in the home go unappreciated, and something tells me it may have to do with her not telling her children the truth.

That boy's resentment towards his mother did not come out of nowhere. He has probably had it for a long time that the mother is merely a mooch who contributes nothing to his life and development as a whole, and that is a problem that mothers need to pay attention to early in their development.

please do me one favor. any day you are getting married, please invite me because I need eat rice on your marriage day.
Will you promise to invite me?

Mindlog:
Your father being the sole provider in your family, does not give you the pass code to be rude to your mother!

Don't mind him. This happens when the parents are nit team players. Na OYO family parents be this. Talk rudely to my mom and see what my dad will do to you.

Idaytesj29:
I get your point, I am not disputing your point. The boy is rude and insolent. And everyone is right to call him out. My point which you need to look at outside of the valid point you just made is that, of the father is in the position of the mother, majority of women will say the man deserve the treatment cos he couldn't pay fees.

Lols... Women geh sense before wey you dey think?

In 100, Only 95 go geh sense...

Especially now wey men don spoil dem to foolishness...

No even bother ya head brother. Just do ya part and any woman wey no fit take am, show her the door...

Lord have mercy.
1. How can you tell your mum you dont blame her to her face?

2. How can you tell your mum rubbish to her face?

3. Raising your voice at your mum.

4. Exchanging words with your mum.

5. Mum exchanging words with your child while he insults you.

6. Subtly provoking your child by saying words as if he is your mate.

All I see is a failed home with failed parenting producing failed children with zero character.

The mother needs to get herself into studying the word of God and read books on how to lead her kids the the fear of God.

The work is plenty and mus6 begin with the parents.

emmalezy:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=74BrJmAqGiI?si=IzRHYJYyPamSWXOM

“You’ve Never Paid School Fees Here” — Boy Boldly Confronts His Mother in Trending Video


Source: http://www.reportnaija.ng/2026/01/youve-never-paid-school-fees-here-boy.html

Kobojunkie:
Is the woman an equal partner in the marriage that she should assist the man financially? Does the man assist with the women's part of the household and the raising of the children?🥱🥱🥱

seriously, your question. She's an equal partner in marriage. The children belong to both man and woman intact most times women want to claim upperhand

Saao:
➜seriously, your question. She's an equal partner in marriage.
➜ The children belong to both man and woman intact most times women want to claim upperhand

Wrong! No, she ain't! When a woman is married under a traditional umbrella, she is not considered an equal partner, and we all know this. 🥱🥱🥱

2. In traditional marriage, the children belong to the man, even though the man could still abandon them and the woman whenever he wants to.🥱🥱🥱