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Eriokanmi:
In as much as I don't always like sounding religious here, a story like this always pushes me to talk.

In the 90s when schooling in Ilorin, I was preparing for my final exams and in the night, I dreamt that I was caught in an exam malpractice and rusticated. When I woke up, fear gripped me. I was restless. I prayed that night until I was satisfied. I think I shared the story here in the past. I was a book warm and I used to feed my friends during exams.

The day came, it was my final paper and my HOD's course. He was a no nonsense man and his questions were always very tough. God is my witness on this story. A few minutes after starting, a guy was disturbing me, he asked for an answer to a particular question which I had not even solved. He now gave me the ones he had done, that I should pls help him with the one he asked for. I told him to be patient and all of a sudden, he rolled the ones he had done and sent it to me . I was afraid, I hid it inside my booklets. Shortly after that, 5 lecturers entered the hall. They began searching booklets from page to page and i was the 4th on that row.

My seat was close to a window. There was this lecturer leaning on that window from the corridor outside, looking for whom to catch. I was unable to remove the paper from my booklet cos the man would see it if I did, so I became restless. When they approached the 3rd person, something said, remember your dream and I was like, God please help me. The lecturer seen by the window was the one I saw in that dream, wearing same clothes. The exam hall was the same, the seat's position was the same, I was shocked. I quietly removed the paper, squeezed it and forcefully threw it underneath the desk to the back. They rushed at me. They asked what happened and I said my pen fell and they said I should walk out of the dest, as if I was the one they all came for. They searched everywhere, but couldn't see anything. They checked the floor and desk behind me , nothing. They looked and looked at me, now said I should go back to my seat.

I didnt even bother to write further. I submitted and went to a closet to thank God. That was the first time in my life I believed God speaks to us through our dreams. No dream without a meaning. We shouldn't waive it aside if it's a bad one but pray against it. Don't say it will never happen.

WOW, l agree with you, God does speak to us via our dreams, nawaooo, God really helped you, you were very close to danger but The Mercy of God Delivered you....

Kunlebayo12:
I’m on the verge of being rusticated in school

October when I was writing my final exams, something happened just 1 day to end the exam. So me and my friend wrote on our question paper and we exchanged it between ourselves. When I was writing this initiator started searching everyone he got to me and he search me there was nothing on me, he search my booklet yet nothing, he ask me where is my question paper and I showed him just the front because it was the back we wrote on, when he saw it he flipped the back and saw the question paper and ask me who wrote this and what is all this I told him I wrote it with all the back and font he told me to sit down

Minute later he went outside and bought exam malpractice form and gave me and others those who were using chukuli, phones, book and other material to write.

I beg him that I wrote it, all pleading fell to deaf ear, when I saw he was yielding and time was going and no time to beg I just had to fill the paper. I filled it so I can beg him later so I would be able to write something

To get the long story short, 3 days later I was invigated to the student disciplinary board to explain what happened Which I did, I pleaded and beg that it won’t happen again, thry told me I will be punished but not expelled
In my school examination malpractice is straight expulsion no matter who you may know.

2 days later I got I call from my classrep that I was given 2years rustication. I called the Hod and course adviser and they said it true, I check the name of student expelled my name wasn’t there, I confirm from the student discplinary board and truly I was recommended 2 years suspension but the result will be out on February 17th this year, and when it out my student portal will be shutdown immediately

Even since then I have been sad, depressed and lonely and I can’t even tell my parents because they will be disappointed in me, I have been carrying a burden since early November and now it January, I have been thinking none stop, I have been contemplating suicide to be honest, I don’t pray this kind of situation for my worst enemies and those who haven’t been will never truly knows the pain it cause till you’re in the situation

Please i need help and words of encouragement
Even if you blame me, the dead has already been done, I Bleep up and I accepted my mistake

Please guys I’m dying In silence, I can’t even wait till February 17th, it killing me knowing few days to graduation I was rusticated, what will I tell my parent, or people that have help me one way or another in school. I’m devastated to be honest

I might be ending it any moment from now because this pain is unbearable for me, I just want it to end so I can live a normal life again but I can’t keep living like this. Ignore my typo error

Please someone should help me push it to front page

Are you in Usmanu Danfodyio University Sokoto?

I know the school has rules, but in your case, they were extreme in their judgement. All the invigilator would've done was to deduct some marks and sign on your answer booklet.

That's why both the lecturers, and especially the invigilators will keep on announcing that no form of exam malpractices will be condoned, and that you're not allowed to write on your question paper. But you know how some of those invigilators behave nah. As if they were never students themselves.

But do you know you can actually use prayers to reverse their judgment? Prayer changes things, only if you believe!

Moreover, you're not authorized to take the life you didn't create. So take suicide completely out of your mind, ok? Cos we members of Nairaland family love you a lot, gerrit?

dawnomike:
Send me your details via mail. (mikkyletty@ g-mail dot com)

Your School
Matric No
Department

Come Feb 17th, your name will not be on the list by God's grace provided yourabove story is all the truth.

Wow

Don't know if I should wait for mikkyletty@ g-mail to act first, before mine.

I want your father's or mother's contact, I'll break the news for them and you'll be surprised how they'll handle it. God controls the heart of every man.

Also I can link you to a foreign on-line university where you get a degree almost within that two years cheaper than our universities. capniesa@g-mail complete the address

This could be a blessing in disguise.

Hassanmaye:
Wow

Thank you so much. God bless you real good. I pray everything is resolved in his favour.

Kunlebayo12:
I’m on the verge of being rusticated in school

October when I was writing my final exams, something happened just 1 day to end the exam. So me and my friend wrote on our question paper and we exchanged it between ourselves. When I was writing this initiator started searching everyone he got to me and he search me there was nothing on me, he search my booklet yet nothing, he ask me where is my question paper and I showed him just the front because it was the back we wrote on, when he saw it he flipped the back and saw the question paper and ask me who wrote this and what is all this I told him I wrote it with all the back and font he told me to sit down

Minute later he went outside and bought exam malpractice form and gave me and others those who were using chukuli, phones, book and other material to write.

I beg him that I wrote it, all pleading fell to deaf ear, when I saw he was yielding and time was going and no time to beg I just had to fill the paper. I filled it so I can beg him later so I would be able to write something

To get the long story short, 3 days later I was invigated to the student disciplinary board to explain what happened Which I did, I pleaded and beg that it won’t happen again, thry told me I will be punished but not expelled
In my school examination malpractice is straight expulsion no matter who you may know.

2 days later I got I call from my classrep that I was given 2years rustication. I called the Hod and course adviser and they said it true, I check the name of student expelled my name wasn’t there, I confirm from the student discplinary board and truly I was recommended 2 years suspension but the result will be out on February 17th this year, and when it out my student portal will be shutdown immediately

Even since then I have been sad, depressed and lonely and I can’t even tell my parents because they will be disappointed in me, I have been carrying a burden since early November and now it January, I have been thinking none stop, I have been contemplating suicide to be honest, I don’t pray this kind of situation for my worst enemies and those who haven’t been will never truly knows the pain it cause till you’re in the situation

Please i need help and words of encouragement
Even if you blame me, the dead has already been done, I Bleep up and I accepted my mistake

Please guys I’m dying In silence, I can’t even wait till February 17th, it killing me knowing few days to graduation I was rusticated, what will I tell my parent, or people that have help me one way or another in school. I’m devastated to be honest

I might be ending it any moment from now because this pain is unbearable for me, I just want it to end so I can live a normal life again but I can’t keep living like this. Ignore my typo error

Please someone should help me push it to front page

Just do your time and continue. For this time been, I believe you have a smart phone, start learning how to trade and make money online. What should be on your mind is how to survive after school, that rustication doesn't mean much on a long run.

Am just laughing here seriously.....wish I knew what I know then, please take this two years and better your life....

Go back to your parents and tell them what happened, but that you thank God for such because you did it so you can enrol in a cyber security program that will last for one year six months, then look for money and enroll into one...

Two years is far if you don't have anything to do but very close if you are occupied so get into the ocean and swim out to the shore because all waves are taking even those in the big ships to the shore, all that matters is time and what you grabbed before you reach your shore...

But if you still insist in suicide, just know that someone somewhere has written jamb five times and failed, another has dropped from school because of no funds to continue.

Indeed, the saying goes "The darkest hour is just before the dawn". I was once in ur shoe, I never had a carryover until in my final semester that I got a single carryover. I accepted it, reflected on my life, improve my self, wrote it, pass it, and was the luckiest to be gainfully employed within a short time among my colleagues. So, have patience, u are tested because u are about to receive blessings

Kunlebayo12:
I’m on the verge of being rusticated in school

October when I was writing my final exams, something happened just 1 day to end the exam. So me and my friend wrote on our question paper and we exchanged it between ourselves. When I was writing this initiator started searching everyone he got to me and he search me there was nothing on me, he search my booklet yet nothing, he ask me where is my question paper and I showed him just the front because it was the back we wrote on, when he saw it he flipped the back and saw the question paper and ask me who wrote this and what is all this I told him I wrote it with all the back and font he told me to sit down

Minute later he went outside and bought exam malpractice form and gave me and others those who were using chukuli, phones, book and other material to write.

I beg him that I wrote it, all pleading fell to deaf ear, when I saw he was yielding and time was going and no time to beg I just had to fill the paper. I filled it so I can beg him later so I would be able to write something

To get the long story short, 3 days later I was invigated to the student disciplinary board to explain what happened Which I did, I pleaded and beg that it won’t happen again, thry told me I will be punished but not expelled
In my school examination malpractice is straight expulsion no matter who you may know.

2 days later I got I call from my classrep that I was given 2years rustication. I called the Hod and course adviser and they said it true, I check the name of student expelled my name wasn’t there, I confirm from the student discplinary board and truly I was recommended 2 years suspension but the result will be out on February 17th this year, and when it out my student portal will be shutdown immediately

Even since then I have been sad, depressed and lonely and I can’t even tell my parents because they will be disappointed in me, I have been carrying a burden since early November and now it January, I have been thinking none stop, I have been contemplating suicide to be honest, I don’t pray this kind of situation for my worst enemies and those who haven’t been will never truly knows the pain it cause till you’re in the situation

Please i need help and words of encouragement
Even if you blame me, the dead has already been done, I Bleep up and I accepted my mistake

Please guys I’m dying In silence, I can’t even wait till February 17th, it killing me knowing few days to graduation I was rusticated, what will I tell my parent, or people that have help me one way or another in school. I’m devastated to be honest

I might be ending it any moment from now because this pain is unbearable for me, I just want it to end so I can live a normal life again but I can’t keep living like this. Ignore my typo error

Please someone should help me push it to front page

Hi .. be strong and of a good courage visit God In prayer about it and go in finish up fit exam and see what comes out next.. .. suspensions isn't all that effective so go finish ur exams and see if ur result will be out

If you commit suicide wetin those people wey them expel go do.
Some of my guy were expelled in final year in 2019, most of them are doing better now.
I personally squatted in my guys house after NYSC, my friend was expelled in 300L, my friend is doing well he has his degree now.
Please there is still a bright future ahead of you, don’t end it.
Go home and tell your parents

I'd advice you start learning a skill. If you're passionate about education then get a jamb form and try another school. Don't wait for the suspension period.

Kunlebayo12:
I’m on the verge of being rusticated in school

October when I was writing my final exams, something happened just 1 day to end the exam. So me and my friend wrote on our question paper and we exchanged it between ourselves. When I was writing this initiator started searching everyone he got to me and he search me there was nothing on me, he search my booklet yet nothing, he ask me where is my question paper and I showed him just the front because it was the back we wrote on, when he saw it he flipped the back and saw the question paper and ask me who wrote this and what is all this I told him I wrote it with all the back and font he told me to sit down

Minute later he went outside and bought exam malpractice form and gave me and others those who were using chukuli, phones, book and other material to write.

I beg him that I wrote it, all pleading fell to deaf ear, when I saw he was yielding and time was going and no time to beg I just had to fill the paper. I filled it so I can beg him later so I would be able to write something

To get the long story short, 3 days later I was invigated to the student disciplinary board to explain what happened Which I did, I pleaded and beg that it won’t happen again, thry told me I will be punished but not expelled
In my school examination malpractice is straight expulsion no matter who you may know.

2 days later I got I call from my classrep that I was given 2years rustication. I called the Hod and course adviser and they said it true, I check the name of student expelled my name wasn’t there, I confirm from the student discplinary board and truly I was recommended 2 years suspension but the result will be out on February 17th this year, and when it out my student portal will be shutdown immediately

Even since then I have been sad, depressed and lonely and I can’t even tell my parents because they will be disappointed in me, I have been carrying a burden since early November and now it January, I have been thinking none stop, I have been contemplating suicide to be honest, I don’t pray this kind of situation for my worst enemies and those who haven’t been will never truly knows the pain it cause till you’re in the situation

Please i need help and words of encouragement
Even if you blame me, the dead has already been done, I Bleep up and I accepted my mistake

Please guys I’m dying In silence, I can’t even wait till February 17th, it killing me knowing few days to graduation I was rusticated, what will I tell my parent, or people that have help me one way or another in school. I’m devastated to be honest

I might be ending it any moment from now because this pain is unbearable for me, I just want it to end so I can live a normal life again but I can’t keep living like this. Ignore my typo error

Please someone should help me push it to front page

Face your fears. If your fears is to tell your parents, tell them. Trust me, you will feel better afterwards.

You can come back here and tell us how it went. What you need to understand is the important thing is what you use that 2 years and do. Trust me, you will be better off.

Suicide should not cross your head. As it is crossing your head, village people is at work. I don't expect you to be such a coward to take your life.

You will be fine

I really hope everything works out well for you 🙏
Don't beat yourself up too much over it
If the rustication holds, u may use the two years to pursue other productive things

PS
Please dont commit suicide
You have family and friends who love you

Take your school to court just like Chidi Akabogu did

I speak on your behalf for divine intervention
My God have settle your matter .Pls don't harm yourself I beg you in the name of Jesus Christ .

As much as I understand the pain, let me be honest with you. Suicide or depression shouldn't be in your option at all.
Remember that some students were expelled, unlike yours that's suspension for two years. Imagine how long it'll take those expelled to start all over again compared to yours that's just two years delay.

Here is the catch, I suspect that your actions and/or inactions during thr two years will go a long way in determining your future to a large extent. That your certificate is important, so have it in mind to go back and get it....but more than that, decide on what to do with those two years delay and it'll serve as the MAIN FOUNDATION AND DETERMINANT of many years to come. So just try and use am well.

You'll see that suicide is not even an option. You need to re-strategize. E don happen e don happen whether you are right or wrong.

In 2008, I had a similar issue that affected 8 of us in my class. We faced the disciplinary committee and surprisingly I was the only one suspended.

The other 7 guys were exonerated. They had gone to a native doctor to do some stuffs for them. They told me about it earlier but I refused to join them.

I went for the one year suspension and came back to continue my education. These guys were now one year ahead of me.

Guess what, during their final year, just when they were about to write their project, the school revisited the case and they were all expelled. I was the only one that graduated out of the 8 of us.

Just relax bro. Nothing is beyond God's knowledge.

Sorry about your predicament op…..I was once in your shoe though mine was in my first year then back in Unilorin several years back though mine was not a case of malpractice. I also hid it from my parents but they later got to find out on their own and thank God I had a supportive parent especially my mom…..I had to start all over again in another school and today I’m a graduate but I never used my certificate because I was determined and I promised myself I want to build my own business and not someone else’s business no matter how long it will take me to succeed and today I’m glad I took that decision.

I know a lot is going through your head and pls suicide should not be an option because it’s not worth it and you will just leave your loved ones in avoidable pains. Just like some people advised, learn a skill, just get yourself busy and make money while you at it. You will be glad you did…..we all make mistake in life and I’m glad you admitted your mistake. Finally I will advise you talk to someone you respect so much in your family and open up to him/her if you can’t confront your parent with the sad news maybe the person will be able to help break the sad news to your parent and before you do that, make sure you have a plan of what you intend to do within the 2years suspension.

Imagine if you use those two years to learn a trade or a skill.

Won't you look back and be proud of yourself?


Why can't such positive thoughts cross your mind instead of suicidal thoughts?

Be strong and tell your village people that they're not God.

Kunlebayo12:
I’m on the verge of being rusticated in school

October when I was writing my final exams, something happened just 1 day to end the exam. So me and my friend wrote on our question paper and we exchanged it between ourselves. When I was writing this initiator started searching everyone he got to me and he search me there was nothing on me, he search my booklet yet nothing, he ask me where is my question paper and I showed him just the front because it was the back we wrote on, when he saw it he flipped the back and saw the question paper and ask me who wrote this and what is all this I told him I wrote it with all the back and font he told me to sit down

Minute later he went outside and bought exam malpractice form and gave me and others those who were using chukuli, phones, book and other material to write.

I beg him that I wrote it, all pleading fell to deaf ear, when I saw he was yielding and time was going and no time to beg I just had to fill the paper. I filled it so I can beg him later so I would be able to write something

To get the long story short, 3 days later I was invigated to the student disciplinary board to explain what happened Which I did, I pleaded and beg that it won’t happen again, thry told me I will be punished but not expelled
In my school examination malpractice is straight expulsion no matter who you may know.

2 days later I got I call from my classrep that I was given 2years rustication. I called the Hod and course adviser and they said it true, I check the name of student expelled my name wasn’t there, I confirm from the student discplinary board and truly I was recommended 2 years suspension but the result will be out on February 17th this year, and when it out my student portal will be shutdown immediately

Even since then I have been sad, depressed and lonely and I can’t even tell my parents because they will be disappointed in me, I have been carrying a burden since early November and now it January, I have been thinking none stop, I have been contemplating suicide to be honest, I don’t pray this kind of situation for my worst enemies and those who haven’t been will never truly knows the pain it cause till you’re in the situation

Please i need help and words of encouragement
Even if you blame me, the dead has already been done, I Bleep up and I accepted my mistake

Please guys I’m dying In silence, I can’t even wait till February 17th, it killing me knowing few days to graduation I was rusticated, what will I tell my parent, or people that have help me one way or another in school. I’m devastated to be honest

I might be ending it any moment from now because this pain is unbearable for me, I just want it to end so I can live a normal life again but I can’t keep living like this. Ignore my typo error

Please someone should help me push it to front page

Oga weytin happen? Yours is a child play compared to what I pass through. I didn't end anything.
I graduated with 2:1 in accounting yet No result as in sku withheld my certificate. I gone back to Secondary school just to get science based SSCE.... I made the exam..... College of health......... I ve graduated in Medical laboratory science, waiting to write 2nd Pro exam.

Remember that my time from going to Secondary school....... Health Tec...... University...... Is far more than your 2 years.

Wait! Don't quit... Keep fighting..... Be strong........ Loot around you and do someone meaningful for your life during the waiting period.

Kunlebayo12:
I’m on the verge of being rusticated in school

October when I was writing my final exams, something happened just 1 day to end the exam. So me and my friend wrote on our question paper and we exchanged it between ourselves. When I was writing this initiator started searching everyone he got to me and he search me there was nothing on me, he search my booklet yet nothing, he ask me where is my question paper and I showed him just the front because it was the back we wrote on, when he saw it he flipped the back and saw the question paper and ask me who wrote this and what is all this I told him I wrote it with all the back and font he told me to sit down

Minute later he went outside and bought exam malpractice form and gave me and others those who were using chukuli, phones, book and other material to write.

I beg him that I wrote it, all pleading fell to deaf ear, when I saw he was yielding and time was going and no time to beg I just had to fill the paper. I filled it so I can beg him later so I would be able to write something

To get the long story short, 3 days later I was invigated to the student disciplinary board to explain what happened Which I did, I pleaded and beg that it won’t happen again, thry told me I will be punished but not expelled
In my school examination malpractice is straight expulsion no matter who you may know.

2 days later I got I call from my classrep that I was given 2years rustication. I called the Hod and course adviser and they said it true, I check the name of student expelled my name wasn’t there, I confirm from the student discplinary board and truly I was recommended 2 years suspension but the result will be out on February 17th this year, and when it out my student portal will be shutdown immediately

Even since then I have been sad, depressed and lonely and I can’t even tell my parents because they will be disappointed in me, I have been carrying a burden since early November and now it January, I have been thinking none stop, I have been contemplating suicide to be honest, I don’t pray this kind of situation for my worst enemies and those who haven’t been will never truly knows the pain it cause till you’re in the situation

Please i need help and words of encouragement
Even if you blame me, the dead has already been done, I Bleep up and I accepted my mistake

Please guys I’m dying In silence, I can’t even wait till February 17th, it killing me knowing few days to graduation I was rusticated, what will I tell my parent, or people that have help me one way or another in school. I’m devastated to be honest

I might be ending it any moment from now because this pain is unbearable for me, I just want it to end so I can live a normal life again but I can’t keep living like this. Ignore my typo error

Please someone should help me push it to front page

When my younger one was rusticated from Unilorin, he went through something very similar to what you’re facing now. We didn’t know in time, and he carried that burden all alone. When I eventually found out, my greatest relief was knowing that he never thought of ending his life.
Today, he is a graduate. He was even in his final year when it happened too.

My brother please never think of suicide. Life can change, even when it feels like everything is falling apart. Your parents may be hurt or worried, but losing you would leave a pain that nothing can replace. You matter, and this moment will not define your whole life.
If you were my son, right now I will hug you and tell you your life is just beginning. No one is above mistake and I will never judge you.

Kunlebayo12:
I’m on the verge of being rusticated in school

October when I was writing my final exams, something happened just 1 day to end the exam. So me and my friend wrote on our question paper and we exchanged it between ourselves. When I was writing this initiator started searching everyone he got to me and he search me there was nothing on me, he search my booklet yet nothing, he ask me where is my question paper and I showed him just the front because it was the back we wrote on, when he saw it he flipped the back and saw the question paper and ask me who wrote this and what is all this I told him I wrote it with all the back and font he told me to sit down

Minute later he went outside and bought exam malpractice form and gave me and others those who were using chukuli, phones, book and other material to write.

I beg him that I wrote it, all pleading fell to deaf ear, when I saw he was yielding and time was going and no time to beg I just had to fill the paper. I filled it so I can beg him later so I would be able to write something

To get the long story short, 3 days later I was invigated to the student disciplinary board to explain what happened Which I did, I pleaded and beg that it won’t happen again, thry told me I will be punished but not expelled
In my school examination malpractice is straight expulsion no matter who you may know.

2 days later I got I call from my classrep that I was given 2years rustication. I called the Hod and course adviser and they said it true, I check the name of student expelled my name wasn’t there, I confirm from the student discplinary board and truly I was recommended 2 years suspension but the result will be out on February 17th this year, and when it out my student portal will be shutdown immediately

Even since then I have been sad, depressed and lonely and I can’t even tell my parents because they will be disappointed in me, I have been carrying a burden since early November and now it January, I have been thinking none stop, I have been contemplating suicide to be honest, I don’t pray this kind of situation for my worst enemies and those who haven’t been will never truly knows the pain it cause till you’re in the situation

Please i need help and words of encouragement
Even if you blame me, the dead has already been done, I Bleep up and I accepted my mistake

Please guys I’m dying In silence, I can’t even wait till February 17th, it killing me knowing few days to graduation I was rusticated, what will I tell my parent, or people that have help me one way or another in school. I’m devastated to be honest

I might be ending it any moment from now because this pain is unbearable for me, I just want it to end so I can live a normal life again but I can’t keep living like this. Ignore my typo error

Please someone should help me push it to front page

You should have involved your parents before it went this far. Its not too late to tell your parent

Rustication isnt the end of the world...Mr Macaroni was rusticated, started all over in another school, graduated n served. He's doing well for himself

Ending it will put your parent in a life time sorrow and I am sure you don't wish them that

U

Kunlebayo12:
I’m on the verge of being rusticated in school

October when I was writing my final exams, something happened just 1 day to end the exam. So me and my friend wrote on our question paper and we exchanged it between ourselves. When I was writing this initiator started searching everyone he got to me and he search me there was nothing on me, he search my booklet yet nothing, he ask me where is my question paper and I showed him just the front because it was the back we wrote on, when he saw it he flipped the back and saw the question paper and ask me who wrote this and what is all this I told him I wrote it with all the back and font he told me to sit down

Minute later he went outside and bought exam malpractice form and gave me and others those who were using chukuli, phones, book and other material to write.

I beg him that I wrote it, all pleading fell to deaf ear, when I saw he was yielding and time was going and no time to beg I just had to fill the paper. I filled it so I can beg him later so I would be able to write something

To get the long story short, 3 days later I was invigated to the student disciplinary board to explain what happened Which I did, I pleaded and beg that it won’t happen again, thry told me I will be punished but not expelled
In my school examination malpractice is straight expulsion no matter who you may know.

2 days later I got I call from my classrep that I was given 2years rustication. I called the Hod and course adviser and they said it true, I check the name of student expelled my name wasn’t there, I confirm from the student discplinary board and truly I was recommended 2 years suspension but the result will be out on February 17th this year, and when it out my student portal will be shutdown immediately

Even since then I have been sad, depressed and lonely and I can’t even tell my parents because they will be disappointed in me, I have been carrying a burden since early November and now it January, I have been thinking none stop, I have been contemplating suicide to be honest, I don’t pray this kind of situation for my worst enemies and those who haven’t been will never truly knows the pain it cause till you’re in the situation

Please i need help and words of encouragement
Even if you blame me, the dead has already been done, I Bleep up and I accepted my mistake

Please guys I’m dying In silence, I can’t even wait till February 17th, it killing me knowing few days to graduation I was rusticated, what will I tell my parent, or people that have help me one way or another in school. I’m devastated to be honest

I might be ending it any moment from now because this pain is unbearable for me, I just want it to end so I can live a normal life again but I can’t keep living like this. Ignore my typo error

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it's not the end of the world. Use those 2years to go learn a vital skill. Find a good plumber who does commercial/residential plumbing big time and demonstrate willingness to learn. Do the same with any other skill you are interested in if you don't like plumbing.
There will be plenty of time to go to school later.

My sister got distracted in school and was asked to withdraw due to low gpa. This was the advice i gave her. She learnt tailoring first from a local shop and after graduating from there, she went to upskill and learn the business side of it from a popular fashion designer in an upscale area of the city. Today, she's very successful as a tailor. She's a financially independent woman. If she decides to go back to school today, she would choose a course based on her business needs, not just certificate.

This is really sad. I understand what you must be going through, and I pray that God will make a way for you.

Something similar happened to me when I was in secondary school during my NECO exams. Some students always had access to the question papers before the exam. I was unfortunate enough to see the Chemistry objective questions ahead of time, and I wrote the answers lightly in pencil at the back of my exam slip. I used those answers during the Chemistry exam and later erased them carefully.

On the day of the English exam, the questions also leaked, but because I was confident in my English, I wasn’t interested. I studied hard and went into the exam hall prepared. However, since the exam was objective, many students who had seen the questions finished and submitted within 10 minutes—an exam meant to last over an hour. This raised the invigilators’ suspicion.

They began checking the exam slips of students who submitted early, and once they found answers written on some slips, they started checking everyone’s. I didn’t even realize what was happening until an invigilator came to my desk and demanded my exam slip. If I had known, I would have said I misplaced it. Even though I had erased the Chemistry answers, he noticed that something had been cleaned off. He seized my question paper and asked me to fill a malpractice form.

I had only spent about 17 minutes in an exam meant to last 1 hour and 15 minutes. I begged, but he refused. That was how I was escorted out of the hall with several others. It was English—a compulsory subject. The embarrassment was overwhelming, especially because I was a bright student, not dull at all. I became depressed and prayed earnestly to God.

I was still allowed to sit for the orals and theory papers, but I had already resigned myself to retaking NECO. However, God showed Himself faithful. I passed all my papers in WAEC with Bs and Cs. Coming from a unity school, out of about 350 students in my set, fewer than 30 of us passed all subjects, including English and Mathematics. That same year, I gained admission into the university.

I didn’t even need the NECO result again, but when it eventually came out, my papers were not seized, and I had a C6 in English. That experience taught me that the mistakes of yesterday can still catch up with you today. I remain deeply grateful to God.

I pray that God will see you through this situation and bring you out stronger.

Kunlebayo12:
I’m on the verge of being rusticated in school

October when I was writing my final exams, something happened just 1 day to end the exam. So me and my friend wrote on our question paper and we exchanged it between ourselves. When I was writing this initiator started searching everyone he got to me and he search me there was nothing on me, he search my booklet yet nothing, he ask me where is my question paper and I showed him just the front because it was the back we wrote on, when he saw it he flipped the back and saw the question paper and ask me who wrote this and what is all this I told him I wrote it with all the back and font he told me to sit down

Minute later he went outside and bought exam malpractice form and gave me and others those who were using chukuli, phones, book and other material to write.

I beg him that I wrote it, all pleading fell to deaf ear, when I saw he was yielding and time was going and no time to beg I just had to fill the paper. I filled it so I can beg him later so I would be able to write something

To get the long story short, 3 days later I was invigated to the student disciplinary board to explain what happened Which I did, I pleaded and beg that it won’t happen again, thry told me I will be punished but not expelled
In my school examination malpractice is straight expulsion no matter who you may know.

2 days later I got I call from my classrep that I was given 2years rustication. I called the Hod and course adviser and they said it true, I check the name of student expelled my name wasn’t there, I confirm from the student discplinary board and truly I was recommended 2 years suspension but the result will be out on February 17th this year, and when it out my student portal will be shutdown immediately
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If you make most of the 2 years useful. When you come back you'll be better than your other colleagues.
I use almost 10 years do one course.
Academics added almost nothing to my life apart from waste of time.
Make use of your time out of school and go back to round up as a successful guy.

Sorry about this, and I will advise you to start some form of professional certification to run for the next 2 years, so that you are academically and mentally engaged

Kunlebayo12:
I’m on the verge of being rusticated in school

October when I was writing my final exams, something happened just 1 day to end the exam. So me and my friend wrote on our question paper and we exchanged it between ourselves. When I was writing this initiator started searching everyone he got to me and he search me there was nothing on me, he search my booklet yet nothing, he ask me where is my question paper and I showed him just the front because it was the back we wrote on, when he saw it he flipped the back and saw the question paper and ask me who wrote this and what is all this I told him I wrote it with all the back and font he told me to sit down

Minute later he went outside and bought exam malpractice form and gave me and others those who were using chukuli, phones, book and other material to write.

I beg him that I wrote it, all pleading fell to deaf ear, when I saw he was yielding and time was going and no time to beg I just had to fill the paper. I filled it so I can beg him later so I would be able to write something

To get the long story short, 3 days later I was invigated to the student disciplinary board to explain what happened Which I did, I pleaded and beg that it won’t happen again, thry told me I will be punished but not expelled
In my school examination malpractice is straight expulsion no matter who you may know.

2 days later I got I call from my classrep that I was given 2years rustication. I called the Hod and course adviser and they said it true, I check the name of student expelled my name wasn’t there, I confirm from the student discplinary board and truly I was recommended 2 years suspension but the result will be out on February 17th this year, and when it out my student portal will be shutdown immediately

Even since then I have been sad, depressed and lonely and I can’t even tell my parents because they will be disappointed in me, I have been carrying a burden since early November and now it January, I have been thinking none stop, I have been contemplating suicide to be honest, I don’t pray this kind of situation for my worst enemies and those who haven’t been will never truly knows the pain it cause till you’re in the situation

Please i need help and words of encouragement
Even if you blame me, the dead has already been done, I Bleep up and I accepted my mistake

Please guys I’m dying In silence, I can’t even wait till February 17th, it killing me knowing few days to graduation I was rusticated, what will I tell my parent, or people that have help me one way or another in school. I’m devastated to be honest

I might be ending it any moment from now because this pain is unbearable for me, I just want it to end so I can live a normal life again but I can’t keep living like this. Ignore my typo error

Please someone should help me push it to front page

You won’t be the first nor the last…the true is that is now you need your family support the most and probably 1 or 2 trusted friends who will stand by you…I was suspended 2024…it’s has been 2 years of agony but 2026 this will over as I will be rewriting the course this year…it’s not a place to be at all…be strong it will come to pass.

Kunlebayo12:
I’m on the verge of being rusticated in school

October when I was writing my final exams, something happened just 1 day to end the exam. So me and my friend wrote on our question paper and we exchanged it between ourselves. When I was writing this initiator started searching everyone he got to me and he search me there was nothing on me, he search my booklet yet nothing, he ask me where is my question paper and I showed him just the front because it was the back we wrote on, when he saw it he flipped the back and saw the question paper and ask me who wrote this and what is all this I told him I wrote it with all the back and font he told me to sit down

Minute later he went outside and bought exam malpractice form and gave me and others those who were using chukuli, phones, book and other material to write.

I beg him that I wrote it, all pleading fell to deaf ear, when I saw he was yielding and time was going and no time to beg I just had to fill the paper. I filled it so I can beg him later so I would be able to write something

To get the long story short, 3 days later I was invigated to the student disciplinary board to explain what happened Which I did, I pleaded and beg that it won’t happen again, thry told me I will be punished but not expelled
In my school examination malpractice is straight expulsion no matter who you may know.

2 days later I got I call from my classrep that I was given 2years rustication. I called the Hod and course adviser and they said it true, I check the name of student expelled my name wasn’t there, I confirm from the student discplinary board and truly I was recommended 2 years suspension but the result will be out on February 17th this year, and when it out my student portal will be shutdown immediately

Even since then I have been sad, depressed and lonely and I can’t even tell my parents because they will be disappointed in me, I have been carrying a burden since early November and now it January, I have been thinking none stop, I have been contemplating suicide to be honest, I don’t pray this kind of situation for my worst enemies and those who haven’t been will never truly knows the pain it cause till you’re in the situation

Please i need help and words of encouragement
Even if you blame me, the dead has already been done, I Bleep up and I accepted my mistake

Please guys I’m dying In silence, I can’t even wait till February 17th, it killing me knowing few days to graduation I was rusticated, what will I tell my parent, or people that have help me one way or another in school. I’m devastated to be honest

I might be ending it any moment from now because this pain is unbearable for me, I just want it to end so I can live a normal life again but I can’t keep living like this. Ignore my typo error

Please someone should help me push it to front page

Well, this ancestor would be disappointed in you if you truly went ahead to take ya life. What kind of nonsense talk is you're contemplating suicide? Over what? Ordinary rustication?


Are you that weak? Are you even comfortable to give ya loved ones such pain because of a nonsense excuse of avoiding rustication?


How old are you boy?

Don't let ya predecessors down and even if you want to give up, na ordinary rustication or the problems that comes with it will make you give up?

Are you a mumu descendant?

Get sense and save ya father's tears... The man go cry cry he never cry for ages if you stupidly do that.

Let everything take it's course and plan ya revenge... Let ya revenge be getting and making yasef better than those who did their years in school complete. Employ them and eob it in their face. That's ya revenge..

You dey boring pass me sef... Yéyé child

E sure me say you still be small boy

During my time , my project supervisor said I must pay 150k or no project

I choose no project
Cos I. Was already regretting wasting my 7. Years studying a useless course under useless lecturers.


I face my. Life
Leavee them. Behind