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| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by vicfajeze: 7:04am On Jan 09 |
Please, don't kill your self, God will see you through |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by DeGLORIOUS: 7:21am On Jan 09 |
use the two years to learn a skills instead of thinking of suicide. This may be God in action in your life, who knows? I always say that had it been God normally answer us the way we pray, some of us for don kpai. I have faced countless unfortunate and unpleasant situations which I thought I have lost it all but at the end, it's always a blessing in disguise. This life is what it is. Forget the shame. Face your fears and face the reality without any doubt or fear. Learn a skill. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Mandesz(m): 7:27am On Jan 09 |
My candid advice. If truly u were expelled, use the two yrs to learn any lucrative work. Don't tell anyone u got rusticated until when the two yrs elapses or after u graduate. So make sure the two yrs is in your favor.Thank me later Kunlebayo12: |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Yorubademon001: 7:28am On Jan 09 |
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| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by DMCA: 7:31am On Jan 09 |
Kunlebayo12:go and rest for 2 years and come back to repeat final year. 0loodo ![]() |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Dannyjince: 7:56am On Jan 09 |
So because of empty, sometimes useless Nigerian school certificate that you might not even use in the future, you want to kpai yourself. Okay. Go ahead. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by sonofanarchy(m): 7:59am On Jan 09 |
Kunlebayo12:Use this 2 years suspension, go grab an online skill, I will advise you learn cloud computing and devops. It's a demand skill and by the time you're back, your remaining semester will be flawless 😉. If you want to learn shoot me a message I will guide you. I'm willing to help you. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by ridwintin89(m): 8:01am On Jan 09 |
The worst mistake you might committed is by killing yourself, because of two years suspension. My guy,you need to man up. Education does not determine your level of success. I can tell you that certificate is even what limits some people from their success. How many billionaires are graduates or professors. Bill Gates is a school drop out. Please make yourself happy. Look for Job to manage and forget that school for now. A colleague of mine left my department when he supposed to be in 500L back to 200L in another department because of his GP level That guy is now living well in Canada. I am in Nigeria still managing 200k salary with stress. See don't let education be a major factor in your life, always think outside the box for success. I understand what you might be thinking because of your level. But maturity is only when you can manage pains and emotion challenges. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by 7upnigeria: 8:02am On Jan 09 |
Kunlebayo12:Pls dont do it. I know someone who has graduated since 2010 and still struggling to feed as I type. He's not married and lives with a friend even after over 40 years. And I know a course mate of ours who had extra year who is now a CEO of a Real Estate company. I'll advise you use the time to develop some skill and ensure you arrive at your graduation in two years time as a CEO or probably with your OWN CAR. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Crowntop94: 8:19am On Jan 09 |
J Kunlebayo12:Bro please don't kill yourself oo, by that February 17 you will come back here to give testimony. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by hope4nigeria(m): 8:29am On Jan 09 |
Kunlebayo12:Calm down, thank God it's two years suspension not rusticating, I graduated with Secondclass upper since 2008, I never use the certificate to get Job, but today with my personal hustle, I'm far better than those with good jobs, just that the certificate is very important, good and engage your self in something profitable and let your family know about your predicament, ignore whatever criticism and move on with life. You will be better of your current mate. Your mindset is very important at this time |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Bananapill: 8:32am On Jan 09 |
Kunlebayo12:Face am with your chest. I had a friend who was rusticated and he went to another school and graduated. I hail am as odogwu because I bo go fit do am. Get some very good tech skills during this two years and you will return to school as a big boy. Collect your certificate and move abroad. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by skedy1(m): 8:52am On Jan 09 |
Kunlebayo12:It's a natural phenomenon to feel that way, I feel your pain. But trust me, two years is nothing Just use it to learn a skill and better your life. However, reach out to the comment that demanded your details. Let's keep hope alive! All the best man |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Chykason(m): 9:54am On Jan 09 |
Kunlebayo12:Thinking of ending it is wrong. People are passing through worst things and have not given up. Do not take your life please. It will cause x10 grief for them. Just two years. What of those that wrote JAMB for 5 years? What of those that were expelled and they’re still living? I know someone that was expelled in our final year but got another admission and started from year one again and finished to become a graduate now. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Yemmysworld91: 10:10am On Jan 09 |
Kunlebayo12:Get up bro. Don't kill yourself. I know it's not easy but it's not the end of the world. You've got it and you will be fine |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by DamoclesCandles: 12:29pm On Jan 09 |
It may seem hopeless now, but it's not the end of the world. Everyone will tell you the same thing and it's true. If you're rusticated, you'll go back, finish your education, graduate and move on with life. In 5 years, no one will remember. Just ensure your grind hard when you're back to school, you want to graduate with good grades so it'll help catch up with your peers. You also don't want to be the loser with extra years in school who is also broke so use the time away to hustle like mad. Going back to school will be embarassing but going back with financial independence will soften the blow. You will be fine, no fear. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by joshkke(m): 12:39pm On Jan 09 |
Champions learn from their mistakes and grow stronger. You failed briefly but you have the rest of your life to grow stronger and better. Two years is not forever. Cheer up. May GOD be with you. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Ahmeddedon(m): 1:59pm On Jan 09 |
My guy no dey thing anyhow, dis life we come with nothing and we are going going with nothing except our deeds, just focus..tell ur people u get 1 or 2 carry overs, go back to ur sch environment and learn hand work..believe me u will not regret |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Eriokanmi: 2:30pm On Jan 09 |
AngelicBeing:You can say that again. The most shocking thing was, the moment those lecturers were on me, the one leaning on the window caught another person from afar and asked him to stand up. We called him papa in class because he was advanced in age. He was expelled without constituting a panel for him. It could have been me. I'd forever be grateful to God for His mercy. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by AngelicBeing: 3:00pm On Jan 09 |
Eriokanmi:Chai |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by TheGreat99(m): 3:02pm On Jan 09 |
Hope nor be prayer things? dawnomike: |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by iamL(f): 3:39pm On Jan 09 |
TheGreat99:🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by kamtrix(m): 3:56pm On Jan 09 |
No fear, it will all work out for good by God's grace. But never again practise such. Kunlebayo12: |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by YoungBlackRico(m): 4:41pm On Jan 09 |
Mtchewwww |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by JusticeMakoshi(m): 5:36pm On Jan 09 |
Not the end, cheer up and be hopeful. learn a profitable skill and start earning. Stay strong |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by mekusmanuel(f): 7:31pm On Jan 09 |
Brother, the deed has been done. I sincerely apathetize with you. Don't act anything stupid, please. Tell your parents. They need to know of the situation on ground and even know how to help if they could. Honestly, Nigeria education system no dey favour again oo. See it as God's doing probably for you to chart another cause inij fe or learn new things. Please take heart. It's well. Nobody died. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by yommysure(m): 8:03pm On Jan 09 |
I can relate with your experience very well. It was my final year exam..500level. I faced sdc at my faculty and senate chamber.. I narrowly escaped. Thank you God 🙏 Thank you God🙏 |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by jayriginal: 8:23pm On Jan 09 |
Kunlebayo12:Dont try it. Hang in there, there are worst things than a rustication that you could go through. Life is full of setbacks and you need to keep pulling yourself together each time you run into an obstacle. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by The10G: 5:07pm On Jan 10 |
occfx:Omo no be lie oh |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by frozen70(f): 11:43pm On Jan 10 |
Kunlebayo12:Pls calm down, life did not end with the suspension Tell your mum what you are passing through and let them see that you are very sober about it They will definitely be angry but you have to man up Use that two years to develop yourself in other areas of your life The two years will be over and you will bounce back You are still better than those that were expelled |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Abcruz(m): 2:19pm On Jan 11 |
Kunlebayo12:Calm down bro! I know how it feels cos I've repeated a level in school before though not due to malpractice. I didn't kill myself over it despite the emotional trauma I faced then and here I am today still pushing on. So why should you? It's painful but the deed has already been done and you just have to re-strategize your life. This isn't the end bro, there's a bright future ahead of you so don't bury yourself in a hurry. You'll regret it if you do! I'll advice that you learn a digital skill that you're passionate about and grow your online presence through LinkedIn. 2 years will pass by like 2 months if you're busy with something profitable. |
| Re: Rusticated In My Final Year In School. Help Please by Alex4555(m): 4:22pm On Jan 16 |
[quote author=The10G post=138063301]See this boy! Contemplating suicide keh. Look, imagine all that troubles and when you are through with university and NYSC and unemployed. That's when you'll realise you cheated yourself. Leave the young man All his life he's been serving people First his parent,then his school and society and never experience life on his term. This is one way God is telling you to recreate yourself man. |
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