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Good evening ladies and gentlemen!
I'm bringing this controversial argument which has rattled most of our men by denying lai lai they're not working for or bcus of women.
Back in the early 90s when I just started secondary schooling.
I heard this statement from a senior figure "All the money wey we men dey work for na bcus of women".
Back then I really don't understand or get it. But growing up and fully matured with my senses intact. I tend to believe the saying.
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Call me a sissy, simp or whatever. Na you get your mouth. If you like continue to dey deny am, but it's a fact.
Now let me give you indices into why it's so.
As a man, you're not making money for your fellow man but for women to be running after you.
First of, some guys will say me I no dey spend for woman. If woman visit you, at all at all you go buy bottle water. Make God no let poverty hold us where we no go fit afford c'mon bottle water or soft drink for our female visitor.
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Ok, it happens you couldn't afford that bottle water. The lady in question will get angry that ordinary water you can't afford. And may not come to your place again. What will you now do to make her come again. Is it not to hustle and make sure you can afford more than bottle water. Will your guy or fellow man stop coming bcus of that, nope. In this case you went to hustle hard to please that woman.
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You want to start dating now that will lead to marriage. If you no get money, nothing for you. Shebi na to go hustle hard make she for no leave you for anoda guy.
Even after marriage, no matter how she love you reach. Once money no dey and you stop taking care of her, doubt go begin dey inside her. For her not to begin get doubt for you and start looking outside, you go wan double your hustle to please her. In this case who you dey work for? Woman.
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I hear many people like my padi Sonnobax saying lai lai I no dey work for any banny. Another person even said before he met her he has father, mother and siblings to spend his money on. And I reply him, will you live or stay with them forever. Eventually everyone will forged his or her part and that your own woman will be the centre of everything. Nobody said you won't spend on your extended family, but your main priority will later be your woman and children.
If you say you just want a child and nothing. If you no take care of that woman well, she no go open for you to enter wey go make you get that pikin.
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I have done this experiment many atimes by asking guys, will you accept #1b but on the condition of you will never sleep with a woman or even masturbate again.
I always get over 70% of guys who say they can't, and I for one too will never accept that offer. What's life without women, except you're a gay.
And again, I asked. How do you feel if you're a billionaire and not even one female look your side? Happy or worried? If you will be worried, that means you're hustling for money to get women attention.
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Lastly! This goes to women too, all your make ups, nyash and breast uplifting. Dressing well and what not are for we men. Take it or leave it, it goes both ways.
I rest my case and will accept constructive arguments with no insult.
Kobojunkie, you're needed here.
And mods, if it pleases you guys, you can move it to front page let's get more opinions and clarity. Thank you.

Bro,you no try at all..

Why you dey invite native hen to come derail your thread all in the name of argument?

Person wey her sexxual libido depends on the amount of arguments wey she win for a week

As for your post,bro,we don talk this thing before........ As a man,if your major reason for hustling to make money is to impress any banny,then ,it's very obvious that you've failed both your ancestors and your descendants in advance

Be like you no get family wey you love o. Who women help. My hustle na to make Mumsee and my siblings enjoy the best of life.

Then priority goes to wifey and kids once them come

Kalulu44:
Good evening ladies and gentlemen!
I'm bringing this controversial argument which has rattled most of our men by denying lai lai they're not working for or bcus of women.
Back in the early 90s when I just started secondary schooling.
I heard this statement from a senior figure "All the money wey we men dey work for na bcus of women".
Back then I really don't understand or get it. But growing up and fully matured with my senses intact. I tend to believe the saying.
.
Call me a sissy, simp or whatever. Na you get your mouth. If you like continue to dey deny am, but it's a fact.
Now let me give you indices into why it's so.
As a man, you're not making money for your fellow man but for women to be running after you.
First of, some guys will say me I no dey spend for woman. If woman visit you, at all at all you go buy bottle water. Make God no let poverty hold us where we no go fit afford c'mon bottle water or soft drink for our female visitor.
.
Ok, it happens you couldn't afford that bottle water. The lady in question will get angry that ordinary water you can't afford. And may not come to your place again. What will you now do to make her come again. Is it not to hustle and make sure you can afford more than bottle water. Will your guy or fellow man stop coming bcus of that, nope. In this case you went to hustle hard to please that woman.
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You want to start dating now that will lead to marriage. If you no get money, nothing for you. Shebi na to go hustle hard make she for no leave you for anoda guy.
Even after marriage, no matter how she love you reach. Once money no dey and you stop taking care of her, doubt go begin dey inside her. For her not to begin get doubt for you and start looking outside, you go wan double your hustle to please her. In this case who you dey work for? Woman.
.
I hear many people like my padi Sonnobax saying lai lai I no dey work for any banny. Another person even said before he met her he has father, mother and siblings to spend his money on. And I reply him, will you live or stay with them forever. Eventually everyone will forged his or her part and that your own woman will be the centre of everything. Nobody said you won't spend on your extended family, but your main priority will later be your woman and children.
If you say you just want a child and nothing. If you no take care of that woman well, she no go open for you to enter wey go make you get that pikin.
.
I have done this experiment many atimes by asking guys, will you accept #1b but on the condition of you will never sleep with a woman or even masturbate again.
I always get over 70% of guys who say they can't, and I for one too will never accept that offer. What's life without women, except you're a gay.
And again, I asked. How do you feel if you're a billionaire and not even one female look your side? Happy or worried? If you will be worried, that means you're hustling for money to get women attention.
.
Lastly! This goes to women too, all your make ups, nyash and breast uplifting. Dressing well and what not are for we men. Take it or leave it, it goes both ways.
I rest my case and will accept constructive arguments with no insult.
Kobojunkie, you're needed here.
And mods, if it pleases you guys, you can move it to front page let's get more opinions and clarity. Thank you.

Dangote, burna boy ,BUA are not married.

this things has been troubling me for so long, I kept thinking about why am I suffering and hustling to make money?and I kept getting this answer =food and sex.

Sonnobax15:

Bro,you no try at all..

Why you dey invite native hen to come derail your thread all in the name of argument?

Person wey her sexxual libido depends on the amount of arguments wey she win for a week

As for your post,bro,we don talk this thing before........ As a man,if your major reason for hustling to make money is to impress any banny,then ,it's very obvious that you've failed both your ancestors and your descendants in advance

what should be the main reason for hustling?

Educationalserv:
Dangote, burna boy ,BUA are not married.

Yes, but they are phucking. Or is it not Dangote a lady release his almost naked butt some years ago in a hotel room abroad.
Or is it not Burna Boy whose guys shot a man in a night club bcus his woman refused his advances.
Burna Boy's own ought to even give you the idea it's bcus of women he's hustling for the fame and money. Bcus he was shocked the lady snub him even as a superstar he's

Sonnobax15:

Bro,you no try at all..

Why you dey invite native hen to come derail your thread all in the name of argument?

Person wey her sexxual libido depends on the amount of arguments wey she win for a week

As for your post,bro,we don talk this thing before........ As a man,if your major reason for hustling to make money is to impress any banny,then ,it's very obvious that you've failed both your ancestors and your descendants in advance

Lolz, my guy leave Kobojunkie for me o.
And as for your take, you still haven't given me any constructive reason for your argument. I laid down some reasons why I think so, and I expect you to tackle those reasons

Stephen0mozzy:
Be like you no get family wey you love o. Who women help. My hustle na to make Mumsee and my siblings enjoy the best of life.

Then priority goes to wifey and kids once them come

Hahahaha, same thing I said above nah. You would have just focus on mumsie and your siblings forever without thinking about them women. What you just said means, at the end it will still come down to getting a woman

always247:
this things has been troubling me for so long, I kept thinking about why am I suffering and hustling to make money?and I kept getting this answer =food and sex.

Hahahaha, Bros it's a good thinking and it's what its

always247:
what should be the main reason for hustling?

Thank you for the question. I expect him to tackle the examples I gave above

Kalulu44:
Hahahaha, same thing I said above nah. You would have just focus on mumsie and your siblings forever without thinking about them women. What you just said means, at the end it will still come down to getting a woman

Man gast get woman to start family na; but say hustling just to impress woman or to dey pack woman upandan because of say I wan feel big? I go rather use the money open basketball court for near village market, boss,

This is why you were giving 20pct of your earnings to a girl that doesn't even send you as monthly allowance

Stephen0mozzy:
Man gast get woman to start family na; but say hustling just to impress woman or to dey pack woman upandan because of say I wan feel big? I go rather use the money open basketball court for near village market, boss,

You hear wetin you talk. Man gast get woman to start family. That's the very essence of this post. I'm not talking about womanizing here.
Now when it comes to start that family with that woman, if you no hold your side shey dem go look your way.
Na the main thing wey I dey talk be that. You go must hustle so dem go look your side and from there you go choose one. And after choosing that one, you go still dey hustle hard to impress her, true or false?

Honestly, what did I just read? It’s like some people need a wake-up call: you can’t buy “love”. If you try, you’re just going to end up losing. We shouldn't be out here hustling just to impress women; we hustle to make an impact and take care of what matters.

When it comes to my own relationships, I’m pretty intentional. If I’m giving my girlfriend something, it’s usually on the same level as what I’d give my nephew—standard, thoughtful stuff. Anything beyond "suya money" or small gestures requires a real conversation. Most of the women I date know I’m big on budgeting and long-term planning. You can’t just demand cash and expect it the same day; it has to make sense, or it’s a no.


That’s how men should be thinking. Build your wealth to improve yourself. If a lady is in your life, treat her well, but keep the generosity on par with how you’d treat a good friend. Keep the focus on your own lane.

Kalulu44:
You hear wetin you talk. Man gast get woman to start family. That's the very essence of this post. I'm not talking about womanizing here.
Now when it comes to start that family with that woman, if you no hold your side shey dem go look your way.
Na the main thing wey I dey talk be that. You go must hustle so dem go look your side and from there you go choose one. And after choosing that one, you go still dey hustle hard to impress her, true or false?

False! Your hustle no fit keep anybody because if she Dey there for the money, when the money finish, she fit leave you or if another “odogwu” enter picture.

If person decide to start family today na with woman wey fit align with him purpose no be any body. Any woman wey no fit Dey follow you build your table no suppose chop from am. Abeg make we use our head na new year be this. No give any lady pass Wetin you fit give your nigga because if you think say your “hustle” go keep am, just pray make you reach dangote or wizkid. Even at that if you level her up, she fit Dey find Elon musk sef.

A man hustling solely for a woman has no priorities and purpose.

Yes, the society has placed men with the burden of doing most of the provision and you can't provide without money but your purpose/goals in life should be why you grind because you can't achieve tangible things in life without money.

Maybe there are a majority of men who hustle for women but then there are also a minority that no longer hold that expectations over their lifes.

Kalulu44:
I have done this experiment many atimes by asking guys, will you accept #1b but on the condition of you will never sleep with a woman or even masturbate again.
I always get over 70% of guys who say they can't, and I for one too will never accept that offer.

See, masturbation should not be there as it is personal like scratching after mosquito bites.

So redo the survey, let's see how guys would answer.

Kalulu44:
Lastly! This goes to women too, all your make ups, nyash and breast uplifting. Dressing well and what not are for we men. Take it or leave it, it goes both ways.
I rest my case

This one is settled. Women are naturally in the fornication for money business with men and they will always be involved in it.

Educationalserv:
Dangote, burna boy ,BUA are not married.

All of them carry women

Kalulu44:
I'm not talking about womanizing here...

Your headline, said women.

Women, means womanizing

Stephen0mozzy:
Be like you no get family wey you love o. Who women help. My hustle na to make Mumsee and my siblings enjoy the best of life.

Then priority goes to wifey and kids once them come

you Neva still learn

Tenrack:
you Neva still learn

So because you wan be hard man, you no go take care of the woman wey born your children? You no go equip the woman wey go fit carry the responsibility of making sure your children have the best of life if anything happens to you?

Na una get problem with woman and wives, me no get. E no get who me love reach all the women in my life.
If bad behaviour naim be the learning, i nor wan learn.

Stephen0mozzy:
So because you wan be hard man, you no go take care of the woman wey born your children? You no go equip the woman wey go fit carry the responsibility of making sure your children have the best of life if anything happens to you?

Na una get problem with woman and wives, me no get. E no get who me love reach all the women in my life.
If bad behaviour naim be the learning, i nor wan learn.

Okay na. Open yourself up to your wife. You think say the women of today are the same with our mother's? No sha say dem no warn you. Prioritize yourself and your kid. No prioritize any woman. If you like call me hard man. It's the bitter truth. Only your mum deserves that kind of priority. Your wife no go prioritize you like that.

You lie Satan ...My money is for my well being and confidence.

Dtruthspeaker:
Your headline, said women.

Women, means womanizing

I put women bcus I am talking about men.
A man to a woman is not womanizing, but he's working for that woman, and it may also be plenty women too

Dtruthspeaker:
See, masturbation should not be there as it is personal like scratching after mosquito bites.

So redo the survey, let's see how guys would answer.



This one is settled. Women are naturally in the fornication for money business with men and they will always be involved in it.

Hahahaha, you want me to re do that survey?
I too will go for the money if masturbating is allowed. But at the end, women are temptation. With that kind of money they'll be flocking around you and you are bound to fall.

SpencerForbes:
False! Your hustle no fit keep anybody because if she Dey there for the money, when the money finish, she fit leave you or if another “odogwu” enter picture.

If person decide to start family today na with woman wey fit align with him purpose no be any body. Any woman wey no fit Dey follow you build your table no suppose chop from am. Abeg make we use our head na new year be this. No give any lady pass Wetin you fit give your nigga because if you think say your “hustle” go keep am, just pray make you reach dangote or wizkid. Even at that if you level her up, she fit Dey find Elon musk sef.

And you're also mistaking if you think love alone will keep her if you don't hustle for the money.

Tenrack:
Okay na. Open yourself up to your wife. You think say the women of today are the same with our mother's? No sha say dem no warn you. Prioritize yourself and your kid. No prioritize any woman. If you like call me hard man. It's the bitter truth. Only your mum deserves that kind of priority. Your wife no go prioritize you like that.

Every mallam with him kettle boss. 🙏🏾

Kalulu44:
And you're also mistaking if you think love alone will keep her if you don't hustle for the money.

Why bother trying to keep someone who clearly doesn’t want to stay? You can’t force a connection, man. You’re the one who sets the bar for your own life—YOU ARE THE STANDARD!!!. She’s either all in or she’s out. You decide what you’re willing to give, and if she isn’t vibing with that, it’s time to LET HER GO.

Let’s be real: there are plenty of women out there, and they don’t all think the same way. When one leaves, someone else will come along who actually appreciates what you bring to the table. You’re the PRIZE here, and you’re the one steering the ship in any relationship you’re in.

I’ve reached a point where I value myself too much to settle. I’ve taken sex off the pedestal because, honestly, that’s easy to find these days. Now, when I’m talking to a woman, I’m looking at what else she actually brings to my life. I’m perfectly fine being single for months until I find someone who’s actually worth my time. If she’s going to be in my space, she has to offer more than just the basics.

SpencerForbes:
Why bother trying to keep someone who clearly doesn’t want to stay? You can’t force a connection, man. You’re the one who sets the bar for your own life—YOU ARE THE STANDARD!!!. She’s either all in or she’s out. You decide what you’re willing to give, and if she isn’t vibing with that, it’s time to LET HER GO.

Let’s be real: there are plenty of women out there, and they don’t all think the same way. When one leaves, someone else will come along who actually appreciates what you bring to the table. You’re the PRIZE here, and you’re the one steering the ship in any relationship you’re in.

I’ve reached a point where I value myself too much to settle. I’ve taken sex off the pedestal because, honestly, that’s easy to find these days. Now, when I’m talking to a woman, I’m looking at what else she actually brings to my life. I’m perfectly fine being single for months until I find someone who’s actually worth my time. If she’s going to be in my space, she has to offer more than just the basics.

Hahahaha, both of us or should I say you're still running round a circle. You said sex is easy to find these days, no doubt about that. But is it for free, answer that.
You marry o, you don't marry o. You will still find sex, and who will make you have sex? Women. Is it for free nope. Since it's not free, will you have sex if you don't have money? And to have money, won't you hustle.

Kalulu44:
Hahahaha, both of us or should I say you're still running round a circle. You said sex is easy to find these days, no doubt about that. But is it for free, answer that.
You marry o, you don't marry o. You will still find sex, and who will make you have sex? Women. Is it for free nope. Since it's not free, will you have sex if you don't have money? And to have money, won't you hustle.

The main difference between us is our focus. You’re out here hustling specifically for women, while I’m hustling for my future and giving them the bare minimum. When someone is dating me, they don’t get to make demands. I prefer dating women who have their own thing going on. They don’t need my money, but because I’m a naturally generous guy, I’ll send a little something for "suya" or small treats once in a while—the same way I do for anyone close to me. She’s a part of my life, but she isn't the priority.

Hustling just for women is honestly below par. I’m working to build a legacy and make sure the people I care about are good. If a woman fits into that vision, cool, but she doesn't become a major factor until she’s proven herself and invested in the relationship too. And as for sex, it’s everywhere and cheap these days; even the "packaged" ones are desperate for a bit of cash. Focus on your purpose first. If a lady fits, she fits, but never make her the center of your world
like your topic implies.

SpencerForbes:
The main difference between us is our focus. You’re out here hustling specifically for women, while I’m hustling for my future and giving them the bare minimum. When someone is dating me, they don’t get to make demands. I prefer dating women who have their own thing going on. They don’t need my money, but because I’m a naturally generous guy, I’ll send a little something for "suya" or small treats once in a while—the same way I do for anyone close to me. She’s a part of my life, but she isn't the priority.

Hustling just for women is honestly below par. I’m working to build a legacy and make sure the people I care about are good. If a woman fits into that vision, cool, but she doesn't become a major factor until she’s proven herself and invested in the relationship too. And as for sex, it’s everywhere and cheap these days; even the "packaged" ones are desperate for a bit of cash. Focus on your purpose first. If a lady fits, she fits, but never make her the center of your world
like your topic implies.

Guy,. I'm done here. You think it's only you that's hustling for his future. Is that future for only you. Except you want to remain a celibate, monk or gay is where your money is not for women or a woman. If she like make she dey work or get her business. You go still take care of her.