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DeShineShine:
If our God can forgive us why can't mere mortals forgive one another.

That one no be for this kind matter

I voted No, even though I'm not a guy!
Dafuq?

Sonnobax15:
I'm not sure this man was created in the image of God

Lol

DeShineShine:
If our God can forgive us why can't mere mortals forgive one another.

Alright!

"Forgivement" is okay..

But take her back?

Dafuq?

Doris will still play 'away' games after the reconciliation

DissTroy:
I would not even take back a woman who sex-chatted with a man while with me not to mention one who was cheating.

I don't even talk to exes whom we drifted apart amicably not to mention one who cheated.

It's either the man is smart to boost his social media profile then ditch her or he's sick for having anything to do with her.

WhaTever happened to "forgive and forget" ma main man.

The ex husband is an extremely foolish SIMP!

TheGift:
Jesus never gave a ground for divorce. Jesus clearly Said that the Law of Divorce was given under the Law of Moses due to the hardness of their hearts.

All Jesus said was that any Man who puts His wife away, except in the case of adultery makes her an adulterer. In other words, if she is already an adulterer, he doesnt make her one by putting her away. He was not saying that the only reason you Should put your wife away is Adultery. Go and read the scripture again.

God hates the divorce and God loves forgiveness. Don't get it twisted

Bro, you are wrong. Jesus clearly stated ground for divorce. Stop trying to twist it. Post that scripture here and let's ask members to analyse it to clear your doubt.

God hates divorce if there's no infidelity. He put away israel when they went after strange gods. God hates infidelity.

Just wow, 8 whole years of pleasure from the pulpit then dumped.

SmartPolician:
The fact of the matter is that someone has to be the fool for marriage to work. It's called sacrifice. Marriage between two oversabi people can only last for one month.

Hian, LoL at the word FOOL, you have started again ooooooooo with your savage response, let me send your number BVN house address to DSS Today and they will arrest you tomorrow morning and detain you for 900 years ooooooooo, for posting this comment.... hahaha 😂

Nwaikpe:
The media attention was about to slip.

She grabbed it back.

You have started again ooooooooo with your savage response ooooooooo mucheche Hahaha 😂

cityboylagos:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2eM5BOYaVUo




https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/13/a-lot-was-taken-from-me-doris-ogala-reunites-with-ex-husband-amid-chris-okafor-saga/



https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTV6bwXjbah/?igsh=MWVnYnExaGo2bW53bQ==

Deuteronomy 24:1 When a man hath taken a wife, and married her, and it come to pass that she find no favour in his eyes, because he hath found some uncleanness in her: then let him write her a bill of divorcement, and give it in her hand, and send her out of his house. 2.
And when she is departed out of his house, she may go and be another man's wife. 4 Her former husband, which sent her away, may not take her again to be his wife, after that she is defiled; for that is abomination before the LORD: and thou shalt not cause the land to sin, which the LORD thy God giveth thee for an inheritance

The scripture calls this return an “abomination” because it violates the stability and dignity of marriage and undermines the moral order of the community.

Chai. So many things to say, but so many people have talked about it already, so let me just shut up

MightySparrow:
The husband is even holier than the pastor self. He calmly claimed his wife after battering from the clergy.

The man has large heart.

Respect

Ecclesiasticus 15:13 The Lord hateth all abomination; and they that fear God love it not.

God rejects everything that is corrupt, twisted, or morally perverse.

cityboylagos:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2eM5BOYaVUo




https://eyesoflagos.com/2026/01/13/a-lot-was-taken-from-me-doris-ogala-reunites-with-ex-husband-amid-chris-okafor-saga/



https://www.instagram.com/reel/DTV6bwXjbah/?igsh=MWVnYnExaGo2bW53bQ==

Has he come to eat up the remnants of the apostle?

It's like everyone in this saga don COLO! I mean Doris, her ex-husband and the Pastor.

“I'm not sure this man was created in the image of God “😂😂😂… bro I feel your anger at the man as I am here as well. Leave him! The bro will learn the hard way sooner or later…

Sonnobax15:

The thought of another man receiving d0ggy from your wife alone should be more than enough reason for any sensible man to reject the return of such a woman . To the extent that she even did series of abortion for the same man .

I'm not sure this man was created in the image of God

Mumu man

This man is going on a revenge mission, or there is a financial transaction between them. Doris appears to be trying to forget about Okafor's episode by posting this. I hope it is later, because if it is former, Doris will be irreparably damaged.

The husband is king of simp and the unofficial wife in the relationship. Nonsense.

Sonnobax15:

The thought of another man receiving d0ggy from your wife alone should be more than enough reason for any sensible man to reject the return of such a woman . To the extent that she even did series of abortion for the same man .

I'm not sure this man was created in the image of God

Mumu man

The image of GOD is Love and Forgiveness. Are there not sins in your life GOD forgave you for and took you back? To each his own; if you choose not to forgive such a woman and he has chosen to forgive her does not make him a lesser man nor you a better man.
P.s
Y'all arguing on divorce need to understand that JESUS is the end of the law; that is Grace. None of us are deserving, however HIS Love made us worthy. GOD hates adultery, GOD hates divorce. However Grace establishes room for forgiveness. All of us are in need of forgiveness. This man has chosen that part for this foolish undeserving adulterous woman. That is Grace. Her actions are questionable and makes any morally upright person cringe plus the social media outburst and drama. It is distasteful. Like someone wisely said, for any marriage to work there are sacrifices to be made. It takes strength for any man to go through what this woman and her adultery partner may her subjected her husband to and still forgive her, take her back.

That's sweet. Happy reunification to them.

That her husband na mutula

Thank God he is not my family member

Artistes creating content and calling it marriage

Only a slow poke husband will accept her back.

The president of SIMP Association of Nigeria

Collect who back .. eh , guyman head swirl up when deceived with publicity stunt , Kneeling down publicly come mean say things don change .. ogbeni welcome and be going is my response.. once you leave me , it shows that you don think am say nothing fit sub between us again .. why kneeling down .. you tested 2 to 3 places , bring disgrace to my name say you be my ex , you con come back .. rara o.. you better retrace your move on

Person wey pastor don doke Wetin no good,from her body

Why not say Dorris Ogalla reunites with her wife?

Mumu man!

joseph1832:
WhaTever happened to "forgive and forget" ma main man.

It's called setting standards, man. I set it with all women. To pass the message, once I ditch a woman, I never talk to her again and refuse to open access to talk to them. If any mutual of ours keep talking about "I saw your ex. Man, she's gone even curvier", I shut them down immediately.

I don't search them out or never respond to messages; or read the messages.

I'd go out of my way to avoid situations which will put us in the same place.

Even talking to an ex a woman does, is a sin to me. I have ditched no less than two women the world will consider very good (kind, supportive, and selfless, and beautiful) because they talked to exes after I warned them once. Once is enough to warn you. They didn't cheat but talking is a percussor to it. It's also disrespectful to me.

I have the abundance mentality. I believe for every good, curvy and beautiful one I ditched, there was a better one who would be completely loyal and submissive.

Even my lady I settled with was given the memo. I never forgive a woman making herself seem available to any other man or even passively flirting - I'd withdraw commitment instantly.

There's nothing new to explore with an ex. We had crazy sex, I explored my adventurousness with and in her, we made memories. She should move on and never contact me.

SmartPolician:
The fact of the matter is that someone has to be the fool for marriage to work. It's called sacrifice. Marriage between two oversabi people can only last for one month.

You hit the nail on its head...