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Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by brownbib(m): 7:58pm On Jan 15
Na their type, she don place all her beauty on her bum and breast, cannot go out without showing it off, see where E don land her, cross roads. 😂
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Marc3500: 8:52pm On Jan 15
thrillionaire:
You have very poor taste in women. E be like say na Ashaawo and hook-up girls you dey like date..
true
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by kernniejay(m): 8:54pm On Jan 15
Skj13777:
That's why it's never advisable to meet a girl in her house because she may not be the person paying for the rent like she is claiming
Hmm, coming from professor of fornication grin
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by chidifrank(m): 2:48am On Jan 16
Thundafireseun:
This case is normal…. I travelled to Abuja on a business trip and asked my girlfriend to help hold my HOUSE KEY …

A friend of mine who was transferred from Lagos to Asaba asked me if he could stay in my house and I said he could collect my key from my girlfriend…

I realized later that my friend was lashing my girlfriend in my own house 😳…..

Case 2 …. I had one girl that wasn’t my serious girl my friend asked if he could toast my girl.. I said yes because we were not serious about our relationship….
I gently walked away into my room so he could make his moves… When I walked back into my living room less than 5 minutes later my friend was lashing this girl in my palor 😳😳😳
Na wa. Isn't it ironic how its far much easier to lash another man's so called girl or wife than to lash a actually single girl with no man or husband. This is scary
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Abcolours: 3:30am On Jan 16
kingthreat:
Nairaland anti-feminist crew should calm down small na.
Yes the guy was a simp but right now he's doing the right thing. His eyes are opened.
A real simp will accept "sorry" grin
Please how do I get in touch with you? Want to know how you solved your gf brother’s issue. Thank you
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by SEOJanitor: 4:43am On Jan 16
Thundafireseun:
This case is normal…. I travelled to Abuja on a business trip and asked my girlfriend to help hold my HOUSE KEY …

A friend of mine who was transferred from Lagos to Asaba asked me if he could stay in my house and I said he could collect my key from my girlfriend…

I realized later that my friend was lashing my girlfriend in my own house 😳…..

Case 2 …. I had one girl that wasn’t my serious girl my friend asked if he could toast my girl.. I said yes because we were not serious about our relationship….
I gently walked away into my room so he could make his moves… When I walked back into my living room less than 5 minutes later my friend was lashing this girl in my palor 😳😳😳
Una go just de write nonsense de post
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Sk5050: 6:30am On Jan 16
Exactly that's even a d€∆th trap ,as a guy always choose your venue hence you go receive F-up one day
Skj13777:
That's why it's never advisable to meet a girl in her house because she may not be the person paying for the rent like she is claiming
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by EDGEof2MORO: 6:34am On Jan 16
muyico:
Women, work hard and rent ur personal apartment, u will gat freedoms, no man will throw ur belonging away, bcus u double date, u c wot dependant caused her now, her pictures all over d social media, how Ur family go feel now??
I think this is the best solution. The ones wey be ashèwo go show their true colors without any problem, the ones wey get sense too go adjust.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by EDGEof2MORO: 6:37am On Jan 16
KingDashx:
Simp spotted.
You go learn soon.
If not for simps, how some girls wan take survive?
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by EDGEof2MORO: 6:40am On Jan 16
Thundafireseun:
Case 1 was never my friend..My brother you are correct… I actually haven’t met the guy before I allowed him into my house….
Very funny story…. My second girlfriend Ann begged me to please allow her childhood friend who works with peak milk stay a few days in my house because he has exhausted all his money in hotel because of house hunting…

I lerra found out that the guy is also lashing Ann.
Chei... you don see shege... thundafireseun true true
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Caaz: 6:44am On Jan 16
Thundafireseun:
Where do you stay ?
I’m ready ooo
Asaba
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by EDGEof2MORO: 6:45am On Jan 16
Uptheante:
So, if she had told you that men are allowed, would you have paid the rent for her?
Best question on the thread
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by JoeEeL(m): 7:12am On Jan 16
kingthreat:
Nairaland anti-feminist crew should calm down small na.
Yes the guy was a simp but right now he's doing the right thing. His eyes are opened.
A real simp will accept "sorry" grin
Ure right o. We shldnt be so hard on him.

At least he realised hes a mugu. Some of d most hardcore red pillers u see today got one such ugly experience in their past
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Fiscus105(m):
Thundafireseun:
Case 1 was never my friend..My brother you are correct… I actually haven’t met the guy before I allowed him into my house….
Very funny story…. My second girlfriend Ann begged me to please allow her childhood friend who works with peak milk stay a few days in my house because he has exhausted all his money in hotel because of house hunting…

I lerra found out that the guy is also lashing Ann.
Your girlfriend asked you to accommodate her male friend, not her blood brother oooo, to the room you rented and both of them wanted sleep in same room? I fear who no fear u.

Infact,she had audacity to ask you such nonsense because she saw signd of weakling guy.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by kingthreat(m): 7:16am On Jan 16
Abcolours:
Please how do I get in touch with you? Want to know how you solved your gf brother’s issue. Thank you
He was forced into a rehabilitation, he got better then relapsed a year after. He later went to a private rehabilitation. He's doing better now, I heard he plans to get married this year.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by JoeEeL(m): 7:18am On Jan 16
Bendeco02:
Oga there are still decent girls/women.

Not all women will allow you smooch her boobs
because the conditions were not met.

There are always conditions that will make her oblige.

It could be they dont trust d guy...hes a kiss and tell. Or the place is not private enough. Or hes not just attractive to her, or famous enough etc.

That girl that u want to vouch for, if they leave her in d same room with a star like lets say Adekunle Gold, u think she will not oblige? Talkless of a superstar like wizkid or even aged 2face.

If they dont fall for them, u know who might get their way into their panties? Yes it could be ur pastor, a deacon, an evangelist or a dedicated church goer or speaking in tongues guy.

If no, it could be the dedication of that gym guy u see across the street.

Only a fool trusts women! Women that dont trust themselves. Women that can do things and have no explanation for doing them.

U too funny
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by JoeEeL(m): 7:22am On Jan 16
Tenrack:
lmao. I be won type this thing. But you beat me to it. For him mind e dey follow classy women ,🤣🤣🤣😂 body go tell am las las
What is the definition of classy women sef? If we check well and ask d guy, it probably means a woman wey no really dey too demanding and probably has an occupation that keeps her busy.

Thats all o. What a joke!
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by JoeEeL(m): 7:23am On Jan 16
Sonnobax15:
Na my target this year be that bro angry

Women na scallywags bro angry
Bro wetin happen? Its like u were an okoko before who is now transformed. grin

If so, no worry. We plenty for here wey don chop sand before
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by JoeEeL(m): 7:26am On Jan 16
Kwinesther:
So you mean your mother and sisters are also cheats? Wow kiss
Yes. Now f off
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Tilewizy: 7:32am On Jan 16
Thundafireseun:
This case is normal…. I travelled to Abuja on a business trip and asked my girlfriend to help hold my HOUSE KEY …

A friend of mine who was transferred from Lagos to Asaba asked me if he could stay in my house and I said he could collect my key from my girlfriend…

I realized later that my friend was lashing my girlfriend in my own house 😳…..

Case 2 …. I had one girl that wasn’t my serious girl my friend asked if he could toast my girl.. I said yes because we were not serious about our relationship….
I gently walked away into my room so he could make his moves… When I walked back into my living room less than 5 minutes later my friend was lashing this girl in my palor 😳😳😳
Is it that your life or those who revolve around you are porn stars, or what?
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Tenrack: 7:37am On Jan 16
JoeEeL:
What is the definition of classy women sef? If we check well and ask d guy, it probably means a woman wey no really dey too demanding and probably has an occupation that keeps her busy.

Thats all o. What a joke!
no mind the guy. Na comedian.🤣🤣🤣 Naso dem dey take define their "classy" ladies. Nonsense.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Tenrack: 7:39am On Jan 16
JoeEeL:
Yes. Now f off
dawan is probably bitter cause men are catching up to their shenanigans. Imagine comparing the Uselezzz females of today to our mothers. Symptom of low IQ. Na wetin all of them carry. Girls wey no fit think individually. Naija females, most of them are really Dum'asses.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Tenrack: 7:46am On Jan 16
JoeEeL:
because the conditions were not met.

There are always conditions that will make her oblige.

It could be they dont trust d guy...hes a kiss and tell. Or the place is not private enough. Or hes not just attractive to her, or famous enough etc.

That girl that u want to vouch for, if they leave her in d same room with a star like lets say Adekunle Gold, u think she will not oblige? Talkless of a superstar like wizkid or even aged 2face.

If they dont fall for them, u know who might get their way into their panties? Yes it could be ur pastor, a deacon, an evangelist or a dedicated church goer or speaking in tongues guy.

If no, it could be the dedication of that gym guy u see across the street.

Only a fool trusts women! Women that dont trust themselves. Women that can do things and have no explanation for doing them.

U too funny
abeg keep preaching to these brothers of ours. Make dem learn. grin cheesy
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by JoeEeL(m): 7:59am On Jan 16
Tenrack:
dawan is probably bitter cause men are catching up to their shenanigans. Imagine comparing the Uselezzz females of today to our mothers. Symptom of low IQ. Na wetin all of them carry. Girls wey no fit think individually. Naija females, most of them are really Dum'asses.
Agreed. Im surprised as to how many men are still blindsided to the curent reality. Women simply want to have their cake and eat it.

They want all the advantages of men: inheritance, earn same, work same, date multiples...which admittedly isnt bad.

But where they are cunny is they want to continue receiving baby girl life treatment: hiding under the banner of relationship and marriage as a lifelong form of soft employment. And truth be told, they are winning...for now sha.

Thats why as a man, never ever be faithful. Never keep one. And if possible forgo marriage. If u cant, then marry multiple. And if ure in d western world, God punish u as a nigerian man if u go and marry
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by JoeEeL(m): 8:17am On Jan 16
Tenrack:
abeg keep preaching to these brothers of ours. Make dem learn. grin cheesy
We will reduce d amount of okokos we have. My Annang chic that year been cheat on me. I wan craze.

Can u imagine in my 2nd relationship, after explaining all d trauma to my new gf, she still allow another guy kiss am. And she confessed after I queried her. And no be say this my 2nd girl loose like that o. And she say na only kiss but i suspect say d guy go don smooch too. If possible, sex sef possible but I highly highly doubt it.

But as an okoko I must never be, I must never erase any possibilities!
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Thundafireseun: 8:18am On Jan 16
Caaz:
Asaba
Please drop ur digits let’s connect 🙏🙏🙏
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by ndukwejoe(m): 8:37am On Jan 16
How do you guys get all these thoughts shocked
Sonnobax15:
lipsrsealed
Men will never learn..

Since I placed my banny in my shop,I've been noticing how she has been glowing angry. Omoh,na once I use style tell her say make she go find another work do angry

Since then,na me come dey glow angry

Nigerian bannies wey be Merlin when it comes to relationship scam angry

People wey God create for fun,na those kind people you expect me to take serious angry. No way angry
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Tenrack: 8:44am On Jan 16
JoeEeL:
We will reduce d amount of okokos we have. My Annang chic that year been cheat on me. I wan craze.

Can u imagine in my 2nd relationship, after explaining all d trauma to my new gf, she still allow another guy kiss am. And she confessed after I queried her. And no be say this my 2nd girl loose like that o. And she say na only kiss but i suspect say d guy go don smooch too. If possible, sex sef possible but I highly highly doubt it.

But as an okoko I must never be, I must never erase any possibilities!
naso. Dem don do pass kiss. She just dey use dawan bobo you. I no dey reason anything serious with any lass again. Planning your life with a woman is akin to building your own mausoleum. You're bound to regret it.

Na mumu dey love.
Men are waking up slowly but gradually to the fact that today's women no send your papa.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by Tenrack: 8:47am On Jan 16
JoeEeL:
Agreed. Im surprised as to how many men are still blindsided to the curent reality. Women simply want to have their cake and eat it.

They want all the advantages of men: inheritance, earn same, work same, date multiples...which admittedly isnt bad.

But where they are cunny is they want to continue receiving baby girl life treatment: hiding under the banner of relationship and marriage as a lifelong form of soft employment. And truth be told, they are winning...for now sha.

Thats why as a man, never ever be faithful. Never keep one. And if possible forgo marriage. If u cant, then marry multiple. And if ure in d western world, God punish u as a nigerian man if u go and marry
grin grin the last line funny me die. People still dey marry for western world? Na the fools wey dey carry their wives and gfs go there own dey funny me pass.

You're right. They always want to eat their cake and have it. Frolick with their old flames in while enjoying the wealth of their spouse. Women are wicked sha. Indeed na mumu dey go settle for one.
Re: Boyfriend Catches Girlfriend With Another Man In Apartment He Paid For In Uyo by JoeEeL(m): 9:27am On Jan 16
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Tenrack:
grin grin the last line funny me die. People still dey marry for western world? Na the fools wey dey carry their wives and gfs go there own dey funny me pass.

You're right. They always want to eat their cake and have it. Frolick with their old flames in while enjoying the wealth of their spouse. Women are wicked sha. Indeed na mumu dey go settle for one.
My brother, u don nail am. Men still marry o. What a risk. Most times a man spends more, and also has more. And also far more likely to lose assets to his wife after a divorce, combined with the custody of the children.

Also he cant easily date multiple, otherwise his wife must never find out. And women are much more discreet in cheating in marriages than men. And its wayyyyyyy easier and much much cheaper for a woman to cheat over there. And its so expensive for a man to cheat. When u combine this with the thought of many men having previously drilled ur so called wife's punna, combined with the cost of marriage...ouch, ouch. It hurts! cheesy

Although some men these days decide to tint their windows so they can cheat right in their car for a much cheaper option but that has to be a banny uve known for long, probably b4 u met ur wife. 😃 Otherwise ana hotel, motel or airbnb. Rent: $50 - $150. Also food. Also transportation.

Besides most babes u meet over there, especially on dating sites, are simply african babes that have been passed around. Some have tasted white diiks but wont tell u. And the bannies coming from countries like Italo, Egypt, Oman, Libya, UAE... its over!!!
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