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Dear Nigerian Women,

If you have a good Husband not the one that cheat on you , the one that is loyal and treat you like a Queen

Please do everything you can to support his business , if you can take extra miles please do that

Take his business like your own

Forget the fact that I am single , I am not married 😂

Just take the words seriously

Remember he is the head of the home and will need to pay bills and your bills

So do your part to add values to his finances

Do not act like I don’t care 🤷‍♀️

Change that attitude today

Copyright ©️ Digital Bimpe

Wordsfrombimpe:
Dear Nigerian Women,
If you have a good Husband not the one that cheat on you , the one that is loyal and treat you like a Queen
Please do everything you can to support his business , if you can take extra miles please do that
Take his business like your own
✓ Forget the fact that I am single , I am not married 😂Just take the words seriously. Remember he is the head of the home and will need to pay bills and your bills. So do your part to add values to his finances. Do not act like I don’t care 🤷‍♀️ .Change that attitude today

Does this good husband take the wife's business like his own too or is it only the woman to support the man's business at the expense of her own business? 🥱🥱

2. Add values to his finances because the woman's own dreams and ambitions are of little to no worth in the same Marriage? 🥱🥱

This perspective strictly focused on the women being supportive to their husband

And if you disagree with the perspective it shows you don’t truly love the person

When it’s time for me to talk about men being supportive to their wives I will get to that point later on for now this is focus on women being supportive to their husband and that should not be a bad thing at all

Kobojunkie:
Does this good husband take the wife's business like his own too or is it only the woman to support the man's business at the expense of her own business? 🥱🥱

2. Add values to his finances because the woman's own dreams and ambitions are of little to no worth in the same Marriage? 🥱🥱

Wordsfrombimpe:
✓ This perspective strictly focused on the women being supportive to their husband
✓ And if you disagree with the perspective it shows you don’t truly love the person
✓ When it’s time for me to talk about men being supportive to their wives I will get to that point later on for now this is focus on women being supportive to their husband and that should not be a bad thing at all

1. Why is your perspective focused on the woman giving to the man when marriage is meant to be a union of mutual benefits unless your particular view is such that the woman loses her place in humanity the moment she signs the dotted lines? 🥱🥱

2. What you are implying then is that a man who takes from his wife at the expense of her dreams is one who loves his wife? 🥱🥱

3. Ah, I see! Though the marriage contract suggest the man and woman are joined as one in the contract suggesting what benefits the one must also benefit the other, you would rather indicate the individuals should be kept separate were it concerns treatment and benefit in the marriage. 🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
1. Why is your perspective focused on the woman giving to the man when marriage is meant to be a union of mutual benefits unless your particular view is such that the woman loses her place in humanity the moment she signs the dotted lines? 🥱🥱

2. What you are implying then is that a man who takes from his wife at the expense of her dreams is one who loves his wife? 🥱🥱

3. Ah, I see! Though the marriage contract suggest the man and woman are joined as one in the contract suggesting what benefits the one must also benefit the other, you would rather indicate the individuals should be kept separate were it concerns treatment and benefit in the marriage. 🥱🥱🥱

azuka, is it not too early in the year for this?🥱

You read to defend

But you don’t read to comprehend

Read my words carefully

Also there is space for you to create your own thread and discuss further on your mentality

This views of mine is strictly to encourage women to be supportive of their husband and that’s ok , like I stated earlier when I want to discuss on men being supportive towards their wives , I will write on that , once again , the article is strictly on supportive women

Being supportive as a wife is very essential In the home

The man does everything and what is there in supporting him in his business by being there for him

He is the head and you are the neck

What’s the job of the neck if not to support the head

Read to comprehend and all the best

Kobojunkie:
1. Why is your perspective focused on the woman giving to the man when marriage is meant to be a union of mutual benefits unless your particular view is such that the woman loses her place in humanity the moment she signs the dotted lines? 🥱🥱

2. What you are implying then is that a man who takes from his wife at the expense of her dreams is one who loves his wife? 🥱🥱

3. Ah, I see! Though the marriage contract suggest the man and woman are joined as one in the contract suggesting what benefits the one must also benefit the other, you would rather indicate the individuals should be kept separate were it concerns treatment and benefit in the marriage. 🥱🥱🥱

Wordsfrombimpe:
➜You read to defend But you don’t read to comprehend Read my words carefully Also there is space for you to create your own thread and discuss further on your mentality This views of mine is strictly to encourage women to be supportive of their husband and that’s ok , like I stated earlier when I want to discuss on men being supportive towards their wives , I will write on that , once again , the article is strictly on supportive women
➜Being supportive as a wife is very essential In the home The man does everything and what is there in supporting him in his business by being there for him He is the head and you are the neck What’s the job of the neck if not to support the head Read to comprehend and all the best

1. The one who has gone on the defensive here is you. Look again at my retorts to see that what I posed were questions to help me better understand your logic begining with your OP. Instead of answering the questions, you have been going on the attack... wonder why?

2. Ah! The man does everything! Where does this notion of yours come from? Are you of the mind that the woman's contributions to the marriage, essentially keeping the home — a family home, is a business/company that requires running, after all—is inconsequential/of no worth to the man and the family? 🥱🥱🥱

Who pays the House Expenses

You or the man ?

When you answer this question I will give you my reply

Kobojunkie:
1. The one who has gone on the defensive here is you. Look again at my retorts to see that what I posed were questions to help me better understand your logic begining with your OP. Instead of answering the questions, you have been going on the attack... wonder why?

2. Ah! The man does everything! Where does this notion of yours come from? Are you of the mind that the woman's contributions to the marriage, essentially keeping the home — a family home, is a business/company that requires running, after all—is inconsequential/of no worth to the man and the family? 🥱🥱🥱

Wordsfrombimpe:
➜Who pays the rent You or the man When you answer this question I will give you my reply ?

Let's for the sake of this discussion accept that it is the man who pays the rent in the marriage. To that, I would then answer why should it matter who pays the rent? If the man paid rent before marriage, why should his continuing to do the same after marriage give him power over a woman or mean, to you, that he does everything in the marriage? 🥱🥱

You have already answer your question

Once again all the best

Kobojunkie:
Let's for the sake of this discussion accept that it is the man who pays the rent in the marriage. To that, I would then answer why should it matter who pays the rent? If the man paid rent before marriage, why should his continuing to do the same after marriage give him power over a woman or mean, to you, that he does everything in the marriage? 🥱🥱

Wordsfrombimpe:
➜You have already answer your question Once again all the best

Are you insinuating that paying rent, the man does everything? If so, what happens when the woman is the one paying the rent, feeding the family, and all else? Should the woman in that case not bother at all with the man's business ideas?

We have seen cases where the woman does that during the time her husband needs her the most

Which brings me to the highlight of my point

Support

Your issue is you don’t read to understand and comprehend, I get your views but honestly Is all love

Support is both ways and this topic for today is for the women

All the best once again

Kobojunkie:
Are you insinuating that paying rent, the man does everything? If so, what happens when the woman is the one paying the rent, feeding the family, and all else? Should the woman in that case not bother at all with the man's business ideas?

Wordsfrombimpe:
➜We have seen cases where the woman does that
➜ during the time her husband needs her the most
➜ Which brings me to the highlight of my point Support Your issue is you don’t read to understand and comprehend, I get your views but honestly Is all love Support is both ways and this topic for today is for the women All the best once again

You Nigerian government revealed in stats released on 2025 that females are breadwinners in almost 50% of marriages in Nigeria. Clearly, I am not referring to any of the cases you pretend there. I specifically asked about the case where the female is the breadwinner in the marriage, should the same assumption you made earlier apply? 🥱

2. You claimed that by merely paying the rent in the marriage, the man does everything in the marriage. However, now you suggest that when the man is, according to your argument, no longer doing everything, he needs the woman the most? Why?

3. When the man does everything, the woman is a nobody in the marriage, since you claim the man does everything. And when the man does nothing— not even able to keep a roof over his own family's head — you insist that it is the place of the woman who you earlier concluded does nothing, to support him? 🥱 🥱

Trust me on this

You will be fine 😊

All the best once again

Kobojunkie:
You Nigerian government revealed in stats released on 2025 that females are breadwinners in almost 50% of marriages in Nigeria. Clearly, I am not referring to any of the cases you pretend there. I specifically asked about the case where the female is the breadwinner in the marriage, should the same assumption you made earlier apply? 🥱

2. You claimed that by merely paying the rent in the marriage, the man does everything in the marriage. However, now you suggest that when the man is, according to your argument, no longer doing everything, he needs the woman the most? Why?

3. When the man does everything, the woman is a nobody in the marriage, since you claim the man does everything. And when the man does nothing— not even able to keep a roof over his own family's head — you insist that it is the place of the woman who you earlier concluded does nothing, to support him? 🥱 🥱

Wordsfrombimpe:
➜Trust me on this You will be fine 😊 All the best once again

Given your penchant for avoiding questions while pretending you speak sensibly, I can't and don't trust you.🥱🥱🥱

You will be alright

Heal from whatever trauma

Face the reality and all the best

It’s very obvious

Kobojunkie:
Given your penchant for avoiding questions while pretending you speak sensibly, I can't and don't trust you.🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
You Nigerian government revealed in stats released on 2025 that females are breadwinners in almost 50% of marriages in Nigeria. Clearly, I am not referring to any of the cases you pretend there. I specifically asked about the case where the female is the breadwinner in the marriage, should the same assumption you made earlier apply? 🥱

2. You claimed that by merely paying the rent in the marriage, the man does everything in the marriage. However, now you suggest that when the man is, according to your argument, no longer doing everything, he needs the woman the most? Why?

3. When the man does everything, the woman is a nobody in the marriage, since you claim the man does everything. And when the man does nothing— not even able to keep a roof over his own family's head — you insist that it is the place of the woman who you earlier concluded does nothing, to support him? 🥱 🥱

Kobojunkie, see the green faces that keep turning up in your posts thats a Nairaland specific proof you are using AI as a logic grinder

100% irrefutable proof, what you do is copy and paste peoples posts and then feed then in an AI and then tell the AI to argue for you

You are the biggest fraud on here

Wordsfrombimpe:
This perspective strictly focused on the women being supportive to their husband

And if you disagree with the perspective it shows you don’t truly love the person

When it’s time for me to talk about men being supportive to their wives I will get to that point later on for now this is focus on women being supportive to their husband and that should not be a bad thing at all

upper cut given

Wordsfrombimpe:
Dear Nigerian Women,

If you have a good Husband not the one that cheat on you , the one that is loyal and treat you like a Queen

Please do everything you can to support his business , if you can take extra miles please do that

Take his business like your own

Forget the fact that I am single , I am not married 😂

Just take the words seriously

Remember he is the head of the home and will need to pay bills and your bills

So do your part to add values to his finances

Do not act like I don’t care 🤷‍♀️

Change that attitude today

Copyright ©️ Digital Bimpe

How can an English expert..."supposedly",write this? I could write far better than this at 14 years.