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Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by SAMBARRY: 1:42pm On Jan 20
Gynecologists see vaginas every day during child delivery so i don't know what is special or new to genealogists ko koshi danu.

However if you are not comfortable as a man seeing or knowing another man is midwifing your child maybe you can do it yourself and perhaps if she develops complications and dies and you go and enter problem, you will have sense.you think every man is like you
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by jattopeter(m): 1:42pm On Jan 20
Congratulation , Keep it up .
doctore212:
This early morning, I no go work.


I have used my last money to carry olosho . I would have listened to my instinct not to carry olosho.


And January salary never drop
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by Arrowhead71: 1:45pm On Jan 20
bizzibodi:
How many female doctors do we have around.
Delivery is the work of midwives or Nurse
Because if a man freely looking and touching the sacred thing I paid for ...what is my gain
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by themanderon: 1:45pm On Jan 20
He should attend to her then.
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by ReluctantAdult(m): 1:48pm On Jan 20
A vagina pushing out a baby is not pleasant to look at, trust me. The smell in the labour ward is isn't vanilla either. Stop with the jealousy, the poor Doctor probably can't even wait to be done with it and get the hell out of there.
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by Father4all: 1:52pm On Jan 20
Next time, insist on Female doctors
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by OSESUNATE(m): 2:01pm On Jan 20
LabStores:
You a have there...
We have perverts too in the hospitals and medical fields and we've seen and heard many stories...

Many female patients feel uncomfortable being examined by male doctors, especially during intimate or sensitive procedures. This concern deserves to be taken seriously.
Some doctors you even see coming around during situations like this may have no business being around there. Some might just be taken advantage of the patient or using them learn...


Hospitals employ both male and female doctors across different specialties, yet in many settings, male doctors are often the ones conducting examinations on adult female patients, including married women. For some patients, this can cause distress or discomfort.
It doesn't make sense at all.

Every patient has the right to consent to who examines them. If you are a female patient and you are not comfortable being attended to by a male doctor, you are entitled to request a female doctor where one is available. This is a legitimate and reasonable request.
If your concern is dismissed and the situation is not an emergency, you also have the right to seek care at another hospital that respects your comfort and dignity.
Patient care should always prioritize professionalism, consent, and respect for personal boundaries.

Personally as a male, I can never allow a female doctor to conduct certain examinations on me, unless in a situation where I'm unconscious or it's a life and death situation.
You really make bold claims though. Can you prove the claim that some doctors who are in the examination room have no business being there?

As a patient, it's your right to ask for a doctor who you prefere or are comfortable with, but you should be ready to wait for hours ,days or weeks as the case may be.

You should also know that the doctor also has right to choose the kind of patient dey can attend to also. There are some patients termed "difficult patients"
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by OSESUNATE(m): 2:02pm On Jan 20
You never ready for life

I'm sure you're not married or has any child
Arrowhead71:
No sense of decency in this world anymore....why in the world would a male Doctor taken delivery....it does not happen in those days ...the world is now sexually perverted
As for me ...no male Doctor can go near my wife ..never
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by Bahamas95(m): 2:03pm On Jan 20
Skit or not I understand what the man is feeling. My elder sister took my wife's delivery so I escaped that trauma.


Before my wife gave birth I jokingly told her if my sister isn't available and she needed a male doctor to attend to her I would prefer an ancestral to tiktok doctors.



My wife told me something shocking 2wks ago. She visited a friend who put to bed at a general hospital and it was an open maternity ward. She said she saw women due for labour completely ñ.....æ..ked while doctors were just patrolling upandan attending to them. A woman even gave birth in her presence.

I was like "shuo! na so dem dey do for there?" shocked

I thought they take them to an enclosed place where they give birth in private, I nor know say the place be like redemption camp.



God forbid! I nor fit take my wife go dat Kain place go born.......I won't be comfortable.
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by Arrowhead71: 2:06pm On Jan 20
OSESUNATE:
You never ready for life

I'm sure you're not married or has any child
Bros I have 7 children... Non was delivered in hospital... 5 of them delivered in my bedroom
While 2 delivered in the Nurse house because I was away
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by OSESUNATE(m): 2:09pm On Jan 20
Bahamas95:
Skit or not I understand what the man is feeling. My elder sister took my wife's delivery so I escaped that trauma.


Before my wife gave birth I jokingly told her if my sister isn't available and she needed a male doctor to attend to her I would prefer an ancestral to tiktok doctors.

Probably because you're not the one in pain. You think your wife is better than those women she saw in the labor ward?

When the contractions start, it's your wife that will curse you for not allowing a male doctor attend to her



My wife told me something shocking 2wks ago. She visited a friend who put to bed at a general hospital and it was an open maternity ward. She said she saw women due for labour completely ñ.....æ..ked while doctors were just patrolling upandan attending to them. A woman even gave birth in her presence.

I was like "shuo! na so dem dey do for there?" shocked

I thought they take them to an enclosed place where they give birth in private, I nor know say the place be like redemption camp.



God forbid! I nor fit take my wife go dat Kain place go born.......I won't be comfortable.
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by Berankis: 2:09pm On Jan 20
This one has mental issues. What's wrong with a male Doctor checking your wife medically?
Most Gynaes are even males...
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by nairalanda1(m): 2:13pm On Jan 20
simpleseyi:
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A male doctor is not supposed to be looking into another man’s wife vagina or any girl above 5 years
Hooooooookay!!!? grin grin grin
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by Kalulu44: 2:15pm On Jan 20
WesleyPepper:
Lmao
I understand. Despite being a Doctor, It was still difficult for me to accept .
I only took solace in the fact that I had examined other women in the past too
Wait o, sorry for asking. As a doctor yourself, can't you examine your wife by yourself?
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by Kalulu44: 2:20pm On Jan 20
LabStores:
You a have there...
We have perverts too in the hospitals and medical fields and we've seen and heard many stories...

Many female patients feel uncomfortable being examined by male doctors, especially during intimate or sensitive procedures. This concern deserves to be taken seriously.
Some doctors you even see coming around during situations like this may have no business being around there. Some might just be taken advantage of the patient or using them learn...


Hospitals employ both male and female doctors across different specialties, yet in many settings, male doctors are often the ones conducting examinations on adult female patients, including married women. For some patients, this can cause distress or discomfort.
It doesn't make sense at all.

Every patient has the right to consent to who examines them. If you are a female patient and you are not comfortable being attended to by a male doctor, you are entitled to request a female doctor where one is available. This is a legitimate and reasonable request.
If your concern is dismissed and the situation is not an emergency, you also have the right to seek care at another hospital that respects your comfort and dignity.
Patient care should always prioritize professionalism, consent, and respect for personal boundaries.

Personally as a male, I can never allow a female doctor to conduct certain examinations on me, unless in a situation where I'm unconscious or it's a life and death situation.
When it concerns pregnancy, 80 to 90% of Gynaecologist are male. I get your points sha
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by Kalulu44: 2:22pm On Jan 20
Arrowhead71:
No sense of decency in this world anymore....why in the world would a male Doctor taken delivery....it does not happen in those days ...the world is now sexually perverted
As for me ...no male Doctor can go near my wife ..never
Then ask the females to start studying gynaecologist, why are they running from studying it
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by 12345baba(m): 2:25pm On Jan 20
No
Arrowhead71:
No sense of decency in this world anymore....why in the world would a male Doctor taken delivery....it does not happen in those days ...the world is now sexually perverted
As for me ...no male Doctor can go near my wife ..never
I use to say this, but when it happened I didn't even know. Young man throw that thoughts for dustbin. What if ur wife is in a situation where na only the male doctor for the hospital b the best to handle the situation ur wife dey, u go allow die abi? Don't be selfish can u swear u never finger other people potential wives? Labour room wey women dey shit on top sef in process of labour who get time to dey reason ur value.
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by Princeton92(m): 2:29pm On Jan 20
brain54:
Op I hope you realize that guy is a content creator though...?
I've seen a couple of his videos where he cries as he narates strange and weird personal experiences!
I hate people shading fake tears though 😠 😡
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by Arrowhead71: 2:32pm On Jan 20
[quote author=Kalulu44 post=138202498]Then ask the females to start studying gynaecologist, why are they running from studying it[/quote
Ok sir
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by Arrowhead71: 2:37pm On Jan 20
12345baba:
No I use to say this, but when it happened I didn't even know. Young man throw that thoughts for dustbin. What if ur wife is in a situation where na only the male doctor for the hospital b the best to handle the situation ur wife dey, u go allow die abi? Don't be selfish can u swear u never finger other people potential wives? Labour room wey women dey shit on top sef in process of labour who get time to dey reason ur value.
Finger potential wives....but not married wives
If we allow male Doctors having a free romance on women because of delivery....where is now the sanctity of holy matrimony
I had my first child in 1995....so far I hve 7 children and am still younger than you
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by BadBradley: 2:40pm On Jan 20
Marvieduke:
A man took his wife to the hospital while she was in labour.

What made him break down in tears was seeing male doctors attending to her.

He said he felt very uncomfortable and jealous, and started crying while watching them examine her and call out measurements like “1cm, 2cm” as they checked her progress with their fingers.
the man is quite normal and his defence mechanism is alert and sharp.

Western medical practise is taboo and demonic in many western societies midwifery and home delivery still exist.

Male doctors have no business attending to females except during emergency.

Waiting for those without f -athers to quote me.
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by 12345baba(m): 3:42pm On Jan 20
Arrowhead71:
Finger potential wives....but not married wives
If we allow male Doctors having a free romance on women because of delivery....where is now the sanctity of holy matrimony
I had my first child in 1995....so far I hve 7 children and am still younger than you
it has nothing to do with holy matrimony. Read sirach 38 1-15.
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by meobizy(m): 3:45pm On Jan 20
Everybody dey find relevance. That Elon Musk monetization is making everyone try their hands at going viral.

Marvieduke:
A man took his wife to the hospital while she was in labour.

What made him break down in tears was seeing male doctors attending to her.

He said he felt very uncomfortable and jealous, and started crying while watching them examine her and call out measurements like “1cm, 2cm” as they checked her progress with their fingers.
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by advocatejare(m): 3:54pm On Jan 20
Marvieduke:
A man took his wife to the hospital while she was in labour.

What made him break down in tears was seeing male doctors attending to her.

He said he felt very uncomfortable and jealous, and started crying while watching them examine her and call out measurements like “1cm, 2cm” as they checked her progress with their fingers.
He should send his wife to medical school so that she can be attending to other women in labour when she graduates
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by Breaker001: 3:54pm On Jan 20
Is he a first time father? Because I don't see why such should be a problem to him except that is his first time in the hospital. Doctors (male or female) are trained not to "see" what he feels they are seeing 😎
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by Arrowhead71: 4:13pm On Jan 20
12345baba:
it has nothing to do with holy matrimony. Read sirach 38 1-15.
What is sirach
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by maasoap(m): 4:37pm On Jan 20
Ever8090:
He should be checking her himself naa....
Sicklebear28:
Very unserious man. He should have become a doctor
Magnetic010:
He should write Jamb, apply for medicine, gain admission, study hard- become a medical doctor(Gynaecologist to be precise) then dedicate his life to touching only his wife...mtcheeew
Kento4ken:
Make he go deliver he wife for his private room.
canalily:
It's never late...let him get admissions and study gyneco...so that next parabolic curve would be examined from under by him.... jealous mugu
You guys sounded like illiterates and very ignorant. His concern is legitimate. He could have requested for female doctor because you guys are commenting like his options are limited. This doesn't happen in Islamic countries
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by stainzville: 4:41pm On Jan 20
Na hunger go finish you
doctore212:
This early morning, I no go work.


I have used my last money to carry olosho . I would have listened to my instinct not to carry olosho.


And January salary never drop
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by stainzville: 4:44pm On Jan 20
The number of female Gynecologist in Nigeria is very low...Know this and have peace
Re: Man Says He Felt Uncomfortable And Jealous When Male Doctor Checks His Wife.... by 12345baba(m): 4:56pm On Jan 20
Arrowhead71:
What is sirach
bible
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