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You sha want make we buy your envirofit charcoal stove, abi.

Oga wetin you want us to do to your wife now or you are looking for who will remarry her and provide the gas needed.

marlow1962:
You ought to understand that your baddie doesn't want to get her cheap nails dirty, even if it comes with bankrupting you.

that thing tire me o. Imagine a married woman using long nails on both hands. Some married men dey eat rubbish, no wonder some dey kpai on time nowadays.

Simply provide enough charcoal
and refuse to buy gas for one month...☝☝☝

Better to stay unmarried and have peace.

Diamond098454:
Can't you do the cooking? Go out there and look for a cheap wife that will cook with firewood for you.

Biggerpicture

Charcoal is the bigger picture you got for your own wife

It's possible that you that is saying this now,is using firewood fire to boil water now,that you want to use to make Garri this evening o...

Sensible people know that this is an advert.

No wife anywhere refused to cook anything

aliscomonaj:
Kindly read his concerns. Is not about carrying anyone to analog age. Cost of living is currently very high

But he can watch Gotv??Hungry never catch the guy yet..

Op no mind this people criticising you most of them na their mama house 🏠 them de, the ones wey get small money 💰 dey form ,dem too dey manage things,
if gas ⛽ finish lock up. Na woman wey understand with you we dey surprise with Lexus

JuanDeDios:
✓ That charcoal stove is not particularly stressful. It doesn't smoke either. He's just trying be financially sensible so that they can afford house rent, school fees, etc., and maybe save something to build their own house or buy a car. Why are you like this?

Na him sabi wetin him marry sha.

if it is so free of stress then the man should have no issues taking over cooking using it. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Why should his so-called financial sense have to impact his wife in any way of form? He should take full responsibility for the impact all by himself. 🥱🥱🥱

The woman is right in requiring he do better, and leave her out of the equation. 🥱🥱

neonly:
Simple English
Yur wife na parasite

Before you called someone wife a parasite go and subject your wife to such situation first. If you don't have a wife you have females in your home so ask them first if they will do that except they are in some locations that they are already used to that.

Diamond098454:
Can't you do the cooking? Go out there and look for a cheap wife that will cook with firewood for you.

Biggerpicture

Charcoal is the bigger picture you got for your own wife

Hungry never catch the guy yet.He complains about expenses but yet he can pay sub for Gotv..Him never ready to maintain expenses..

Kobojunkie:
if it is so free of stress then the man should have no issues taking over cooking using it. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Why should his so-called financial sense have to impact his wife in any way of form? He should take full responsibility for the impact all by himself. 🥱🥱🥱

The woman is right in requiring he do better, and leave her out of the equation. 🥱🥱

You're not making sense. The woman is obviously cooking because that arrangement is convenient for them. You want him to resign from work to be cooking because electricity bill is high?

Your financial sense should not impact your spouse?

You're not making sense.

Bro! The best thing to do is to report her to her family. She is or being inconsiderate and very much ungrateful this is very painful with the bitten economy situation partners needs to be supportive. You have the right to even buy firewood for her to use and if she is well cultured as well considerate she will kiss your lips and say baby things will be alright...

ogascomax:
Before you called someone wife a parasite go and subject your wife to such situation first. If you don't have a wife you have females in your home so ask them first if they will do that except they are in some locations that they are already used to that.

No matter how bad Sapa hold me,I can never go down to that level..It’s better to buy 2kg gas than use charcoal to cook..it’s like watching black and white TV in this Era..

WhiteIverson:
You encouraged him not to do anything illegal but same you still encouraged him to bypass his meter. What kind of hypocrisy is this?

Let's welcome to the stage 'the average Nigerian'

but on a serious note, do as the Romans cos e get y

bigpicture001:
Sister u dnt understand marriage.. in marriage, women cook all the time.. NEPA comes in 40k monthly, 12.5 kG gas finishes by 1 ND half month..

Remember gotv sub oo, data for the home etc.. expenses is too much..

Yes we use washing machine ND mini oven plus yam pounder which is scarcely used..

It's too much, income is not increasing.. I can't save for children future .. upon we use family health insurance oo

You need to be firm with your decision if she's not ready to support financially.

No be all the time men go dey act weak if they have a wife who's not understanding financially.

Some of your expenses up there should be cut off ...I personally told my husband to stop paying dstv subscription fee since 2022 and we have adjusted so fine without DSTV... watching DSTV or GOTV no be do or die...

If she can't support you financially now when una still dey naija, what will now happen if you guys relocate abroad.

Juliearth:
Will a difference of 12 to 15k (price for refilling a 12.5kg cylinder) per month make your financial status any better? Did you carry her along in this decision? Are there no other expenses that can be cut? Expenses such as cost of fuelling your car, hangout with the boys, alcohol, peppersoup..?

See where dis wun mind go. So he should stop fueling his car. Ok. If e do am now say make them enter keke go church and the wife revolt, you go still tok.

Are you cooking for the whole community?


Using charcoal or firewood to cook is very stressful. Men like you feel too big to assist your wives with house chores yet you wanna give her additional stress, you're very heartless.

Most of una here cant even sell your car to pay child school fees cause you don’t want people to see you using leg and you want her to use charcoal😒

JuanDeDios:
✓ You're not making sense. The woman is obviously cooking because that arrangement is convenient for them.
✓ You want him to resign from work to be cooking because electricity bill is high?
✓ Your financial sense should not impact your spouse? You're not making sense.

Look, his job is as provider and it is not his place to use his wife in saving any more money. 🥱🥱

2. Oh, so he has to resign from his job to cook with the stove? Yet, you claimed earlier that it was stress free? You wish for the woman to quit her own hustle in order to use the stove all while having us believe it does not add stress to her life? 🥱🥱

3. If your financial sense has you inconveniencing others to your benefit, then consider that you don't have financial sense at all. 🥱🥱

bigpicture001:
Because of the high cost of energy, I barred her from overly use of electric hot plate, also gas finishes so fast.. all these are draining the family maintainance resources..

So I deviced a means to bring down the cost of energy by purchasing gokpo charcoal stove.. it's a new kinda charcoal stove that doesn't fume, it's clean energy and also burns faster..

Just that u need to infuse charcoal enough and cook straight hours so u can exchaust the charcoal, lest it won't stop burning inside..

Believe me, it doesn't darken pot nor fume..

By she has refused to use it, claiming I am taking her to olden days and causing lots of stress..

Okay I suggested she start to part pay the cost of cooking energy if sh must stick with her choice.. but sh has not filled gas since then nor part pay the huge NEPA bill that comes monthly..

Abeg wetin I go do for this case

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Lol go n hustle stop stressing your wife

You do the cooking until she gets comfortable with it.

Have you ever used the charcoal stove to compare the difference.

jenifer007:
You need to be firm with your decision if she's not ready to support financially.

No be all the time men go dey act weak if they have a wife who's not understanding financially.

Some of your expenses up there should be cut off ...I personally told my husband to stop paying dstv subscription fee since 2022 and we have adjusted so fine without DSTV... watching DSTV or GOTV no be do or die...

If she can't support you financially now when una still dey naija, what will now happen if you guys relocate abroad.

Paying for Gotv and house internet but cannot pay 15k monthly for gas.

Anyway discuss finances with your wife instead of unilaterally decide what should be cut.

Dzzzz:
This matter get as be sef..Bro,you sef get your own for body..You no buy gas,you no want make she use burner,makawhy na??..You carry her back to analog days when we Dey digital era,COME ON NA!!..I sure say you get side chick ooo!!

Comprehension dey to hard for you.

It's not a bad thing
But no one should subject another person into using it.
I'm using firewood oooooo

Smile smile smile

Diamond💎

BigYash:
It's possible that you that is saying this now,is using firewood fire to boil water now,that you want to use to make Garri this evening o...

Kobojunkie:
Look, his job is as provider and it is not his place to use his wife in saving any more money. 🥱🥱

2. Oh, so he has to resign from his job to cook with the stove? Yet, you claimed earlier that it was stress free? You wish for the woman to quit her own hustle in order to use the stove all while having us believe it does not add stress to her life? 🥱🥱

3. If your financial sense has you inconveniencing others to your benefit, then consider that you don't have financial sense at all. 🥱🥱

It's about the TIME spent cooking, not how stressful it is. Be calming down when you're reading. No, I did not say cooking (by any method) is not stressful. Be calming down when you're reading.