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QuinQ:
Ok, how will you get pregnant and who will be father figure to your kids

DrFunmisticGlow:
why does she need to ruin her body and health for prick. If na pikin she want, adoption dey.

DrFunmisticGlow:
why does she need to ruin her body and health for prick. If na pikin she want, adoption dey.

SpencerForbes:
She should probably take those questions to people like Nancy Isime or Tiwa Savage. At the end of the day, someone’s likely going to end up getting her pregnant and leaving her as a baby mama; then she’ll just join the "men are scum" club as another single mom.

QuinQ:
What makes you think those women are not happy with their lives?

SpencerForbes:
Funny how they’re all over social media declaring they’re ready for a husband. If they truly felt "complete" on their own, they wouldn't be making such a big deal about needing someone else. At the end of the day, you only go looking for what you feel you’re lacking.

Tenrack:
wetin dey pain me be say this Aneema go don get lots of favours and financial assistance from men. But trust that gender to always downplay the role of men In their lives. Very ungrateful selfish things.

kiddaz:
Em get one s1mp when be dey manage her some years back. They were forming local Romeo and Juliet, from her contributions here lately it's like the guy done chop and gbes

QuinQ:
Ok, you honestly believe Tiwa needs a man and can't get one? She doesn't NEED a man (exactly what this lady is saying). She WANTS a certain kind of man in a very picky sort of way!

Tenrack:
oh you Sabi the shediot sef. Ah. Be like the guy do the Dundee strong thing. Dem go use their hands choose terrible men for partners come dey blame all man for their wahala.

Funny creatures.

kiddaz:
Lol who nor know funmi and her lover that year for this place? She do feminist taya until the guy come smooth talk enter her. He was literally defending her anytime she start her out of points ranting like this one today. Just wait small. If them still dey together the guy must turn up. They're either married or like I guessed not together anymore. If you check her old threads you must see long declarations and epistles of love. No be small thing bro. I even shock say she still dey active here. Thought she would be too busy taking care of their home

QuinQ:
Ok, you honestly believe Tiwa needs a man and can't get one? She doesn't NEED a man (exactly what this lady is saying). She WANTS a certain kind of man in a very picky sort of way!

SpencerForbes:
Are you talking about the same Tiwa who mentioned being open to being a second wife? Or did you miss that in the news? There’s nothing "picky" about them needing a man at this point. The only real quality they’re looking for is someone who won't break their heart. Honestly, even a guy who’s broke could marry them if he carries himself like someone responsible, so forget that "picky" narrative. That luxury definitely doesn't exist for women approaching menopause.

QuinQ:
Do you even know that Tiwa is a celebrity musician. Do you even know she has a fan base of men that'll even kill for her talkless of marrying her? But she doesn't want to marry them! She wants a certain kind of man!
Both Elon Musk and Dangote are also single. Why don't u say it is because they can't find a woman willing to marry them??

SpencerForbes:
The issue isn’t that she’s too picky; it’s that she’s looking for someone who won't just use her and leave. She’s likely seen it all—rich, kind, successful guys—but realized that most men ultimately prioritize youth and loyalty. At her level of exposure, it’s hard to find a man who doesn’t have a hidden agenda or isn't just waiting to leave her for someone "innocent."

The reality is that men like Elon Musk or Dangote have much better options because men are comfortable dating "down," whereas women usually date "up." A man can turn a girl from the slums into a queen, but it’s unlikely she’d ever settle for a broke guy. At her age and status, finding someone who truly loves her for her is a massive challenge. That’s the reality of life.

QuinQ:
And it's not also a massive challenge 4 Dangote and Musk?? (Finding someone who truly loves them 4 them). Same reason Musk and Dangote are NOT married is exactly same reason Tiwa is not married. I mean, I'm ready to MARRY her right now, as are many, many men.
Here's Musk below saying he's lonely and sleeps alone at night. I know people like you will think it is because he can't get a woman, and give all sorts of reasons why he can't get a woman!

https://youtube.com/shorts/55FKhmti93s?si=BSNImIllpnQanSFe

SpencerForbes:
So, because he sleeps alone, that means he needs a woman? That’s honestly the funniest thing I’ve heard all day. 😂 I actually watched the video expecting him to say he needed someone, but he never did. Him being single is clearly a choice, not because he can't get a lady. If he wanted to be with someone, he would be—he just doesn’t want to. I haven't heard him say he’s looking for marriage or even open to it, but feel free to prove me wrong.

As for you saying you’d marry Tiwa, I’m sure your family would jump at the chance because they’d love a taste of her wealth and fame. Let's be real—if she were just a random 45-year-old single mom, you’d get hit with so much backlash and probably become the laughing stock of your community. The reality is, you aren't any different from the guys who have a hidden agenda.

QuinQ:
Did you also watch where he said he doesn't like being alone?? Of course he's looking for someone, but the right person - just like Tiwa.
It'd be the greatest honor of my life to marry Tiwa Savage and I have absolutely no hidden agenda and want absolutely nothing from her. Just to be called Tiwa Savage's husband is already worth millions

SpencerForbes:
If it was Iya Yusuf, would you be saying the same thing? I guess not so you have hidden agenda.

DrFunmisticGlow:
why does she need to ruin her body and health for prick. If na pikin she want, adoption dey.

QuinQ:
Of course not! Does Iya have the star dust of Tiwa?
Imagine hearing my wife's voice playing on the radio, and you're comparing that to Iya. Point is, countless men would love to marry Tiwa right now!

SpencerForbes:
If you wouldn’t marry a random woman her age but you’re willing to marry Tiwa, then talking about her "star power" just proves you’re exactly like every other guy. Let’s be real—you don’t love her for who she is; you’re just into the fact that she’s a famous artist.

What happens when the polished voice you hear on the radio turns out to be a regular, tired voice in the bedroom? You’ll probably walk away. You claim you won't marry a 40-year-old woman, yet you’re willing to lower your standards—or even take her surname—just because it’s Tiwa. You’re no different from the rest, and honestly, people with that mindset are exactly why she’s so hesitant to settle down with just anyone.

QuinQ:
I find it amazing that people like you actually exist.
Please explain to us how to marry someone "for who she is"! Isn't her beauty, sweet voice, youth all part of who she is and can all go away with time? What is wrong with you??!

SpencerForbes:
Youth? Is a woman like Iya Yusuf not considered a youth too? Loving her "for who she is" sounds good on paper, but if all those superficial things you listed were gone, would you actually stay? Imagine she got burnt, lost her looks, and couldn't sing anymore—would you still be there?

Be honest with yourself: if she wasn't "Tiwa Savage" but just your next-door neighbor, would you seriously consider her after everything she's done in the past? You don't have to answer me, but you should definitely take a moment to think about it.

QuinQ:
That is the point, genius! Being Tiwa is part of who she is! There is no "who she is" if you discount her beauty, youth, sweet voice, stardom, etc. Same applies to Iya and everybody!

SpencerForbes:
That’s just not true. She was a person long before she became "Tiwa Savage." That stage persona is just what she shows the public, but the fame and stardom can be a lot to handle. I’m sure what she actually needs is someone who can look past all that and just see a woman worth loving.

Tiwa is for the fans, but would you still be there when the spotlight fades and you’re left with Tiwatope Omolara? When the fake smiles for the cameras are gone and she’s just exhausted from shows, wanting nothing but peace and time alone—could you handle that? Forget the celebrity you see on TV. Can you actually accept her real, private life?

QuinQ:
This guy, I don't want to say you're dense. Are you marrying the stage persona? So her "real private life" is the worst in the world? What is your problem? You're marrying a beautiful 45-yr-old single mother who also happens to be a super star, which will definitely rub off on you. Infact the moment you marry her you enter the history books. They're all part of the equation and all part of what you have to take into account when you keep saying no one wants to marry her!

SpencerForbes:
What history book are you even talking about? There isn’t one—unless it’s the one where you’re labeled a gold digger. I never said she’d never get married; I’m saying people like you are desperate because you’re after something. You claim you love her for her voice, but you keep dodging my question: what happens when that voice is gone? That’s the real test of "love."

If you’re marrying Tiwatope Omolara, you’re also marrying Tiwa Savage, and her private life is likely nothing like what you see on screen. Everyone thought Tonto was the saint and Churchill was the villain until the truth came out. So, let’s be real—if she wasn’t a star, but just a neighbor who parties all weekend, smokes, and has a history of sex tapes, would you honestly want her raising your kids? No.

We both know the truth: you just want that "stardust" to rub off on you. You’re there for a reason, and the moment the fame fades, you’ll be gone in a heartbeat. Honestly, I just hope you wouldn’t disappear with her money too.