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SpencerForbes:
Good for her. Honestly, I’m sure she’s got thousands of guys hitting her up constantly. The wild part is that if she wanted to get married by next week, she could definitely make it happen. The real struggle for her is just figuring out who actually cares about her versus who’s just after her money or looking for a hookup.

Easier thou do, .......if she wants to marry by next week, she can make it happen.

I doubt if you know how difficult for a lady of 25, who is also not famous to get married, let alone, a madam of 34, who is very popular/rich.

Sure, 7k guys might be disturbing her on social media and 3k offline.....the big question is, how many are ready to walk her to the Isle? She will struggle to count 1.

Try to go to HND 1 students or 300 level university students, 90% of them already jittery about their tomorrows marital issues.

Guys don't want to marry again, not even when holes, are more than readily available, couple with economy bites.

You may do coconut head ooo, by claiming people are marrying daily. Yes they do marry, but what is the percentage?

Do the research yourself,... number of Ur own females family, who are supposed to marry by now but still struggling, next go to ur church and count, before your age mates.

cr7lomo:
Na people like u de deceive them... men wan knack and men wan marry na 2 very different things ...unless she go marry man wey she go de feed

😂 na my work to deceive people na😂 make she share am Dey go, e go reach everybody. But we know say men wey no value their self esteem plenty. They can marry anything available. If we still have men marrying single mother of three, what do you expect? The probability that is low but we can’t rule it out.

Fiscus105:
Easier thou do, .......if she wants to marry by next week, she can make it happen.

I doubt if you know how difficult for a lady of 25, who is also not famous to get married, let alone, a madam of 34, who is very popular rich.

Sure, 7k guys might be disturbing her on social media and 3k offline.....the big question is, how many are ready to walk her to the Isle? She will struggle to count 1.

Try to go to HND 1 students or 300 level university students, 90% of them already jittery about their tomorrows marital issues.

Guys don't want to marry again, not even when holes, are more than readily available, couple with economy bites.

You may do coconut head ooo, by claiming people are marrying daily. Yes they do marry, but what are the percentage?

Do the research yourself,... number of Ur own females family, who are supposed to marry by now but still struggling, next go to ur church and count, before your age mates.

That’s a very valid point. There are so many factors at play now—economic hardship, the "baby mama" trend, feminism, and men who simply prioritize their peace of mind over everything else. With all that going on, more men are boycotting marriage entirely.

Still, you can’t ignore the fact that some guys struggle with low self-esteem; they'll settle for just about anyone. If there are men out there proud to marry a retired prostitute or a single mom of three, then she definitely has a chance—the odds are just incredibly low.

Kuginzi:
By Sunny Green Itodo

Popular Nollywood actress, Nancy Isime has revealed the type of man she would like to marry, disclosing that character is more important to her than material things.

In a candid conversation with media personality, Morayo Afolabi-Brown, Isime stated that kindness is a non-negotiable trait for her when it comes to choosing a life partner.

The movie star explained that she doesn’t mind marrying a man who is kind regardless of their status or any other deficiency as she believes that they can be corrected.

Isime said she is ready for marriage, emphasizing that she is now 34 years old.

“I am of marriage age. I am 34. Yes, I am a very attractive lady and men can desire me. But I have to choose what I settle with. First of all, I like kindness. I find kindness one of the most attractive traits.

"Before you can be my friend or even relate with me, not to talk of getting married to me, you have to be kind. And I don’t mean performative. I mean genuine kindness. Once you are kind, everything else can be worked on,” she said.

https://dailypost.ng/2026/01/24/im-34-ready-for-marriage-nancy-isime/

Where Kindness = Simping

Goodluck to her

Kuginzi:
By Sunny Green Itodo

Popular Nollywood actress, Nancy Isime has revealed the type of man she would like to marry, disclosing that character is more important to her than material things.

In a candid conversation with media personality, Morayo Afolabi-Brown, Isime stated that kindness is a non-negotiable trait for her when it comes to choosing a life partner.

The movie star explained that she doesn’t mind marrying a man who is kind regardless of their status or any other deficiency as she believes that they can be corrected.

Isime said she is ready for marriage, emphasizing that she is now 34 years old.

“I am of marriage age. I am 34. Yes, I am a very attractive lady and men can desire me. But I have to choose what I settle with. First of all, I like kindness. I find kindness one of the most attractive traits.

"Before you can be my friend or even relate with me, not to talk of getting married to me, you have to be kind. And I don’t mean performative. I mean genuine kindness. Once you are kind, everything else can be worked on,” she said.

https://dailypost.ng/2026/01/24/im-34-ready-for-marriage-nancy-isime/

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Okay submit your application on the portal

I like her. How do i contact her pls?

SpencerForbes:
Good for her. Honestly, I’m sure she’s got thousands of guys hitting her up constantly. The wild part is that if she wanted to get married by next week, she could definitely make it happen. The real struggle for her is just figuring out who actually cares about her versus who’s just after her money or looking for a hookup.

Does she have money.
If she marry, no more hookups ooo

Kuginzi:
By Sunny Green Itodo

Popular Nollywood actress, Nancy Isime has revealed the type of man she would like to marry, disclosing that character is more important to her than material things.

In a candid conversation with media personality, Morayo Afolabi-Brown, Isime stated that kindness is a non-negotiable trait for her when it comes to choosing a life partner.

The movie star explained that she doesn’t mind marrying a man who is kind regardless of their status or any other deficiency as she believes that they can be corrected.

Isime said she is ready for marriage, emphasizing that she is now 34 years old.

“I am of marriage age. I am 34. Yes, I am a very attractive lady and men can desire me. But I have to choose what I settle with. First of all, I like kindness. I find kindness one of the most attractive traits.

"Before you can be my friend or even relate with me, not to talk of getting married to me, you have to be kind. And I don’t mean performative. I mean genuine kindness. Once you are kind, everything else can be worked on,” she said.

https://dailypost.ng/2026/01/24/im-34-ready-for-marriage-nancy-isime/

After 2000 body count

Ok now Nancy but We are not ready

This one still dey claim 34

Women with multiple piercings unattractive to me.. Period.

After home and away?

What do these social media-drunk Nigerian females mean by "a kind and intentional man"....

Sounds like the only English word that they know..

Oh.. and "literally"...

My sister also put the very important thing too o, not only kindness, how about better gbola that will make you cum?, talk na oo, remember kindness alone can't bring happiness in marriage, talk now that you have the time o.
so add better gbola to the requirements 😊.

I'm enjoying reading comments

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FFF.......FINGER

You're still this stereotypical? In 2026?

KingDashx:
Marry Edo girls at your own risk.

There's also another consideration for her

GBOLA-RISTIC CONSIDERATION ALSO MATTERS

SpencerForbes:
Good for her. Honestly, I’m sure she’s got thousands of guys hitting her up constantly. The wild part is that if she wanted to get married by next week, she could definitely make it happen. The real struggle for her is just figuring out who actually cares about her versus who’s just after her money or looking for a hookup.

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No let poverty kee you. What money does this poor girl has? She is just able to afford basic necessities of life, that’s all. She has no money

SpencerForbes:
Good for her. Honestly, I’m sure she’s got thousands of guys hitting her up constantly. The wild part is that if she wanted to get married by next week, she could definitely make it happen. The real struggle for her is just figuring out who actually cares about her versus who’s just after her money or looking for a hookup.

Everybody must get problem....
You lie....she no fit.
Na so e easy....why you think it is like a good journey, called safe when you arrive safe.
Ask Tonto and co. They tot same.
Drop the You Are Ready Toga and arrange your mind for a man that will manage you and yours till one of you die......

Sonnobax15:

It takes more than enough courage for a lady to come out just to spill such things

So,I don't think it'd be a nice idea to bodyshame her even tho she had wasted her youthful years

May the same God who have been rewarding her colleagues according to the number of apples they've eaten and Shilohs attended respond to her needs ASAP before she finally welcomes meno-stop into her arms

but you can't assume she has wasted her years

She is at least successful and can be independent, you don't know the years she sacrificed to get that

Many men like me no see anything wrong in settling with this one that can give you like 15 years b4 menopause

That is if peace of mind dey to her nice attributes

She no dey ask for much sef

simpleseyi:
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No let poverty kee you. What money does this poor girl has? She is just able to afford basic necessities of life, that’s all. She has no money

oga wetin una classify as money again?

No be to live the standard life beyond what the middle class can afford?

Until e become money when dey control person before una say na money

She go still fit live beyond average life in where in the world with her money

Nothing wey Tolu no go see for Oba market! 😃😃😃 .......I pity d man wey go embark on this mission of no return. 🤣🤣🤣🤣

After sleeping around with multiple men, producers and sugar daddies. You want to find a finished man to dump your baggages on. Weldone

Poske95:
Everybody must get problem....
You lie....she no fit.
Na so e easy....why you think it is like a good journey, called safe when you arrive safe.
Ask Tonto and co. They tot same.
Drop the You Are Ready Toga and arrange your mind for a man that will manage you and yours till one of you die......

That’s exactly why I said it’s going to be tough for her to find someone with genuine intentions. When it comes to marriage, plenty of guys would be willing to settle down just to get a piece of what she has. We have to remember she’s wealthier than most men out there, and women aren't the only ones who can be gold diggers.

simpleseyi:
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No let poverty kee you. What money does this poor girl has? She is just able to afford basic necessities of life, that’s all. She has no money

I doubt she’s as "poor" as you’re making her out to be. Being able to cover the basics is one thing, but she’s likely richer than a lot of guys out there. I don’t know her exact net worth, but seeing how men simp for BBNaija ladies, she’s probably doing just fine.

Plus, I’d bet she has connections with top industry guys who could spend your entire net worth (no offense) without even thinking twice. She might not be at the top, but I can guarantee if she wants something—even before marriage—she’s going to get it way faster than you would.

meobizy:
I could swear she married or was engaged four years ago. All I was expecting to hear regarding her matter was childbirth.

No, she is not 34. That is her stage age. The woman is around 40. I’m guessing 39. The youngest she can pass for is 37.

These women keep confusing men. A 36 year old will claim to be 26, yet will verbally assault men of the age who approach. Broadcast your real age. If younger men find you attractive, they will come. I know at 21, I approached women from 20 up to 29 whenever they piqued my interest. A poor youth will be wondering how his wife or girlfriend went from a pretty well-made up damsel to a grey-haired monstrosity in two months.

Nancy and I had a thing when I was in Lagos about 14 years ago and she was still an upcoming actress. She can’t honestly say she was 20 when it happened.

SpencerForbes:
Good for her. Honestly, I’m sure she’s got thousands of guys hitting her up constantly. The wild part is that if she wanted to get married by next week, she could definitely make it happen. The real struggle for her is just figuring out who actually cares about her versus who’s just after her money or looking for a hookup.

Getting a man to marry you is not as easy as getting a man to sleep with you.