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Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by Adexgentle005(op): 2:54pm On Jan 25
I think it’s about time we normalise it. If you are not a virgin no bride price for you. That’s how to come correct when it comes to traditional marriage.
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by LordIsaac(m): 3:22pm On Jan 25
Pity their parents na....for at least bringing them to the world...they should be honored! grin
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by Adexgentle005(op): 3:36pm On Jan 25
LordIsaac:
Pity their parents na....for at least bringing them to the world...they should be honored! grin
We can’t pity lawlessness and irresponsibility. That’s the way it should be.
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by LordIsaac(m): 3:40pm On Jan 25
Adexgentle005:
We can’t pity lawlessness and irresponsibility. That’s the way it should be.
I understand...but the simps that will marry them must aknowledge their parents by doing something. Digging borehole still costs money grin
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by Adexgentle005(op): 4:23pm On Jan 25
LordIsaac:
I understand...but the simps that will marry them must aknowledge their parents by doing something. Digging borehole still costs money grin
That’s why I’m here to save the simps. They can’t keep paying for damaged goods.
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by Dzzzz: 4:31pm On Jan 25
When their parents told them virginity intact is sacred and it should be kept till after marriage,some of them no hear word..Some lost it because of gala and coke,some lost it because of season film..
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by pocohantas(f): 5:29pm On Jan 25
You all can bring it up in your kindred and households/immediate family. No big deal there.

If all women are virgins, then the men would be virgins too.

If all your mothers had their bride price paid as virgins, it means your fathers were virgins too.

If your fathers were not virgins. It means they had sex with some of your mothers before marriage. But somehow these women went on to marry same man or another man. So there is nothing new about this discussion to warrant chestbeating in 2026.
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by Adexgentle005(op): 5:41pm On Jan 25
Dzzzz:
When their parents told them virginity intact is sacred and it should be kept till after marriage,some of them no hear word..Some lost it because of gala and coke,some lost it because of season film..
They think they can eat their cake and still have it.
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by Adexgentle005(op): 5:43pm On Jan 25
pocohantas:
You all can bring it up in your kindred and households/immediate family. No big deal there.

If all women are virgins, then the men would be virgins too.

If all your mothers had their bride price paid as virgins, it means your fathers were virgins too.

If your fathers were not virgins. It means they had sex with some of your mothers before marriage. But somehow these women went on to marry same man or another man. So there is nothing new about this discussion to warrant chestbeating in 2026.
There’s a reason why God sealed the kpekus. It’s a special something that’s meant to be cherished. Men and women are not the same.
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by pocohantas(f): 6:15pm On Jan 25
Adexgentle005:
There’s a reason why God sealed the kpekus. It’s a special something that’s meant to be cherished. Men and women are not the same.
Comprehension must be absent here, because nowhere was this said.
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by Adexgentle005(op): 6:18pm On Jan 25
pocohantas:
Comprehension must be absent here, because nowhere was this said.
Then why did you say men should be virgins? How will you know ?
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by GloriousGbola: 6:21pm On Jan 25
Adexgentle005:
There’s a reason why God sealed the kpekus. It’s a special something that’s meant to be cherished. Men and women are not the same.
Hmmm

Why would God put the male clitoris in the anus tho?

Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by pocohantas(f): 6:33pm On Jan 25
Adexgentle005:
Then why did you say men should be virgins? How will you know ?
If your father wasn't a virgin, is the woman he had premarital sex with not married today? Isn't this basic logic you men claim to be custodians of? Have a lovely week.
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by Adexgentle005(op): 6:44pm On Jan 25
pocohantas:
If your father wasn't a virgin, is the woman he had premarital sex with not married today? Isn't this basic logic you men claim to be custodians of? Have a lovely week.
That was why I said earlier men and women are not the same. Virginity doesn’t apply to men. Stop justifying rubbish.
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by pocohantas(f): 6:56pm On Jan 25
Adexgentle005:
That was why I said earlier men and women are not the same. Virginity doesn’t apply to men. Stop justifying rubbish.
Pheeew ✈️✈️. Hopefully intelligence comes from your (virgin) wife's genes.
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by ogashman(m): 7:11pm On Jan 25
Lol ......

The thing with this mental delusion is that the proponents don't always picture their sisters or daughters when vomiting the rubbish from their buccal cavity.


When e reach ur sister or daughter turn ,no collect bride price.

Also talk about what non virgin men would be deprived of
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by LordIsaac(m): 7:39pm On Jan 25
Adexgentle005:
That’s why I’m here to save the simps. They can’t keep paying for damaged goods.
Since you have vowed not to compensate borehole carriers, I rest my case! grin
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by Adexgentle005(op): 7:42pm On Jan 25
ogashman:
Lol ......

The thing with this mental delusion is that the proponents don't always picture their sisters or daughters when vomiting the rubbish from their buccal cavity.


When e reach ur sister or daughter turn ,no collect bride price.

Also talk about what non virgin men would be deprived of
Are you really a man or a woman? Look at this simp. Phew!
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by Adexgentle005(op): 7:43pm On Jan 25
LordIsaac:
Since you have vowed not to compensate borehole carriers, I rest my case! grin
There are many fishes in the river.
Re: Let’s Normalise Non-payment Of Bride Price For Non-virgins by tonymyke4life(m): 9:17pm On Jan 25
Adexgentle005:
I think it’s about time we normalise it. If you are not a virgin no bride price for you. That’s how to come correct when it comes to traditional marriage.
Look up d meaning of virgin! And tell me who it applies to
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