₦airaland Forum

"If you don’t have money as a man, stay away from a woman. We need money for maintenance. On a first date, you need to do something that will make me accept you fast.

Imagine asking me out on a date and taking me to Chicken Republic.. like, I don’t understand? There are other top-class places to go to. The place you take me determines if I will say yes or no to the relationship.

Why will a man spend ₦10k on a first date? That is not a r£d flag, that’s a r£d s£a. How can you spend ₦10k? Is it mama-put date? If you don’t have money as a man, stay away from a woman. We need money..."

- A Nigerian lady has ignited deb@te online after revealing that the type of restaurant a man takes her will determine if she will date him or not.

As a man If you don’t have money stay away from us (Women) we need money for maintenance - pic.twitter.com/YBn8yHViVp

— ChukwuNonso✍️ (@Mazi_Chinonso1) January 24, 2026

kiddaz:
Lol... This one still dey assume. Na so one say she won take me out to the beach one day. I'm not asking you out nor Am i interested in 4kn you. She fine and set sha but I don't do neighborhs. I dey my own dey when she came to my apartment with a bottle of Hennessy and a suggestion we go to the beach. Wetin concern me, shebi it's to enjoy. She has a serious boyfriend and a sugar daddy. So she probably took that bottle from one of them she no go buy am even though she can. We got there I bought Cana and coke for her to mix it. We smoked drank and ordered food. Later BBQ and more Cana. Babe began saying how she's not expensive to date as some guys may think blah blah blah... How She 4kd a guy after he spent "just" 250k on her blah blah blah... In my mind I just dey laugh her. So you believe say me like this even dey interested in you talk more spend to 4k you? When the first bill came I didn't have enough cash so she gave me that look like you no want spend money on me make we 4ck? Me I don't like holding cash but cards and when I'm stepping out I hold like 5 different bank cards. So I paid for it with my card and re ordered Glenn 15 years more coke for her and some BBQ... Truth is I like her nature but that money talk and her sexual behaviour abi wtv will I call it is scary even for me as a guy. Lots of girls feel their company is a favour to you. Imagine this one is talking rubbish up there with thier leech mentality. Later dem go begin cry to Jesus, Mohammed and ancestors for help

Hypnotise:
Geez… many Nigerian women have this disgusting attitude of being a leech, disguised as relationship responsibility of the man. It is b.s.

Women of other countries are much more supportive, and helpful by actually contributing to a cause. Them no dey do your money is our money pattern, she get her own, you get your own.

KingDashx:
Omo the interviewer fit tear that girl slap oh
See as e strong face😂

Freshtruth:

As a man If you don’t have money stay away from us (Women) we need money for maintenance - pic.twitter.com/YBn8yHViVp

— ChukwuNonso✍️ (@Mazi_Chinonso1) January 24, 2026

Hypnotise:
Geez… many Nigerian women have this disgusting attitude of being a leech, disguised as relationship responsibility of the man. It is b.s.

Women of other countries are much more supportive, and helpful by actually contributing to a cause. Them no dey do your money is our money pattern, she get her own, you get your own.

Freshtruth:

As a man If you don’t have money stay away from us (Women) we need money for maintenance - pic.twitter.com/YBn8yHViVp

— ChukwuNonso✍️ (@Mazi_Chinonso1) January 24, 2026