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Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Hullcity: 10:35pm On Jan 28
Kudos to u for ur courage. It takes courage n faith to begin this journey
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by NotOfThisWorld(f): 12:34am On Jan 29
That's good. Congratulations to you and your wife.
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by spiceadole(f): 5:54am On Jan 29
You guys are still getting married and this one even sounds excited about it.
Lol
Men will say one thing online while doing another offline.
Marriage doesn't benefit them , women are evil, bla bla bla yet they can't stop getting married.
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Dtruthspeaker: 9:13am On Jan 29
Gbadugbakun:
I can be your second husband. If men are allowed to marry multiple wives, women should be accorded the same privilege.
In her country she can marry you or rather she would soon be free to marry you. But, guy, you no like yourself ooo. You see bad thing yet you won go there. Hian ok oo
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by folake4u: 2:53pm On Jan 29
Lol. I thought Marriage doesn't benefit men but you don open thread due to excitement on getting married.

You for kuku do Tiktok content about "GRWM on meeting my in-laws". cheesy
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by pocohantas(f): 3:14pm On Jan 29
folake4u:
Lol. I thought Marriage doesn't benefit men but you don open thread due to excitement on getting married.

You for kuku do Tiktok content about "GRWM on meeting my in-laws". cheesy
This one in particular is always online telling us men don't benefit from marriage. But he has left his fellow Ministers of Bannies to go do introduction, even open thread to tell us. I pity his colleagues on here.

😂😂😂😂😂😂
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 3:46pm On Jan 29
pocohantas:
This one in particular is always online telling us men don't benefit from marriage. But he has left his fellow Ministers of Bannies to go do introduction, even open thread to tell us. I pity his colleagues on here.

😂😂😂😂😂😂
Lol....poco my poco!

I finally found a good girl who made me change my stance. I really love her and will never mistreat her!
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by pocohantas(f): 3:52pm On Jan 29
Jman06:
Lol....poco my poco!

I finally found a good girl who made me change my stance. I really love her and will never mistreat her!
Naso! I hope she is 16yo and uneducated as you advise young girls and men here. Or she also made you change your mind on that?
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 3:54pm On Jan 29
pocohantas:
Naso! I hope she is 16yo and uneducated as you advise young girls and men here. Or she also made you change your mind on that?
She's 20 years old and still within the age range I wanted.
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by pocohantas(f): 4:04pm On Jan 29
Jman06:
She's 20 years old and still within the age range I wanted.
I asked if she is 16yo and you say she is 20. 20 is an adult and of legal age. Why did you decide to get married and to an adult after advising men on Nairaland to do the opposite for years?
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 4:12pm On Jan 29
pocohantas:
I asked if she is 16yo and you say she is 20. 20 is an adult and of legal age. Why did you decide to get married and to an adult after advising men on Nairaland to do the opposite for years?
I never advised anybody to marry 16 years old. My opinion has always been that girls of 16years old can still marry and that age of consent should be reduced to 16yo. I've always said here that I prefer girls in the age range of 18 to 22yo. I would have said 16-22yo but that would mean going against the current law on age of consent.
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by pocohantas(f): 4:15pm On Jan 29
Jman06:
I never advised anybody to marry 16 years old. My opinion has always been that girls of 16years old can still marry and that age of consent should be reduced to 16yo. I've always said here that I prefer girls in the age range of 18 to 22yo. I would have said 16-22yo but that would mean going against the current law on age of consent.
You did actually advise people to marry teenagers and said the only people against it are bitter old women. Why didn't you marry one since you think it is right? Why do you encourage what you do not prefer? You never preferred marriage, but now you are so excited to be married that you created a thread. Even simps haven't done this.

Anyway, I knew this day will come and I am happy to witness it. Hopefully your mentees can learn as you update us more.
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 4:25pm On Jan 29
pocohantas:
You did actually advise people to marry teenagers and said the only people against it are bitter old women. Why didn't you marry one since you think it is right? Why do you encourage what you do not prefer? You never preferred marriage, but now you are so excited to be married that you created a thread. Even simps haven't done this.

Anyway, I knew this day will come and I am happy to witness it. Hopefully your mentees can learn as you update us more.
If the law on age of consent had been modified to reduce consent age to 16, I would have reduced my preferences to between 16 and 22yo but it has not been changed. If I wear a lawyer and I'm to handle a case where a man is being prosecuted for marrying a 16yo, I'll definitely discharge and acquit him
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Samantha125(f): 4:31pm On Jan 29
How old are you? if you don't mind me asking... I want to check something...🤔🤔🤔
Jman06:
If the law on age of consent had been modified to reduce consent age to 16, I would have reduced my preferences to between 16 and 22yo but it has not been changed. If I wear a lawyer and I'm to handle a case where a man is being prosecuted for marrying a 16yo, I'll definitely discharge and acquit him
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by pocohantas(f): 4:31pm On Jan 29
Jman06:
If the law on age of consent had been modified to reduce consent age to 16, I would have reduced my preferences to between 16 and 22yo but it has not been changed. If I wear a lawyer and I'm to handle a case where a man is being prosecuted for marrying a 16yo, I'll definitely discharge and acquit him
Jman, please rest. I never took you serious and this is not surprising. Let your bros on the FP follow you to be saying men don't benefit from marriage. They will be here when you start posting abacha and fufu pictures like the malignant one.
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 4:33pm On Jan 29
Samantha125:
How old are you? if you don't mind me asking... I want to check something...🤔🤔🤔
Sorry, I can't disclose my age on a public forum
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Samantha125(f): 4:39pm On Jan 29
Yet you disclosed your girlfriend's age...🤔🤔🤔... Are you that old?😅😅😅
Jman06:
Sorry, I can't disclose my age on a public forum
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by folake4u: 5:01pm On Jan 29
pocohantas:
This one in particular is always online telling us men don't benefit from marriage. But he has left his fellow Ministers of Bannies to go do introduction, even open thread to tell us. I pity his colleagues on here.

😂😂😂😂😂😂
Imagine my shock when I opened this thread and it's the notorious monicker always championing that marriage doesn't benefit men.

A case of "Do as I say, not what I do". Na mumu dey believe their mouth.
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 5:51pm On Jan 29
Samantha125:
Yet you disclosed your girlfriend's age...🤔🤔🤔... Are you that old?😅😅😅
I'm young dear. I don't disclose my age for personal reasons.
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Samantha125(f): 9:08pm On Jan 29
But you disclosed your girlfriend's age, why?
Jman06:
I'm young dear. I don't disclose my age for personal reasons.
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 9:53pm On Jan 29
Samantha125:
But you disclosed your girlfriend's age, why?
Because she's not on this forum
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by pocohantas(f): 9:57pm On Jan 29
folake4u:
Imagine my shock when I opened this thread and it's the notorious monicker always championing that marriage doesn't benefit men. A case of "Do as I say, not what I do". Na mumu dey believe their mouth.
I didn't know you are familiar with him. I was shocked when I followed your comment and saw it is Jman. I am very sure about a month ago, I saw him arguing with his life that men do not benefit from marriage. But na him create thread, not the 20yo girl.
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Samantha125(f): 9:59pm On Jan 29
Still, this is a faceless forum, what do you think I'd do with your age? Harm you?

What's your age group then? cheesy cheesy cheesy
Jman06:
Because she's not on this forum
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 10:18pm On Jan 29
Samantha125:
Still, this is a faceless forum, what do you think I'd do with your age? Harm you?

What's your age group then? cheesy cheesy cheesy
Okay, 30-35yo
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Samantha125(f): 10:25pm On Jan 29
The age gap is too much, but at least you're not her sugar daddy.
Jman06:
Okay, 30-35yo
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Jman06(op): 10:30pm On Jan 29
Samantha125:
The age gap is too much, but at least you're not her sugar daddy.
It's not too much. That's the age gap for most couples in this part of the world. In fact, our fathers were 20-30years older than their wives yet they had great marriages. Marriage is better when the man is way older because at that age, the men have seen it all and are wiser than their younger selves, so they're ready to make their marriages work.
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by budaatum: 10:37pm On Jan 29
Samantha125:
What if she then decides to claim half of your assets in case things don't workout between the two of you?
Couples who want to remain married don't start off with "in case things don't workout", because just thinking "in case things don't workout" will make you do what will make things not work out.
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by budaatum: 10:41pm On Jan 29
Dtruthspeaker:
See how she is wishing you evil.

Do I not keep saying that women hate men?
One single person is your "women hate men"?

I guess you'd never marry a woman then.
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by budaatum: 10:42pm On Jan 29
Samantha125:
I'm married.
Are you?

Do you also do "in case things don't workout"?
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by folake4u: 11:05pm On Jan 29
pocohantas:
I didn't know you are familiar with him. I was shocked when I followed your comment and saw it is Jman. I am very sure about a month ago, I saw him arguing with his life that men do not benefit from marriage. But na him create thread, not the 20yo girl.
I am actually, I always try to avoid his monicker like plague. 😂😂

Let's not be surprised if his 20yr old wife influences him to be creating Tiktok content soon.
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Dtruthspeaker: 3:10am On Jan 30
budaatum:
One single person is your "women hate men"?

I guess you'd never marry a woman then.
I have pointed out several examples in the past.
Re: My Marital Journey Has Begun! by Dtruthspeaker: 3:15am On Jan 30
Jman06:
She's 20 years old and still within the age range I wanted.
She's 20 and you want to marry her?

You are not serious. Its clear that you are joking
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