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ComeComing:
I feel teary and speechless after reading this

Life is full of ups and downs. And to be a man is not a day job.

To start with, I'd advise you consult a spiritual adviser. Tell your mum to take you to a strong spiritual adviser for cleansing. PLEASE DON'T IGNORE THIS ADVICE.

You may be under a generational curse just like you said, but wouldn't know. The spiritual rules and will continue to rule the physical.

To make it in life, you have to take the bull by the horn. Fortune they say, favors the brave. Life does not reward meekness, it rewards courage.

I really feel your pain. There's nothing more painful than wasted efforts. And Nigeria is not even a safe place to birth a child again because the country is only going to get worse.


NOW LISTEN CAREFULLY, THIS IS MY LITTLE ADVISE TO YOU:

If you can, tell your mum to tell her relatives and also your dad's relatives to do fund raising and send you abroad (UK, Germany, Austria).

Currently, this is your best bet. Leave the thought of schooling or handwork for now. Fight to leave Nigeria first. You can further your education to any extent once you travel out.

Infact it's more easier over there, because you'll be schooling and also working (and also saving). So you see, it's a win win situation.

Maybe, it won't be rosy at the beginning, but with time, things will fall place and you'll start living well, get married, have kids, acquire properties, and begin to live the life you've always imagined.

Things are very hard for people with siblings, talk more of you with no sibling(s).


START NOW AND DON'T RELENT. GOD WILL SEE YOU THROUGH.

Nothing will work out for him until the yoke of disappointment and failure at the edge of breakthrough is broken. He needs deliverance.

Op, you will keep failing until you go to God for help. Read Psalm 8, 3times or 7 times and just ask God for help. That's a start

Ishilove:
Nothing will work out for him until the yoke of disappointment and failure at the edge of breakthrough is broken. He needs deliverance.

So you mean his case is spiritual right?

ComeComing:
So you mean his case is spiritual right?

Yes, it is.

Ishilove:
Yes, it is.

How sure are you? It could be physiological you know?

Are you strong in faith?

ComeComing:
How sure are you? It could be physiological you know?

Are you strong in faith?

How I know doesn't really matter. I recognise patterns when I see one.

ComeComing:
I feel teary and speechless after reading this

Life is full of ups and downs. And to be a man is not a day job.

To start with, I'd advise you consult a spiritual adviser. Tell your mum to take you to a strong spiritual adviser for cleansing. PLEASE DON'T IGNORE THIS ADVICE.

Ọgbeni, you don't qualify to advice anyone yet!

Go to school!

budaatum:
Ọgbeni, you don't qualify to advice anyone yet!

Go to school!

Hmm. this one na monitoring spirit o 🙄

Ishilove:
How I know doesn't really matter. I recognise patterns when I see one.

I bu agu nwanyi o

ComeComing:
Hmm. this one na monitoring spirit o 🙄

I'm monitoring you in 10 years time too. That's what schooling empowers one to do. It has nothing to do with some imaginary nonexistent spirit.

budaatum:
I specifically chose mechanic.

He doesn't pay. He goes to the oga mechanic and begs to let him sweep floor and run errands.

And he doesn't eat until he sweats!

Life is hard like that.

u get mind o

dollytino4real:
u get mind o

I sold eggs and canned Coke at the Lagos end of the Ibadan expressway to get through secondary school, and I fried chicken and chips to fund my education in my birth land I returned to.

So yes. I get mind. I needed it to survive.

budaatum:
I sold eggs and canned Coke at the Lagos end of the Ibadan expressway to get through secondary school, and I fried chicken and chips to fund my education in my birth land I returned to.

So yes. I get mind. I needed it to survive.

is good because hard work pay but shame dey kpai plenty

dollytino4real:
is good because hard work pay but shame dey kpai plenty

Shame when my mates are in the bus I'm trying to sell my eggs and canned Coke to or what?

In fact, now you make me think. One of my mates died just last week. He was the sort who'd think I should have been ashamed.

budaatum:
I'm monitoring you in 10 years time too. That's what schooling empowers one to do. It has nothing to do with some imaginary nonexistent spirit.

Check your time fess.. abi you dey abroad?

budaatum:
I sold eggs and canned Coke at the Lagos end of the Ibadan expressway to get through secondary school, and I fried chicken and chips to fund my education in my birth land I returned to.

So yes. I get mind. I needed it to survive.

Bear it in mind that then is not now.. things were good then.. na hawking of egg and canned coke the op wn take survive?

Think. Think

Goodadvice01:
I'm tired of thinking every minute of the day. Infact, I'm tired of this life

I wish I could feel a drop of pity from this post but Nah... You are almost there where things are easier but you have plenty mental distractions. FOCUS and keep fighting quietly.

Wait first... All these rants, what if you die today or tomorrow? do you know? It almost happened to me. I had my whole life so beautiful and just when I was about to get the icing on the cake... death came but God helped me and I was in the hospital for over a month with all the opportunities GONE like vapour. But here I am today flexing.

You are not in IDP camp where you have to suck dyyk before you eat breakfast and you are not in the hospital begging for oxygen. You even have eyes to see how to press your phone. Abeg chill and purge your mind of all these rants and be quiet make you no upset your guardian angel.