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pocohantas:
We are looking forward to that day. Jman type pass like that and e done go do introduction.

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

budaatum:
Most Nigerian men have not been educated to love and respect their wife, and think she is a rib who should just provide them with sex on tap. And when you tell them, they think you are just being woke.

https://www.nairaland.com/8609468/france-moves-abolish-concept-marital#138312943

uche87:
https://www.facebook.com/thevillagetowncrier/posts/pfbid0WD1eDtB3GjQFqrnhHjcZQHjBEZWriUL3W2ibwEpqiQZ9t3X19qsNDfAcjBeAJmh9l

cococandy:
If we women stop being what?

joseph1832:
Stop being you.

Host78:
There are more female ashåwo, more female onlyfåns.

But then again, how does this relate to this thread or whatever I talked about earlier on?

thomas2024:
What you put up here is a beautiful nonsense. UK is not Africa continent or Nigeria. African traditional marriage is different entirely from western marriage. Although nothing concerns me with their yeye pretentious monogamy style here that they copied from the west.

olabrad:
Strong women are shaping history by lying against their husbands to get him arrested after the man has sold his property to take her abroad.

Kwinesther:
So how does a woman being an ashawo make her inherently selfish and terrible compared to your gender that are mostly murderers, kidnappers, rapist, bandits, terrorist and armed robbers? And which gender sleeps and pays for the service rendered by the ashawos?

budaatum:
Educate yourself please, and know that the truth will set you free, and liars end up in jail.

cococandy:
Like literally leave us alone.

Imagine how awesome the world would be if the men who think they don’t benefit anything from marriage choose not to get married ever?

olabrad:
So, exactly how does your comment negates your irrational understanding of a "strong woman"

Host78:
Lolz.

You speak as though the men carry gun and are forcing the women to get married.

My dear women are getting married voluntarily. So where is this "forced" narrative of "leave us alone" coming from?

Na women dey attend shiloh and do hallelujah challenge looking for husbands not men.

So, if you feel the world will be awesome, you can literally tell yourself not to get married. No man is forcing you to get married.

In a world where 2-3 women are sharing one man, fighting over one man, you're here boosting your ego that it is the men who should leave you alone

Delulu

musicwriter:
As an extreme supporter of women right that I am and with due respect to the author of that piece, but he/she doesn't understand the reason for the change when Nigerian women get to the UK.

The reason is that we don't have a strong sense of culture. We have eaten our cake over here and can't have it. And the man is to be blamed.

Ask yourself why it doesn't happen for Arabs, Indians, even for other African countries.

It doesn't happen for other countries with strong sense of culture. There's something wrong with us over here that makes that the case when we get to the UK .

Host78:
Mtcheew

Kwinesther:
lol, pain is that you?

cococandy:
You’re the ones saying you gain nothing from marriage. Why do you still do it? It defeats logic !

Host78:
I think the UK exposes women for the leeches they are in marriage rather than men being the problem.

For one, a man marries a woman because he loves and cares about her.

When she had nothing, he married her, gave her his own money, and fed and clothed her as much as he could.

And when he has hustled enough, he saves and saves and denies himself a lot of things so that he'll be able to cater to this woman and the child she'll later bear.

But that's still not enough. He wants to improve their overall quality of life. He wants more for them.

So he saves even more and then travels to the UK.

In the UK, he picks up odd jobs, and even though he's stressed, he works harder to ensure his family can join him one day.

Then finally his wife and kids are able to join him in the UK.

Suddenly on getting there, she found that she could now work and earn as much as the husband.

He's happy. She's happy. He's happy that finally his loved ones are with him now and they can continue building the home they started.

She's happy she's here now and could finally get rid of her husband and her family.

On the one hand, when he had everything, he gave her everything and brought her over.

On the other hand, when she had everything, she wanted to give him nothing and to send him away.

So, no, the UK does not expose how terrible men are but how terrible and ungrateful women are to the men who gave them everything.

On her own, she'll never have dreamt of a day she'll cross the Nigerian border. It was the man who gave her wings.

But the very moment she felt the air, she turned around and called him a misogynistic bastard who had been maltreating her all along.

He was maltreating her, yet he brought her over to the good life. He was maltreating her, yet he married her and gave her the wedding of her dreams.

He was maltreating her, yet he helped her find a job, helped her complete her course or paid for her schooling.

What did he get in return? Or, more to the point, what did she give him in return?

It's like God after giving you air and life, and suddenly you say now you have the freedom to say God was evil.

Nah, Nigerian women are selfish, self-centred and ungrateful, and the UK exposes their true nature.

And save me the excuse of these women getting married to men they don't like because they need to survive.

Isn't that the selfishness we are talking about? You married someone you don't like because you wanted your own survival, not caring about the man's survival.

@image. Yet this same hopeless and poor girl, starving to death, whose own parents could not help her situation, the moment you take her over there and she gets good work, you, suddenly you're a misogynistic bastard who has been maltreating her

Host78:
Mtcheew

amosnaira:
You finished this topic. Thank you for taking time to put up this write-up

cococandy:
no we can’t .

Best if you avoid us . Win win

joseph1832:
The World can't do without parasite. They serve a specific function. 👌

cococandy:
Do we serve a function or are we useless? You’re going to get dizzy trying to wrap your head around your own confusion