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Hello great people of nairaland, please I need your advice on this. There is the girl of mine we have been dating for almost 5years now she know all my family even to those one that’s in abroad anytime they call they always ask often if her sometimes she even talk to them.. now my problem is I haven’t talk to any of her family except her sister that stay with her. She have one brother that one is in the UK the guy know both of us are dating but I haven’t speak to him before. Recently I told her how far let me know your mum or dad she said NO because her mum want her to date a man that’s driving but me I don’t have a car. And this year I plan of meeting her parents. Please I need your advice maybe I should continue with this relationship.

Then rent a car or start Uber work since they want someone that's driving. Who cares if you're not the owner of the car.

Bro,you should even be thankful to your God that she's kind enough to tell you the truth.

At least,you know what to do, which is,run for your dear life. Cuz this relationship won't lead to anywhere.

After you buy the car, the mother will raise the standard to someone who has a private jet. By the way, does the mother have a car?

Some of the stories we read here sometimes just crack me up 😂
Imagine someone saying her daughter must marry a man who drives a car abeg, if that’s the case, go and hire molue now.
If na Lagos you dey, start from Oshodi dey carry people go CMS 😂 At least by force, your son-in-law go be a “professional driver” 🚐😄

Danlami223:
Hello great people of nairaland, please I need your advice on this. There is the girl of mine we have been dating for almost 5years now she know all my family even to those one that’s in abroad anytime they call they always ask often if her sometimes she even talk to them.. now my problem is I haven’t talk to any of her family except her sister that stay with her. She have one brother that one is in the UK the guy know both of us are dating but I haven’t speak to him before. Recently I told her how far let me know your mum or dad she said NO because her mum want her to date a man that’s driving but me I don’t have a car. And this year I plan of meeting her parents. Please I need your advice maybe I should continue with this relationship.

Do you actually What to marry her

Yes bro I love the girl

indmix:
Then rent a car or start Uber work since they want someone that's driving. Who cares if you're not the owner of the car.

😂 you spoke my mind.

Is she educated.
Knows how to read and write properly

E get reason I dey ask

Danlami223:
Yes bro I love the girl

She has someone else whom her parents know... Ohh and he has a car too. If you like nor serious with your life, be playing Romeo

Mo

Danlami223:
Hello great people of nairaland, please I need your advice on this. There is the girl of mine we have been dating for almost 5years now she know all my family even to those one that’s in abroad anytime they call they always ask often if her sometimes she even talk to them.. now my problem is I haven’t talk to any of her family except her sister that stay with her. She have one brother that one is in the UK the guy know both of us are dating but I haven’t speak to him before. Recently I told her how far let me know your mum or dad she said NO because her mum want her to date a man that’s driving but me I don’t have a car. And this year I plan of meeting her parents. Please I need your advice maybe I should continue with this relationship.

If you are outside Lagos and Abuja
Car maintenance in any state outside this two is more expensive than taking care of a wife

Now...then again a woman with a visionary business is can be more expensive than your own business and feeding/clothing

Get to know the family more and what they stand for before going ahead with her
Else
Free them entirely

If men with car lined up to date her, she will not be dating you.

Trust me on this bro.

She's not with you because she loves you too much. She's with you because at this point in time, you're the "best" she can do.

So, no too trouble yourself. If she is not ready then move on let her wait for the man with car.

And just so you know, you're waiting with her at the moment so she can find a man with car.

If ever such a man comes along as she is praying for him to come, she'll dump you without a second thought.

I her secret place, she's not praying for you to make it, she's praying for God to bring a replacement with a car.

How do I know this? Because if indeed she's with you and hoping to spend the future with you, then she should have been supportive and not caring what anyone else thinks or you don't think you deserve such kind of love?

Danlami223:
Hello great people of nairaland, please I need your advice on this. There is the girl of mine we have been dating for almost 5years now she know all my family even to those one that’s in abroad anytime they call they always ask often if her sometimes she even talk to them.. now my problem is I haven’t talk to any of her family except her sister that stay with her. She have one brother that one is in the UK the guy know both of us are dating but I haven’t speak to him before. Recently I told her how far let me know your mum or dad she said NO because her mum want her to date a man that’s driving but me I don’t have a car. And this year I plan of meeting her parents. Please I need your advice maybe I should continue with this relationship.