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Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by tunde1200(m): 12:13pm On Feb 06
Antwan99:
It wasn't intended to change anything. Just stating the obvious you surprised me not to be aware of.

Furthermore, once you can't express yourself without denigrating the person you're addressing, know you lack a quality I don't want to mention because I don't denigrate.
You knew nothing about Islam why displaying hates in you!?.
Try and learn
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by tunde1200(m): 12:16pm On Feb 06
LeeSmart:
The best decision my late grandfather made was leaving that religion, and uptill now dey (your people) still do persecute my family. Than God for the little influence my dad have in the grand scheme of things in this country, if not my family would have become history.
That unjust killing alone is a big sin in islam but since you're not a Muslim and you know nothing about why now insulting and hating islamic preaching?
Let's learn how to respect other believe pls.
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by ChristCee: 12:18pm On Feb 06
AbuTwins:
Islam is the Only Religion That Gave Women Identity
Islam uniquely honors and grants women a clear, dignified identity rooted in divine guidance, setting it apart from Christianity and other faiths.

Islam’s Affirmation of Women’s Identity:
#The Qur'an explicitly recognizes women as full moral and spiritual beings with rights and responsibilities. Allah says:
“And for women are rights over men similar to those of men over women...” (Qur’an 2:228)

#The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized respect and kindness toward women, stating:
“The best of you are those who are best to their women.” (Tirmidhi)

#Islam grants women rights to inheritance, education, marriage consent, and economic independence—rights that were revolutionary at the time of revelation.

Comparison with Christianity:
#While Christianity preaches spiritual equality, traditional interpretations often placed women in subordinate roles, sometimes limiting their public religious participation. For example, 1 Corinthians 14:34 instructs women to be silent in churches, which has historically been used to restrict women’s roles.

#The Bible’s creation narrative (Genesis 2) has been interpreted by some to imply woman’s secondary status, created from man’s rib, whereas Islam teaches that men and women were created from a single soul:
“O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul...” (Qur’an 4:1)

#Islam’s legal and social framework actively protects women’s rights and identity, while Christianity’s historical practices often reflected patriarchal cultural norms.

Checking the Christian scriptures you'll never see the input of any woman in the compilation of the Bible! They were all men - Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, Paul, Peter, etc! This is too loud!

Islam is the only religion that gave women a clear, honored identity with comprehensive rights and dignity from its inception, supported by divine scripture and prophetic teachings. It elevated women’s status spiritually, socially, and legally, ensuring their full humanity and individuality, unlike Christianity’s historical approach which often subordinated women under cultural interpretations.
Stop trying to rewrite history with half-truths. Let us open the books and see who really values women.

You made a lot of claims, but you conveniently left out the parts of your own books (Quran and Hadith) that contradict your "women's rights" narrative. You claim Christianity subordinates women while Islam honors them? Let's check the receipts.

1. The "Rib" Argument vs. Creation You claimed the Bible's "rib" account implies secondary status while Islam's "single soul" implies equality. This is a massive distortion.

The Bible: Genesis 1:27 explicitly states: “So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.” From day one, women bear the Image of God just as men do. The "rib" in Genesis 2 signifies they are of the same substance—bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh.

Islam: You forgot to mention that your own Prophet explicitly used the "rib" to describe women as "crooked." “Treat women well, for woman is created from a rib, and the most crooked part of the rib is its upper portion... if you try to straighten it, you will break it.” (Sahih al-Bukhari 3331) So the Bible uses the rib to show unity of substance, while your Hadith uses it to say women are inherently crooked and cannot be fully straightened.

2. Spiritual Equality vs "Deficiency" You claimed Islam regards women as full moral beings with equal standing.

2. Spiritual Equality vs "Deficiency" You claimed Islam regards women as full moral beings with equal standing.

The Bible: The New Testament introduced radical equality that didn't exist in the culture at the time. Galatians 3:28: “There is neither Jew nor Gentile... nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.”

Islam: Your Prophet said the exact opposite about the mind and religion of women. The Prophet said: "I have not seen any one more deficient in intelligence and religion than you (women)..." (Sahih al-Bukhari 304) He explained that their intelligence is deficient because their witness is worth half a man's, and their religion is deficient because they cannot pray during menstruation. Is this the "dignified identity" you are talking about? Calling them deficient?

3. Treatment: Sacrificial Love vs Beating You quoted Quran 2:228 about rights, but you ignored Surah 4:34 which serves as the legal framework for domestic discipline.

The Bible: Ephesians 5:25 sets an impossible standard for men: “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” The Christian command is for a man to DIE for his wife.

Islam: The Quran explicitly gives men the authority to beat their wives. “...But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance... forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them.” (Quran 4:34) Please tell me how "striking them" is an honor?

4. Women in Scripture and Witness You shouted that there are no women authors in the Bible. This is a weak argument that backfires on you.

The validity of the Christian faith rests entirely on the testimony of WOMEN. In the 1st century, a woman's testimony was not accepted in Jewish or Roman court. Yet, God chose Mary Magdalene and other women to be the first witnesses to the Resurrection. If the Bible were a "patriarchal fabrication," the men would have written themselves as the first witnesses to be credible. God honored women by making them the first preachers of the Gospel.

Compare this to Islam: [list] []In Islamic law, a woman's testimony is worth half that of a man (Quran 2:282). []In Inheritance, the male gets the portion of two females (Quran 4:11). [*]Your Prophet said: "I was shown Hell and I saw that the majority of its dwellers were women." (Sahih al-Bukhari 3241) [/list]

Christianity liberated women from being property and made them joint-heirs with Christ (1 Peter 3:7). Islam codified their inequality in inheritance, witness, and legal rights.

Next time, quote the whole book, not just the parts that sound nice to Westerners.
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Antwan99: 12:21pm On Feb 06
tunde1200:
You knew nothing about Islam why displaying hates in you!?.
Try and learn
Hate?

If by not being part of something, you then hate it, I am not the type.

Was only stating the obvious. Just in case I am not a Muslim, neither a Christian.
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Lukuluku69(m): 12:22pm On Feb 06
Kobojunkie:
Islam is definitely known as the religion that subjugates and humiliates women, stripping them completely of choice and freedom, all because they were born in a body different from yours and from Mohammed's. That's all!🥱🥱
The Roaming Momma herself.

E tun ti de bi

😆 🤣 😂 😹
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by tunde1200(m): 12:27pm On Feb 06
Antwan99:
Hate?

If by not being part of something, you then hate it, I am not the type.

Was only stating the obvious. Just in case I am not a Muslim, neither a Christian.
Then learn how to respect other believe not hating a d insulting as you did on this post.
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by LeeSmart: 12:28pm On Feb 06
tunde1200:
That unjust killing alone is a big sin in islam but since you're not a Muslim and you know nothing about why now insulting and hating islamic preaching?
Let's learn how to respect other believe pls.
You're from the south west reasons why you're preaching tolerance. I am frm the northeast and i know what my eyes saw... You seems to be a good person
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Greattha: 12:32pm On Feb 06
Do you really want to have this conversationhuh Nah...you don't.

You should've just justified your religion without involving Christianity cos it's an argument you can"t win with all the hijabs and rules targeting women.

I don't agree with the junky anyways cos there's no correlation with religion in the OP's post.


AbuTwins:
Islam is the Only Religion That Gave Women Identity
Islam uniquely honors and grants women a clear, dignified identity rooted in divine guidance, setting it apart from Christianity and other faiths.

Islam’s Affirmation of Women’s Identity:
#The Qur'an explicitly recognizes women as full moral and spiritual beings with rights and responsibilities. Allah says:
“And for women are rights over men similar to those of men over women...” (Qur’an 2:228)

#The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized respect and kindness toward women, stating:
“The best of you are those who are best to their women.” (Tirmidhi)

#Islam grants women rights to inheritance, education, marriage consent, and economic independence—rights that were revolutionary at the time of revelation.

Comparison with Christianity:
#While Christianity preaches spiritual equality, traditional interpretations often placed women in subordinate roles, sometimes limiting their public religious participation. For example, 1 Corinthians 14:34 instructs women to be silent in churches, which has historically been used to restrict women’s roles.

#The Bible’s creation narrative (Genesis 2) has been interpreted by some to imply woman’s secondary status, created from man’s rib, whereas Islam teaches that men and women were created from a single soul:
“O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul...” (Qur’an 4:1)

#Islam’s legal and social framework actively protects women’s rights and identity, while Christianity’s historical practices often reflected patriarchal cultural norms.

Checking the Christian scriptures you'll never see the input of any woman in the compilation of the Bible! They were all men - Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, Paul, Peter, etc! This is too loud!

Islam is the only religion that gave women a clear, honored identity with comprehensive rights and dignity from its inception, supported by divine scripture and prophetic teachings. It elevated women’s status spiritually, socially, and legally, ensuring their full humanity and individuality, unlike Christianity’s historical approach which often subordinated women under cultural interpretations.
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Lukuluku69(m): 12:33pm On Feb 06
LeeSmart:
Na you dey lie my brother, islam is meant to denigrate women.
It baffles me how u guys keep defending this backward religion
Then please show us how the Judeo-Christian Faith and Tradition elevates the status of women.

I will wait.

And while waiting, be sure to quote from the Bible (Old and New Testament)
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Antwan99: 12:42pm On Feb 06
tunde1200:
Then learn how to respect other believe not hating a d insulting as you did on this post.
I don't insult brother.Read my post gain.

Religion is one thing aside from love that sits deep in a person. That's why you think the way you did on my opinion. I don't heart anything that doesn't bring money. I always have objective views. Because, nothing is 100% accurate in this life.

Sincerely brother, it wasn't what you thought. I am a bros you'll like around even if you are an occultic grandmaster and I know, if I like it, I'll join, if I don't, I'll respect your choice and we'll be.
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Validated: 12:52pm On Feb 06
Btruth:
Nice one. One thing that I like about Muslim sisters is their love, dedication and respect for their husbands. God bless them.
Such as exhibited by Mariam Sanda or what is her name again. You guys like to deceive yourselves. Islam subjugation women in everyway possible:
- You must cover yourself from head to toe
- You cannot drive
- You must not be heard
- You cannot be seen in public
- You cannot mix with other genders
- Technically, you are a SLAVE to your husband.
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by CorperKola: 1:16pm On Feb 06
Kobojunkie:
Islam is definitely known as the religion that subjugates and humiliates women, stripping them completely of choice and freedom, all because they were born in a body different from yours and from Mohammed's. That's all!🥱🥱
So you need to be a muslim woman before you should do all this
These Basic rules of decency
Smh
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by SEGLIZ:
Kobojunkie:
Islam is definitely known as the religion that subjugates and humiliates women, stripping them completely of choice and freedom, all because they were born in a body different from yours and from Mohammed's. That's all!🥱🥱
you shouldn't have gone this route, you just turned this to a religious war.

AbuTwins:
Islam is the Only Religion That Gave Women Identity
Islam uniquely honors and grants women a clear, dignified identity rooted in divine guidance, setting it apart from Christianity and other faiths.

Islam’s Affirmation of Women’s Identity:
#The Qur'an explicitly recognizes women as full moral and spiritual beings with rights and responsibilities. Allah says:
“And for women are rights over men similar to those of men over women...” (Qur’an 2:228)

#The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized respect and kindness toward women, stating:
“The best of you are those who are best to their women.” (Tirmidhi)

#Islam grants women rights to inheritance, education, marriage consent, and economic independence—rights that were revolutionary at the time of revelation.

Comparison with Christianity:
#While Christianity preaches spiritual equality, traditional interpretations often placed women in subordinate roles, sometimes limiting their public religious participation. For example, 1 Corinthians 14:34 instructs women to be silent in churches, which has historically been used to restrict women’s roles.

#The Bible’s creation narrative (Genesis 2) has been interpreted by some to imply woman’s secondary status, created from man’s rib, whereas Islam teaches that men and women were created from a single soul:
“O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul...” (Qur’an 4:1)

#Islam’s legal and social framework actively protects women’s rights and identity, while Christianity’s historical practices often reflected patriarchal cultural norms.

Checking the Christian scriptures you'll never see the input of any woman in the compilation of the Bible! They were all men - Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, Paul, Peter, etc! This is too loud!

Islam is the only religion that gave women a clear, honored identity with comprehensive rights and dignity from its inception, supported by divine scripture and prophetic teachings. It elevated women’s status spiritually, socially, and legally, ensuring their full humanity and individuality, unlike Christianity’s historical approach which often subordinated women under cultural interpretations.
do you strongly feel satisfied you've been to cast aspersions against Christianity.

mind you Christianity isn't in competition with any other religion but for the redemption of all mankind.

if you can mention a place in the quran where women were expressly mention as contributing and not writing the scriptures I will give you great contributory women in the Bible.

you going around attacking Christianity and the Bible won't do you any good but read the Bible to understand, what it stands for, what it represents and what it is out to achieve.

don't go about picking the Bible in bit, reading one verse of the Bible just to think you know and understand it is mere illusion. it is things of the Spirit and only those in the Spirit would understand it.
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Magmony: 1:52pm On Feb 06
You will make the best and precious WIFE in existence, and ever liveth.

Hussein27:
I won’t gossip about my husband to friends or family.
What happens between us stays between us.

I won’t abuse him—verbally, emotionally, or physically. Respect flows both ways.

I won’t emasculate him, in public or private. Building him up is part of building us.

I won’t weaponize intimacy. Withholding affection as punishment isn’t love—it’s manipulation.

I won’t compare him to other men—brothers, strangers, or social media highlight reels.

I won’t air our problems online. Our marriage doesn’t need an audience.

I won’t disrespect him in front of our children. Unity in parenting is non-negotiable.

I won’t nag him into resentment. I’ll communicate clearly, then trust him to step up.

I won’t dismiss his feelings because they’re expressed differently than mine.

I won’t use his vulnerabilities against him during arguments. Trust is not a weapon.

I won’t make him choose between me and his family unless there is genuine harm—and we pray that never happens.

I won’t keep score. Marriage isn’t a competition.

I won’t stop being the woman he fell in love with just because I got the ring.

I won’t ignore his love language while demanding fluency in mine.

I won’t make major life decisions alone and expect him to simply follow.

Above all, I will choose to be his peace, his partner, and his best girl.
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by erniok(m): 2:02pm On Feb 06
dele1727:
Respond to the question

Which choice or freedom does the bible give to women
And Deborah, a national leader in Isreal was a what again.

@op, nice post that kobojunkie wants to turn into a battlefield.
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by tunde1200(m): 2:10pm On Feb 06
LeeSmart:
You're from the south west reasons why you're preaching tolerance. I am frm the northeast and i know what my eyes saw... You seems to be a good person
It’s not right to generalize every bad action and tag it as Islam, just as we wouldn’t do that with any other religion or group. In every faith and society, there are good people and bad people—what matters is the individual’s actions, not the belief system they claim to belong to
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by RillJ(m): 3:12pm On Feb 06
True!
Imagine how women in Muslim marriages are treated as relevant partners in homes and society!
Islam indeed allow women girls to chose who and when to marry!
No wonder where Islam is predominant there are hardly incidents of rape because of the respect for the dignity of women!
This is indeed why we have women Imam as against Women Pastors and church leaders!
In Muslim societies and Nations, women are freely allowed to chose and pursue their ambitions - vocation etc
In Islam, women lead prayers and preach in mosque that you have in churches
Islam indeed has more recognition and respect for women than Christianity!

Phew! What else can I say! Only God Himself can deliver some people from self-delusion!


AbuTwins:
Islam is the Only Religion That Gave Women Identity
Islam uniquely honors and grants women a clear, dignified identity rooted in divine guidance, setting it apart from Christianity and other faiths.

Islam’s Affirmation of Women’s Identity:
#The Qur'an explicitly recognizes women as full moral and spiritual beings with rights and responsibilities. Allah says:
“And for women are rights over men similar to those of men over women...” (Qur’an 2:228)

#The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) emphasized respect and kindness toward women, stating:
“The best of you are those who are best to their women.” (Tirmidhi)

#Islam grants women rights to inheritance, education, marriage consent, and economic independence—rights that were revolutionary at the time of revelation.

Comparison with Christianity:
#While Christianity preaches spiritual equality, traditional interpretations often placed women in subordinate roles, sometimes limiting their public religious participation. For example, 1 Corinthians 14:34 instructs women to be silent in churches, which has historically been used to restrict women’s roles.

#The Bible’s creation narrative (Genesis 2) has been interpreted by some to imply woman’s secondary status, created from man’s rib, whereas Islam teaches that men and women were created from a single soul:
“O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul...” (Qur’an 4:1)

#Islam’s legal and social framework actively protects women’s rights and identity, while Christianity’s historical practices often reflected patriarchal cultural norms.

Checking the Christian scriptures you'll never see the input of any woman in the compilation of the Bible! They were all men - Matthew, Mark, Luke, John, Paul, Peter, etc! This is too loud!

Islam is the only religion that gave women a clear, honored identity with comprehensive rights and dignity from its inception, supported by divine scripture and prophetic teachings. It elevated women’s status spiritually, socially, and legally, ensuring their full humanity and individuality, unlike Christianity’s historical approach which often subordinated women under cultural interpretations.
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Kobojunkie:
dele1727:
Respond to the question. Which choice or freedom does the bible give to women
? Did you know that in the Injeel, which Allah claims he inspired, preserved, and authorized, Jesus Christ of Israel declared that women are equal to men— there are no separate rules for men and for women? Men do not have authority over women, and both men and women who choose not to get married are held in high esteem above those who do.(That is what Jesus Christ of Israel taught His followers.) 🥱🥱🥱

So, did Allah change his mind or forget what he said in the Injeel... that is another question that needs to be explored. 🥱🥱
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Kobojunkie: 5:37pm On Feb 06
Zackattack:
➜I knew you were somewhere lucking. So being a virtuous woman is humiliating 🤷🏽‍♂️💁🏻‍♀️
➜ This is about everything a good woman should be and more, but you would certainly disagree. You need help o.
What is a virtuous woman? Why should any woman strive to become this virtous women you speak of? And should the same standard not equally apply to the men? 🥱🥱

2. A good woman according to whose standard? Mohammed's standard, which lowers a woman's status in life to that of an indentured slave—less than a human being —, save for her temporary Mrs. badge? 🥱🥱

Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Kobojunkie: 5:42pm On Feb 06
abbasajao:
➜Any woman that abide by the above will have a happy home
Yet reports show that divorce rates remain the highest among the Islamic world, with men initiating most of the divorces. How happy are these women when many of them are already in their second or third marriage before they turn 30? 🥱
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Kobojunkie: 5:45pm On Feb 06
tunde1200:
➜You lied about this your write up.
➜ You know nothing about islam.
➜ Try and have small knowledge about it before you come here to say rubbish as usual of yours.
1. Please show proof of my lies from the Quran and the Hadiths! grin

2. I know a lot about Islam. You know why? I have actually been reading the Quran and associated backstories from the Hadiths, something you probably have never done. grin

3. My knowledge of the Quran is more than what you have there. 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Kobojunkie: 5:46pm On Feb 06
tunde1200:
➜Half baked information of yours cannot change anything than misleading uneducated once like you.
Show us that you are educated and bring up Quranic passages that back up your claim. Convict us by way of the Quran, and its Hadiths. 🥱🥱
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by BlackfireX: 6:27pm On Feb 06
[quote author=advanceDNA post=138381395][/quote]The way this Muslims lie boldly even with evidences stack against them.


Do you know exploits that women did in the bible? No they don't know.

You will hear Islam is the 1st to gave women right to property... What? I read the old testaments and see women owning property....I look at yoruba culture and I see women owing properties

So yoruba culture predate Islam that means Islam copied from it...


A religion that believes women are half brain and will be trophies in islamicheaven
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by BlackfireX: 6:30pm On Feb 06
tunde1200:
Are you a Christian?
Respect is reciprocal bro
Respect others believe and leave hate.
Islam legitimise a 54 years old man to marry a 6 years old and bleep her when she is 9 years


Islam sanctioned beating of women on the basis of just suspicion


This religion believes women are half brain


Should I go on
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Kobojunkie: 6:31pm On Feb 06
tunde1200:
➜Are you a Christian? Respect is reciprocal bro Respect others believe and leave hate.
Respecting a person's right to believe whatever the hell they want DOES NOT preclude you from being able to point out the bullsheet of said belief. You have the right to believe in a lie... and I have the right to call the lie out for what it is— a bloody lie. Hope that helps you. 🥱🥱
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by BlackfireX: 6:31pm On Feb 06
LeeSmart:
The best decision my late grandfather made was leaving that religion, and uptill now dey (your people) still do persecute my family. Than God for the little influence my dad have in the grand scheme of things in this country, if not my family would have become history.
Yet they will tell you no compulsion yet if you renounce Islam you will be killed or beheaded


What a religion of peace
Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Kobojunkie: 6:35pm On Feb 06
tunde1200:
➜You knew nothing about Islam why displaying hates in you!?. Try and learn
Islam isn't hard to know. It is literally based on a book about the life and beliefs of one man multiplied across so many lives, war campaigns, etc., to get to what we have today. All one has to do to learn all one needs to know of Islam is to read the Quran and catch up on the associated back stories contained in the Hadith, which provide a contextual detail to the poetry styled writeups in the Quran undecided

When it comes to Islamic law, the country that most closely represents Mohammed's 7th-century idea of Islam is Afghanistan, which recently introduced the slavery system, just as it existed even back then. undecided
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