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| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by tunde1200(m): 12:13pm On Feb 06 |
Antwan99:You knew nothing about Islam why displaying hates in you!?. Try and learn |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by tunde1200(m): 12:16pm On Feb 06 |
LeeSmart:That unjust killing alone is a big sin in islam but since you're not a Muslim and you know nothing about why now insulting and hating islamic preaching? Let's learn how to respect other believe pls. |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by ChristCee: 12:18pm On Feb 06 |
AbuTwins:Stop trying to rewrite history with half-truths. Let us open the books and see who really values women. You made a lot of claims, but you conveniently left out the parts of your own books (Quran and Hadith) that contradict your "women's rights" narrative. You claim Christianity subordinates women while Islam honors them? Let's check the receipts. 1. The "Rib" Argument vs. Creation You claimed the Bible's "rib" account implies secondary status while Islam's "single soul" implies equality. This is a massive distortion. The Bible: Genesis 1:27 explicitly states: “So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them.” From day one, women bear the Image of God just as men do. The "rib" in Genesis 2 signifies they are of the same substance—bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh. Islam: You forgot to mention that your own Prophet explicitly used the "rib" to describe women as "crooked." “Treat women well, for woman is created from a rib, and the most crooked part of the rib is its upper portion... if you try to straighten it, you will break it.” (Sahih al-Bukhari 3331) So the Bible uses the rib to show unity of substance, while your Hadith uses it to say women are inherently crooked and cannot be fully straightened. 2. Spiritual Equality vs "Deficiency" You claimed Islam regards women as full moral beings with equal standing. 2. Spiritual Equality vs "Deficiency" You claimed Islam regards women as full moral beings with equal standing. The Bible: The New Testament introduced radical equality that didn't exist in the culture at the time. Galatians 3:28: “There is neither Jew nor Gentile... nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.” Islam: Your Prophet said the exact opposite about the mind and religion of women. The Prophet said: "I have not seen any one more deficient in intelligence and religion than you (women)..." (Sahih al-Bukhari 304) He explained that their intelligence is deficient because their witness is worth half a man's, and their religion is deficient because they cannot pray during menstruation. Is this the "dignified identity" you are talking about? Calling them deficient? 3. Treatment: Sacrificial Love vs Beating You quoted Quran 2:228 about rights, but you ignored Surah 4:34 which serves as the legal framework for domestic discipline. The Bible: Ephesians 5:25 sets an impossible standard for men: “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” The Christian command is for a man to DIE for his wife. Islam: The Quran explicitly gives men the authority to beat their wives. “...But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance... forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them.” (Quran 4:34) Please tell me how "striking them" is an honor? 4. Women in Scripture and Witness You shouted that there are no women authors in the Bible. This is a weak argument that backfires on you. The validity of the Christian faith rests entirely on the testimony of WOMEN. In the 1st century, a woman's testimony was not accepted in Jewish or Roman court. Yet, God chose Mary Magdalene and other women to be the first witnesses to the Resurrection. If the Bible were a "patriarchal fabrication," the men would have written themselves as the first witnesses to be credible. God honored women by making them the first preachers of the Gospel. Compare this to Islam: [list] []In Islamic law, a woman's testimony is worth half that of a man (Quran 2:282). []In Inheritance, the male gets the portion of two females (Quran 4:11). [*]Your Prophet said: "I was shown Hell and I saw that the majority of its dwellers were women." (Sahih al-Bukhari 3241) [/list] Christianity liberated women from being property and made them joint-heirs with Christ (1 Peter 3:7). Islam codified their inequality in inheritance, witness, and legal rights. Next time, quote the whole book, not just the parts that sound nice to Westerners. |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Antwan99: 12:21pm On Feb 06 |
tunde1200:Hate? If by not being part of something, you then hate it, I am not the type. Was only stating the obvious. Just in case I am not a Muslim, neither a Christian. |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Lukuluku69(m): 12:22pm On Feb 06 |
Kobojunkie:The Roaming Momma herself. E tun ti de bi 😆 🤣 😂 😹 |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by tunde1200(m): 12:27pm On Feb 06 |
Antwan99:Then learn how to respect other believe not hating a d insulting as you did on this post. |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by LeeSmart: 12:28pm On Feb 06 |
tunde1200:You're from the south west reasons why you're preaching tolerance. I am frm the northeast and i know what my eyes saw... You seems to be a good person |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Greattha: 12:32pm On Feb 06 |
Do you really want to have this conversation Nah...you don't.You should've just justified your religion without involving Christianity cos it's an argument you can"t win with all the hijabs and rules targeting women. I don't agree with the junky anyways cos there's no correlation with religion in the OP's post. AbuTwins: |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Lukuluku69(m): 12:33pm On Feb 06 |
LeeSmart:Then please show us how the Judeo-Christian Faith and Tradition elevates the status of women. I will wait. And while waiting, be sure to quote from the Bible (Old and New Testament) |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Antwan99: 12:42pm On Feb 06 |
tunde1200:I don't insult brother.Read my post gain. Religion is one thing aside from love that sits deep in a person. That's why you think the way you did on my opinion. I don't heart anything that doesn't bring money. I always have objective views. Because, nothing is 100% accurate in this life. Sincerely brother, it wasn't what you thought. I am a bros you'll like around even if you are an occultic grandmaster and I know, if I like it, I'll join, if I don't, I'll respect your choice and we'll be. |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Validated: 12:52pm On Feb 06 |
Btruth:Such as exhibited by Mariam Sanda or what is her name again. You guys like to deceive yourselves. Islam subjugation women in everyway possible: - You must cover yourself from head to toe - You cannot drive - You must not be heard - You cannot be seen in public - You cannot mix with other genders - Technically, you are a SLAVE to your husband. |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by CorperKola: 1:16pm On Feb 06 |
Kobojunkie:So you need to be a muslim woman before you should do all this These Basic rules of decency Smh |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by SEGLIZ: 1:37pm On Feb 06*. Modified: 2:02pm On Feb 06 |
Kobojunkie:you shouldn't have gone this route, you just turned this to a religious war. AbuTwins:do you strongly feel satisfied you've been to cast aspersions against Christianity. mind you Christianity isn't in competition with any other religion but for the redemption of all mankind. if you can mention a place in the quran where women were expressly mention as contributing and not writing the scriptures I will give you great contributory women in the Bible. you going around attacking Christianity and the Bible won't do you any good but read the Bible to understand, what it stands for, what it represents and what it is out to achieve. don't go about picking the Bible in bit, reading one verse of the Bible just to think you know and understand it is mere illusion. it is things of the Spirit and only those in the Spirit would understand it. |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Magmony: 1:52pm On Feb 06 |
You will make the best and precious WIFE in existence, and ever liveth. Hussein27: |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by erniok(m): 2:02pm On Feb 06 |
dele1727:And Deborah, a national leader in Isreal was a what again. @op, nice post that kobojunkie wants to turn into a battlefield. |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by tunde1200(m): 2:10pm On Feb 06 |
LeeSmart:It’s not right to generalize every bad action and tag it as Islam, just as we wouldn’t do that with any other religion or group. In every faith and society, there are good people and bad people—what matters is the individual’s actions, not the belief system they claim to belong to |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by RillJ(m): 3:12pm On Feb 06 |
True! Imagine how women in Muslim marriages are treated as relevant partners in homes and society! Islam indeed allow No wonder where Islam is predominant there are hardly incidents of rape because of the respect for the dignity of women! This is indeed why we have women Imam as against Women Pastors and church leaders! In Muslim societies and Nations, women are freely allowed to chose and pursue their ambitions - vocation etc In Islam, women lead prayers and preach in mosque that you have in churches Islam indeed has more recognition and respect for women than Christianity! Phew! What else can I say! Only God Himself can deliver some people from self-delusion! AbuTwins: |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Kobojunkie: 5:30pm On Feb 06*. Modified: 10:12pm On Feb 06 |
dele1727:? Did you know that in the Injeel, which Allah claims he inspired, preserved, and authorized, Jesus Christ of Israel declared that women are equal to men— there are no separate rules for men and for women? Men do not have authority over women, and both men and women who choose not to get married are held in high esteem above those who do.(That is what Jesus Christ of Israel taught His followers.) 🥱🥱🥱 So, did Allah change his mind or forget what he said in the Injeel... that is another question that needs to be explored. 🥱🥱 |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Kobojunkie: 5:37pm On Feb 06 |
Zackattack:What is a virtuous woman? Why should any woman strive to become this virtous women you speak of? And should the same standard not equally apply to the men? 🥱🥱 2. A good woman according to whose standard? Mohammed's standard, which lowers a woman's status in life to that of an indentured slave—less than a human being —, save for her temporary Mrs. badge? 🥱🥱
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| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Kobojunkie: 5:42pm On Feb 06 |
abbasajao:Yet reports show that divorce rates remain the highest among the Islamic world, with men initiating most of the divorces. How happy are these women when many of them are already in their second or third marriage before they turn 30? 🥱 |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Kobojunkie: 5:45pm On Feb 06 |
tunde1200:1. Please show proof of my lies from the Quran and the Hadiths! ![]() 2. I know a lot about Islam. You know why? I have actually been reading the Quran and associated backstories from the Hadiths, something you probably have never done. ![]() 3. My knowledge of the Quran is more than what you have there. 🥱🥱🥱 |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Kobojunkie: 5:46pm On Feb 06 |
tunde1200:Show us that you are educated and bring up Quranic passages that back up your claim. Convict us by way of the Quran, and its Hadiths. 🥱🥱 |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by BlackfireX: 6:27pm On Feb 06 |
[quote author=advanceDNA post=138381395][/quote]The way this Muslims lie boldly even with evidences stack against them. Do you know exploits that women did in the bible? No they don't know. You will hear Islam is the 1st to gave women right to property... What? I read the old testaments and see women owning property....I look at yoruba culture and I see women owing properties So yoruba culture predate Islam that means Islam copied from it... A religion that believes women are half brain and will be trophies in islamicheaven |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by BlackfireX: 6:30pm On Feb 06 |
tunde1200:Islam legitimise a 54 years old man to marry a 6 years old and bleep her when she is 9 years Islam sanctioned beating of women on the basis of just suspicion This religion believes women are half brain Should I go on |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Kobojunkie: 6:31pm On Feb 06 |
tunde1200:Respecting a person's right to believe whatever the hell they want DOES NOT preclude you from being able to point out the bullsheet of said belief. You have the right to believe in a lie... and I have the right to call the lie out for what it is— a bloody lie. Hope that helps you. 🥱🥱 |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by BlackfireX: 6:31pm On Feb 06 |
LeeSmart:Yet they will tell you no compulsion yet if you renounce Islam you will be killed or beheaded What a religion of peace |
| Re: Things I Won’t Do As A Wife by Kobojunkie: 6:35pm On Feb 06 |
tunde1200:Islam isn't hard to know. It is literally based on a book about the life and beliefs of one man multiplied across so many lives, war campaigns, etc., to get to what we have today. All one has to do to learn all one needs to know of Islam is to read the Quran and catch up on the associated back stories contained in the Hadith, which provide a contextual detail to the poetry styled writeups in the Quran ![]() When it comes to Islamic law, the country that most closely represents Mohammed's 7th-century idea of Islam is Afghanistan, which recently introduced the slavery system, just as it existed even back then. ![]() |
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