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Ruling On A Wife Refusing Her Husband A Cowife by Lukgaf(m): 6:50am On Oct 07, 2022
Can a woman refuse her husband a cowife?

Ibn Qudaamah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said in his book Al-Mughni:

“If he married her on the condition that he should not make her move from her house or her city, then this condition is valid, because it was reported that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: ‘The most deserving of conditions to be fulfilled are those by means of which sexual intercourse becomes permissible for you.’ If he married her on the condition that he will not marry another wife, then she has the right to leave him if he does take another wife.” In conclusion, then, the conditions of the marriage contract are divided into three types, one of which must be adhered to, which is of benefit to the wife, such as her being able to stipulate that he cannot make her move from her house or city, or travel with him, or take another wife or a concubine. He has to adhere to these conditions, and if he does not, then she has the right to annul the marriage.” (Al-Mughni by Ibn Qudaamah, part 7, Kitaab al-Nikaah).

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) was asked this question and he replied in Al-Fataawa al-Kubra:

“Question: a man married a woman and she stipulated that he should not take another wife or make her move from her house, and that she could stay with her mother, so he married her on this basis. Does he have to adhere to this, and if he goes against these conditions, does his wife have the right to annul the marriage or not?

Answer: yes, these conditions and similar ones are valid according to the madhhab of Imaam Ahmad and other scholars among the Sahaabah and Taabi’een, such as ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab, ‘Amr ibn al-‘Aas, Shurayh al-Qaadi, al-Oozaa’i and Ishaaq. According to the madhhab of Maalik, the condition states that if he marries another wife, (the first wife) has the choice of what to do, and this is a valid condition. The woman has the right to leave him in this case. This is similar to the idea in the Madhhab of Imaam Ahmad. The basis for this is the hadeeth narrated by (al-Bukhaari and Muslim) in al-Saheehayn from the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him): ‘The most deserving of conditions to be fulfilled are those by means of which sexual intercourse becomes permissible for you.’ ‘Umar ibn al-Khattaab said: ‘Rights are in accordance with conditions.’ The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) dictated that the conditions which make sexual intercourse permissible are more deserving of fulfilment than others. This is the ruling on conditions of this nature.”

https://islamqa.info/en/categories/very-important/1/answers/5983/a-wife-refusing-her-husband-a-co-wife

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Re: Ruling On A Wife Refusing Her Husband A Cowife by Lataability(m): 11:11am On Oct 07, 2022
This people and sex be like 5&6 grin

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Re: Ruling On A Wife Refusing Her Husband A Cowife by money121(m): 11:13am On Oct 07, 2022
Ok
Re: Ruling On A Wife Refusing Her Husband A Cowife by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 11:14am On Oct 07, 2022
If she refused Cowife, then do baby mama and let us rest naw

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Re: Ruling On A Wife Refusing Her Husband A Cowife by Lexusgs430: 11:16am On Oct 07, 2022
She should also marry a second husband........

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Re: Ruling On A Wife Refusing Her Husband A Cowife by DeepSight(m): 11:17am On Oct 07, 2022
Lukgaf, in light of the issue you raise on this thread which touches on women's rights, can you kindly give your view on the riots in Iran which were triggered by the death of a young woman arrested by the Iranian Morality Police over use of Hijab issues - and which lave led to the death of almost 100 people so far.

Thank you.

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Re: Ruling On A Wife Refusing Her Husband A Cowife by Balk9: 11:19am On Oct 07, 2022
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Re: Ruling On A Wife Refusing Her Husband A Cowife by Bobbysmart6(m): 11:28am On Oct 07, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
Blood thirsty religion, without Islam d world would being a bit better and accommodating place. Free from violence and killings.
sense is far from u..forget abt religion...most u comment rubbish..

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Re: Ruling On A Wife Refusing Her Husband A Cowife by Techreliance(m): 11:30am On Oct 07, 2022

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Re: Ruling On A Wife Refusing Her Husband A Cowife by HolyMan12: 11:35am On Oct 07, 2022
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Friday ruling grin


Alhamdullilah grin grin grin

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Re: Ruling On A Wife Refusing Her Husband A Cowife by STEWpid(f): 11:40am On Oct 07, 2022
Chai

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Re: Ruling On A Wife Refusing Her Husband A Cowife by Truthday: 12:06pm On Oct 07, 2022
DeepSight:
Lukgaf, in light of the issue you raise on this thread which touches on women's rights, can you kindly give your view on the riots in Iran which were triggered by the death of a young woman arrested by the Iranian Morality Police over use of Hijab issues - and which lave led to the death of almost 100 people so far.

Thank you.

It's women dignity to use hijab. But, not to force them. For islamic countries like iran. It's wisdom to apply in using the law.
Re: Ruling On A Wife Refusing Her Husband A Cowife by hikmojj(m): 12:16pm On Oct 07, 2022
أحسن الله عليكم يا شيخنا
جزاك الله خير

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Re: Ruling On A Wife Refusing Her Husband A Cowife by purafapi: 12:19pm On Oct 07, 2022
Please what is the ruling on one been possessed by Jinns (Demons)?
Re: Ruling On A Wife Refusing Her Husband A Cowife by Antyxx: 12:35pm On Oct 07, 2022
purafapi:
Please what is the ruling on one been possessed by Jinns (Demons)?
Theres nothing like being possessed by Jinn
The idea of Jinn possession is Bid'a brought to Islam by people who doesn't know much and because then, eyes were black
If you think you are possessed, what you have is mental health problems and you need treatment
Most people with those conditions are born with it, just like someone can be born with kidney,liver problems

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Re: Ruling On A Wife Refusing Her Husband A Cowife by Rayjnr: 1:42pm On Oct 07, 2022
emmanuelbrown26:
Blood thirsty religion, without Islam d world would being a bit better and accommodating place. Free from violence and killings.

What is your problem or business with other people's belief ?, Haba make we dey learn to tolerate people na.

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