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Marrying from my opposite religion, a Christian married to a Muslim.
Early married without proper planning
Let parents and people decide your own career for you
Afraid taking calculate risks
Let somebody else make decisions for you in their own ways
Not everyone will succeed by going to school, I wasted years pushing certificate which later didn't favor me.

fyneboi79:
Getting married was my biggest mistake...

Omg...
I shall never be in a situation that I have to regret marrying
God forbid

My biggest mistake in life was trusting the guidance of older humans and people in ‘religious authority ’. Well, they betrayed me.

Olachase:
I was warned to let her go but I refused because I met her in church

Not knowing that she has retired 😭😭

The church is the final bustop of every retired OS.

Over confidence when l submitted my studentship UK application to the embassy l was told to pay few money for my name to be the same with my sponsor but l refused hoping nothing will after d acknowledgement that all my documents were ok

Mine was working for sweet sensation for 10 years and nothing to show for it. Took a loan then to start up a business, when it was time to leave they handed my gratuity check to the bank I got the loan from and ensure I never left with nada.

I wish I go married earlier . I wanted to be stable and get my career solid . I’ve achieved my career goals but not married yet

Sirchiboy:
1) Staying indoor as a child.
2) Not Having a GF as a teenager
3) Not socializing.
4) Being afraid to take risk .
5) Not learning hardwork and not leaving house at 17 or 18

marrying under pressure

Britishcoins:
my regrets was trusting uncles that they will help you... if you want to go far in life don't trust family for help.. work as if though you are alone...

today I am only person that will never ask family member help, not because I have but because it has become part of my life.
Secondly, learn trade no matter how small it is

. you can never become rich from salaries but trading will make you comfortable

Mine was believing in pastors for too long. I believed the gospel of christ would solve my spiritual problems. Went to prayer mountains, fasted biribiri until I realised I should have gone traditional. Eye don open.

Drsnives:
Maybe you married the wrong half..
You can't marry your God ordained wife and regret..it's not possible

mehn,there is nothing like God ordained wife.If there was a God ordained wife,It should have been Eve.
The problem we have as human beings is that we put too much trust and hope on a fellow human being.Being married to someone is not a life Assurance/Insurance.Even in marriage,we should be open to imperfections and disappointments.

wellmax:
Believing that Obi is next best thing after slice bread.
Leading to a blind cult like toxic follower-ship.

Worst mistake ever.

Billy Blake

I represented family in order to go and reject a boy born out of wedlock for my dad ....
That's my greatest and only regret.

Sirchiboy:
1) Staying indoor as a child.
2) Not Having a GF as a teenager
3) Not socializing.
4) Being afraid to take risk .
5) Not learning hardwork and not leaving house at 17 or 18

Leaning how to bet. I regret it.

1. Pursuing the wrong destiny

2. Not pursuing my divine destiny early enough.

Don't be too nice .

fyneboi79:
i was young and naive,but thank goodness I'm good now...marriage has nothing for men,men just labour tirelessly to their early deaths.

So you’re divorced now ? And the marriage didn’t produce children?

ZaddyJ:
My dear na you no look well marry the right person. I’m married to a woman who take up responsibility at home even before I said so. I’m in the USA Today , at her expense and GoD. So there are better women out there that won’t stress you with finance. We both re happily married with twins God has blessed us with .

Are you sure it's about looking well and marrying the right person?Which kind of telescope would you use to look well?
My guy,life is about time and chance, you never know who would turn out good or bad, everyone needs LUCK.

7upnigeria:
Mine was believing in pastors for too long. I believed the gospel of christ would solve my spiritual problems. Went to prayer mountains, fasted biribiri until I realised I should have gone traditional. Eye don open.

You got tired of fighting, then surrendered to what held you.

judewrites:
1. Pursuing the wrong destiny

2. Not pursuing my divine destiny early enough.

How did you discover your divine destiny [purpose]?

Ha . Please go and ask God for forgiveness.

makson007:
I represented family in order to go and reject a boy born out of wedlock for my dad ....
That's my greatest and only regret.

Sirchiboy:
1) Staying indoor as a child.
2) Not Having a GF as a teenager
3) Not socializing.
4) Being afraid to take risk .
5) Not learning hardwork and not leaving house at 17 or 18

My greatest mistake? Gambling.
It made me lose money, time, and opportunities.
If you’re reading this, please don’t joke with betting… it starts small but can finish big.

My biggest mistake was thinking gambling was a shortcut.
It pushed me into decisions I regret and made me lose things I can never get back.
To anyone out there: protect your future, don’t gamble with your destiny.

Ibehchizzy:
Squandered 13million I made from gambling in 2019
Could have just traveled abroad then
Maybe my life would have been better off now

Any good hardly come out of money made from gambling.
You'd always think there's more where that came from, then squander the one in hand.

Not having a skill

Emdi1914:
Are you sure it's about looking well and marrying the right person?Which kind of telescope would you use to look well?
My guy,life is about time and chance, you never know who would turn out good or bad, everyone needs LUCK.

e never understand life... people when never understand life dey quick blame others if they fail in something...In life,you can do everything right and still end with bad results.

fyneboi79:
i was young and naive,but thank goodness I'm good now...marriage has nothing for men,men just labour tirelessly to their early deaths.

He who marries a good wife enjoys his life, he who marries otherwise becomes a philosopher

Hmmmmm

Please be fine

Is it amendable?

Mariangeles:
How did you discover your divine destiny [purpose]?

Divine revelation.

You have to ask God to show you His purpose for your life.

Not memorising Qur'an when I was younger and single

1. HAVING FRIENDS

I no longer believe in friends. I regret making them in the first place. Since I started minding my own business, my life has been peaceful. The only people I confide in are my siblings and my wife. Everybody else is just an acquaintance. Friends come with drama, fake love and unnecessary problems.




2. DOING BUSINESS WITH A PASTOR

Let me be clear: don’t ever make the mistake of doing business with these people. If you can avoid them completely do so. Many of them carry a strong sense of entitlement and hide behind their titles. “Pastor” is just a name --- it doesn’t stop anyone from being dishonest or selfish. I would rather do business with a straightforward idol worshipper than with a so-called pastor who pretends to be holy while showing bad character.

Samantha125:
For me it was during this one campus protest in varsity, normally during our usual protests, I'd make sure to either position myself at the back, or in the middle of the crowd just so I can easily run for cover the moment the police start throwing their tear gas or firing rubber bullets at us.

That day I don't know what got to me that I positioned myself at the front, I don't know if I was high in the Economic Freedom Fighters Students Command's revolutionary songs or what, because those comrades could sing and their protests carried weight... ... One of the things that had me invested in campus politics was their revolutionary music...

The police positioned themselves and as they started firing rubber bullets and tear gas at us, we dispersed for cover and while I was still in the process of taking cover, I was shot twice, one on my thigh and the other on my butt, I felt the second one that hit my butt knocking out all my dreams and hopes of becoming a comrade, and as if that wasn't enough, a third one hit my back and it was a final nail in the coffin... Those things hurt, I spent the entire week sitting with only one butt cheek... That was my biggest mistake.

This is hilarious … but you don’t look like someone who would join activities like that … you look like an introvert