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sacajawea:
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Biodun1929:
This Russian guy na real madmann I wonder how all those women will feel right now.. he used the same format on all of them, and took them to the same house...some of them were even dancing for him...and these are mostly regular everyday women, nor runs girls.

pansophist:
Anyone that lives in the west and being around East Africans knows for a fact that their women are so obsessed with white men.

It’s not an African woman thing, but East African women thing. It doesn’t matter if the white man is fat, short, ugly or what not, just be white.

East African women, especially Kenyans and Ugandans suffers from such a low self esteem that you can be a responsible black man with a good job and she will pass you for a white man.

I wrote about this obsession of East African women with white men few months ago, and now, a good example proved my point.

eazzzy1:
It’s a numbers game, the more women you ask for knacks, the more women you would sleep with. This guy won’t show you the ones that rejected his advances.

JoeEeL:
All sub saharan africans including ur naija women, especially in the east.

Alikoooooooooo:
Omo guys are cheap o..... But me I have never been cheap. You have to be extremely beautiful or we extremely classy and endowed...


Then I am cheap

UrVillageChief:
Bro, women generally love money and that's not even an argument but we Africans have conditioned ourselves to reason that men must always be the ones providing and any man who is not capable of doing so has no right to have the women he wants and this, my friend, is a very dangerous mindset. This is not me disparaging my people or asslicking the Whitemen but it is what it is.
Most of the countries you listed there don't think this way. Yes, they love money, who doesn't?
If you've been to some smaller African countries like Togo and Benin, you would be instantly hit by the sharp contrast btw these countries' ladies and Nigeria's. You would immediately notice how differently they behave towards money.
India is a relatively poor country but I can tell you for free that this dude can't pull that stunt off there and get the shameful stats he got in Ghana and Kenya and this is because despite being poor, South Asian people are still guided by moral principles and don't worship money as much as we do in Africa. I can tell you that free sir.

It would have been a different case and I honestly wouldn't have been this pissed if he had lied to them about marriage to get under their skirts but dude kept saying "I'm a Russian" "my English no good" "I like you" "come with me" and that's all it took for him to enter all of them the very same day he met them. They didn't even stress him. Dude had no rizz, no games, no aura just the white skin and that's it.
C'mon bro, let's stop being economical with the truth, those poor Asian countries you mentioned are poor, yes but they have values and don't worship money (relatively).
It is this same money-worshipping mentality of ours that's making us commit all sort of crimes abroad just to have economic advantages. To prove my thesis, let's use Yemen, Nepal, Cambodia, India and Loas as case studies of poor countries because Nigeria is even richer than most (if not all) of them. So how often are people from these countries caught abroad engaging in vices for economic reasons compared to we Africans?
Don't they need money? Are we the only people suffering or the only people who know what money is used for?
Even in this our very own Nigeria, we all know ourselves. We know the very particular people that are more likely to engage in social vices such as drug-pushing, prostitution, money-laundering abroad because we all know each tribe's predisposition towards money. We know those whose cultures celebrate and worship money more than the others.
Can you sleep with a Huasa girl using money as bait? YES but bro, before you can successfully do that with 10 Hausa girls, the figure would be somewhere around 1000 in the South. I'm a southerner and this is not profiling and if you call it stereotyping, well, you may be right but stereotypes are earned.
The simple reason why the northern women have relatively lower tendency of getting "knacked" with money when compared to their southern counterparts is because these regions have different predisposition to money, their culture celebrates minimalist lifestyle. An average Hausa girl/man is relatively less money-conscious than their southern counterpart. There, they seldom oppress themselves with money (though they are now slowly adopting this shameful culture of worshipping money)
The only reason why this Russian guy can't pull off this stunt and make this much number in Asia is the mentalities of the people and their attitude and predisposition towards money.
Not every poor human society worships money like we do in Africa and that's it!
I'm not saying all those Asians and the northeners I referenced don't like money or can't be bought over with money and that's the reason why I kept using the word "relatively"
We simply over worship money. Immediately they saw the guy, they already assumed they had made it in life and that's exactly where our problem lies. If you have small change as a young Nigerian guy, you would understand what I'm saying better.

JoeEeL:
All sub saharan africans including ur naija women, especially in the east.

Gerrard59:
Would this apply to Southern Africans? I am not too sure, as they have interacted with Whites for a long time and in a less desirable way.

QuinQQ:
Erudite and well thought out.
However, answer the following:
*How would a Jap know who is AA and who is African?

*Why do white American women generally prefer black men - which is the root of racism

*Why don't wealthy AA men marry asian women but whites overwhelmingly do?

*How come AA women overwhelmingly prefer black men to white men?

*Why are some women all over the world fixated on Nigerian men?

QuinQQ:
Not true. Naija women don't set out to marry a white man. East Africans do, possibly because they have lots of light skinned (Arab, Indian, white, etc) tourists

Gerrard59:
Would this apply to Southern Africans? I am not too sure, as they have interacted with Whites for a long time and in a less desirable way.

JoeEeL:
You play too much. Where do you think most eastern nigerians got their light skin from?

JoeEeL:
All sub saharan africans including ur naija women, especially in the east.

Very easy.
Dress sense, mannerisms, accent, even walking style, facial look (Black Africans tend to be darker), height (on average African Americans are taller), body mass (they are bigger), jobs ("I work with the military" is enough), youth (they are younger as they can easily move here compared to Black Africans), economic status (the USD offers them greater spending power) etc.

I listed them as there are many ways an average Japanese person would discern, as I can easily tell from the face and hairstyle. I quickly knew an AA lass from her hairstyle. I can differentiate Black Africans based on their regions and accents.

No idea about this, as I would have to read up on it. What I am surprised by is how come White men don't marry AA women as much as AA men marry WW.

Proximity to social interactions. In some parts of the East Coast, the population of Blacks is way too low for them to compete against White men, and as explained in the racial/economic hierarchies in East Asia itself, their Asian women will prefer White men over Black men. Wealthy AA men would not want to, rightfully so, put up with such discrimination. One cannot be discriminated against by Whites in America and then be discriminated against by Asian women in the same country. Most importantly, for most well-to-do men, they prefer their women. Asian American women have done a great job competing head-on with White women for the love, attention and marriage acceptance of White men. Another one I can think of is the body mass, as they are similar to WW. Black women are on the big side.

This one is basic demographics nau. Humans prefer people who look like them. Humans are generally tribal.

I would think of many reasons, such as:

- Nigerian men know how to spend, maybe even more than (in sheer numbers) or more generously than the native men
- Nigerian men are generally go-getters, so this becomes attractive if the native men aren't as ambitious/aggressive in financial pursuits as the native men. The Nigerian society has moulded men to be aggressive towards wealth generation.
- Nigerians are the most populous set of Black people (game of numbers) and emigrate more, thankfully, due to the popularity of the English language.

Though, we have to be very specific about who constitutes these "Nigerian men" as we have few northern men outside the country. It is somewhat easy to tell which particular ethnic group in Nigeria is domiciled in a particular foreign country.

JoeEeL:
You play too much. Where do you think most eastern nigerians got their light skin from?

QuinQQ:
I asked this specifically because I have a friend who lived in Japan and said Japanese assumed he was AA and he let them because it opened doors including his teaching English

mablie:
Those ones are the lowest of the low.I have read posts by foreign men on blogs who state how they don't even have to invest anything in them before they "touch their toes"

Gerrard59:
Oh boy! Maybe it should even be easier in Barbados and the Bahamas, then.

Gerrard59:
Then he looks like an AA. I have met one like that - Nigerian bred - but facial and body appearance looks like someone who was bred in the US. Japanese presume him to be an AA. But this feature is not common amongst East Africans, who also form a significant Black African population in Japan. Thus, it is easy to tell who is AA and Black African.

About successful AA men rarely marrying AW. It is that racial hierarchy I mentioned, plus where they reside in the US. Also, Black men will prefer Black women. Is there another reason you think otherwise?

lightwind:
I said haiwantu chuku chuku you 🤔

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lovediehatelive:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NT59WLzalfQ?si=V2EEAe5fYubGYgI0


A Russian man is trending.

He goes about casually approaching women on the streets. After some conversation he collects their number, or they follow him instantly to his hotel and he knacks them that very day.my mother once told me that the two cheapest thing In the world is food and women....

He secretly records them.



Some are married. Some coming back from church.

Some coming back from school where they dropped their kids or picked them up.


What do you have to say?

Does it mean Ghananian and Kenyan women are cheap?


Is it because he is Oyinbo that they easily fell?

Can a Ghanaian or Kenyan man try this in Russia?


https://www.tnx.africa/entertainment/article/2001540928/outrage-as-russian-man-secretly-records-shares-private-videos-of-kenyan-women



https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/c9wn5p299eko

mablie:
My brother, google "Nygard Cay" estate in the Bahamas and see what the disgraced fashion mogul,Peter Nygard would do with the women (including girls as young as thirteen over there) with the full knowledge of the authourities.All the females were black because he was into something called "Black Humiliation."
I watched a documentary ( i can't remember the name) on the issue a few years ago.Shame catch me so much,i had to delete it

QuinQQ:
You are the one playing. British officials impregnated Igbo girls. What has that to do with the ambition of East African girls to marry a white man who'd take them to their country?

mablie:
I have been exposed to that world for years (white guys who travel to Africa specifically to furk African women...children nko? Let me not even go into that) .From Nigeria to Togo to Sierra Leone to Liberia to Benin etc.The Russki's results would have been exactly thesame

mablie:
Where do they also think the "Coloureds" in Southern Africa came from? Abeg,leave these fellows to continue residing in la la land

JoeEeL:
That is because nigerian women are drawn to white skin, especially eastern people. Do women just allow easy penetration for people they dont like?

U better relax on this one cos I know what Im saying. I just no wan talk too much. I got a visitor's visa and once traveled to one of these western countries and some of these my female friends suggested we do marriage contract. When I reminded them its a visitor's visa, the next thing was that I should find a white man for them. Like that is d very next thing. And not 1, not 2, not 3...

I got chatting with one and d very next thing she told me was I will like to bear white kids. When I was out I know d number of mixed marriages I saw and d region who does it d most. In fact they are deliberate on this. Wait are u joking? U dey social media at all? During xmas, don't u see d pride when they are displaying their white spouses and kids? Have u entered social media interracial dating groups before? Go and see ur women do there. They even make the first moves. I know say u go say 90% of them are male scammers. Dey play. I get one Esan girl like that. She been dey even list to me mobile apps naija women have to catch abroad fish, especially white men. Even ur gf fit dey inside one of those apps and be hiding it from u with an app lock. Dey play 🤣🤣

JoeEeL:
U are on point jare ma guy

mablie:
Before nko?!
Just take a look at what a NIGERIAN female on nairaland posted about this issue yesterday.
Abeg,leave these our naive brothers to continue fooling themselves about "their" women.

Gerrard59:
Thanks for explaining it in-depth, as I do agree with everything you have stated.

I am Igbo, and I find it surprising when many Igbo lads lampoon their women for loving money, whereas it is a cultural trait. You are also right about northerners and their disposition towards money.

Just have to state that Cambodia and India are also notorious for criminal activities, but we don't hear of the former because it is not an English speaking country. India has a lot of scam activities. I think one of the reasons for our notoriety is that we are English speakers.

As for Togo and Benin, well, you do have a point, but them being Francophone makes me believe they have not been exposed to such a culture, yet. I would rate northerners above them since northerners by virtue of being Nigerians speak English. Exposure to English and Western culture build/elict consumerism.

To be honest, I cannot really blame the women, as men are custodians of every culture. The women just fit into it. (Un)fortunately, when you become exposed to the global consumerism culture, it becomes hard. See TikTok and IG, those are avenues to deviate their cultural beliefs/leanings.