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Godmind2022:
You have misdiagnosed your problem and you have come to a wrong conclusion.

If you are a Godly guy, it's easier for you to get a Godly wife. Think about that!
Amend your ways!

Hhh4444:
una still dey try to even date woman. After my last relationship ended last year,I never woo woman again. Na to just fvck and move on....na so one call me the other day say she want sell something give me,sharperly I tell her make we lodge na if I come pick the stuff...she tell me say she no be that kind gal, immediately I delete her number and move ahead...I no get time to waste. I want fvck and no drama. If you bring drama,I cut you off.

Hhh4444:
una still dey try to even date woman. After my last relationship ended last year,I never woo woman again. Na to just fvck and move on....na so one call me the other day say she want sell something give me,sharperly I tell her make we lodge na if I come pick the stuff...she tell me say she no be that kind gal, immediately I delete her number and move ahead...I no get time to waste. I want fvck and no drama. If you bring drama,I cut you off.

QuinQQ:
Didn't even notice that was saynotocultism.
Still reading and learning from that his thread

Samantha125:
At least we don't run away from our problems to countries that are already well established, and if you call fighting to build a better South Africa for our future generations war, then you clearly need to wake up from your slumber.

And for your information, I'm not a Zulu.

Sirchiboy:
1) Staying indoor as a child.
2) Not Having a GF as a teenager
3) Not socializing.
4) Being afraid to take risk .
5) Not learning hardwork and not leaving house at 17 or 18

doctore212:
Using my wife's shop money to carry three oloshos one night

Skj13777:
I had this girlfriend that wanted me to de flower her , she begged while we were both naked. She even told me at the rate am going another man will do it. I insisted we keep it till wedding night. That's my only regret in this life. I should have just done the needful .

seanwilliam:
The lambo dream just died 😞

Kingrshd3:
I just want to start this now at 40 hope it's not too late .

Although am a civil servant eating from hand to mouth

samuelson06:
Samantha, don't take it too serious, abeg. In Nigeria, we are not too mean like that. I was only joking with you. You are probably Xhosa, right? By the way, I read about your first menstruation ritual and it made sense. That's totally by the way. But on the flip side, I strongly believe apart from the xenophobic sh!t (which may be coming from that same war spirit ), SA would be a wonderful place. I like you guys nonetheless and I hope to visit the country someday.

QuinQQ:
Just don't repeat it (which I know you still will - a simp is a simp!)

StoryHaven:
Sharaap! Who gave you the right to call me a Simp?

But really, I've been one sha.

Lessons learnt.

Samantha125:
No, I'm not Xhosa...😒😒😒

samuelson06:
Samantha, don't take it too serious, abeg. In Nigeria, we are not too mean like that. I was only joking with you. You are probably Xhosa, right? By the way, I read about your first menstruation ritual and it made sense. That's totally by the way. But on the flip side, I strongly believe apart from the xenophobic sh!t (which may be coming from that same war spirit ), SA would be a wonderful place. I like you guys nonetheless and I hope to visit the country someday.

Ojagun:
Lol

Look at this submissive/weak man

Woman insult you, you com dey beg am make she no vex

Its over mehn.....ITS OVER!!!

samuelson06:
I don't take things that serious here, bro. You sef no vex for her insulting me. Okay?

samuelson06:
Arh! Which other tribe dey SA again like this?

I thought you guys are sort of homogeneous and you're not really challenged by the tribe sh!t like we have here in Nigeria.

Samantha125:
https://www.nairaland.com/7680402/different-south-african-tribes

JoeEeL:
Eeya. And d one wey u settle down with go don get like 15 body counts. So painful 😂

Skj13777:
Tor na so ooo. Girl wey I for don give her my passport photo to keep forever as her guy. There was even another one ooo . This lady was 19yrs when I met her so I was waiting for her to be 21yrs . Could you believe one guy don do the do before she turned 21yrs. Imagine. Now am effectively out of the market .after scoring zero . In my next life I will do better o

Tenrack:
this guy para pass me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

JoeEeL:
Even me dey note d guy ginger.

One common denominator wey I don observe be say we guys wey dey para like this been always don chop serious lesson before we wise up.

Its not good enough. Does it mean if we dont learn lessons we cant figure out d reality of the dating world by ourselves? What if d lesson comes but we learn d lesson late in life? What then is there to rescue in life?

We ought to do better and learn from others mistakes instead of ours. I saw some Ghana men defending their women and insulting d russian guy instead. They say its poverty that caused it or juju. That d guy took advantage, must be sued.

Honestly some men no fit ever get sense.

Clemss88:
Putting all my money into crypto and losing all

samuelson06:
Wow. I've gone through. You created the thread, right?

bayfed:
Taking a girl I met online out yesterday, on reaching, noticing she wasn’t fancying me, i foolishly proceed to place orders, forcing communications, trying to pleased her, until she couldn’t ave it anymore, she left me there in my car. Don’t be like me, leave immediately as soon as you notice the feeling isn’t mutual.

jaxxy:
Not taking the right girls serious enough. I missed some real ones. Lol

Duduyankee1:
My mistake is marrying to change her but unknowingly she doesn't need change. Guys be wiser than me when choosing your partner