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borie4u:
Na women dey get this entitlement mentality like the pastor owed u a dogsh..t. We the citizen of Nigeria way Tulumbu promised us better life and he no do am did we report him to satan. Noone hold u a dime if u havent kept something with them. Moreover u didnt tell us the full story. For a lady to hold a man this tightly, did he sleep with u with a promise which he failed because that is the only way u can go this far for a promise not fulfilled

He caused me financial harm. Delayed/deprived me from taking proper steps to get out of my situation with his promise. And then ignored me for months.

I never said he owe me, neither did I ask him for financial assistance in the first place. Since his promise won't work, he could have let me know on time rather than keeping me stranded for months.

I asked him several times if it will work, and he ignored me completely. I have no option than to report him, at least he can't ignore the church headquarters that I reported him to.

borie4u:
Na women dey get this entitlement mentality like the pastor owed u a dogsh..t. We the citizen of Nigeria way Tulumbu promised us better life and he no do am did we report him to satan. Noone hold u a dime if u havent kept something with them. Moreover u didnt tell us the full story. For a lady to hold a man this tightly, did he sleep with u with a promise which he failed because that is the only way u can go this far for a promise not fulfilled

I have to report him since he was ignoring me after making an expensive promise he can't fulfill and causing me financial harm/setback.

At least, he can't ignore the church headquarters.

voiceunheard:
He caused me financial harm. Delayed/deprived me from taking proper steps to get out of my situation with his promise. And then ignored me for months.

I never said he owe me, neither did I ask him for financial assistance in the first place. Since his promise won't work, he could have let me know on time rather than keeping me stranded for months.

I asked him several times if it will work, and he ignored me completely. I have no option than to report him, at least he can't ignore the church headquarters that I reported him to.

Well u were wrong to have reported him to the headquarters though what he did was bad. Reporting him means u want to stop hid livelihood and he wont take it likely with u. U want to stop him from eating. Like everyone said no one owes u a dime if u didnt keep any with them. If the padtor was owing u money u can report him to jupiter for not giving u your money. Man dey promise and fail. As a full adult u are responsible for any decision u take even if the man inflyence u to make a wrong decision. Nothing stops u from collecting ur money at the ststion before relying on promises by paztor. Now for u to have reported tgst pastor something tangible most have been given to him. Did he sleep with u? If yes then it is another case n tgat is the only tsngible reason a woman coukd have such entitlement as reporting pastor to his oga

borie4u:
Well u were wrong to have reported him to the headquarters though what he did was bad. Reporting him means u want to stop hid livelihood and he wont take it likely with u. U want to stop him from eating. Like everyone said no one owes u a dime if u didnt keep any with them. If the padtor was owing u money u can report him to jupiter for not giving u your money. Man dey promise and fail. As a full adult u are responsible for any decision u take even if the man inflyence u to make a wrong decision. Nothing stops u from collecting ur money at the ststion before relying on promises by paztor. Now for u to have reported tgst pastor something tangible most have been given to him. Did he sleep with u? If yes then it is another case n tgat is the only tsngible reason a woman coukd have such entitlement as reporting pastor to his oga

It's very easy for people to dismiss a situation that they have never been through. Saying that he didn't owe me a dime, did I ask him for financial assistance in the first place.

Like I said before, everyone is talking from their own comfort. Even if he doesn't owe me, what about the damage he has caused? So I should just keep quiet and suffer it alone?

I did what I am supposed to do. He cannot just cause me financial harm and expect me to bear the consequences alone.

borie4u:
Well u were wrong to have reported him to the headquarters though what he did was bad. Reporting him means u want to stop hid livelihood and he wont take it likely with u. U want to stop him from eating. Like everyone said no one owes u a dime if u didnt keep any with them. If the padtor was owing u money u can report him to jupiter for not giving u your money. Man dey promise and fail. As a full adult u are responsible for any decision u take even if the man inflyence u to make a wrong decision. Nothing stops u from collecting ur money at the ststion before relying on promises by paztor. Now for u to have reported tgst pastor something tangible most have been given to him. Did he sleep with u? If yes then it is another case n tgat is the only tsngible reason a woman coukd have such entitlement as reporting pastor to his oga

You said what he did was bad and you still expect me not to report him.

I did what I am supposed to do, if I don't do it, he may do another person the same thing tomorrow. Who knows maybe he has been doing it to people and be going free, but this time he was caught.

I don't want to continue harbouring bitterness against him, so I have no option than to report him.

Someone in the front page said you talk too much and I concur, that's one of your problems. Learn to hold back personal information, sharing it with the wrong people is disastrous because they'll definitely use it against you.


The mistake you made is trusting a pastor, "PASTOR" is just title. It doesn't make the person a saint. Majority of Nigerian pastors are .................if I decribe what they truly are the mods would ban me.


Nigerian pastors don't help, they believe it's their right to receive because they're the ones praying for you. As if I don't have mouth to pray for myself.

I would rather believe what comes outta the mouth of a babalawo than what a Nigerian pastor would tell me....... Majority of them are liars, even the stories they tell whenever they mount pulpit are either lies or exaggerated stories.

borie4u:
Well u were wrong to have reported him to the headquarters though what he did was bad. Reporting him means u want to stop hid livelihood and he wont take it likely with u. U want to stop him from eating. Like everyone said no one owes u a dime if u didnt keep any with them. If the padtor was owing u money u can report him to jupiter for not giving u your money. Man dey promise and fail. As a full adult u are responsible for any decision u take even if the man inflyence u to make a wrong decision. Nothing stops u from collecting ur money at the ststion before relying on promises by paztor. Now for u to have reported tgst pastor something tangible most have been given to him. Did he sleep with u? If yes then it is another case n tgat is the only tsngible reason a woman coukd have such entitlement as reporting pastor to his oga

Promise is a debt - especially when it’s made by someone who claims to speak for God. I didn’t ask for charity, I held him to his own word. If he can’t keep his promise, then he shouldn’t make one.

I can tell you're an entitled person and your Dad probably places curses on you because you talk to and disrespect him. I mean it's pretty obvious. When your belongings were thrown out, why didn't you immediately go to police for restitution? Instead you went to a "church". Did you actually go to seek guidance? In your story you painted everyone as the bad person when it's clear that it's you who is actually bad. Also the aim of this post is to beg for money which means at least 98% of this post is false.

So what do you want us to do for you like this?

g0ldenval:
I can tell you're an entitled person and your Dad probably places curses on you because you talk to and disrespect him. I mean it's pretty obvious. When your belongings were thrown out, why didn't you immediately go to police for restitution? Instead you went to a "church". Did you actually go to seek guidance? In your story you painted everyone as the bad person when it's clear that it's you who is actually bad. Also the aim of this post is to beg for money which means at least 98% of this post is false.

100% false. Since that is all you see.

You are the one who is actually a bad person, that's why you think everyone can be like you.

If that's the case, which means while you were growing up, you probably have collected many curses from your own parents. The only difference is that you can still live with them till whenever you feel like leaving the house.

g0ldenval:
I can tell you're an entitled person and your Dad probably places curses on you because you talk to and disrespect him. I mean it's pretty obvious. When your belongings were thrown out, why didn't you immediately go to police for restitution? Instead you went to a "church". Did you actually go to seek guidance? In your story you painted everyone as the bad person when it's clear that it's you who is actually bad. Also the aim of this post is to beg for money which means at least 98% of this post is false.

I know that you are a doubting Thomas, there is no need for me trying to explain anything to you, I fabricated everything.

After going straight to the police station to report as you said, the police people will look for where I will pass the night that day? Even if the police ask them to allow me into the house, if you are the one, you will park your things in and still be at the mercy of/ allow your days to be determined by a hardened liar, by someone who said "you shouldn't look at her negative side, you should look at her positive side" and her sister said "maturity is not by age, even if her younger sister doesn't show maturity, you are suppose to show maturity". You have never been so stranded in your entire life I guess so, that is why it is very easy for you to say.

At this moment, you won't even be able to think straight until you have seen a place to be staying. Not to talk of concluding about going to the police station straight, especially if you have not reported a matter that involves money to the police before.

Life is not fair. A fair is a place where they give a prize to the fattest pig.

Sangoamadioha1:
I believe the OP is a very toxic person.
You have problems with your parents, you had problems with your roommate and now you are having problems with your pastor. Na only you come, haba.

Pastor promised you assistance and he failed the next thing is to report the pastor to his headquarters as if he is owing you money or he is the cause of all your problems.

Na promise the pastor promise, he no owe you anything.
You have a very misplaced sense of entitlement and this is causing problems with people around you.

God bless you brother. Have a lovely weekend.

Op. I understand you. But there isn't anything anyone can do for you now. So just let go, please. Let go! Rebuild your life bit by bit, money Wil come, help will come. But just let go first. Don't look anywhere else. Don't blame anyone. Keep working, keep believing. All is well. You'll be fine!

voiceunheard:
I know that you are a doubting Thomas, there is no need for me trying to explain anything to you, I fabricated everything.

After going straight to the police station to report as you said, the police people will look for where I will pass the night that day? Even if the police ask them to allow me into the house, if you are the one, you will park your things in and still be at the mercy of/ allow your days to be determined by a hardened liar, by someone who said "you shouldn't look at her negative side, you should look at her positive side" and her sister said "maturity is not by age, even if her younger sister doesn't show maturity, you are suppose to show maturity". You have never been so stranded in your entire life I guess so, that is why it is very easy for you to say.

At this moment, you won't even be able to think straight until you have seen a place to be staying. Not to talk of concluding about going to the police station straight, especially if you have not reported a matter that involves money to the police before.

From your write up and the replies you have been typing it's not surprising why everyone you seem to meet quarrels with you.

churro:
Op. I understand you. But there isn't anything anyone can do for you now. So just let go, please. Let go! Rebuild your life bit by bit, money Wil come, help will come. But just let go first. Don't look anywhere else. Don't blame anyone. Keep working, keep believing. All is well. You'll be fine!

Thanks

MrEar:
From your write up and the replies you have been typing it's not surprising why everyone you seem to meet quarrels with you.

The person who you are standing for should learn how to talk and not just conclude.

What she is saying says more about the kind of person she is, and not about me.

It is also NOT surprising that they (the everyone you are talking about) can't say what I did wrong, even when police was involved.

voiceunheard:
The person who you are standing for should learn how to talk and not just conclude.

What she is saying says more about the kind of person she is, and not about me.

Maybe the daughter should have learned how to talk. She spoke to her father rudely and the father has cursed her to live a life filled with regrets.

MrEar:
Maybe the daughter should have learned how to talk. She spoke to her father rudely and the father has cursed her to live a life filled with regrets.

The father is in regret where he is now, and you could be next.

voiceunheard:
The father is in regret where he is now, and you could be next.

I am not the one homeless and frustrated. I am not the one crying online like a baby. The person crying has been cursed by her father. The father is happy wherever he is that she is currently living the life he said she would live. That is just life.

MrEar:
I am not the one homeless and frustrated. I am not the one crying online like a baby. The person crying has been cursed by her father. The father is happy wherever he is that she is currently living the life he said she would live. That is just life.

You know the father? Have you seen the father before? You are just talking base on assumptions.

Never mock a situation you have never been through because you may find yourself in such situation tomorrow (if not worse), life is unpredictable. And that is how you will also be mocked.

voiceunheard:
You know the father? Have you seen the father before?

Never mock a situation you have never been through because you may find yourself in such situation tomorrow (if not worse), life is unpredictable. And that is how you will also be mocked.

You see the Father's curse is what made the pastor to ignore her and keep her silent. If a pastor, a man of God keeps you silent after promising to help you, just know that the curse is strong and permanent.

MrEar:
You see the Father's curse is what made the pastor to ignore her and keep her silent. If a pastor, a man of God keeps you silent after promising to help you, just know that the curse is strong and permanent.

The curse is permanent in your life. You are not God, neither is the father.

voiceunheard:
The curse is permanent in your life. You are not God, neither is the father.

I am not homeless and frustrated so no curse for me. The person that is online crying is the one suffering from a permanent curse.

MrEar:
I am not homeless and frustrated so no curse for me. The person that is online crying is the one suffering from a permanent curse.

You are already receiving curses by you not minding the way you respond to a matter that doesn't concern you.

The father wants to stop God's plan and purpose for the child and today he is no more. He threatened but he didn't live to carry out his threats.

Your own assumptions may lead you to where you least imagine.

voiceunheard:
You are already receiving curses by you not minding the way you respond to a matter that doesn't concern you.

The father wants to stop God's plan and purpose for the child and today he is no more. He threatened with curses but he didn't live to carry out his threats.

Your own assumptions may lead you to where you least imagine.

For the headquarters of the church to keep her silent , for a tenant she paid rent 50/50 with to throw her belongings out, that should tell you how powerful the curse is.

MrEar:
For the headquarters of the church to keep her silent , for a tenant she paid rent 50/50 with to throw her belongings out, that should tell you how powerful the curse is.

Abeg, let her be. We learn everyday. At least now she is learning.

voiceunheard:
I am posting this anonymously for my safety, but I am open to support or advice. If you wish to reach out, please contact me via this email: voiceunheardstories@gmail.com

You are not open to advise. The advise people have been giving you here did you take them. Pride will not allow you to see and accept your faults. That is why you are currently jumping from one situation to another. It's good for you. I liked the part of the story were the roommates sister discarded your belongings. At least now her sister is living in peace.

As for the support part, NOBODY will support you because from the story you gave it is crystal clear to everyone who has read it that you have a problem. The least people will tell you is sorry and move on. No sorry from me. There is an equal and opposite reaction to every action. The way people are treating you is how you have been treating people.

I have never read a post and series of replies from a more toxic person ever. Picking fights with people who want to even have an objective approach to discussing the matter, not being open to any form of correction and proceeding to curse strangers she's never even met. Everyone can't be wrong and only one person right all the time. Unless the poster of this narrative looks deep within her, help will perpetually be far from her.