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Ewedegubbler:
Brother wey no Dey baff, wey get mouth odour and smelly armpit go marry fine gal wey no like am

Abeg free the gal jare. Satan would understand and give her a deserving man

True, the mere fact that she has to remind him to take his bath tells a lot about him.

Quite valid, the husband should let go that's if he can.

Leonardo4:
Even worse is the fact that he is a virgin. That's a big loss on his part

Yeah. A virgin, I even feel pained for him😒.... I'm sure he was painstaking because she was a virgin.. but he got tired of all the drama!

brain54:
That girl is going through alot...


At first I wanted to criticize her. But on second thought she may have underlying psychological issues.

Maybe early abuse or even phobia for sex. If counselling hasn't worked it's okay to dissolve the marriage and everyone moves on without the plenty grammar from the pastor demonizing her.

He is right in certain aspects though... even harlots have sex with customers without feelings when I got to that part I just got weak and couldn't blame him too completely because it's crude but true.


Maybe hearing her side of the story would balance things up and create better understanding and clarity.

In the end she is the one who needs help psychologically to get through this phase of whatever it is she is facing!

The girl told you she’s going through what exactly? Is about time you people should stop using this dumb excuses.

Someone came out created double accounts arranged chats between she and herself,put camera on herself start telling lies , post the video all these while she knew exactly what she was doing. But immediately she was caught people like you started giving excuses for her . That’s exactly what you’re doing here .

At what point do we start holding people accountable for their actions if we keep hiding under this type of your excuses for them especially when you’ve never done any checks yet .

Na when person accuses you of what you never done then police come and put you behind bars that’ll you’ll understand the danger of all these things.

All you keep saying is MAYBE MAYBE . What if the maybe isn’t actually the case ?

Lamasta:
Don't blame the pastor here, hope you read for over few month they've been counselling them all to no avail as the lady was proven adamant and stubborn to all the elders and the pastor, if the pastor react that way it shows how the lady is to be described by the pastor

But we have heard where churches turned down proposal for wedding BC of similar attitudes, so why did the so-called pastor proceed to wed them ? If the pastor was truly sensitive in the spirit he would have seen it coming and stopped the wedding

Zionmdde:
Very good
Dissolve the marriage let everybody go their way

Next time they want to marry, let them date and court properly whom they intend to marry

If you like date and court properly for 100yrs, the marriage can crash in 2 mins

qtx:
But we have heard where churches turned down proposal for wedding BC of similar attitudes, so why did the so-called pastor proceed to wed them ? If the pastor was truly sensitive in the spirit he would have seen it coming and stopped the wedding

Abi. That's what pre-marital counselling is supposed to do...find out any issues, and if issues dey too much, stop the wedding.

donself9:
From what the Man said, it is obvious he was the one madly in love

We keep telling dont marry that way, marry a woman that loves you More .. women by nature swing, they are mental unstable

A man can be with a lover he does not love,marry her, enjoy sex with her nd people wont notice But Women if she no love your neighbours, community will see it

2 chills glass of whiskey for you my brother,you've said it all.

NNEVERAGAINN:
I feel pity for the guy. The wasted resources he spent to marry her and her forceful command just to please her. He has to bath before eating 🤣🤣🤣

This one got you, so you repeated it. Won't he bath after coming from work ni? But what got me is aspect of him forcing his way before the little children she gathered to their apartment! I spit

qtx:
But we have heard where churches turned down proposal for wedding BC of similar attitudes, so why did the so-called pastor proceed to wed them ? If the pastor was truly sensitive in the spirit he would have seen it coming and stopped the wedding

From the write up it wasn't stated that she did not consent to the wedding before they were joined

People around them no go dissolve the marriage now until one of them kpai the other, theirs no love on the part of the woman, some men or women are like that,, they can never have sexual feelings for you, once they don't have any bit of love for u

That church is so heartless.

The warning signs were there before the marriage.

DeepSight:
How can you say you don't love Isaac? Demon!

We are praying for your destruction.

We have delivered you unto Satan.

But ,did you know that Ebiras people don't cut their CLITORIS?

Whatever that might have or has happened as a christian couple joined together in the church, that marriage is until death parted them.

The only solution to this problem is continue prayer and counseling especially for the woman psychological, physical and spiritual.

Why then did she put the man through 2 weddings when she did not love him?
Good excommunicate and expose her. She does not deserve to marry again.

In all honesty, I think the right thing to do is to take this matter to court, where judgement will be delivered in favor of the man, and the lady asked to pay whatever amount the man says he spent on their wedding

To me, this case is similar to the case of the lady who collected transport fare from a guy and never turned up.

This is pure wickedness! The girl's family too should be arrested. Why would only the man bear the loss of the money spent on the wedding?

Exousiang01:
Unfortunately the church cannot desolve a marriage the best they can do is expell her which they have done.

In reality church wedding isn't biblical and even the church recognizes that that is why the church will insist on traditional wedding before a church wedding.
It is amazes how many christains don't understand Christianity.

God does not recognize the blessings of a pastor in your wedding.
All that prayer na wash.
What God recognizes is the blessings of the parents.
If your parents don't bless your wedding, make your pastor fast and scream him intestine comot e no concern God.
When I ready marry I go just run my traditional wedding go court go run am then call pastor come my house come pray.
The white wedding is the the white man's traditional wedding.
You will notice that the white man doesn't call it "white wedding"

All what you have said here are mere assertions and not facts, if you can't back your points with scriptural references

PerfectStranger:
So nowadays folks just jump into marriage without dating or courtship first?

I'm sure he saw the sign but still went ahead. Imagine the amount he spent on wedding. His loss tho coz you can't force a person to like you.

na dating devil people like you take spoil the earth. Must they date? You are forcing people to fornication

The man must be a dirty man. Always refusing to bath. God forbid! By the way, how dare you take a Muslim woman to convert to your Christian religion, and then charm her to marry you, and still want to f+ck her. The charm you use on her has faded

Lamasta:
From the write up it wasn't stated that she did not consent to the wedding before they were joined

So the counselling did not involve educating them about intimacy as one of the crucial ingredients of their marriage and to seek their opinion or stands on such issues before wedding them?

It is possible that she is a lesbian and has a spirit marine husband that forbids her from having sex with any male.

Know my dears that every misnomer or abnormality that is a consistent pattern have a demon behind it.

SlavaUkraini:
Spirit Husband... Mental instability... Gametophobia

Are just some of the reasons behind her actions.

Because you know her personally

dre11:
https://punchng.com/church-expels-new-bride-for-refusing-sex-with-husband/

Why is the church meddling into peoples marriages. Since when did Pastors start dissolving marriages ?

What does the bible teach about divorce.


Jesus says the ground for divorce is when the wife has infidelity with another man then the man can divorce the woman.

dre11:
https://punchng.com/church-expels-new-bride-for-refusing-sex-with-husband/

How come you go and buy non tested machine. Before you take anything you buy home, ensure it is working properly. Don't be a fool

This is a serious matter, it might be a spiritual case.

In Nigeria, marriage isn’t the problem — pressure is. Weddings have become financial performances, not foundations for partnership. When a man spends heavily to meet expectations and the marriage fails, the emotional loss is doubled by financial damage.

The issue isn’t marriage itself; it’s a culture that rewards display over stability. Remove the pressure, and marriage becomes partnership — not punishment.

advanceDNA:
Its a metaphor of dealing with the flesh of the unrepentant church member….Na u nor read bible…. But u dey accuse pastor

See person wey dey say I no read bible.
Paul never said they should pray for the destruction of that brother that slept with his father's wife oga. That is definitely acting out of love.

That scripture in Corinthians is now taken literally which is funny.

89green:
If you like date and court properly for 100yrs, the marriage can crash in 2 mins

Lie. Court allows you to understand yourselves better abi the courting was over the phone?

qtx:
So the counselling did not involve educating them about intimacy as one of the crucial ingredients of their marriage and to seek their opinion or stands on such issues before wedding them?

If the lady did not consent before the marriage I don't think the church will wed them cos from the write up above problem started after the wedding, moreover the families give GI ahead which is the most important......