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dawnomike:
Wickedness of the highest order!!!

Why deceive a woman just to marry her in the name of lover that will first clear off when the truth unravels?

qtx:
Better is the man that exercise patience than he that is powerful and greater is the man who exercises self control than he that captured a city - prov 16 :32. The said man lacked self control and allowed the lust to rule him and inflicted the pain in the innocent woman. What a bad luck of a man. I will advise the woman to leave. Very sad situation here.

Dpsychologist:
People seem to still not take with seriousness the grave consequences of 2 AS or SS marrying each other.

Btruth:
Oga ooo. This couldn't be a true story now? 😞

Dpsychologist:
how comes you termed what he did as lust?

He manipulated and decieved her, simple.

Leonardo4:
It's not a true story. Why do a CVS at 10wk if they so believe the man is AA. stories that never happened
And first came out SS they didn't repeat the man's genotype. Yeye story filled with lies

Dpsychologist:
Always Make Sure You Check Your Genotype Before You Marry.

Attraction is sweet.
Chemistry is powerful.
But biology does not care about feelings.

Genotype is not a minor detail. It is life and death.

If two people with AS marry each other, they are rolling dice with every pregnancy.


There are families where the first two children are SS.
There are families where three children are SS.
Sickle cell disease is not a small issue. It is pain crises. Hospital bills. Blood transfusions. Emotional exhaustion. Watching your child suffer and feeling helpless.

Love will not remove that burden.

Yes, medicine has advanced.
Yes, there is prenatal testing.
Yes, there is IVF with genetic screening.

But be honest.

Do you have the financial strength for that?
Do you have the emotional stamina?
Have you both agreed clearly on adoption if things go wrong?

Or are you just hoping for the best?

Hope is not a plan.

In this generation, ignorance is no longer an excuse. Genotype testing is affordable. Results are clear. The information is available.

Do not prioritize wedding pictures over your future child’s health.

If you are AS, marry AA.
If both of you are AS, have a serious discussion before you proceed.

Not emotional. Not defensive. Logical.

Your child did not ask to be born into avoidable suffering.

Love responsibly.

Because real love thinks beyond the wedding day.

dawnomike:
Wickedness of the highest order!!!

Why deceive a woman just to marry her in the name of lover that will first clear off when the truth unravels?

motymop:
All these chatgpt made up stories

A woman says she cannot marry AS. She is AS herself. She was clear ans firm ans wants healthy children.
[/Quote] but not form enough to double check [quote]The man brings a result that says AA. [/Quote] s'ope otilo [quote]They got married. First pregnancy.
CVS test at ten weeks.
Result: SS.
Shock. Tears. Fasting. Confusion.
They terminate.
They call it bad luck.
[/Quote] this is woman brain manifesting
Bag luck bawo [quote]Second pregnancy.
Same test.
Same result: SS.
Another abortion.
More pain.
More hormones.
More grief.
She blames destiny. [/Quote] destiny ke
Was it Destin by that choose husband for her [quote]She questions God.
She doubts herself.
[/Quote] doubt Abi she failed [quote]All the while, her husband knows the truth.
He is AS. He forged his result because he “didn’t want to lose her.”
[/Quote] he's g fighting for his own
What was she doing [quote]Let that sink in.
He watched her carry two pregnancies that statistically had a 25 percent chance of being SS.
He watched her terminate twice.
He watched her body break.
He watched her mourn.
And he kept quiet.
That is not love. [/Quote] this you and her problem right here
Love ko love Ni
That's how you describe yourself [quote]That is manipulation. [/Quote] the game is the game [quote]That is cruelty dressed up as romance. [/Quote] so you want only as to marry [quote]Now she finds his real result from 2019. Genotype: AS.

Now he is crying.
Now he says “I did it for love.”
Now he suggests adoption.
Now he brings a pastor to preach “for better or worse.”
[/Quote] we will see whether you believe in this God you keep mentioning [quote]No.
Marriage is for better or worse.
Not for lies that create the worse. [/Quote] nope
For better or worse
Choose wisely [quote]He did not just lie.
He removed her right to make an informed decision about her own body. [/Quote] nope he didn't force her
She failed to do her for diligence when she decided to choose husband without a man's approval
Result of feminism [quote]He gambled with her womb.
[/Quote] nope
She did
He's happy withk her [quote]He gambled with potential children.
He gambled with her mental health.
Genotype is not vibes. It is biology.
[/Quote] vibes don't care about biology [quote]AS plus AS means:
25 percent AA
50 percent AS
25 percent SS
[/Quote] una go gree for arranged marriages? [quote]Each pregnancy resets the probability. It is not “once SS, next one safe.” That is not how genetics works.Two SS results back to back is painful, but possible.
And he knew the risk from day one.
The real question is not whether she should stay.

The real question is this:
If someone can lie about something this fundamental before marriage, what else can they lie about?
[/Quote] abeg may wẹ hia word [quote]Trust is the foundation of marriage. [/Quote] propaganda
The Bible is
Dr where trust has put you [quote]Without trust, you are roommates with rings.
“I love you” does not erase deliberate deception.
Love without honesty is danger.

If you were in her shoes, would you feel safe trying again?
Would you trust him with IVF decisions?
With finances?
With medical choices?
This is bigger than genotype.
It is about consent. [/Quote] she consented
She wasn't dragged at knife or gunpoint
Even them death is a choice [quote]It is about truth. [/Quote] keep telling yourself that [quote]It is about whether intention cancels damage.
[/Quote] just say your a feminist looking for non biblical reading to divorce [quote]For many people, this is a run and do not look back situation. [/Quote] nope
Only for feminists [quote]Not because AS is evil.
But because deceit is.
Take your genotype seriously. [/Quote] did she [quote]But more importantly, take character seriously. [/Quote] did she [quote]Because a forged result today can become a forged life tomorrow.




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Btruth:
Oga ooo. This couldn't be a true story now? 😞

emiye:
Weak story: AS and AA can not produce SS. 99.99% will not undergo cVS testing if not trying to pick a chromosomal disease /defect usually SS. Things that never happened.

There are families where the first two children are SS.
There are families where three children are SS.
Sickle cell disease is not a small issue. It is pain crises. Hospital bills. Blood transfusions. Emotional exhaustion. Watching your child suffer and feeling helpless.
[/Quote] so do we about all as foetuses now or only aa should be allowed to have children? [quote]Love will not remove that burden.
[/Quote] oga this while life is burden [quote]Yes, medicine has advanced.
Yes, there is prenatal testing.
Yes, there is IVF with genetic screening.

But be honest.

Do you have the financial strength for that?
Do you have the emotional stamina?
Have you both agreed clearly on adoption if things go wrong?

Or are you just hoping for the best?

Hope is not a plan.

In this generation, ignorance is no longer an excuse. Genotype testing is affordable. Results are clear. The information is available.

Do not prioritize wedding pictures over your future child’s health.

If you are AS, marry AA.
[/Quote] na so e easy to just point and keell ss like say you de order iPhone from Amazon ko [quote]If both of you are AS, have a serious discussion before you proceed.

Not emotional. Not defensive. Logical.

Your child did not ask to be born into avoidable suffering.
[/Quote] so billions of 3rd world ppl asked to be born into differing ba [quote]Love responsibly.

Because real love thinks beyond the wedding day.

wizod:
I have a testimony to give. Sometime 2012 I ran a genotype test not knowing he's quack. He wrote AA and gave me not knowing I am AS. When I wanted to marry in 2015, the church told us to go for both HIV and genotype test. I told the lab technician that I am AA, that he should just conduct only HIV test on me while he will conduct both genotype and HIV on my wife but he disagreed with the motion that he won't use another person's result and write on his result sheet without carrying out the test and I agreed. He took our specimen and told me to come back in 3 hrs time which we did. But to my utmost surprise, he was not yet done. He told me that he has been running mine on 4 different occasions because the result I gave him is not correct. He told me that my result is AS and my wife to be is also AS. I was very much depressed immediately and don't know what else to do and remember that our wedding is just 5 days ahead being the 9th of January 2016.
I asked him if we can marry and he told me that if we marry, that we have 25% chance of AA, 50% chance of AS and 25% chance of SS and I cried again. He is a Pastor with Deeper Life Church and he's not and Igbo man like me. He told me that a man who had similar case, they got married and had five children with no trace of SS and I believed him. With faith we wedded.
Today, we have four children, 3 boys and a girl. 2 is AA and 2 is AS but I will never advice anyone to do as I did because what works for Mr. A may not for Mr. B. When she was pregnant, we went to Govt. Hospital and the result also showed AS for both of us, we at another time went to Nigerian Christian Hospital for test when she was also pregnant and it was the same result. I owe God a lot for giving me such a good luck because I can't bear seeing my child or children falling sick on daily basis.
If you think I'm lying, I reside in ABA, send me to any doctor you know, and my wife will submit ourselves for test.

Fiscus105:
But people should stop behave like illiterate, and endeavour to discuss there issue with neutral and knowledgeable person Whenever they are confused.


Since the lady confirmed that she is AS, having had the first pregnancy which was SS, she supposed to force the husband to go to hospital that she trusted and see the results herself and not hearsay.


Meanwhile, if this is to be wife now, foolish and mad people would have been chanting war songs on female gender.

eagleonearth:
The man should be arrested alongside the pastor that came to preach for better for worse. The marriage should be immediately annulled on grounds of falsehood.It can be. It is tantamount to a lady claiming she is ok whereas she knows her womb is gone. When the man now finds out inside marriage, she starts crying 😭. Any union on falsehood is crime and should be immediately dissolved!!