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A Nigerian lady has gone viral on TikTok after sharing an emotional video recounting how her long-term boyfriend allegedly left her for her best friend, Rep9ja reports.

The video, posted by @Rep9jaNG, captured the woman in tears as she described the pain of losing a relationship she believed would lead to marriage.

According to her, she had been with her partner for 12 years, during which he made several promises about their future together.

In the video, she expressed shock and deep sadness over the unexpected breakup, saying she never imagined he would leave her, especially for someone so close to her.

Overcome with emotion, she described the experience as heartbreaking and prayed for strength to move forward.

In her words: 

“He break up with me after 12 years of relationship. He went to marry my bestie. The world is cruel. Anambra man I dey fear una. After all the promise he made to me, he left me for my bestie. 12 years of relationship just go like that. God help me. I don cry tire.”

Watch video below …

Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her https://t.co/J17xVqbjX2 pic.twitter.com/V6FHVrW0th

— Rep9ja.Com (@Rep9jaNg) February 26, 2026

https://www.rep9ja.com/viral/lady-who-has-been-relationship-cries/

A 12 year relationship is no longer a relationship but a full blown marriage! You wasted your time by sticking with man for 12 years without knowing if he'd marry you or not. This is disheartening, if true.

And she just had to wipe her nose with her T-shirt...🤦🤦🤦

Me sef join you to pray to God to help you. Because the cold nights go long. It is well...

Why is she crying? There is hope for the living. A thing well known to even the dead.

Samantha125:
And she just had to wipe her nose with her T-shirt...🤦🤦🤦

He endured such wipings for 12 years!

Finish me...🤣🤣🤣🤣

EmperorIsaac:
He endured such wipings for 12 years!

And bringing it online does what?

I never trust any person crying on camera.

Digital madness.

These days one doesn't know what is content and what is real anymore

How dem wan take marry her with this kind fat face?😂😂

If you are in a relationship for six years and your partner is yet to propose demand for pension immediately. On a side note, people should go into a relationship with a purpose. If the person is not serious, you move on. I'm sure the red flags or signs were there but she continued with the relationship.

Note this: in relationship, the person who suffers most is the person who invested more either emotionally or financially. Therefore, learn to use your 5 and 6 while dating to avoid had I known.

EmperorIsaac:
He endured such wipings for 12 years!

😂🤣😂🤣 leave me ooo

LeeSmart:
How dem wan take marry her with this kind fat face?😂😂

Omoh... Abeg na 🤣😂😅

This is serious 12 years............ People are wicked

Diamond098454:
This is serious 12 years............ People are wicked

The guy is very wicked, he sokced her to_ tôw for 12 years and still left her

The same way her eyes 👀 are closely slight, na so she refused to see he had many red flags

Who did thr spending then,12years of training yet crying

chatinent:
And bringing it online does what?

I never trust any person crying on camera.

Digital madness.

They think that once they shed tears behind a camera, the whole world will believe them. It works only when the targeted audience are teenagers. I'm too old to know that when someone is truly hurt and wants to cry, phone camera will be the last thing on her mind.

TotoSuckker:
The guy is very wicked, he sokced her to_ tôw for 12 years and still left her

Would she have preferred he married her...treated her like sh1t and then divorce her after a year of marriage?

She’ll reconnect with him.

12 years kwa. Them don marry be that na. What is life expectancy again ?

When you know you won't marry her or marry him. Why should you prolong that relationship for more than 10 years and then suddenly cut it off.
Some people get mind o.

Did she say breakup or DIVORCE?

It's the deity of your father and mother house that don't want u to marry... AUNTIE... You need Shiloh prayers not social media tears

Aunty wey mumu!! When will you marry?

edogu:
If you are in a relationship for six years and your partner is yet to propose demand for pension immediately. On a side note, people should go into a relationship with a purpose. If the person is not serious, you move on. I'm sure the red flags or signs were there but she continued with the relationship.

Note this: in relationship, the person who suffers most is the person who invested more either emotionally or financially. Therefore, learn to use your 5 and 6 while dating to avoid had I known.

6 years? Like a whole 6 years?
Anyway, some can start as teenagers.
Cos if a grown up woman is dating a man for 6 years, na she sabi.
I dated my husband for 8 months.

Imindmybusiness:
They think that once they shed tears behind a camera, the whole world will believe them. It works only when the targeted audience are teenagers. I'm too old to know that when someone is truly hurt and wants to cry, phone camera will be the last thing on her mind.

like my former neighbours wife that recorded a video of her bleeding face and crying. In my mind I'm like na me Una won use settle abi?

Diamond098454:
This is serious 12 years............ People are wicked

With the right person you can date for 10yrs so long he wants you..just some guys and ladies date for fun and not with a purpose..

You look beautiful when you cry🤣🤣🤣

So all these 12yrs you didn't think of getting pregnant. Abi is the man impotent or you are barren?

Abeg make una get out

With that swollen face me sef go run, the guy sef endure rubbish.. This kind person fit even get body odor sef