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Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by nwirinedu(m): 1:08pm On Feb 27
You have to be intentional about marital relationships whether you re a man or a woman. I dont blame some women for undue emphasis on monetary exchange for relationships, you see, such women are intentional they know what they want, same applies to men who dump certain women after some time.

Rule of thumb for anyone going into a relationship look beyond looks and charm, as a woman dong hang around a man who is not ready to commit after 1 year, thats why its important to start early in your prime when men are chasing you.

Dont start looking for a man in your 30s and 40s because you re way out of your prime and have lost the things men look for , innocence, youth and fertility.

A man can get married in his 40s if he choose to and still impregnate girls in his 50s a woman in her 40s has a womb that looks like a honey comb. Time is of essence.

As a woman your options drop as you get older, certificates a, money, plastic surgery wont attract men to you.

If he is not ready to commit after 1 year , change him.
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by bestman09(m): 1:08pm On Feb 27
12 years? Is this a content?
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by lightwind(m): 1:10pm On Feb 27
You are not a good wife material, sister please go and check and fix yourself.

Go and amend your mistakes and life.

$
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by Softmen: 1:13pm On Feb 27
spiceadole:
6 years? Like a whole 6 years?
Anyway, some can start as teenagers.
Cos if a grown up woman is dating a man for 6 years, na she sabi.
I dated my husband for 8 months.
Madam e smooth for you like express no mean say na U sabi relationship pass.
Anyways no sympathy here cos these daughter of eve will never take to advice
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by Btruth: 1:17pm On Feb 27
Samantha125:
And she just had to wipe her nose with her T-shirt...🤦🤦🤦
😂😁😂😁
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by wizod(m): 1:18pm On Feb 27
There are questions we have to ask that should contribute such mess.
1. What was she contributing during this union?
2. How is her character in this relationship?
3. What is her relationship with her man's family members and his friends?
4. Is she a good home manager?
When the reverse is the case, do you expect the man to go ahead with the marriage?
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by bizzibodi(m): 1:19pm On Feb 27
12 solid years with multiple d&c.
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by ceejayluv(m): 1:23pm On Feb 27
But if na marriage scatter after 3 years, una Go dey scream " freedom" form the "toxic narcissist".
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by edogu(m): 1:25pm On Feb 27
spiceadole:
6 years? Like a whole 6 years?
Anyway, some can start as teenagers.
Cos if a grown up woman is dating a man for 6 years, na she sabi.
I dated my husband for 8 months.
I met my wife in 2016 and we got married 2017. The summary is that one should use his or her head whether the relationship is short or long term to avoid being used.
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by spiceadole(f): 1:26pm On Feb 27
Softmen:
Madam e smooth for you like express no mean say na U sabi relationship pass.
Anyways no sympathy here cos these daughter of eve will never take to advice
I never said I sabi relationship pass.
I only said there is no way a lady should be in a relationship for 6 years except she is a teenager.
Even though.
What will they do be doing for 6 years?
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by We4all: 1:36pm On Feb 27
If legally married couples can split up after 50 years together, what is 12 years to couples that were not legally married?
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by Menses: 1:50pm On Feb 27
The bannie deh reason how many belle she don comot for the jiggy na y she deh cry ooo
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by We4all: 1:51pm On Feb 27
nwirinedu:
You have to be intentional about marital relationships whether you re a man or a woman. I dont blame some women for undue emphasis on monetary exchange for relationships, you see, such women are intentional they know what they want, same applies to men who dump certain women after some time.

Rule of thumb for anyone going into a relationship look beyond looks and charm, as a woman dong hang around a man who is not ready to commit after 1 year, thats why its important to start early in your prime when men are chasing you.

Dont start looking for a man in your 30s and 40s because you re way out of your prime and have lost the things men look for , innocence, youth and fertility.

A man can get married in his 40s if he choose to and still impregnate girls in his 50s a woman in her 40s has a womb that looks like a honey comb. Time is of essence.


As a woman your options drop as you get older, certificates a, money, plastic surgery wont attract men to you.

If he is not ready to commit after 1 year , change him.
Nigerian men keep saying this to console themselves. Older men desiring younger women is not a specialised type of skill. Exposed older women are also doing the same now.

But the difference is, they won't cry and ask for DNA if they suspect their younger partners that they share children with are cheating on them. And as for thinking that an older woman's womb is ruined, you are just an ignoramus.

To be honest , how many women married in their 20s are having it good in their marriages? I can bet only a handful. Did marriage stop them from aging? No...

So, if a 50 or 60 year old woman decides to look for a man, just keep shut. As long as your mother is above 50 and still married, then a 50 year old woman also has the right to be married if she feels like it. If you don't like it, go hang yourself.
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by BreakingNews21: 1:55pm On Feb 27
A woman entangled in 12 years of fornication is now a lady? 🤔
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by wazobeer: 1:57pm On Feb 27
Arkmanbuddy:
A 12 year relationship is no longer a relationship but a full blown marriage! You wasted your time by sticking with man for 12 years without knowing if he'd marry you or not. This is disheartening, if true.
Omo 12 years no be break-up ooo, this one na divorce... 😖
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by shineeye1: 1:58pm On Feb 27
After 12 years, this is better called a DIVORCE! The marriage lasted for 12 years.
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by cococandy(f): 2:00pm On Feb 27
Arkmanbuddy:
A 12 year relationship is no longer a relationship but a full blown marriage! You wasted your time by sticking with man for 12 years without knowing if he'd marry you or not. This is disheartening, if true.
That’s why women shouldn’t waste their time being loyal to you guys. Lord knows you guys don’t.
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by deavicky(m): 2:00pm On Feb 27
She too like food
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by Hellisreal70: 2:10pm On Feb 27
With twelve years of constant sexual intercourse, it is fitting to call you a divorcee
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by ppogba: 2:12pm On Feb 27
Let Doris,the admin add her to the WhatsApp group.

Or in the alternative, she should get in touch with Chris Okafor.
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by AfonjaPriest: 2:18pm On Feb 27
Na your fault.
12 years wey you for use boil stone, you waste dey wait for marriage.
Oya serve yourself the uncooked stone, and bon appetit!
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by EBEk101(m): 2:19pm On Feb 27
Diamond098454:
This is serious 12 years............ People are wicked
Why would a lady stay in a relationship for 12 years if not madness

As it stance if the said man comes back to weep her one more time, she will give him free pass
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by obinna58(m): 2:20pm On Feb 27
Why is she not with his kid
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by Osariemen12: 2:43pm On Feb 27
Samantha125:
And she just had to wipe her nose with her T-shirt...🤦🤦🤦
One of the reasons the wise guy jilted her.
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by Emdi1914: 2:43pm On Feb 27
As in you just wasted 12 years of life.Damn!
I cannot date a woman for more than a year.Never!
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by PeterObash(m): 2:44pm On Feb 27
If she's useful that guy wouldn't have left her. She should find a better job grin😂
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by Emdi1914: 2:45pm On Feb 27
If you had children it would have been bearable
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by Adeevah(m): 2:51pm On Feb 27
Samantha125:
And she just had to wipe her nose with her T-shirt...🤦🤦🤦
that's enough for me to switch to her friend
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by ukaface(f): 2:55pm On Feb 27
Aunty I bu ozuor
How you go dey with man for 12 years, no marriage… for 12 years
Onuku
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by Olatara(f): 3:01pm On Feb 27
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Imindmybusiness:
They think that once they shed tears behind a camera, the whole world will believe them. It works only when the targeted audience are teenagers. I'm too old to know that when someone is truly hurt and wants to cry, phone camera will be the last thing on her mind.
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by APOPTOSIS: 3:04pm On Feb 27
Diamond098454:
This is serious 12 years............ People are wicked
Thought you women no longer need men.
They could just stick around for another 12years. Ladies should better wake up and define what they want. Anyway.....
My thought
They both wasted their 12 years without starting a family with at least a child.
Re: Lady Who Has Been In Relationship For 12 Years Cries As Man Dumps Her (Video) by APOPTOSIS: 3:07pm On Feb 27
PeterObash:
If she's useful that guy wouldn't have left her. She should find a better job grin😂
Exactly my thought.
No man leaves a useful or productive woman except for medical reasons or reasons beyond his control. If you have value, marriage becomes inevitable. No woman on this platform would advise her brother to marry an unproductive lady not even out of sympathy and not also when she is unproductive herself.
Learn to radiate value. It always saves and places you higher in the scheme of things
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