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IS IT POSSIBLE FOR A MAN THAT IS IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP TO BE FLIRTEOUS AND STILL REMAINS FAITHFUL TO HIS PARTNER

Yes, flirting does not mean feelings - but it's a quick way to fall into seduction and then commit infidelity.

Some very extroverted social butterflies can light up a conversation with any and everyone and it might just be friendly - unless if by flirting you mean, subtle touches, holding hands, looking at them and dropping some kain love bombing pickups.

On the topic of your thread:
1. Disrespect is an irreparable breaker.
2. Obvious sign of zero interest to challenge yourself in personal development (life ambition)
3. An overly flirtatious girlie - I like my angels introverted ✌🏿😁 with just a pinch of sanguine personality.

Yes.

Speaking as a man, of course yes. If by faithfulness, you mean sexual faithfulness, then probably not.

Paradise for a man is to be faithfully married to one woman, but engage in flings with others. Men like the idea of being married to one woman, but engage in romance with many.

The only thing preventing men from engaging in this act is their morality, sexual market value, and finance.

But where the hypocrisy comes is that men won't tolerate such from their wife. It's exclusively a male's privilege, as far as men are concern.

Any form of cheating and lack of self-worth

Cheating, stealing, and lying. Anyone of them and I'm done.

Well said but then it can aswell cause mistrust from ones partner and even though its not an outright cheating but its still some what kind of cheat

Stephen0mozzy:
Yes, flirting does not mean feelings - but it's a quick way to fall into seduction and then commit infidelity.

Some very extroverted social butterflies can light up a conversation with any and everyone and it might just be friendly - unless if by flirting you mean, subtle touches, holding hands, looking at them and dropping some kain love bombing pickups.

On the topic of your thread:
1. Disrespect is an irreparable breaker.
2. Obvious sign of zero interest to challenge yourself in personal development (life ambition)
3. An overly flirtatious girlie - I like my angels introverted ✌🏿😁 with just a pinch of sanguine personality.

hmmm interesting

Stephen0mozzy:
Yes, flirting does not mean feelings - but it's a quick way to fall into seduction and then commit infidelity.

Some very extroverted social butterflies can light up a conversation with any and everyone and it might just be friendly - unless if by flirting you mean, subtle touches, holding hands, looking at them and dropping some kain love bombing pickups.

On the topic of your thread:
1. Disrespect is an irreparable breaker.
2. Obvious sign of zero interest to challenge yourself in personal development (life ambition)
3. An overly flirtatious girlie - I like my angels introverted ✌🏿😁 with just a pinch of sanguine personality.

exclusively for men ?

pansophist:
Yes.

Speaking as a man, of course yes. If by faithfulness, you mean sexual faithfulness, then probably not.

Paradise for a man is to be faithfully married to one woman, but engage in flings with others. Men like the idea of being married to one woman, but engage in romance with many.

The only thing preventing men from engaging in this act is their morality, sexual market value, and finance.

But where the hypocrisy comes is that men won't tolerate such from their wife. It's exclusively a male's privilege, as far as men are concern.

yeah either by chatting alone or physical

Badfinga:
Any form of cheating and lack of self-worth

stealing ke in a relationship lolz

Wealthyonos:
Cheating, stealing, and lying. Anyone of them and I'm done.

GoodyMG:
Well said but then it can aswell cause mistrust from ones partner and even though its not an outright cheating but its still some what kind of cheat

Oh no no... One thing with love relationships - if you fell in love with someone because of their energy and friendliness, it'll be insecure and somewhat selfish to tell them to STOP being themselves.

The most you can do is love and be faithful to them and make them know that you expect nothing less than love and full fidelity to your relationship.

But by being themselves, I don't mean, giggling upadan like a crazed rabbit for every Thom, Dhick and Harry tho - a partner that have sense knows that being committed to someone means setting boundaries for every other person - if she cannot set that boundary without you tell him/her - then they're yet to fall in love with you nor see the value in what you both share - and once again, DEAL BREAKER.

GoodyMG:
stealing ke in a relationship lolz

Kai, girls and guys do steal in relationships o. Like this my guys phone was stolen inside his room, and it's just the both of them at home. She did it to wicked him.. My guy don buy new phone like this but the girl still they deny. Just when she was accusing my guy of cheating, something that he didn't do.

What do you think their wives would be doing while they'd be busy engaging in romance with many other women? You guys are still very naive...🤣🤣🤣

pansophist:
Yes.

Speaking as a man, of course yes. If by faithfulness, you mean sexual faithfulness, then probably not.

Paradise for a man is to be faithfully married to one woman, but engage in flings with others. Men like the idea of being married to one woman, but engage in romance with many.

The only thing preventing men from engaging in this act is their morality, sexual market value, and finance.

But where the hypocrisy comes is that men won't tolerate such from their wife. It's exclusively a male's privilege, as far as men are concern.

For me it's disrespect and having a child outside of our marriage... Step motherhood is the gift I don't have.

GoodyMG:
IS IT POSSIBLE FOR A MAN THAT IS IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP TO BE FLIRTEOUS AND STILL REMAINS FAITHFUL TO HIS PARTNER

yes

Flirting is normal...we all do it uknowingly

Its a reflex action

If you do something intentional just to satisfy your ego, just don't apologize later

My woman still in contact with her ex.
The day I find out she's communicating with her ex, that day, the house will not contain both of us.

Am a Uber driver I return something belong to my client and till today the woman av not forget what I did for her

Nice trend, when u assume things big red flag, because I dey attractive and light skin, then u assume am a cheat!!! Player, secondly
If I tell u something just do!!! Do as I say, not what you see me do, if I give u instructions just do it,

My deal breaker is lying, cheating, stealing, poor personal hygiene, too much affinity for religious activities, disobedience to laws/family and consumption of brainrot media, associations or friends.

DISRESPECT.


As a MAN, I cannot, and will not tolerate any form of "see finish".

A close 2nd is lack of commitment.

3rd is lack of personal hygiene.

dam2000:
Am a Uber driver I return something belong to my client and till today the woman av not forget what I did for her

Keep it up👏🏽We need more of you in our decayed society today.

In marriage.
Adultery.
If u use anobi and olorun together to beg me,i no go gree.

1. If she talks to exes. (I never talk to exes too.) I have never forgiven this.
2. If she is selfish, expecting gifts and favours from me without doing same for me.
3. If she keeps male friends. (I don't keep female friends too. Female friendly acquaintances, but never actual friends.)
4. If I can't ascertain her loyalty as being only to me, she has to go. I don't forgive disloyalty too.
5. I don't mind if she's overly emotional but if she's quick to act on what she feels like anger or resentment, she has to go. Anger will make her cross lines, saying words she can't take back too.

Only when you are certain about this should you procede to do the forever thing with her.

Manipulative and flirtatious.

Same here. When you catch or confront them, they feign ignorance. Run!

Theama:
Manipulative and flirtatious.

Samantha125:
For me it's disrespect and having a child outside of our marriage... Step motherhood is the gift I don't have.

He knows and that's why you don't know yet

And things should stay that way...

Amalekki:
He knows and that's why you don't know yet

For me it's disrespect and I can smell it from a mile off.

Once a woman cheats, I'm so done.

Disrespect and having male friends or male besties

The moment I know you have a male besties that's the very end for me and you!

My ex can testify on this!

Deal breaker should be for men only.