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Disrespect! No matter what, don't ever disrespect me. I can tolerate every other thing but not this one.

Homo

If you Dey inside closet just Dey there o
Cos once I see am….. final
Same goes for cheating

Disrespect
Cheat

Dirtiness is another thing ehhhhhh

Communication inconsistencies & lack of commitment

In this order:
Lies
Disrespect
Cheating on all forms
No boundaries
Having male besties
Lousy n loud
Chronic begging (almajiri on wig)
Easily influenced by others
Overused koontoos
No ass... Like seriously wtf?

Snoring and Disrespect

I can’t really relate to deal breakers much because I married my answered prayer.
But for me, it would be being in a place where my voice doesn’t matter. A woman blossoms where she is valued, heard, and cherished and I’m grateful I found that kind of love.

Nice thread.

Avoid a partner that gets angry easily.

Shaking bumbum and breasts on social media.

Posting your pictures and videos on social media everyday.

Keeping male FRIENDS.

Lacking in intellectual inclination.

Forming Feminism.

Feminism 🚩🚩

GoodyMG:
IS IT POSSIBLE FOR A MAN THAT IS IN A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP TO BE FLIRTEOUS AND STILL REMAINS FAITHFUL TO HIS PARTNER

How many questions are you asking?

topic header has a different question.

Your comment is another one.

dem don serve you hot breakfast

ukaface:
Homo

If you Dey inside closet just Dey there o
Cos once I see am….. final
Same goes for cheating

reminds me of one new bride in my area that caught her prince charming getting pounded 😂

So many things

Untrustworthiness
Wickedness
Lack of common sense
Greediness
Dirtiness
Hard drug user
Unorganized
Wastefulness
Laziness
Psychopathic
Unintelligent
Disloyal
Disrespectful
Fighting
Noisy
Troublesome
Dishonesty
Inability to keep secrets
Ingratitude
Stealing

etc.

Cheating

Disrespecting me and my family

Cheating and disrespect.

hmmm true

Stephen0mozzy:
Oh no no... One thing with love relationships - if you fell in love with someone because of their energy and friendliness, it'll be insecure and somewhat selfish to tell them to STOP being themselves.

The most you can do is love and be faithful to them and make them know that you expect nothing less than love and full fidelity to your relationship.

But by being themselves, I don't mean, giggling upadan like a crazed rabbit for every Thom, Dhick and Harry tho - a partner that have sense knows that being committed to someone means setting boundaries for every other person - if she cannot set that boundary without you tell him/her - then they're yet to fall in love with you nor see the value in what you both share - and once again, DEAL BREAKER.

na wa ooo things dey happen

Wealthyonos:
Kai, girls and guys do steal in relationships o. Like this my guys phone was stolen inside his room, and it's just the both of them at home. She did it to wicked him.. My guy don buy new phone like this but the girl still they deny. Just when she was accusing my guy of cheating, something that he didn't do.

its very confusing

Samantha125:
What do you think their wives would be doing while they'd be busy engaging in romance with many other women? You guys are still very naive...🤣🤣🤣

reflex action you say?

femi4:
yes

Flirting is normal...we all do it uknowingly

Its a reflex action

absolutely

helinues:
If you do something intentional just to satisfy your ego, just don't apologize later

you need to have a conversation with her if you ever findout

stan4b:
My woman still in contact with her ex.
The day I find out she's communicating with her ex, that day, the house will not contain both of us.

ah you must be a disciplined man ooo chisos

TheStoriesOfMan:
My deal breaker is lying, cheating, stealing, poor personal hygiene, too much affinity for religious activities, disobedience to laws/family and consumption of brainrot media, associations or friends.

valid point

JohnAOne:
DISRESPECT.


As a MAN, I cannot, and will not tolerate any form of "see finish".

A close 2nd is lack of commitment.

3rd is lack of personal hygiene.

hmmm this should be for both parties oooo,, very true

DissTroy:
1. If she talks to exes. (I never talk to exes too.) I have never forgiven this.
2. If she is selfish, expecting gifts and favours from me without doing same for me.
3. If she keeps male friends. (I don't keep female friends too. Female friendly acquaintances, but never actual friends.)
4. If I can't ascertain her loyalty as being only to me, she has to go. I don't forgive disloyalty too.
5. I don't mind if she's overly emotional but if she's quick to act on what she feels like anger or resentment, she has to go. Anger will make her cross lines, saying words she can't take back too.

Only when you are certain about this should you procede to do the forever thing with her.

yeah

Theama:
Manipulative and flirtatious.

so hilarious but wait no ass chai... hope you have ass too ooo

kiddaz:
In this order:
Lies
Disrespect
Cheating on all forms
No boundaries
Having male besties
Lousy n loud
Chronic begging (almajiri on wig)
Easily influenced by others
Overused koontoos
No ass... Like seriously wtf?

wow i tap from your blessing ooo

Jane664:
I can’t really relate to deal breakers much because I married my answered prayer.
But for me, it would be being in a place where my voice doesn’t matter. A woman blossoms where she is valued, heard, and cherished and I’m grateful I found that kind of love.

so true

professore:
Nice thread.

Avoid a partner that gets angry easily.

lolz no vex sir

AllBlack:
How many questions are you asking?

topic header has a different question.

Your comment is another one.

dem don serve you hot breakfast

After sleeping around, they'll come back home only to slump and die after finding out that some of the children are not biologically theirs as if they were expecting the wives to sit at home lonely while they're having fun with other women...

They'd have affairs with other men's women, but get offended when other men step in to fill in the void they'd have left with their wives while busy sleeping around...

GoodyMG:
its very confusing

hmm that's logical

Samantha125:
After sleeping around, they'll come back home only to slump and die after finding out that some of the children are not biologically theirs as if they were expecting the wives to sit at home lonely while they're having fun with other women...

They'd have affairs with other men's women, but get offended when other men step in to fill in the void they'd have left with their wives while busy sleeping around...

GoodyMG:
wow i tap from your blessing ooo

Amen!!!
May the lord give you yours 🙏