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What is your take on this, I’ve been shaking my head since morning…

I loose trust in this gender every single day ngl

Who's to blame?
I only blame her for not promising him she'll gradually pay back his money

Unclebayo:
What is your take on this, I’ve been shaking my head since morning… I loose trust in this gender every single day ngl

. Dating or befriending women has always been optional, more so in the world today, where men also have the option of dating themselves. 🥱🥱

QuinQ:
Who's to blame?
I only blame her for not promising him she'll gradually pay back his money

so she did the right thing according to your fish brain?

Unclebayo:
so she did the right thing according to your fish brain?

She had no choice. Suffering in Nigeria only to come to UK to find there's even more suffering plus cold, isolation, depression, etc. Would it be better if she committed suicide?

I blame the man. Simple rule: "Love all, trust few," yet he decided to be an investor. Now she’s carrying another man’s "British" baby and he’s frustrated.

But what do I know? I’m just an immature misogynist.

🚶‍♂️☕

QuinQ:
She had no choice. Suffering in Nigeria only to come to UK to find there's even more suffering plus cold, isolation, depression, etc. Would it be better if she committed suicide?

What are you saying?

ukaface:
What are you saying?

Life is not what it's cracked up to be.
All those countries have higher suicide rates than us. This rich girl below was only 42

QuinQ:
Life is not what it's cracked up to be.
All those countries have higher suicide rates than us. This rich girl below was only 42

And?

When loving someone, you need to apply intelligence and safety regulations too, for you not to be taken as a fool.

He should have required from learned men before embarking on that favour he gave the girlfriend.
Love aint everything.

ukaface:
And?

And so don't jump to conclusions. U don't know her situation over there. Like I said, her big sin was to not arrange to pay him back as she could and help him as she could

Love800:
When loving someone, you need to apply intelligence and safety regulations too, for you not to be taken as a fool.

He should have required from learned men before embarking on that favour he gave the girlfriend.
Love aint everything.

How come this sort of thing rarely happens to women? I woman won't sponsor a guy to go and then send for her no matter how rich she is

The lady is not at fault honestly, same as the guy.

You see distance relationship, if you are not disciplined, there is high chance of either or both to mess things up. Psychologically

We all want the best in life, when you meet a new person which met more criteria you are looking for in a partner than your current partner, sponsoring/funding or not, common sense do take over subconsciously

Kobojunkie:
. Dating or befriending women has always been optional, more so in the world today, where men also have the option of dating themselves. 🥱🥱

When a woman does wrong ...u condemn it ... u dont make excuses ...thats how they get better...thats the difference between men and women... men condemn mens wrong doing ...women dont...thats why I keep on saying their are more misandrists than misogynists and ubare one of them ... when I was always saying there are more female pedophiles than male , u women refused to accept the fact...now simi has opened a can of worms and men have started speaking up about their experiences

QuinQ:
She had no choice. Suffering in Nigeria only to come to UK to find there's even more suffering plus cold, isolation, depression, etc. Would it be better if she committed suicide?

Then why didn’t she sponsor herself to the UK alone?

Elzazzi:
Then why didn’t she sponsor herself to the UK alone?

She didn't have the money and the man did what boyfriends sometimes do (you may add "like mumu"}. Peller just bought his girlfriend (that dumped him) a 2026 Mercedes GLC.
You know full well she'll dump him again!

QuinQ:
She didn't have the money and the man did what boyfriends sometimes do (you may add "like mumu"}. Peller just bought his girlfriend (that dumped him) a 2026 Mercedes GLC.
You know full well she'll dump him again!

Lol. That peller thing na media cruise and engagement farming. He didn’t buy her shiit.

I understand you. But atleast she should have be more polite with him looking at the sacrifices he did for her. That her response is too harsh.

So why are you telling us, since you care for him, why don't you send him his money back and move on with your life since you already see better offer

What a good investor
2 rounds of applause for him jare

Sometimes when one is in love, it is like the person is under a spell . If u are not cautious Nd disciplined, you make irrational financial decisions that come back to haunt you later on. Guys , dont looseguard in the name of love

Unclebayo:
What is your take on this, I’ve been shaking my head since morning…

I loose trust in this gender every single day ngl

It's usually with women. They don't like taking responsibility for their actions, it's not in their DNA. That is why we have to teach our daughters better.

Shame you... Why don't she work to return funds to him... At least she owes him that..

When you see them battling spiritual battles you won't know that it's the sins of the parent visited on the children

EVEN IF THEY WERE MARRIED SHE'LL STILL BEHAVE LIKE THAT

Unclebayo:
What is your take on this, I’ve been shaking my head since morning…

I loose trust in this gender every single day ngl

the boyfriend no sabi where Amadioha dey stay? If ma to borrow more money to jazz d geh back to Naija, omo I won’t hesitate.

Kobojunkie:
. Dating or befriending women has always been optional, more so in the world today, where men also have the option of dating themselves. 🥱🥱

You're always talking bullshits

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When they say love is this what they're talking about? Love is not foolish biko! You love with sense. Look at where your mumu love dump you. It's just sad you learned your lesson the hard way.

No fvvkcs given. No pity for a foolish man.. As at 22, I knew better as a young boy
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Same man won't be able to risk it all for her sister..
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When I hear such tale about Foooolish men who because of ass or breast misbehave, I'm always happy....

elmagnifico411:
the boyfriend no sabi where Amadioha dey stay? If ma to borrow more money to jazz d geh back to Naija, omo I won’t hesitate.

I swear bro. Na to call my mama oo… she go abuse me but she won’t go like that bro 😎

My people suffer for lack of wisdom.

The guy should have been the one to travel, stabilise himself, then file for her to join him.

Then if it happens that reality hit him hard and he can't bring her, at least he didn't steal her money and not a monster.

Life is all about patterns. You probably have a hand in most tragedy that will happen to you.

If it happens that I will ever sponsor a woman abroad, deep in my mind, I have ruled such act as charity, where I expect the worse and hope for the best.

I would have made up my mind that this won't end well, and accepted it. I won't expect "jesus kind of morality" from mere human being.

So if she comes back months later with breakup story, it will just be a confirmation of what I've accepted, not a heartbeak.

Do not play against the nature of things. You will loose everytime. This guy put a woman in a provider position, and expect her to go against her hypergamy. LOL.

You will keep a woman and even get more women by spending more on yourself, leveling yourself up, not otherwise.

At least he learnt his lessons.

Unclebayo:
What is your take on this, I’ve been shaking my head since morning…

I loose trust in this gender every single day ngl

I hold no moral judgment against the woman.It simply observes that she acted according to her biological and environmental incentives. The Nigerian boyfriend is a cautionary tale for men: Do not invest in a woman's "potential" or "education" unless you have a prenuptial agreement that makes you a secured creditor rather than an unsecured one. In the global Sexual Market, the man who sacrifices for a woman is often just the man who pays for her to leave him for someone better.

Unclebayo:
What is your take on this, I’ve been shaking my head since morning…

I loose trust in this gender every single day ngl

The stories it’s always the same each time but men will never listen.

No dey train woman for school or send her abroad for school too but them no go hear word.

Before sending someone to school make sure she’s your wife and have kids for you so if she decides to go at least you have kids with her .

It’s win-win .