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It doesn't change anything

People who cheat are stupid and crazy.
Divorce instead of cheating.
Idiots.

No

essentialone:
If wedding vows includes May I die the day I cheat, will you still marry? ☺️😂🤔

As if that has any effect.

A responsible one at most..

Moveittothem:
We don't get married for the sake of being sexually loyal, but for the sake of having children and a family.

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Akalia:
YES!!! I will marry because one woman is enough for a disciplined man. I figured,Being involved with more than one woman drains a man.

try marry first
we talk all this one before

I don't need to vow to affirm my Fidelity to my wife. What could be more disturbing when compare to for better for worse, till death do us apart?

essentialone:
If wedding vows includes May I die the day I cheat, will you still marry? ☺️😂🤔

Most men would never marry

tragergeorge:
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try marry first
we talk all this one before

I am married and my union is blessed with 2 sons. I wrote my submission from the background of firsthand experience.
See, I once experimented with having a side chick as a married man, so I know what I am talking about.
Those of you married men that keep side chicks or that practice the culture of extramarital intimacy with women other than your wives may think you are enjoying but you are gradually being drained emotional, physically, financially and above all spiritually and overtime the resultant effect is usually devastatingly profound.

Akalia:
I am married and my union is blessed with 2 sons. I wrote my submission from the background of firsthand experience.
See, I once experimented with having a side chick as a married man, so I know what I am talking about.
Those of you married men that keep side chicks or that practice the culture of extramarital intimacy with women other than your wives may think you are enjoying but you are gradually being drained emotional, physically, financially and above all spiritually and overtime the resultant effect is usually devastatingly profound.

have you been. up to 12years on marriage

even who never marry sef still de drain emotionally physically financially even spiritually
and persons de wen get more than one wife and couple of side chick and nothing de do them emotionally financially physically even spiritually (depending on kinda spirituality here)

spare me all this sermon life/marriage no really hard as y'all Makin it seems
some rules are just unnecessary

essentialone:
Help us to define Cheating.

You must be below the level of permitted DAFTness

i should HELP YOU? Shey na me and your mama create the topic?

AllBlack:
You must be below the level of permitted DAFTness

i should HELP YOU? Shey na me and your mama create the topic?

Smiles

Swear wey all of us dey swear everyday ni

Ha ha na small thing na

Hahaha hahaha you are funny

elmagnifico411:
why would I marry?? With the way married women starve their husbands with sex?? Mbanu, I won’t. She’d weaponise sex knowing fully well that there’s no way I can go out and help myself.

Hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha🤣🤣🤣
Wow😲😲😲😲😲

jeff1993:
Yes I would agree to it ..... As far as mouth action is not cheating.

Are you sure? People can actually be faithful in marriage especially men? I don't believe you

richiemcgold:
Cheating as in sleeping with another man/woman?

If that's the case, many will gladly go ahead with the marriage. No be everybody like to dey sleep around.

Wow .... That means you will cheat on your partner

judewrites:
That's too extreme, because in every marriage there's tendency to cheat.

This is because in marriage, you will still see lots of human beings more attractive/appealing than your spouse.

Just be disciplined.

Diamond098454:
Wow .... That means you will cheat on your partner

Depends on if I'm disciplined or not.

Really? Been discipline will not stop a man from cheating on his wife.

You will keep only one sidechick and you will hide it from your wife so, this is the only area that makes one discipline

judewrites:
Depends on if I'm disciplined or not.

Diamond098454:
Hahaha hahaha you are funny

bros, I no fit lie to myself nah. These women are funny. Once Dey know you have options, they bring out their A game so you’d keep considering and staying with them.

My brother , no be small thing ohhhhhhhhhhh

elmagnifico411:
why would I marry?? With the way married women starve their husbands with sex?? Mbanu, I won’t. She’d weaponise sex knowing fully well that there’s no way I can go out and help myself.

In Marriage , I have come to realization that contentment is what you need. You will always see different human , but you must adore you spouse and make up your mind to stick to your spouse.

judewrites:
That's too extreme, because in every marriage there's tendency to cheat.

This is because in marriage, you will still see lots of human beings more attractive/appealing than your spouse.

Just be disciplined.

What is Marriage with out Locality of any type?

Moveittothem:
We don't get married for the sake of being sexually loyal, but for the sake of having children and a family.

jattopeter:
In Marriage , I have come to realization that contentment is what you need. You will always see different human , but you must adore you spouse and make up your mind to stick to your spouse.

Yes, but it isn't as easy as it seems.

That's why emotional attachments with the opposite sex when married is dangerous.

Yes , I know that is why one has to be determined limit your relationship with opposite gender.
At times the temptation will come , the first question that should come to your mind is , " If i am the one how will I feel"
This question will always put you in check .

judewrites:
Yes, but it isn't as easy as it seems.

That's why emotional attachments with the opposite sex when married is dangerous.

AllBlack:
so the only way you can be cheated is through anything that has to do with sex abi?
money and opportunities don't count? you just NARROWED it down to only sexual matters.? is that it?

Once again, define cheating.

I am sorry of this bothers you more. But in this context, cheating mainly concerns immorality

donmik:
I am sorry of this bothers you more. But in this context, cheating mainly concerns immorality

There you go again with VAGUE and OPEN-ENDED terms which points to NOTHING IN PARTICULAR.

Once a lady does not like you at all, she will give you more than 100 excuses why she can't have sex with you. Bros, just know say, no be say she no want Bleep. Na you she no just like at all.