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I Need Help I Don't Know How To Love by Freshtruth(op): 4:31pm On Mar 11
If I see a lady that am attracted to will be chasing her, even stalking her for months even years as soon as he accepts to be my girlfriend and start flowing with me emotionally the love just die immediately. She will nawtbe the one begging for my attention mind u I have never seen any pants for once
Re: I Need Help I Don't Know How To Love by Kobojunkie: 5:07pm On Mar 11
Freshtruth:
✓ If I see a lady that am attracted to will be chasing her, even stalking her for months even years as soon as he accepts to be my girlfriend and start flowing with me emotionally the love just die immediately. She will nawtbe the one begging for my attention mind u I have never seen any pants for once
What about your friendships ? Do you think you are a good friend or a so-so or just a terrible pal altogether to both your male and female friends or mere acquaintances? 🥱🥱
Re: I Need Help I Don't Know How To Love by Solofresh2: 5:31pm On Mar 11
You don't want a girlfriend; you want a mission. You are addicted to the dopamine of the chase because it distracts you from the emptiness of your reality. Once the chase ends and real connection is required, you flee because you have no identity outside of 'the pursuer.' You don't love women who love you back because, deep down, you don't believe you deserve to be chosen. You need the struggle to feel alive
Re: I Need Help I Don't Know How To Love by Samantha125(f): 6:13pm On Mar 11
Re: I Need Help I Don't Know How To Love by Starboytwo(m): 6:51pm On Mar 11
How about mine, if I don knack you like this izz gone…

Now, currently in a knackless relationship. I like it better.
Re: I Need Help I Don't Know How To Love by Dtruthspeaker: 7:46pm On Mar 11
Solofresh2:
You don't want a girlfriend; you want a mission. You are addicted to the dopamine of the chase because it distracts you from the emptiness of your reality. Once the chase ends and real connection is required, you flee because you have no identity outside of 'the pursuer.' You don't love women who love you back because, deep down, you don't believe you deserve to be chosen. You need the struggle to feel alive
Also, it is because he knows the women are out of use so his soul switches him nto safe mode since he does not have sehnse
Re: I Need Help I Don't Know How To Love by Dtruthspeaker: 7:49pm On Mar 11
Starboytwo:
How about mine, if I don knack you like this izz gone…

Now, currently in a knackless relationship. I like it better.
Still the same thing but worse for you would now fall in love till you find out that all this while you were zipped up, her between the legs was in active service
Re: I Need Help I Don't Know How To Love by Starboytwo(m): 7:59pm On Mar 11
Dtruthspeaker:
Still the same thing but worse for you would now fall in love till you find out that all this while you were zipped up, her between the legs was in active service
i'm honestly trying to effect change...

I met this cool headresser in Lekki. we are cool, but now its getting cooler. She is quite reserved about knowing my place and i personally don't even want her to know my place now...

We talked about intimacy, she was reserved about it too(oh she a northerner by the way.xtian southern kaduna) and i told her i want a sex-less relationship, at least for now. she surprised no doubt...

i'm loving every minute of this relationship. No ulterior motive.
Re: I Need Help I Don't Know How To Love by Dtruthspeaker: 9:00pm On Mar 11
Starboytwo:
i'm honestly trying to effect change...

I met this cool headresser in Lekki. we are cool, but now its getting cooler. She is quite reserved about knowing my place and i personally don't even want her to know my place now...

We talked about intimacy, she was reserved about it too(oh she a northerner by the way.xtian southern kaduna) and i told her i want a sex-less relationship, at least for now. she surprised no doubt...

i'm loving every minute of this relationship. No ulterior motive.
She is just studying you wondering what you are doing and plotting how she should play it.

I am sure you don't know that telling a girl that you don't want sex is one of the worst things you can do to a girl.
Re: I Need Help I Don't Know How To Love by Kingsley1169: 11:39pm On Mar 11
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Dtruthspeaker:
She is just studying you wondering what you are doing and plotting how she should play it.

I am sure you don't know that telling a girl that you don't want sex is one of the worst things you can do to a girl.
How and why
Re: I Need Help I Don't Know How To Love by helinues: 7:33am On Mar 12
The real question is do you love yourself as you can't give what you don't have
Re: I Need Help I Don't Know How To Love by UnstableFC: 7:54am On Mar 12
helinues:
The real question is do you love yourself as you can't give what you don't have
So therefore it is a jobless way of life you want?
Re: I Need Help I Don't Know How To Love by MONEY247: 8:04am On Mar 12
Solofresh2:
You don't want a girlfriend; you want a mission. You are addicted to the dopamine of the chase because it distracts you from the emptiness of your reality. Once the chase ends and real connection is required, you flee because you have no identity outside of 'the pursuer.' You don't love women who love you back because, deep down, you don't believe you deserve to be chosen. You need the struggle to feel alive
You hit the nail on the head
Re: I Need Help I Don't Know How To Love by Dtruthspeaker: 3:41pm On Mar 12
Kingsley1169:
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How and why
Because by her fault, a woman is less than a man and she has lost many rights that you still have even though both of men and women are supposed to be equal. So she naturally hates men, however she finds that life is very cussd and terrible for her. So she needs to select and choose a man who does not have sense and who will let her sense prevail over him even if it is bad for him. But as long as it brings good to her she would be fine and she shall choose you

That is how they calculate and why she is calculating.

Equality and fairness does not suit her because God cus. her for her sins, so she needs a man who will give her both the yam and the knife and the pot and the cooker.

So, if you are looking for equality and fairness, forget it, no girl will date you. They don't want guys who have sense, they want seeem.pps
Re: I Need Help I Don't Know How To Love by Kingsley1169: 1:29am On Mar 14
Dtruthspeaker:
Because by her fault, a woman is less than a man and she has lost many rights that you still have even though both of men and women are supposed to be equal. So she naturally hates men, however she finds that life is very cussd and terrible for her. So she needs to select and choose a man who does not have sense and who will let her sense prevail over him even if it is bad for him. But as long as it brings good to her she would be fine and she shall choose you

That is how they calculate and why she is calculating.

Equality and fairness does not suit her because God cus. her for her sins, so she needs a man who will give her both the yam and the knife and the pot and the cooker.

So, if you are looking for equality and fairness, forget it, no girl will date you. They don't want guys who have sense, they want seeem.pps
How and why is it the worst thing you can tell a girl? Is the question, you are yet to answer it
Re: I Need Help I Don't Know How To Love by Dtruthspeaker: 4:34am On Mar 14
Kingsley1169:
How and why is it the worst thing you can tell a girl? Is the question, you are yet to answer it
I have explained it but if you don't get it, then experience shall be your teacher.
Re: I Need Help I Don't Know How To Love by Kingsley1169: 10:11am On Mar 21
Dtruthspeaker:
I have explained it but if you don't get it, then experience shall be your teacher.
Understood
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