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Gf said she néeds money to buy some items for passing out as she just finished her final exams so she can celebrate with her colleagues.

Bf sends money and on the passing out, Bf posted her passing out pics on his WhatsApp status and gf did not view the status nor acknowledge it.

Bf complained to her and she said she didn't view it so he has no reason to complain and after all, it's not all her status that he views.

So who's right? BF or GF

adaperry25:
Gf said she néeds money to buy some items for passing out as she just finished her final exams so she can celebrate with her colleagues.

Bf sends money and on the passing out, Bf posted her passing out pics on his WhatsApp status and gf did not view the status nor acknowledge it.

Bf complained to her and she said she didn't view it so he has no reason to complain and after all, it's not all her status that he views.

So who's right? BF or GF

they should both book a flight to hell.

As someone who hardly views WhatsApp statuses, if you're going to post me, post me because you feel like it and not because you expect me to view it... Rather come to me and sing those praises to me in person than be seeking attention on WhatsApp.

So I don't see any wrong in what the girl did.

adaperry25:
Gf said she néeds money to buy some items for passing out as she just finished her final exams so she can celebrate with her colleagues.


So who's right? BF or GF

Come out clean, you're the BF, aren't you?

Better hold your life with importance. Continue chasing nasty girls up and down, you'll learn in the hard way

Samantha125:
As someone who hardly views WhatsApp statuses, if you're going to post me, post me because you feel like it and not because you expect me to view it... Rather come to me and sing those praises to me in person than be seeking attention on WhatsApp.

So I don't see any wrong in what the girl did.

Considering that he funded her passing out ceremony, courtesy demands she acknowledges his feelings and apologize.

Besides, the girl doesn't sound like someone who doesn't view statuses; her rebuttal was that he also doesn't view all her statuses.

Hello fellow non-status viewer.

On my birthday, my friends prompt me to view their statuses

On their birthdays, I do not put their pictures up either. I chat them on WhatsApp or give them a call.

I still don't see a big deal here... But if you put it that way, okay.

bukatyne:
Considering that he funded her passing out ceremony, courtesy demands she acknowledges his feelings and apologize.

Besides, the girl doesn't sound like someone who doesn't view statuses; her rebuttal was that he also doesn't view all her statuses.

Hello fellow non-status viewer.

On my birthday, my friends prompt me to view their statuses

On their birthdays, I do not put their pictures up either. I chat them on WhatsApp or give them a call.

You sent money for her celebration. She spent it. You posted her proudly. She ignored it. When you asked why, she told you your feelings are invalid.

This is not about a status view. This is about respect. She showed you exactly how much your effort matters to her: zero.

A woman who values you engages with you. She acknowledges your gestures. She makes you feel seen. This woman did the opposite. And when confronted, she made you feel crazy for noticing.

You are not a boyfriend. You are an ATM that posts on WhatsApp. She took your money, ignored your acknowledgment, and gaslit you when you asked for the bare minimum.

The question is not who is right. The question is: Why are you funding a woman who treats your feelings as optional?