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Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by YoungBlackRico(m): 7:13am On Mar 19

And the fact that you didn't find any other suspicious chat is a cause for suspicion on it own. She even willfully gave you her phone...dodoyo grin

Guy, if you know plan your exit now, you go cry wetin no good. Nigerian girl lol

Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by Demigod22(op): 9:01am On Mar 19

YoungBlackRico:
And the fact that you didn't find any other suspicious chat is a cause for suspicion on it own. She even willfully gave you her phone...dodoyo

Guy, if you know plan your exit now, you go cry wetin no good. Nigerian girl lol

Lol, exit successfully planned, my bro.

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Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by Demigod22(op): 9:03am On Mar 19

Atlantis585:
Chop am, clean mouth, dey go!

Simple as that.

Nothing more than that.

Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by Demigod22(op): 9:06am On Mar 19

[quote author=Glotrade post=138817437]@demigod22 remove those screenshot. For privacy reasons [/quot

Okay boss.

Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by Demigod22(op): 9:08am On Mar 19

MarketDispatch:
"I am back in Nigeria, come and visit me in my hotel room to pick up your gifts I brought from USA" -...where do you think your girlfriend will be without telling her elder sister?

Nothing pass like this. He can even visit her in school without her sister knowing, ask her to come to his house to get something for her Mom and nobody will suspect anything.

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Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by Demigod22(op): 9:10am On Mar 19

Umadam:
Women will deny u seven times even in ur present.
Most of them are after money. This is a red alert.....
But it's what u can correct, because almost all of the girls will do the same thing. Except u decide to forget about them.

Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by Demigod22(op): 9:12am On Mar 19

Umadam:
Women will deny u seven times even in ur present.
Most of them are after money. This is a red alert.....
But it's what u can correct, because almost all of the girls will do the same thing. Except u decide to forget about them.

Initially wanted to correct it, but the fact that she doesn't see any big deal in the messages, I gave up.

Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by Demigod22(op): 9:14am On Mar 19

OOOKEWALE:
it is either she is a prude or she is pretending to you. She knows what the man wants but she does not want to hurt her sister or him. The man will eventually run her wella. Tell her the man is not interested in anything serious with her sister.

It's a common sense that the man can never be serious with her. And she knows exactly what the man wants.

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Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by Demigod22(op): 9:18am On Mar 19

Mariangeles:
Going by her response, he took advantage of his experience and the respect she has for him, and is gradually grooming her, and getting her to let her guard down with/around him.
And she's gaslighting herself into doubting what is obvious.

The way he is serious with the elder sister, the whole family respect him and accepted him. Before he started this chats with her, he asked if she shares her phone with anyone.

Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by kiddaz: 10:13am On Mar 19

osazsky:
I tire for nowadays children..the op may not even have a steady job...and u want the girl to remain...he should marry her if he is man enough...kids way never do introduction feel say to marry Na beans

Lol so you would marry a girl with such an attitude and questionable character? Omor some of you are something else. Is that how you married your wife?

On another thread someone is advising ladies not to be loyal until they're engaged with a ring. It's the same boat you guys are on.

It's crazy to even think any man in his right senses will put a ring on you with such a character grin

It's why I advise guys never try to change a lady from who she is. Let her be free. Give her space sometimes and always make her comfortable enough to be her true self.

Just know what you want from her and take that.

It's either she's got wifey potentials or she's a WiFi ( connected to all dem n1qqas)

It's guys like you that marry loose and never know because you tried to bribe and condition her with marriage and a ring.

Wise men marry who can suffer with them, endure with them and enjoy with them, while still maintaining the good character traits they truly possess. Wisdom is really far from a lot of people today cheesy

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Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by Demigod22(op): 11:50am On Mar 19

kiddaz:
Lol so you would marry a girl with such an attitude and questionable character? Omor some of you are something else. Is that how you married your wife?

On another thread someone is advising ladies not to be loyal until they're engaged with a ring. It's the same boat you guys are on.

It's crazy to even think any man in his right senses will put a ring on you with such a character

It's why I advise guys never try to change a lady from who she is. Let her be free. Give her space sometimes and always make her comfortable enough to be her true self.

Just know what you want from her and take that.

It's either she's got wifey potentials or she's a WiFi ( connected to all dem n1qqas)

It's guys like you that marry loose and never know because you tried to bribe and condition her with marriage and a ring.

Wise men marry who can suffer with them, endure with them and enjoy with them, while still maintaining the good character traits they truly possess. Wisdom is really far from a lot of people today

That's how delusional most of the so called adults are. You see how he is advertising his ignorance and lameness thinking incapacity. Because I am not married to her, I shouldn't be concerned about such troubling chats with my girlfriend and her prospective brother in law.

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Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by Usmanovic95(m): 1:45pm On Mar 19

That girl is just a naive girl that's why the old man is trying to take advantage of her.This kind of girls are not really not ready for a serious relationship.Take a break or call it quit

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Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by Femeto: 2:42pm On Mar 19

Demigod22:
My girlfriend came around last Friday and stayed till Saturday. I went through her phone with her permission, of course. I didn't see anything serious. Out of curiosity I checked her chats with her sister's fiance, I saw some uncomfortable messages he sent to her. He sent messages like WHEN LAST DID YOU KISS? HAVE YOU BEEN IN LOVE BEFORE? SEND ME YOUR PICTURES, SEND ME VOICE NOTE, CAN I BE YOUR VAL OR I KILL MYSELF.

This man is in his early 50s and my girlfriend is turning 22 next month. He is even a divorcee, he come to their house and everyone respects him.

From their chats, my girlfriend didn't encourage anything, but the only issue I have with her was when I asked her why didn't she tell me the man was hitting on her? She said she thinks IT'S NOT IMPORTANT. And I asked if she knew what the man is driving at, she said SHE DOESN'T KNOW.

I told her that since she has the power to decide what's important and not, she can handle her affairs, and her elder sister would be very proud of her when she eventually finds the chats. She has been trying to be extra nice and downplay the whole situation but I just told her life no hard. Let's just catch cruise.

This man is telling her that she should be a good girl for him and he will spoil her, when he returns to Nigeria, he will take her out more often. The fact that this girl is pretending or acting to be ignorant of this old man's intentions is what turned me off.

She know wetin she de fined o.

Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by Mamaafrik1(m): 3:18pm On Mar 19

Demigod22:
I agree. I tried to have a conversation with her about this, the moment she said she doesn't know where that chats is leading, within me the relationship is gone.

tell her sister abd end the relatiin,that girl is not for keep.
She will cheat eventually.

If you dont cut her off now,with in two weeks,she wilk sleep with him and the fact that she is nit scared of u checking and knowijg shows that you are not repected and feared.

Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by psalmsjob: 4:16pm On Mar 19

Emeskhalifa:
Ogar better start planning your exit and reduce your emotional investment on her else e go shock you and wound you wella

E don shock am and wound am wella already....but the op didn't tell us his own age but I think a girl of 22years shouldn't be expected to be in a serious relationship, she should be studying and exploring her options and learning till she's 25 years or thereabouts and be at a good position to seriously date a man not boys of her age group oo that she will settle with.

So op, tell us honestly how old are you and do you really want or has what it takes to marry and take care of this girl?

Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by Mogajunior(m): 4:54pm On Mar 19

ruggedtimi:
45yrs old men above no get game at all.."When last did you kiss" ..."Can i be your val or i kill myself".

If the man is financially comfortable, having game will be less of his concerns. Remember we are talking Nigerian girls.

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Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by keemsleek(m): 5:51pm On Mar 19

Demigod22:
First of all, the OP has a steady job. Secondly, this man is her sister's fiance, not just a random man. And if you can marry a girl who's loyalty is questionable, the OP can't.

The way some people analysis issues are terrible. So if u have sisters you will allow one man sleep with them? This types of guys will allow a man sleep with thier sisters becos of money. No principles or morals again and to them they have have given good advice.

Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by BuddhaPalm(m): 7:18pm On Mar 19

Mariangeles:
Going by her response, he took advantage of his experience and the respect she has for him, and is gradually grooming her, and getting her to let her guard down with/around him.
And she's gaslighting herself into doubting what is obvious.

She is not gaslighting herself, she is gaslighting the guy.

She already knows what is going on and is encouraging the guy.

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Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by Demigod22(op): 7:27pm On Mar 19

BuddhaPalm:
She is not gaslighting herself, she is gaslighting the guy.

She already knows what is going on and is encouraging the guy.

You are right.

Re: My Girlfriend's Sister's Fiance Is Hitting On Her by CuteNbad(m): 7:47pm On Mar 19

Demigod22:
My girlfriend came around last Friday and stayed till Saturday. I went through her phone with her permission, of course. I didn't see anything serious. Out of curiosity I checked her chats with her sister's fiance, I saw some uncomfortable messages he sent to her. He sent messages like WHEN LAST DID YOU KISS? HAVE YOU BEEN IN LOVE BEFORE? SEND ME YOUR PICTURES, SEND ME VOICE NOTE, CAN I BE YOUR VAL OR I KILL MYSELF.
Bro...cry the cry now....so your heart go don heal from the future heartbreak loading. Don't try to stop her..she will hate you for life. Let her make her decisions. It's her life. Just take a chair and watch. Peace.
This man is in his early 50s and my girlfriend is turning 22 next month. He is even a divorcee, he come to their house and everyone respects him.

From their chats, my girlfriend didn't encourage anything, but the only issue I have with her was when I asked her why didn't she tell me the man was hitting on her? She said she thinks IT'S NOT IMPORTANT. And I asked if she knew what the man is driving at, she said SHE DOESN'T KNOW.

I told her that since she has the power to decide what's important and not, she can handle her affairs, and her elder sister would be very proud of her when she eventually finds the chats. She has been trying to be extra nice and downplay the whole situation but I just told her life no hard. Let's just catch cruise.

This man is telling her that she should be a good girl for him and he will spoil her, when he returns to Nigeria, he will take her out more often. The fact that this girl is pretending or acting to be ignorant of this old man's intentions is what turned me off.

Bro just take a chair and watch it all unfold. Don't try to stop her. She will hate you for life. Cry your cry now cause future heartbreak loading for you. Make that peace and comot mind. Don't try to stop her. Let her make her mistakes and learn. Na her life. Not yours.

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