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Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by Franklystein(op): 10:10pm On Mar 18
My girlfriend is clingy, and she likes chatting me 24/7, it's like she doesn't have other things to do than chat everyday, I've advised her to get friends, get close to people, go outdoors and get a hobby but she just brush it aside and continue with what's on her mind like I'm insignificant, all day she texts me, most of the text are about insignificant stuff like what her friend told her or what she's eating or an argument she had earlier on, it's not like I don't give her attention, I do, but she's seriously draining me at some point I might get sick of it, for those who would say ignoring is the solution, if she texts and I don't reply it becomes an issue that I'll spend days trying to resolve so I must reply, but this girl won't take a hint, she assumes chatting with her everyday is how to prove I love her, I have politely and indirectly told her many times but she just disregard it and continue, and I can't be online all day everyday chatting with her, i have other things to do.
sometimes I will reply chats until my battery die and she will still be texting, if I don't charge quickly and reply her next thing is calls, and if the calls go unanswered I have snubbed her and problem go start. I'm now cheating and I'm now chatting with someone else, that's why replying her is now hard, it's annoying honestly and it's choking me.
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by ayoncox: 10:14pm On Mar 18
Franklystein:
My girlfriend is clingy, and she likes chatting me 24/7, it's like she doesn't have other things to do than chat everyday, I've advised her to get friends, get close to people, go outdoors and get a hobby but she just brush it aside and continue with what's on her mind like I'm insignificant, all day she texts me, most of the text are about insignificant stuff like what her friend told her or what she's eating or an argument she had earlier on, it's not like I don't give her attention, I do, but she's seriously draining me at some point I might get sick of it, for those who would say ignoring is the solution, if she texts and I don't reply it becomes an issue that I'll spend days trying to resolve so I must reply, but this girl won't take a hint, she assumes chatting with her everyday is how to prove I love her, I have politely and indirectly told her many times but she just disregard it and continue, and I can't be online all day everyday chatting with her, i have other things to do.
sometimes I will reply chats until my battery die and she will still be texting, if I don't charge quickly and reply her next thing is calls, and if the calls go unanswered I have snubbed her and problem go start. I'm now cheating and I'm now chatting with someone else, that's why replying her is now hard, it's annoying honestly and it's choking me.
Her love language is attention and quality time, if you can't make that sacrifice you will lose her to someone that can
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by Peacecore: 10:35pm On Mar 18
Franklystein:
My girlfriend is clingy, and she likes chatting me 24/7, it's like she doesn't have other things to do than chat everyday, I've advised her to get friends, get close to people, go outdoors and get a hobby but she just brush it aside and continue with what's on her mind like I'm insignificant, all day she texts me, most of the text are about insignificant stuff like what her friend told her or what she's eating or an argument she had earlier on, it's not like I don't give her attention, I do, but she's seriously draining me at some point I might get sick of it, for those who would say ignoring is the solution, if she texts and I don't reply it becomes an issue that I'll spend days trying to resolve so I must reply, but this girl won't take a hint, she assumes chatting with her everyday is how to prove I love her, I have politely and indirectly told her many times but she just disregard it and continue, and I can't be online all day everyday chatting with her, i have other things to do.
sometimes I will reply chats until my battery die and she will still be texting, if I don't charge quickly and reply her next thing is calls, and if the calls go unanswered I have snubbed her and problem go start. I'm now cheating and I'm now chatting with someone else, that's why replying her is now hard, it's annoying honestly and it's choking me.
Drop that your babe number...I nor get work so I promise to keep her busy and reply all her messages.
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by MrNice04(m): 10:43pm On Mar 18
Franklystein:
My girlfriend is clingy, and she likes chatting me 24/7, it's like she doesn't have other things to do than chat everyday, I've advised her to get friends, get close to people, go outdoors and get a hobby but she just brush it aside and continue with what's on her mind like I'm insignificant, all day she texts me, most of the text are about insignificant stuff like what her friend told her or what she's eating or an argument she had earlier on, it's not like I don't give her attention, I do, but she's seriously draining me at some point I might get sick of it, for those who would say ignoring is the solution, if she texts and I don't reply it becomes an issue that I'll spend days trying to resolve so I must reply, but this girl won't take a hint, she assumes chatting with her everyday is how to prove I love her, I have politely and indirectly told her many times but she just disregard it and continue, and I can't be online all day everyday chatting with her, i have other things to do.
sometimes I will reply chats until my battery die and she will still be texting, if I don't charge quickly and reply her next thing is calls, and if the calls go unanswered I have snubbed her and problem go start. I'm now cheating and I'm now chatting with someone else, that's why replying her is now hard, it's annoying honestly and it's choking me.
exactly just like my babe it's really draining
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by budaatum: 10:52pm On Mar 18
Peacecore:
Drop that your babe number...I nor get work so I promise to keep her busy and reply all her messages.
I support you.

Franklystein:
I've advised her to get friends, get close to people, ......
Tell her to get a boyfriend. Peacecore is very willing.

Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by Peacecore: 11:03pm On Mar 18
budaatum:
I support you.



Tell her to get a boyfriend. Peacecore is very willing.
And I'll make a good boyfriend walai grin
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by Tenrack: 11:22pm On Mar 18
Peacecore:
And I'll make a good boyfriend walai grin
goat na there dem dey see you. grin
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by Bookhub: 8:05am On Mar 19
Same as my ex, she killed everything attraction I felt for her with overcalling and overchatting too much of everything is bad.
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by Kobicove(m): 8:32am On Mar 19
Franklystein:
My girlfriend is clingy, and she likes chatting me 24/7, it's like she doesn't have other things to do than chat everyday, I've advised her to get friends, get close to people, go outdoors and get a hobby but she just brush it aside and continue with what's on her mind like I'm insignificant, all day she texts me, most of the text are about insignificant stuff like what her friend told her or what she's eating or an argument she had earlier on, it's not like I don't give her attention, I do, but she's seriously draining me at some point I might get sick of it, for those who would say ignoring is the solution, if she texts and I don't reply it becomes an issue that I'll spend days trying to resolve so I must reply, but this girl won't take a hint, she assumes chatting with her everyday is how to prove I love her, I have politely and indirectly told her many times but she just disregard it and continue, and I can't be online all day everyday chatting with her, i have other things to do.
sometimes I will reply chats until my battery die and she will still be texting, if I don't charge quickly and reply her next thing is calls, and if the calls go unanswered I have snubbed her and problem go start. I'm now cheating and I'm now chatting with someone else, that's why replying her is now hard, it's annoying honestly and it's choking me.
Only a guy who is jobless and idle will indulge such a craving for attention undecided
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by Peacecore: 8:41am On Mar 19
Tenrack:
goat na there dem dey see you. grin
Make una bring deal nah...I nor wan make that innocent girl feel lonely angry
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by tgmservice: 9:00am On Mar 19
Franklystein:
My girlfriend is clingy, and she likes chatting me 24/7, it's like she doesn't have other things to do than chat everyday, I've advised her to get friends, get close to people, go outdoors and get a hobby but she just brush it aside and continue with what's on her mind like I'm insignificant, all day she texts me, most of the text are about insignificant stuff like what her friend told her or what she's eating or an argument she had earlier on, it's not like I don't give her attention, I do, but she's seriously draining me at some point I might get sick of it, for those who would say ignoring is the solution, if she texts and I don't reply it becomes an issue that I'll spend days trying to resolve so I must reply, but this girl won't take a hint, she assumes chatting with her everyday is how to prove I love her, I have politely and indirectly told her many times but she just disregard it and continue, and I can't be online all day everyday chatting with her, i have other things to do.
sometimes I will reply chats until my battery die and she will still be texting, if I don't charge quickly and reply her next thing is calls, and if the calls go unanswered I have snubbed her and problem go start. I'm now cheating and I'm now chatting with someone else, that's why replying her is now hard, it's annoying honestly and it's choking me.
I waste of productive time
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by favour32(m): 10:09am On Mar 19
Most jobless guys find pleasures in chatting endlessly.
Guys doing well don't need chats to keep their girls.
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by kiddaz: 11:46am On Mar 19
Like the first comment, it's her love language. Clingy can be a handful bro so I suggest you let her go now as you're both clearly incompatible or face more difficulties later on in life
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by Thazard(m): 3:28pm On Mar 19
Peacecore:
Drop that your babe number...I nor get work so I promise to keep her busy and reply all her messages.
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by Thazard(m): 3:28pm On Mar 19
Tenrack:
goat na there dem dey see you. grin
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by Tenrack: 4:45pm On Mar 19
Peacecore:
Make una bring deal nah...I nor wan make that innocent girl feel lonely angry
grin goat.
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by Tenrack: 4:45pm On Mar 19
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by Goo0dHardDick: 5:44pm On Mar 19
Tell her to get a job and get busy!

All these 24/7 chats is due to boredom. Of course, always invited her over at home when you're free and less busy and do the needful on her body. Dude, your grinding should come first. Of course, she should know you're working and busy too.

The way you men give your attention away freely is astonishing! Imagine rushing to charge your phone so you can reply a girl somewhere that is busy chatting other guys and obviously visiting them too? It's not like you're charging it to maintain contacts with your customers or clients. Omo
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by WantsandMore: 6:17pm On Mar 19
Goo0dHardDick:
Tell her to get a job and get busy!

All these 24/7 chats is due to boredom. Of course, always invited her over at home when you're free and less busy and do the needful on her body. Dude, your grinding should come first. Of course, she should know you're working and busy too.

The way you men give your attention away freely is astonishing! Imagine rushing to charge your phone so you can reply a girl somewhere that is busy chatting other guys and obviously visiting them too? It's not like you're charging it to maintain contacts with your customers or clients. Omo
misplaced priorities abi? E choke
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by Solofresh2: 6:48pm On Mar 19
Peacecore:
Drop that your babe number...I nor get work so I promise to keep her busy and reply all her messages.
grin
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by FitCorper: 7:57pm On Mar 19
No worry, e go soon tire una 2.
Re: Is It Normal To Be Chatting With Your Girl all day everyday? by Stayingalive: 8:29am On Mar 21
I had one clingy babe like. I just had to learn to give her attention she craves but still maintain my sanity. Ignore those telling you to ignore her but as the man in the relationship established to her the time you’re busy. And be consistent they would respect it
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