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This is a “cruise write-up” written mainly for entertainment purposes only. Possibly, you might learn a lesson or two from it. However, this isn’t guaranteed. If you are obsessed with facts and figures or you take life too seriously, stop here and try the next post.

With the disclaimer successfully issued, this is a list of women you might want to avoid if you meet them abroad due to the challenges they might present:

1) Married women:
As an African man, I believe it is a curse to date a married woman. Some men in the UK don’t care. They sweep everything in their way like a hurricane. This is a forbidden fruit in my view.

2) BBL women:
Women with Brazilian Butt Lifts (BBL) are more business-oriented. They are the product for sale. Love, to them, is mostly transactional. Their bodies are like office spaces for rent. Avoid them to avoid “stories that touch.”

3) Social media “therapists”/advisers:
In my view, any woman setting up ring lights to offer unsolicited advice about romance and other issues is a no-no. “Street research” has shown that they are mostly hypocrites, liars, and attention-seekers who never practise what they preach. All they are interested in is driving traffic to their pages and amassing followers on social media.

4) Dancers:
In my view, any single woman who uses her body to drive traffic online by dancing is a red flag. This is like when a psychiatric patient storms the marketplace to trade. Chaos!

5) Single mothers:
I feel for single mothers. They have been discriminated against in the relationship market. But the baggage they carry is real. It’s a concern, and most of them never learn from their past mistakes. Avoid them, run, please!

6) Women between the ages of 35–45:
I am not age-shaming. But I have observed that single women aged 35 and above have serious anger issues. They are hardly happy. Believe me, you don’t want that smoke, it chokes. They are easily frustrated by memories of missed opportunities, which have rubbed off on their present and future.

7) Sponsorship-seekers:
A woman whose visa is about to expire is a desperate one. It is hard to evaluate and determine her real character or personality. Don’t get deceived.

Doctors:
Most female doctors abroad are blessed with everything except humility. I’ve learnt that these women mostly turn their husbands into their ‘wives’ due to their financial muscle. If you can’t manage them, you will learn the hard way.

9) Workaholics:
Women in this category work round the clock. They do 12-hour shifts for 6 to 7 days a week. They will hardly have time for you. Life could be very frustrating with them. They will hardly be present when the weather drops.

10) High body counts:
This category has more red flags than a Chinese national parade. They will mostly tell you they have changed, but it’s often a ruse; the affliction rises again, and the man suffers.

Bonus Point 11
Any girl who has dated a “Yahoo Boy”:
Any lady who has benefited from fraud money while dating a fraudster is a problem. They often lack the motivation to work. When things get hard, they see the man as the problem instead of themselves. It is not as if they have any physical or cognitive disability. The worst part is that some will never stop recounting memories of luxurious spending with the fraudster. Spits!

This is not an exhaustive list. Add yours in the comment section and let’s keep the conversation going.

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Whoever wrote this list has serious rejection issues.

It is not what you think.. already at the start of the write up d op doesn't say all but he said and I quote ' you will learn one or two '..so he still have some point.. infact most of his point are genuine.. although you can only relate base on your personal experience 💯..so if you haven't pass through it, you might think all what is saying is hatred which is not but reality

Ishilove:
Whoever wrote this list has serious rejection issues.

5 kind of men you should avoid

1) Broke men
2) Time wasters and deceivers
3) Stingy ko ko men
4) Bill splitters men
5) number 1, 2, 3 & 4

Jennyclay:
5 kind of men you should avoid

1) Broke men
2) Time wasters and deceivers
3) Stingy ko ko men
4) Bill splitters men
5) number 1, 2, 3 & 4

1 type of woman all men should avoid:
A woman that calls men broke because they refused to provide her with things she cannot afford for herself

Emmy000seun:
It is not what you think.. already at the start of the write up d op doesn't say all but he said and I quote ' you will learn one or two '..so he still have some point.. infact most of his point are genuine.. although you can only relate base on your personal experience 💯..so if you haven't pass through it, you might think all what is saying is hatred which is not but reality

Good thing he kept repeating "in my opinion", because it really is his opinion.

Jennyclay:
5 kind of men you should avoid

1) Broke men
2) Time wasters and deceivers
3) Stingy ko ko men
4) Bill splitters men
5) number 1, 2, 3 & 4

Still alive and kicking

Honestly, the list deserves a second thought!

Omoh.........say no to cannabis

Make una find list for the ones wey dey Nigeria. Many of us wey norva japa only get the ones at home 😅

Nak the ones you can nak and leave the rest for Jesus


Except the married women only- all others you can nak and move on

You see that one of 35year own , na true oooh

I dey run from those ones, their angry issues no be here, like say na you cause them their frustration

Avoid ladies who believe a man should handle all the bills and those who still believe a man should pay their bills.

It should be a man's decision to foot all bills or pay yours if he wants but should never be an expectation from any sensible lady living in an economy that makes it extremely difficult for one person to carry the load of two people.

As a single lady, you must pay your bills which includes and not limited to house rent and other bills that can be as much as 1k dollars or pounds or even more so why should you now expect a man to shoulder all bills simply because you are now part of his life.

Why are they so pained? This one really touched them

Make we enter the abroad first.

Ishilove:
Whoever wrote this list has serious rejection issues.

He is only wrong about numbers 3, 4, 8 and 9

Omo if you say you no wan laugh you go just meet ya teeth outside yakata ni..
OP is spot on

Thats a W .... i agree with all points

Who come remain fot the categories of women

Jennyclay:
5 kind of men you should avoid

1) Broke men
2) Time wasters and deceivers
3) Stingy ko ko men
4) Bill splitters men
5) number 1, 2, 3 & 4

I respect your right to have a choice.
And I really like the consistency of your choice which is mostly about money.
Broke men, stingy men, bill splitters. Do you have money scarcity problems yourself? I read somewhere a pastor promising a lot of financial benefits for any woman that can marry a young man with down syndrome. Do you need the link? It comes with a house too, vacations. I believe your money problems will be solved if you consider that offer.

uche87:
This is a “cruise write-up” written mainly for entertainment purposes only. Possibly, you might learn a lesson or two from it. However, this isn’t guaranteed. If you are obsessed with facts and figures or you take life too seriously, stop here and try the next post.

With the disclaimer successfully issued, this is a list of women you might want to avoid if you meet them abroad due to the challenges they might present:

1) Married women:
As an African man, I believe it is a curse to date a married woman. Some men in the UK don’t care. They sweep everything in their way like a hurricane. This is a forbidden fruit in my view.

2) BBL women:
Women with Brazilian Butt Lifts (BBL) are more business-oriented. They are the product for sale. Love, to them, is mostly transactional. Their bodies are like office spaces for rent. Avoid them to avoid “stories that touch.”

3) Social media “therapists”/advisers:
In my view, any woman setting up ring lights to offer unsolicited advice about romance and other issues is a no-no. “Street research” has shown that they are mostly hypocrites, liars, and attention-seekers who never practise what they preach. All they are interested in is driving traffic to their pages and amassing followers on social media.

4) Dancers:
In my view, any single woman who uses her body to drive traffic online by dancing is a red flag. This is like when a psychiatric patient storms the marketplace to trade. Chaos!

5) Single mothers:
I feel for single mothers. They have been discriminated against in the relationship market. But the baggage they carry is real. It’s a concern, and most of them never learn from their past mistakes. Avoid them, run, please!

6) Women between the ages of 35–45:
I am not age-shaming. But I have observed that single women aged 35 and above have serious anger issues. They are hardly happy. Believe me, you don’t want that smoke, it chokes. They are easily frustrated by memories of missed opportunities, which have rubbed off on their present and future.

7) Sponsorship-seekers:
A woman whose visa is about to expire is a desperate one. It is hard to evaluate and determine her real character or personality. Don’t get deceived.

Doctors:
Most female doctors abroad are blessed with everything except humility. I’ve learnt that these women mostly turn their husbands into their ‘wives’ due to their financial muscle. If you can’t manage them, you will learn the hard way.

9) Workaholics:
Women in this category work round the clock. They do 12-hour shifts for 6 to 7 days a week. They will hardly have time for you. Life could be very frustrating with them. They will hardly be present when the weather drops.

10) High body counts:
This category has more red flags than a Chinese national parade. They will mostly tell you they have changed, but it’s often a ruse; the affliction rises again, and the man suffers.

Bonus Point 11
Any girl who has dated a “Yahoo Boy”:
Any lady who has benefited from fraud money while dating a fraudster is a problem. They often lack the motivation to work. When things get hard, they see the man as the problem instead of themselves. It is not as if they have any physical or cognitive disability. The worst part is that some will never stop recounting memories of luxurious spending with the fraudster. Spits!

This is not an exhaustive list. Add yours in the comment section and let’s keep the conversation going.

https://www.facebook.com/thevillagetowncrier/posts/pfbid028L8QQKnXt7kSGUhfgbs3AWekvzqhrWSEjhxEiFM1UgXxrreNdVauAHYRx4xvRfz9l

Got your Blessings ready for this week.

It's really funny how women behave

Jennyclay:
5 kind of men you should avoid

1) Broke men
2) Time wasters and deceivers
3) Stingy ko ko men
4) Bill splitters men
5) number 1, 2, 3 & 4

Women honestly don’t want to learn because whenever you see a post coming from a man’s point of view please just read it and ask yourself “ am I this kind of woman”.

What about a divorce woman

@op, hmmmm dem go come for you o BC you lay the points bare . So true. Just watch and see how them go come all out on you now . There is one that you omitted sha, and that is a divorcee woman lawyer. Chai! In my opinion she is the first to be avoided. Don't ever try it bro.

Focus on building meaningful connections with women who resonate with your values and aspirations. It's important to seek out individuals who have a positive mindset and have invested in their personal growth. Remember, everyone has a past, but that doesn’t define their potential for a bright future together.

If you encounter someone with a history that doesn’t align with your goals, trust your instincts and move on. Surround yourself with people who uplift you and who are eager to grow alongside you. Choose wisely, and the right connections will flourish.

Happy Palm Sunday 🌴

Una see those numbers 5 and 6? Try avoid them even for Nigeria. You just dey kpansh baby mama but no try marry am o, okafor law is strong

Generally true.

But there are still a significant number of exemptions.

Those are all the types of women available.

No hard feelings OP, your opinion is not universal, keep it to yourself. What didn't work for you might work for another. Vice versa