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A lady has shared a personal experience about her past relationship, using it as a lesson on why people should not take a partner’s kindness for granted.

She began by saying, “Community members, let me tell you how I learned the hard way never to take a man’s niceness, gentleness, and kindness for stupidity.”

According to her, the relationship ended after she suggested a breakup during an argument, believing her partner would try to stop her and make things work. However, to her surprise, he agreed immediately without trying to persuade her otherwise.

She explained that she was confident he would come back after some time to beg and reconcile, but weeks went by and he never returned.

Looking back, she admitted that her former partner had always been calm and understanding, often apologising even when she was the one at fault. She said this made her become too comfortable and take his attitude for granted.

She added that after the breakup, she started meeting other men but soon realised they did not treat her the same way her ex did.

Watch the video and share your thoughts in the comments.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4XaFs4EmGcY?si=2ns5edMP4y0Qa4Od

I can bet my balls that wasn't the first, second or the third time she's broken up with the guy. Man got tired obviously. I've experienced this before.

I swear, the internet is populated with incels.

“Woman says…”

Front page!

“Chick reveals…”

Front page!

“Girl admits…”

Front page!

Woman posts random picture.

Incels: Hermosa! Be my wife! I need you in my life. Hope you didn’t get injured when you fell from heaven.

Let men try the same. Highest na nine views them go receive.

Dem no dey tell person.

Same way my own banny has been misbehaving of recent. Na her own bestie tell her to calm down,say if she mistakenly lose a calm and nice guy like me, thinking say good guys dey out there,na then she go realize say na only scorpion kings full outside.

Since then,she come calm pass ice water

Na now she realize say the guy na V8 while the other guys are V2.

If u know ..........

eepeepook:
I swear, the internet is populated with incels.

“Woman says…”

Front page!

“Chick reveals…”

Front page!

“Girl admits…”

Front page!

Woman posts random picture.

Incels: Hermosa! Be my wife! I need you in my life. Hope you didn’t get injured when you fell from heaven.

Let men try the same. Highest na nine views them go receive.

The mods know the blogs and YouTubers they push to the FP. It's not you, it's just the systemic bias.

Those who have head don't have cap🧢, while those with cap 🧢 don't have head

That was the proverb I told a lady years ago but it took her years to understand.

Being calm don't mean you don't know what you are doing, you are only waiting for the right time to strike silently and move on

Imagine paying someone's Bills including rent because she lost her job, make she help me to get a new place because I needed more space, she refused

I did not even argue, just woke up one day, pick a cab and go to a place I never been before, got house same day, paid, the 3rd day I moved to my new house without her having a clue

When I settled down over the weekend, I just sent her videos of the house, she thought I was yet to move, I told her I moved so so day. She was shocked.

The moment she said when should I visit, that was the end of the conversation. Visit me in the house you refused to help me with for only God knows.

One thing I love about calm guy be say, dem no ready to Dey form one alpha guys or red pills. Once you misbehaved 3 times, dem go leave you.. Dem no dey like stress!!! They value thier peace of mind pass anything … if you think say u get madness for head date a calm and nice guy wey know is worth. Them go reset that your madness with thier aura. Once they cut you off , just know say na ghost you be, u no exist again for thier mind.. !!!

Blackskinned:
I can bet my balls that wasn't the first, second or the third time she's broken up with the guy. Man got tired obviously. I've experienced this before.

I can bet zonefree 's balls...

He doesn't need it anyways!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jG1VNSCsP5Q

Na why Jennyclay dey bark upandan

Omorr Dem go see nonsense tire

Englishisamust:
One thing I love about calm guy be say, dem no ready to Dey form one alpha guys or red pills. Once you misbehaved 3 times, dem go leave you.. Dem no dey like stress!!! They value thier peace of mind pass anything … if you think say u get madness for head date a calm and nice guy wey know is worth. Them go reset that your madness with thier aura. Once they cut you off , just know say na ghost you be, u no exist agin for thier mind.. !!!

Why u cast me like this bro

eepeepook:
I swear, the internet is populated with incels.

“Woman says…”

Front page!

“Chick reveals…”

Front page!

“Girl admits…”

Front page!

Woman posts random picture.

Incels: Hermosa! Be my wife! I need you in my life. Hope you didn’t get injured when you fell from heaven.

Let men try the same. Highest na nine views them go receive.

Na how low and useless this forum had gone.

She never learn anything yet

Bring her make I give her private lesson
Make she finally graduate from the hard way

Englishisamust:
One thing I love about calm guy be say, dem no ready to Dey form one alpha guys or red pills. Once you misbehaved 3 times, dem go leave you.. Dem no dey like stress!!! They value thier peace of mind pass anything … if you think say u get madness for head date a calm and nice guy wey know is worth. Them go reset that your madness with thier aura. Once they cut you off , just know say na ghost you be, u no exist agin for thier mind.. !!!

Permission to screenshot, frame and hang this in my palour...!

The reason is because her bet cut… she now remembers the guy she left

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Walahi she hasn't learnt her lesson

Englishisamust:
One thing I love about calm guy be say, dem no ready to Dey form one alpha guys or red pills. Once you misbehaved 3 times, dem go leave you.. Dem no dey like stress!!! They value thier peace of mind pass anything … if you think say u get madness for head date a calm and nice guy wey know is worth. Them go reset that your madness with thier aura. Once they cut you off , just know say na ghost you be, u no exist again for thier mind.. !!!

Na me be that any small thing I done move on I no be pharaoh

Englishisamust:
One thing I love about calm guy be say, dem no ready to Dey form one alpha guys or red pills. Once you misbehaved 3 times, dem go leave you.. Dem no dey like stress!!! They value thier peace of mind pass anything … if you think say u get madness for head date a calm and nice guy wey know is worth. Them go reset that your madness with thier aura. Once they cut you off , just know say na ghost you be, u no exist again for thier mind.. !!!

This is me to my ex, she thought I was fool not until she crosses the line. She was the that broke the ties and she has done that many times which I have to appologies.

On the last one, she thought it's as usual that I will come to apologies, naso I ghost the werey blocked her.

she only regret why she no kill the guy before she left the calm guy.
It surprise me how women reason.


I end my relationship of 6 months bcs of double date from this jezebel girl, i was surprised how this girl blackmailed me to people calling me gay, until one of my friends that know me draw my attention to the rumours, i have to use Police to arrest the girl, she denied it


Womens are the image of the devil, though, not all of them

All for clout. No lady will regret leaving a man.

And she's still smiling in the video?
Oga abeg , we need news of Iran and Israel,
This one no be news

Eyah!!! Na trademark life lessons be that, no be life hack

Who said she has learned?

Her kind hardly change.

If she should have the calm guy back, she will still treat the guy bad, talk harsh on him.

80% of women need harsh or sturbbon men for them to behave well.

Pampering a woman spoils her more and make her to be misbehaving but some guys don't learn.

Assumption is the lowest level of knowledge....women are quick to assume calm men are fuulish not knowing they have their threshold to the nonsense they can take. They only get to learn about this too late

Sonnobax15:

Dem no dey tell person.

Same way my own banny has been misbehaving of recent. Na her own bestie tell her to calm down,say if she mistakenly lose a calm and nice guy like me, thinking say good guys dey out there,na then she go realize say na only scorpion kings full outside.

Since then,she come calm pass ice water

You suppose drop that thing. She jus dey use you

The worst curse you can give your fellow man is to tell him that his reasoning is like that of a woman.

Englishisamust:
One thing I love about calm guy be say, dem no ready to Dey form one alpha guys or red pills. Once you misbehaved 3 times, dem go leave you.. Dem no dey like stress!!! They value thier peace of mind pass anything … if you think say u get madness for head date a calm and nice guy wey know is worth. Them go reset that your madness with thier aura. Once they cut you off , just know say na ghost you be, u no exist again for thier mind.. !!!

What you just described are the traits of an alpha red pilled guy!
Their peace is their number one priority!
They don't beg or act needy to be wanted or valued!
They know their worth and won't hesitate to leave a chaotic relationship or commitment no matter how supposedly high valued the lady is.
They also have an abundance mindset or mentality.
They are very calm and emotionally mature!

These and more are traits of a red pilled alpha!
Unless you have another version of redpill which I am not aware of!

Nothing concern me all i know be say this girk go sweet to Bleep

Englishisamust:
One thing I love about calm guy be say, dem no ready to Dey form one alpha guys or red pills. Once you misbehaved 3 times, dem go leave you.. Dem no dey like stress!!! They value thier peace of mind pass anything … if you think say u get madness for head date a calm and nice guy wey know is worth. Them go reset that your madness with thier aura. Once they cut you off , just know say na ghost you be, u no exist again for thier mind.. !!!

That's a description of alpha guy as well.

Being alpha don't mean you should be quarreling or fighting a woman.

Calm guys are the ones that keep a lady, pampers her and swallow rubbish from her.