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I dislike that wig on her head.

Lovelink1991:
I am a married woman for your information. I knew my husband right from his childhood. As a woman I know what the society has become so I should be able to say how rotten it is now.

If you like you can be 100years old married woman. You aren100% wrong. Saying no good men is a fallacy and it's clear you are part of people misleading young women's. Just imagine what advice you will give a young woman or ladies out there. You are an example of women who doesn't take correction and always believe you are correct I'm sure you are having that problem with your so called husband, who knows you are no more together base on your arrogance and many more. I rest my case

Bring back polygamy

Monogamy can't pull this one off simple.

pocohantas:
Apply with that 50yo man.
Try convince him that you are good.

I hope you're married... dis one you're mocking your fellow girl.

Aunty, jus old finish and wait for a widower

Kalulu44, food don ready o. DM her and try your luck before Poweredcom collect her o

Lovelink1991:
There is a saying that women are nothing without men, it is true.

A lady of 39 years has cried out for help that she need a man to marry her that she is get old.

Watch and see her story of what led to her being single.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h4CLKB8L0I8?si=nCgxhGO5EcMo_l2F

Whoever told you a woman is nothing without a man was talking PURE NONSENSE
Just like anybody telling you a man is nothing without a woman

Content creator
Not real

Wotowotoman:
Kalulu44, food don ready o. DM her and try your luck

Tell her if she's ready to accept my 3 kids, though they're not going to live with us

Satazaa:
The disproportionate numbers of women seeking men for marriage is neither the of the men nor women but purely economic, Nigeria economy has continually declined in the past twenty years and that has affected ability of men to provide housing, feeding, clothing and the general welfare of women and children, In a cash and carry society like Nigeria nobody will respect or listen to a man who doesn't have the resources to cater for a family

I remember when I wanted to settle down few years back, every household materials needed by potential husband was very cheap and affordable, TV, mattress, kitchen equipment, compare it to now, you must be working in a very high paying job, before you can afford them.

Yet, ladies refuse to lower their tastes in tunes with harsh economy reality, they still want suitor with furnished apartment and loaded pocket.

LagosOrigin:
Loneliness at old age is bad .. everybody deserves a soul mate.

It is hard to avoid loneliness at old age especially as a man. My mom's elder sister is around 79 years, she has more than 8 children, but now live alone. My mom told me they got a paid maid to be coming around to do her chores. My point is regardless of marital status, everyone should partially prepare for loneliness at old age.

Men don't take advantage of good ladies in most cases , they only take advantage once they notice the bad character. A lady once received a call from a guy while we were together. Immediately the guy started talking , she tried to lower the volume of the phone. I asked her who the person was , she said it was her female friend meanwhile i had already heard a male voice. I did all i had to do with her and left after a month.
This same lady will start crying around that men are scum abi?

Another lady came to my house , a call came in , she put it on speaker , the guy asked her when is she coming to his house she said "currently seeing someone at the moment (which was me)" and that if things doesn't work out with the person she's currently seeing, she would let him know but for now she won't come to his house. Unfortunately, she went with someone else at some point because I wasn't ready for marriage at the time, but trust me this lady got married six month after we departed.... she's a good lady , you don't expect anything less.

Meanwhile the first lady is still single till date shouting men are scum all around the globe, in fact she's currently in the uk , we still talked last weekend coz we are still friends. But she's as single as a pringle as we speak

The problem with most lady is that they don't know that trust equals love , If a man can trust you , then he can love you but you all try to play smart and get advise from your fellow lady on how to treat a man not knowing that it is only a man that knows how to treat a man

Lovelink1991:
With today kind of men it is difficult to get a good man. A lot of them just want to take advantage of her by sleeping with her with the promise that I wants to marry you. There are no good men

The most interesting thing about marriage is that there are so many men looking for a woman and so many women looking for a man. Yet, both sides complain of not being able to find a partner, me included.

How does this even make sense?

Anyways, to those of you still in your early 20s, please make the right connections and think twice before you burn bridges.

Meanwhile, as for this ring-light lady, she should look within, because I'm sure there are men who want to date her. Some may be too shy to make a move, sha.

MrJames007:
I dislike that wig on her head.

What makes you think it is a wig?
It is her real hair

Where were you when they were advertising Aboy Chibuz?

LagosOrigin:
Loneliness at old age is bad .. everybody deserves a soul mate.

this goes to show that we are social "animals". FULL STOP!

Are you not an independent woman? Don't settle for less. Wait for that intentional man abeg.

My own case is real.

Met this girl, shes okay and all, about 32 years old.

I’m the type of man that tells you exactly how it is without mincing words cause I no wan hear things like “you’re a pretender etc”

We dated for two months and when I said I wanted to taste her cookies, she told me till after marriage lol

This is someone that must have given it for free in her early and ripe year but e reach my turn she dey talk till after marriage lol.

Told her plain, I don’t do like that, I must taste what I want to live with for the rest of my life, that’s how I dropped her like a bad habit, till today she isn’t yet married, always posting Bible verse on her WhatsApp status.

Who will marry you will marry you even after tasting your cookie, but telling me after marriage while you’re at 32 is laughable, what if that place don condemn? Make I con spend my hard earned money only to find out after I have said “I do?”

Never!!!

There’s on I’m seeing now, shes telling me she saving her sef for the right one but Everytime you’re always billing me… women always think they are smart but studies have shown that most of them just have fish brains, anyways I’ll be telling her that we aren’t gonna work again cause you can’t be saving yourself for the right man and trying to debit me wey in your mind be the wrong man.

If a woman can make demand, have standards on who they want to date why can’t we?

Like I said before…. Fish brains!

Eiya! And just yesterday, OPM general overseer was advertising autistic husband fa! Wait patiently, your miracle is on the way.

Bluntguy:
Some times it's not their making. Did you listen to her or you just rushed to comment?

Mr Woman Defense Minister!
She has no excuse!

She was 18, 20, 22, 25, 27, 29,30,33, 35 and 37. Now 39 years. What happened to all these years before 39? How can all the men that came to her be married men?

When you are a single lady, then you decide to cut off with all single men for married men what do you expect?

Don't be a gullible man. Women don't take responsibility for anything, even when it's their own fault.

Oya go marry her, Oga defensive midfielder.

Excellent93:
Believe this lady at your own peril coming to vomit trash after they have frustrated other people's marriage ...are you saying no men came at your 20s or your doing natural selection

if na natural selection, the banny for don settle down tey tey. Aunty was doing manual/artificial selection. Kpele my dear but time waits for no man. Shakara don end 😁

Your problem is bad character but you don't know it. Imagine she's already laying courses on people in this short video as if other people are the cause of your problem. If you like don't look into the mirror and advise yourself.

Lovelink1991:
There is a saying that women are nothing without men, it is true.

A lady of 39 years has cried out for help that she need a man to marry her that she is get old.

Watch and see her story of what led to her being single.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h4CLKB8L0I8?si=nCgxhGO5EcMo_l2F

OS dey find retirement plan.

The irony is that she will go to church and land all those naive suit-wearing suegbes and use them as her retirement plan in conivance with the so called 'gods of men'.
Na broda wey no even sabi knack well dem go jam.... well, If mumu no dey market, who go buy bad market?

When Dem go dey shake body for TikTok, copies all these old celebrities fake lifestyles thinking all is well....My wife finished giving birth before 30 and this one is 39,no be wahala be that....

QuinQ:
What makes you think it is a wig?
It is her real hair

Well, that's not her hair.

LeeSmart:
First time i am agreeing with your views on Nairaland. If no be say you dey support APC and a sympathiser with terrorism, me and you for no dey get issue wallahi

I'm your warped and absurd mentality anyone that criticize obi is an APC supporter...


Where have you seen me support APC? If I do I will still do so with my full chest. I'm just trying to point out the uselessness in your comment.

Just because I bash the lady today which is one of the few times I have done so... my comment is suddenly the best thing to happen after sliced bread and butter.


You have a problem but you don't know it yet.


Na you get issues with yourself because me I no even send you!

Lovelink1991:
With today kind of men it is difficult to get a good man. A lot of them just want to take advantage of her by sleeping with her with the promise that I wants to marry you. There are no good men

Your communication style is appalling to say the least.



As for the single lady...she will remain single and for public use,because she is of no use now to any man

I'm sure 39 is her football age not her real age.

Down there go don dry e no go dey produce water again.

Make hay while the sun shines , no de woman head at alllllll ... na today today dem know

Bluntguy:
Some times it's not their making. Did you listen to her or you just rushed to comment?

Did these girls tell you they didn't date when they where between 18 to 30 years old? Did they tell you they weren't proposed to? Did they tell you guys were not flicking around them? Did they tell you they didn't have male trying to be with them when they were younger, did they tell you they didn't break up with different men on flimsy rescues if 'i'm not feeling it again ', 'you can not take care of my bills', 'i want to discover myself ', and so many too numerous to mention.

Women are ruthless when they see men flocking around them, most optimize the process by billing men and making men take them on dates not because they are interested but because they want free food, free outings and just have fun without commitment and then when the males don't come anymore they start shouting. If you tell that same girl to date dudes who are available she will still want to show her delusional lifestyle by looking for men who they can never find, a rich tall handsome black billionaire that will take my family out of poverty.

In one way or the other they are to be blamed, some will chase away men who they think at the time aren't financially buoyant enough but wanted to have them as wife and then turn back after 10 years to still look for same men they dumped.

The ones that I see that may not be in this category are those females that are extremely ugly and find it difficult even at 20 years to get a man not to talk of when they are in their 30s, accountability is knowing that one is a contributor to one's present predicament any one who isn't accountable has a long way to go. This isn't about this lady but a general behavior of women in the society.

Lovelink1991:
With today kind of men it is difficult to get a good man. A lot of them just want to take advantage of her by sleeping with her with the promise that I wants to marry you. There are no good men

No man thats ready for marriage will deceive a good woman....most women are usually economical with the truth .... men know what they want ...women dont ...

Lovelink1991:
With today kind of men it is difficult to get a good man. A lot of them just want to take advantage of her by sleeping with her with the promise that I wants to marry you. There are no good men

No Wyn urself, good men bulku pass good women. 95% of modern woman wants that 5% of men. Men that are already married with kids or has a serious relationship going on for them, and those 5% might not even like them or have anything to do with them.

You can't tell me that, a lady from age 18 to 25-28 years that no man has never told you "I love you I want to have something serious", in as much as the said lady might be attracting her kind (based off of lifestyle, friends, social exhibition or dressing), you can't tell me that no lady has never meet a men that's dam serious with here.

All of una wn kpai put for 5% wer no send una.