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I would have given you my 45 yr old brother but he's a weirdo...

Lovelink1991:
I am a married woman for your information. I knew my husband right from his childhood. As a woman I know what the society has become so I should be able to say how rotten it is now.

I hope you are advising the singles who are from 23 to 30 to try as much as possible to settle down.As I have noticed, most of them a quite naive to this fact that outside of this age range, it is increasingly getting difficult for people to get married when they are women

grandstar:
Your profile picture is very funny

IBB never made that statement.

IBB made that statement 100%... go and check YouTube

Lovelink1991:
I am a married woman for your information. I knew my husband right from his childhood. As a woman I know what the society has become so I should be able to say how rotten it is now.

If truly you know what the society has become then you should know most of the ladies we have today are not worthy of marriage

brain54:
When you had time what did you do with it...?


Shior!

Abeg help me ask am

pocohantas:
Apply with that 50yo man.
Try convince him that you are good.

In Akwakwa voice.... una go cry!!! ..... in VDM voice...u gonna learn ...u gonna learn the hard way ....

Lovelink1991:
I am a married woman for your information. I knew my husband right from his childhood. As a woman I know what the society has become so I should be able to say how rotten it is now.

There are more good men than good women .. its even natural...its even in the bible .....

cr7lomo:
IBB made that statement 100%... go and check YouTube

Can you put the link here

After all the slaying, clubbing and
sugar daddies, you now want an innocent
Nigerian to come and carry the remnants
abi??😕😕😕

Adakintroy:
Bring back polygamy

Monogamy can't pull this one off simple.

We are practicing monogamy, the bad economy no let us see road well talk less of polygamy, the country will just to crime scene.

QuinQ:
Whoever told you a woman is nothing without a man was talking PURE NONSENSE
Just like anybody telling you a man is nothing without a woman

Men know they need women....but women no gree say dem need men....the mentality of women is the reason society is soooo messed up today

LabStores:
39!?

How many more years to menopause?

Best prime, fruitful and fertile years for most ladies is between 21-35.
Anything out of that range is risky... Even Medically...

Most very fertile age and recommended age for women who wants kids is from 27/8- down to your early 20s (and 19s for those who are comfortable around that age). Anything 29 above to your early 30s (especially 30 above) your eggs have started declining (that's why most ladies in their early 30s still "struggle" to give birth, not that they wouldn't). Anything from 35 above, brother no put head, either by the special grace of God or IVF.
You can never cheat nature, women don't understand that.

Kalulu44:
Tell her if she's ready to accept my 3 kids, though they're not going to live with us

E be like say the peace wey u de enjoy now , u no like am... u wan carry katakata put for ur life ...

koladata:
It's their making o .... It's impossible for a good lady to lack husband. The number of men looking for a good wife actually out ways the number of ladies looking for a good husband. That's a fact.

The saying " life no balance" appears simple, but there's so much meaning to it. For example, I know a family of eight, all girls but one boy. Now among these seven girls. The first two who got married were the only two who were not "holy" at all. Them tear eye no be small. The other five? They grew old at home with their parents. They were very decent good Christians. In fact, the first and 'holiest' daughter was the last to get married - maybe in her late forties or early fifties then- it was a miracle. Now, was it bad that the good ones were good?

🤔Are you sure about that?

Lovelink1991:
With today kind of men it is difficult to get a good man. A lot of them just want to take advantage of her by sleeping with her with the promise that I wants to marry you. There are no good men

Lovelink1991:
With today kind of men it is difficult to get a good man. A lot of them just want to take advantage of her by sleeping with her with the promise that I wants to marry you. There are no good men

not those who want to marry

cr7lomo:
E be like say the peace wey u de enjoy now , u no like am... u wan carry katakata put for ur life ...

ahaha which kind kata kata ?

zedman1:
The saying " life no balance" appears simple, but there's so much meaning to it. For example, I know a family of eight, all girls but one boy. Now among these seven girls. The first two who got married were the only two who were not "holy" at all. Them tear eye no be small. The other five? They grew old at home with their parents. They were very decent good Christians. In fact, the first and 'holiest' daughter was the last to get married - maybe in her late forties or early fifties then- it was a miracle. Now, was it bad that the good ones were good?

nah African christians dem be.Nah thier way

LOL! what makes a "good lady'
Years back a colleague asked her GF of 6years to marry him. She declined on the note that she (daughter of a senior Customs Officer) will not marry the son of 'Eleran' - Butcher. Meanwhile they studied same course in same school at same time. Outside the turndown with degrading excuse, she was a 'good lady' that my pal truly loved and believed loved him in return. 7 years later, she tried a come-back but my guy already had his family and being a responsible man, declined the subtle moves and kept the relationship at platonic level
Today, my colleague's first child has graduated while the other two are at different levels of study in higher institutions, while hanty is not married yet.

Agreed there are some exceptions but most of these 'ladies' are often economical with the truth of how they turn out to be 'old maid'.
Best of luck to her though. I pray she finds an husband and have the will to keep him.

koladata:
It's their making o .... It's impossible for a good lady to lack husband. The number of men looking for a good wife actually out ways the number of ladies looking for a good husband. That's a fact.

koladata:
It's their making o .... It's impossible for a good lady to lack husband. The number of men looking for a good wife actually out ways the number of ladies looking for a good husband. That's a fact.

That is the truth.

Ladies are looking for rich men and in the process lose their virtues while men are looking for ladies with good virtues.

It may even be nemesis catching up fast with her. She looks more like a lady that will be there to frustrate his brother's wife in her marriage. She should work on herself first, my candid advice.

Was ur tribe. Am igbo man I like u, u r beautiful. Dm me 08166658877

I’m sick of listening to her whining. They’re all basically the same.
From the first angle: when a woman says she needs a man, she doesn’t mean she needs a bum, a lazy slob, someone who will abuse her, some backward Muslim, some animal. Someone she’ll fight over a piece of stinking KFC chicken with. She means a quality man.
From the second angle, for quality men she’s an old woman with all the attributes of an old woman. Those are facts nothing can change.
Her fate is sealed.

erico2k2:
nah African christians dem be.Nah thier way

I just de try let the person wey say na good girls men de look for. You can also be a good girl but you no go still get husband. Like me, na bad girls I been de like. The first good girl I date naim I come marry.

cr7lomo:
E be like say the peace wey u de enjoy now , u no like am... u wan carry katakata put for ur life ...

Lolz! No mind that my guy, him dey try pull my legs. And I give am the condition wey I know say the lady herself no go like

See that's the mistake you all use to make, I could trust a hookup girl than a church girl . Trust has nothing to do with decency. Trust is all men needs to love you. If a man can't trust you , they can't love you. And that's why you see some men marrying runs girls... its a deep shit. Just be trustworthy, these church girls have the habit of talking to three men at the same time hoping that if one messes up , they can fall back on the other one , that is usually their number one problem but they wouldn't know. If you want to keep three men at the same time , I hope you have the nerves to tell the three of them about it, because if any of them finds out on their own , the trust is gone.

zedman1:
The saying " life no balance" appears simple, but there's so much meaning to it. For example, I know a family of eight, all girls but one boy. Now among these seven girls. The first two who got married were the only two who were not "holy" at all. Them tear eye no be small. The other five? They grew old at home with their parents. They were very decent good Christians. In fact, the first and 'holiest' daughter was the last to get married - maybe in her late forties or early fifties then- it was a miracle. Now, was it bad that the good ones were good?

Lovelink1991:
I am a married woman for your information. I knew my husband right from his childhood. As a woman I know what the society has become so I should be able to say how rotten it is now.

IBB never, ever, ever, made that th3 statement.

I was in Unilag at that time.

People write rubbish all over the internet, and sadly, people just accept it, without verifying the source.

It all plays into the prejudice that Yorubas are cowards.

Yorubas played a massive role in kicking him out.

Did Abiola not come back to Nigeria and land in detention from where he was murdered. Did his wife not get murdered?

Eventually, IBB made up for his mistake of annuling the elections by making sure a Yoruba man became the next presidential candidate. Yorubas were pacified

This is unlike the Kalu guy who jumped bail and fled to Europe. Or the clown who was urging violence back in Nigeria from his safe haven in Finland?

Kalu was crying like a baby when he was sentenced to life.

Stop being prejudiced. I really dont care about those IPOB clowns.

floss:
She needs to start submitting her CVs to the right channels… and it will be in this format;

I Chloe, I’m 39 years old single, I have/don’t have kids (specify),

-State your academic achievements

-State your career achievements

-State personal milestone you’ve accomplished

-State your body mileage with complete medical results and lab tests to back it up

-List all your social media accounts and handles
How much is currently in your savings account ( you can give an estimate)

-State if you’re a product of a single mom

-State areas that are still natural in your body ( if you haven’t undergone any body modifications indicate as well)

-Do you see taking care of the home as a job ?

Note: Every Detail will be thoroughly checked and verified upon arrival.

With the above well detailed, and submitted to the right channels, you’ll definitely get a match and before the end of the week, you’re married

Nice one, Add this:

List what you will bring to the table in a Relationship.

You're demarketing yourself if you rule out marrying a widower. Check very well whether you're not the one pushing your husband away