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Am not married not even planning to get married, baby mama is the goal.
As a single, just try get money 💰💰💰💰 enough even after death make your money still dey count, he get why forget marriage, make money,
Na who nor get money think say pussy hard to get,
Forget marriage go and make money, if u have $1million today, before time go reach: 4:30 pm you go do white wedding and traditional marriage to 40 girls, and the rice go ready too cooking might,... If u get money, even if u be impotent u go get pikin before this 8pm today
So I this life have money

Dear brothers,

This is to express my profound pity for what awaits you as long as you have decided to marry sooner or later.

For instance, those of you dating now should know that whatever she does now that makes you happy is exact opposite of what is coming for you.


If you decide not to date let alone marry, the society will profile you as such and you will be pressured to date and marry, so you also can't escape it unless you develop cocoanut head to tackle everyone, and if you do, you may still regret that😂 So sorry guys

I have read enough. Let me comment now

To the single, if you desire premarital swx so much, you will likely have a sorrowful home after marriage

Delayed gratification will open your eyes to the real source of your happiness in the future

Submit to the holy spirit to guide and strengthen you

Wish y'all a happy married life in the future

Sirchiboy:
Those who are married. Tell those who are not yet married something they need to know before marriage?

Man is the head of the home but the woman set rules of the home. Know this and have peace.
Lastly women are always right and in all circumstances men must apologize whether right or wrong.

Extra, women don't just ask questions so think twice before you give an answer or answer with diplomacy.

Remember I told you women are always right.

You go hear... If you can't chest some degrading insults pls don't marry.

You dont tell person.











Let the person use nake eyes to see it.

Leepeak:
Am not married not even planning to get married, baby mama is the goal.
As a single, just try get money 💰💰💰💰 enough even after death make your money still dey count, he get why forget marriage, make money,
Na who nor get money think say pussy hard to get,
Forget marriage go and make money, if u have $1million today, before time go reach: 4:30 pm you go do white wedding and traditional marriage to 40 girls, and the rice go ready too cooking might,... If u get money, even if u be impotent u go get pikin before this 8pm today
So I this life have money

KID thinking.

Jerchance:
Just got served a quit notice to leave where I live: reason is due to inadequate maintenance of the surroundings. Surroundings here is because my wife hung baby clothes on the balcony railings. There has been a soft verbal reminder about two years ago though , and now – quit notice.

When you get married and to a working class or busy woman, and don't have money for domestic staff, this may likely happen to you as home housekeeping won't be the same again like when you are single

True talk. A busy woman will dare you in and out.

kingthreat:
Check your Zodiacs to see how compatible you are.
Our zodiacs represent our inner self and tendencies. If someone is incompatible with you, two of you will rarely understand each other. It's not that he or she is a bad person, it is just who they are and they don't go well with you.

You go waka tire dey find zodiac sign that matches your exact taste. God luck in your longggggg search.

Don't ignore red flags. No useless sentiment should make you do that. Otherwise you endure and suffer for the rest of your life in order not answer a divorcee or "disgrace your family" or any of those decent reasons why society frowns at divorce.

Nobody is perfect but never never ignore red flags that you cannot live with. He/she won't change.

PrinceOfLagos:
Sounds like something yet to married woman would say

If you say so

IAM4BAT4plus4:
Never allow your wife have financial freedom!

Never allow your wife have financial freedom!!

Take good care of her and once she demands financial freedom, if you can afford it, do it for her but my guy, start looking for another good woman as this one you have is gone already into the hands of bad society women!


I'm a living example....




People told me but I rebuked all of them calling them names.. Slave masters, wife beaters, irresponsible men and so on!

I empowered my wife with enough support.

Immediately I lost my job. Boom I became everything less to my once supportive and obedient wife! It doesn't stop at that, she went ahead talking all sort of things to my family and her own family and friends too.

Omo she call me lazy man, weak man and all sort!

But I thank God now things are beginning to get better for me but I kept it to myself. She still believes I'm broke. T
No long story till I find another true love

God blessed you but they are all same 98%

They won't still listen.


But I'll tell any guy that wants to get married to make money enough and keep making money before and after marriage. Love alone doesn't sustain marriage.

Marry a woman who respects and support you in all ways.

Let your woman contributes to the running of the family

Snowx:
Marry someone that loves you more.
Love is intentional
Love is a decision.

You may not be in the mood for opueh but your wife needs it..you far to do it or you communicate for proper understanding

Let your wife wear that wish you fancy from other women but not going naked.

Be ready to be misunderstood for a little talk but explain to her better..etc

This sounds like a good advice, but i am very sure you are not married yet.

Wait for change after 2 kids.

IAM4BAT4plus4:
Never allow your wife have financial freedom!

Never allow your wife have financial freedom!!

Take good care of her and once she demands financial freedom, if you can afford it, do it for her but my guy, start looking for another good woman as this one you have is gone already into the hands of bad society women!


I'm a living example....




People told me but I rebuked all of them calling them names.. Slave masters, wife beaters, irresponsible men and so on!

I empowered my wife with enough support.

Immediately I lost my job. Boom I became everything less to my once supportive and obedient wife! It doesn't stop at that, she went ahead talking all sort of things to my family and her own family and friends too.

Omo she call me lazy man, weak man and all sort!

But I thank God now things are beginning to get better for me but I kept it to myself. She still believes I'm broke. T
No long story till I find another true love

Na there way. But pls note that the new true will change too if you also lose this job.
So, just stick to this one but love your children if you have any yet.

Mtmike:
visit your wife family and study how her mother treats her father. coz you are definitely getting that treatment too

Very true talk

SpencerForbes:
We’ve seen this format before. It’s exactly what the typical Nigerian pastor tells his followers right before he goes off to marry a beauty queen. Sometimes beauty and brains can be found in one but the percentage is very low.

🚶‍♂️

emphasis on your last statement ' but the percentage is very low '

Marriage is just like normal life. Nothing is easy...

Chummynoni:
this is for those that marries their enemies . Trust me , I'm going through shit for the past 20 months and nothing changes in my home . Marry your friends and she won't throw you under the bus when shit hit the roof .

Congrats. But i am sure you eye have seen some shits but you chose to overlook them. Permit me to ask you this so i can conclude, do you have a child from her yet?

Flexyup:
You go waka tire dey find zodiac sign that matches your exact taste. God luck in your longggggg search.

Better than marrying someone I cannot stand. I found one by the way.

My little tit bits:

Marry your friend, your gist partner, the type that keeps hot gists waiting for you.

Don't ever be in a marriage for ulterior motives. We're human beings and have shortfalls now and again, what happens when promises or expectations are not met?

Marry a partner who naturally, without pretence, is kind to everyone. The tendency to do you in will be minimal because he or she is incapable of evil. This is similar to your partner having the Fear of God.

Every now and then, do an appraisal of yourselves. Check whether you are both still focused on your targets or whether your goals still align. You can always adjust.

Marry a partner whose vibes and yours are same or close. You'll soon get tired of having to always drag the other partner along, marriage is not a university.

When you have issues, address the issue not your partner. You'll end up saying abominable things that can't be taken back. Here, you need pleeeeeeeeeeenttttty patience. Patience o, please. Don't try to win the argument. Instead try to make your partner see reasons with you. You can drop the convo and pick it up later when you're both not peeved.

As a rule of thumb for me, I never discuss our issues with ANYBODY, not my mum, not my sisters, not my friends, not in-laws. We sort out ourselves by ourselves. It always works.

For women, never be a liability. Be a wife that contributes financially.

The bitter part, love alone is never enough. You'll need wisdom, patience, understanding, tolerance, compromise at times and Put God At The Centre.

May God heal every ailing home and help the young ones to build happy, peaceful homes.

Mosco100:
I'm not married but I generated this reply using AI:

"Marriage is not romance 24/7. That's the first lie they sell us.

Before marriage, you think about love. After marriage, you think about patience—plenty patience. That person you're marrying will do things that will make you wonder if your eyes were closed during the courtship.

But here's the real thing nobody tells you: You will marry their family. Not completely, but enough. If their mother is a professional agitator, she will not magically become an angel after the wedding. If their father doesn't respect boundaries, prepare yourself.

Also, money argument is real. Before marriage, talk about how you both see money. Not just 'we will manage' but actual talk: tithe, savings, who handles what. Because when rent is due and the children are hungry, love alone will not cook rice.

And please, pray together before you marry. If you cannot pray with somebody, don't share a bed with them. That one is Bible o—2 Corinthians 6:14. Unequally yoked is real suffering.

Finally, lower your expectations of perfection and raise your commitment. The feeling of 'in love' comes and goes like NEPA light. But commitment—that decision to stay and work—that one will carry you through the dark seasons.

Marriage is good. God invented it. But it is work. Real work. Anybody telling you different is either lying or not married yet."

When you marry come back and give an opinion.

"Marry someone who loves you more than you love him or her".

Result - He or She will be looking for how to make you happy in whatever situation. Will want to please you more than you are doing.

But if you marry someone you love more than he or she loves you. You will work your ass off to satisfy him or her, yet they will never be pleased.

A foolish man marry what again?

Flexyup:
When you marry come back and give an opinion.

What if I never marry?

Honestey:
Dear brothers,

This is to express my profound pity for what awaits you as long as you have decided to marry sooner or later.

For instance, those of you dating now should know that whatever she does now that makes you happy is exact opposite of what is coming for you.


If you decide not to date let alone marry, the society will profile you as such and you will be pressured to date and marry, so you also can't escape it unless you develop cocoanut head to tackle everyone, and if you do, you may still regret that😂 So sorry guys

How do I get cocoanut head?

IAM4BAT4plus4:
Never allow your wife have financial freedom!

Never allow your wife have financial freedom!!

Take good care of her and once she demands financial freedom, if you can afford it, do it for her but my guy, start looking for another good woman as this one you have is gone already into the hands of bad society women!


I'm a living example....




People told me but I rebuked all of them calling them names.. Slave masters, wife beaters, irresponsible men and so on!

I empowered my wife with enough support.

Immediately I lost my job. Boom I became everything less to my once supportive and obedient wife! It doesn't stop at that, she went ahead talking all sort of things to my family and her own family and friends too.

Omo she call me lazy man, weak man and all sort!

But I thank God now things are beginning to get better for me but I kept it to myself. She still believes I'm broke. T
No long story till I find another true love

you see! And she will never remember what you did to start up business for her!
By the time you leave her for good that's when she will remember everything and will want you back!

SpencerForbes:
I sha go marry for beauty, no be my pikin dem go use act witchcraft for school drama day😒😊

🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️

Has a man, hope say you handsome.

KayaMaghan:
I love your honesty about the AI stuff. And the advice is actually smart.
Thanks.

Welcome🤗. You're smarter to acknowledge it.

Mosco100:
What if I never marry?

A I description of marriage will be so sweet to read

Hhh4444:
do not blame the society for making you get married...you are responsible for your decision to get married as an adult.

This is like saying you have a choice to wear clothes because it is perfectly legal to walk around in underwear