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AllBlack:
Where una dey go select this kain women from? God I thank you oh

gift2xl:
No be every time your penis go stand up for her.

gift2xl:
No be every time your penis go stand up for her.

FX:
Never get married. Get a baby mama and baby daddy. Marriage is a scam

oz4real83:
All the money you weren't making while you were single, you will suddenly start making them but you won't see them because they have all gone into family expenses 😁😁🤣🤣. You will only know you made big money by calculating your expenses within a particular period🤣🤣🤣. You will keep telling yourself that if you had made such money when you were still single, when your expenses weren't as they are now, maybe you would have even owned a private jet by now🤣🤣🤣. May God bless our marriages

Elzazzi:
How will you suddenly make more money when you’re married? Except one changes to a better job or goes into a more profitable business. If it’s same status quo even in marriage it’s same income.

franchasng:
Romantic love is not enough reason to marry anybody.

The most important things you must consider before you marry anyone as a man (I am speaking from a man's angle) are:

1.) The person has to be physically appealing to you to start with, she mustn't be too beautiful or sexy or a killer beauty.


2.) She must be financially productive; meaning she must have a sellable handwork, craft, trade, business, job or career.

Don't ever marry an idle, jobless woman today if not you will regret, unless you are very financially buoyant enough to be the sole family breadwinner without complain.


3.) Before you marry any girl please do a family background check. Don't marry anyhow. Find out the family and community she comes from and know if they have any spiritual or traditional baggage that may affect the family you want to start and if you can carry the problems.


4.) You must be ready to help your wife in some domestic chores, it's not a taboo even if you are the breadwinner except you are ready to hire at least 2 domestic staffs to assist your wife. Even at my small level I still carry my kids, I dress them up, I personally do their shopping, I even clean them up when they poopoo and also change diapers. I use to assist in bathing my son during our first issue and I still bath him today whenever it's necessary or whenever he insists that it's me that he wants to bath him.


So be ready to assist your wife domestically and you will enjoy a happy home.


6.) If you must cheat as a man, please cheat with utmost wisdom and discretion. Keep it far away from your wife oh. Cheat responsibly and respectfully bearing in mind that you are someone's husband


Don't throw your cheating in the face of your wife just because you think you are rich or the breadwinner.



7.) Expect less from your wife when it comes to financial contributions even if she is working, this will keep your home healthy and happy. Just ignore what outsiders may say, assume she is broke and earns nothing and try to be in charge of your family's financial provision.


8.) Avoid your wife's phone, it's her privacy, if she decides to cheat, checking her phone cannot help you to stop her. Women are the boss in keeping secret and operating under the radar, so don't stress yourself on that, just treat her nicely, be a worthy husband and trust me, she won't see any need to cheat.


9.) Make your family peaceful by avoiding arguments with your wife. You are man my brother, you don't need to argue with your wife to establish that you are the man of the house. Overlook things and cast and bind the spirit of violence and verbal abuse or exchange. Talk less and your wife will respect you a lot.


10.) If child bearing delays, don't blame your wife and don't get tired of the marriage, just trust and look up to God and if you can afford it, go for IVF or even surrogacy or adoption depending on your financial capacity, they are all your legal kids once you do it legally.


11.) Plan your retirement. Remember kids will always show more pity towards their mother as you guys grow older, don't be jealous about that, that's why you must bear this in mind now that you are young and start early to plan your retirement without depending on your kids

SpencerForbes:
We’ve seen this format before. It’s exactly what the typical Nigerian pastor tells his followers right before he goes off to marry a beauty queen. Sometimes beauty and brains can be found in one but the percentage is very low.

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IAM4BAT4plus4:
Never allow your wife have financial freedom!

Never allow your wife have financial freedom!!

Take good care of her and once she demands financial freedom, if you can afford it, do it for her but my guy, start looking for another good woman as this one you have is gone already into the hands of bad society women!


I'm a living example....




People told me but I rebuked all of them calling them names.. Slave masters, wife beaters, irresponsible men and so on!

I empowered my wife with enough support.

Immediately I lost my job. Boom I became everything less to my once supportive and obedient wife! It doesn't stop at that, she went ahead talking all sort of things to my family and her own family and friends too.

Omo she call me lazy man, weak man and all sort!

But I thank God now things are beginning to get better for me but I kept it to myself. She still believes I'm broke. T
No long story till I find another true love

yarimo:
Your freedom of movement, speech and other freedoms as single will be tempered with.

Flexyup:
Has a man, hope say you handsome.

Flexyup:
Congrats. But i am sure you eye have seen some shits but you chose to overlook them. Permit me to ask you this so i can conclude, do you have a child from her yet?

Luu40:
I overlook a lot of things as a husband knowing that my wife is not my age-mate, not as experienced as I am in many things, not as educated as I am too. Most of her mistakes, I see them as products of her lack of many life experiences.

A man is always the man of his house. Always be the boss. Give your wife power in deciding many non-executive aspects of the house. Consult her when making some decisions. Support her as much as you can. Empower her. Do not undermine her authority, it will make her kids devalue her leadership role in the house.

Of all the men out there, she chose you alone to be her husband. Be kind, be gentle, be forgiving, be resolute. Be the man.

tunjijones:
Hey, that beauty you see in your spouse today, give it 5 years, you wld not see it again.

Na outsider go dey tell you say this your wife fine o cos you are so used to it, you will not notice it again.

geoworldedu:
But I keep on seeing her beauty, especially when she isn't putting on makeups or when she loosed her hair.

Sirchiboy:
Those who are married. Tell those who are not yet married something they need to know before marriage?

davidtemi:
Bro I no believe this o.
My own penis dey stand everytime I see my own wife o, especially if I see her chest or touch it

tunjijones:
Good for you.

Sometimes sef you penis will not be hard at home, it's outside that you penis will be getting hard.

Samantha125:
Enjoy your singlehood while it lasts because marriage is a full time job.

I've been seeing some people talking about how this is the worst week to be with someone from my province... ... I hope my husband doesn't come across one of the comments because as I type this, I'm also getting ready to go home for the Easter weekend...

The N1 road will be packed.

Sirchiboy:
Those who are married. Tell those who are not yet married something they need to know before marriage?